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I use firefox and I don't have a authorization error so because I can not recreate this error I can't help you fix it. Maybe someone else has a tip for you? If I leave the room without logging out I do get an authorization error if I try to go back in right away. I need to wait (up to 2 minutes) before the chat system clears me (this is because live streams are sometimes interrupted so it does not log you out instantly, it gives your internet connection a chance to re-establish the stream before logging you out). If you use the LOG OUT button to leave you can come right back in. As for changing it from 5 minutes to 10 minutes... let's see how the 5 minutes goes. You can always log back in if you take longer than 5 minutes to smoke or pee. Yes, of course. It would be virtually FREE to run a chat without audio and video streaming... but the live video and audio is the selling feature (to get the guys into the room and to give the ladies another marketing tool)... and it works for the ladies who use it! The other discussion boards have chat rooms too usually.. they are DEAD most of the time. This site is unique and has potential to be very popular because of this... this is what the guys want! A few may tell you differently (probably because they think that is what you want to hear from them) but those same guys are in the chat room looking at the ladies live cam streams daydreaming and fantasising about a visit with them). If you convinced yourself that the cam is not a selling feature... you are missing out! Exactly! We are the ONLY escort site with a live audio and video enabled chat room. It should be packed!! It's unique and the other sites don't do it cause they don't want to spend the money! You don't get anywhere in this world by following or coping other sites. You need to stand out and be unique. Offer something that the people want. No matter what anyone tells you the chat is VERY busy when the ladies come in regularly and use the cams... and the ladies on cam are booking LOTS of appointments. It is a very unique tool the ladies can use! That is silly! No one is pressured to do anything, if someone does pressure the lady they get banned from the chat if the lady wants to report them. 1/2 the time the guys will report the idiots before the ladies have the chance! I think some of the ladies are not yet comfortable going on chat (and maybe jealous that some do very well with the chat video). Many of you are very self conscious and shy. So be it... when you get over your shyness come make lots of money as the cam will sell you better than any other tool you have at your disposal. In the meantime the ladies who are using the cams will clean up! If someone bugs you in chat... annoys you, asks for a free show, etc... Just click the REPORT USER button on that persons account in the chat and it snap shots a copy of the chat to me and I ban them. Simple. But really this rarely happens... we do monitor the room a lot. You can also IGNORE a user and VOTE TO KICK a user. Some idiot asking you to take your clothes off and give him a show is just annoying to click on his name, choose IGNORE USER and be done with him (Report him first to me however so I can just ban him and block his IP as no one wants to see that persons text). If your providing free entertainment your doing something wrong! You should not see it as wasting your time. Have fun, enjoy the time, relax, tease a little or just go in without your cam off and have a text chat... no matter that your marketing yourself... do whatever you want in the room and use whatever feature you feel would assist you. If you see it as entertaining someone for free and not marketing yourself ... well I will bite my tongue and just say "you are very wrong". If you can not see what a HUGE marketing potential the chat room is you must be blind or possibly jealous that the other ladies who are not afraid to get on cam are cleaning up. This business is all about selling a fantasy. Sex sells... and what better way to entice a guy that to show him LIVE on his screen what you look like and your personality. If television commercials were as affordable as ads in a newspaper or online every serious escort would have a commercial on TV. Nothing sells a product or service better than tv! I did not write the software for the chat room, I can not alter it (We purchased it as you see it, it has lots of features but we are limited to what we can do based on what it has been programmed to do by the developer) It is what it is... a web cam and audio enabled room. People keep asking me for features and changes to that chat room... I can't do it. It's not something that can be altered. Maybe they will make a feature like that in a future update but at this time it is what it is.. GENERAL NOTES TO THE LADIES ABOUT CHAT If you don't want to use a cam... don't! If you don't want to use a mic... don't! If you don't want to listen to someone bugging you... click "ignore user" If you want to report someone for being a tool... click report user If you want to complain about the ladies who are using the cam and mic and making a lot of appointments and flourishing off the chat room... don't! (It's your own fault for not seeing the potential!) My advise if you are sensitive: Grow some thicker skin and ignore the idiots or stay out of the chat room. I can not be in the room all the time to moderate it. I will kick them out and ban them but they will come back (nothing we can do to really stop them all together so it will happen - if you ignore them they get board and go away, when you show them it is bother you... well you are encouraging them to be assholes and only adding to the problem. That is exactly what they want and those guys are not about to spend any money on booking you so just report them and click on the IGNORE USER so you don't have to see them type any more). Simple and easy solution for all.

The recent passing of my mother made me relaize a few things: how important family and friends really are. OVer the past week i have learned that i have many friends here on CERb...good friends..friends that i have no idea how i would have gotten through this last week without. YOU know who you are...i want to share this poem that was read at my mom's funeral...something we should all think about...i love you guys...kisses and many many many thanks Emma A The Dash Poem By Linda Ellis I read of a man who stood to speak At the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end He noted that first came her date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years For that dash represents all the time That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her Know what that little line is worth. For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard. Are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left, That can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what's true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being read With your life's actions to rehash Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash

I don't know that it is fair to have a 'best of' album. Every lady is unique and likely the photos, poses and outfits she models are a reflection of her tastes, personality and sexuality. I think it is possible to appreciate ladies for different reasons as they are sexy and attractive in different ways.

As a relative Newbie to CERB, I have jumped into a chat quite a bit over the past week. I must admit I have gotten a lot of compliments and guys pm'ing me to ask me questions. Only negative experience was one guy who did start to get vulgar with his language, so I shut him down PDQ. I think he thought in PM he could get away with it, but I didn't engage. I didn't think to have him banned, but now I know better. I'm a big girl, have been around, so it takes a lot to offend me. I can take care of myself. I have a wicked sense of humour, can think on my feet and type like the wind, so I believe I am a good contributor, but let's face it, it does require time and when I invest an hour or more going back and forth and answering questions between general chat and PM and don't get anything out of it, I have to ask myself how much benefit it really is PR-wise. I would say not a good return from that point of view...but then again I am new, have only been on for a few weeks. I do not have a cam nor wish to use one. I am not sure if that would increase my chances for appointment, but honestly I am not going to sit there and give a show, so what's the point. You wanna know what I look like - go to my site and see my pics or book me! I know a couple of SPs (members) who told me they don't go into chat anymore because it's a waste of time for them. But overall, I would say the guys have been pretty nice. When I have been on, there have been very few ladies come on, and when they did, they didn't stay on long. In short, thought, in terms of PR, was NOT beneficial at all, to me. If it works for other ladies, all the power to them. Any calls I have gotten off CERB were not as a result of chat, and I invested quite a bit of time answering questions with guys who seemed interested and said they were going to book me, but so far haven't. I know the purpose of chat is not to troll for business, but they were the ones who messaged me for more info. ...let's be honest, I'm not here to be some guy's entertainment for hours on end in cyberspace. We all have our priorities. I will continue to use chat, but probably not to the extent I have over the past couple of weeks as a newbie "feeling" myself around. I am grateful that I did not have any "bad" experiences really, that I was made to feel welcome, so at least I can feel comfortable going on even if there are no other ladies present. But, yes, lurkers...they're there....definitely. Hope my feedback helps.

I have been hobbying for the past few years. I had three ATFs. My first one after she retired, I thought I would never replace her, then came another. She wasn't a clone of the first. She had her unique personality and body. I didn't want the same, just something who could connect. Then she retired. My last ATF, we saw each other for almost 2 1/2 years. She was very special, our first meeting was a comedy of errors. But I knew that she was very special. I continued to see her more and other ladies less. Then I reached a point that I was very comfortable with her, and dates become longer, dinner dates ensued and then overnights and trips. I knew things wouldn't last and when we parted, she left a huge void in my life. I was afraid that I could never achieve that level. For a few months I stopped. Then I met someone who made me realize that I should experience new people, pleasures and experiences. I will always thank her for that and now I hope to expand my horizons and don't live in the past. I will always have memories of my three ATF, they helped through tough times and my darkest hours and I will always be grateful for that. And I hope to meet new people and have fun. Redstorm

very interesting comments........I like it.....I agree that chat is a fun place and the ladies should not be harrassed into doing cam shows......if they want to...great..but if not...that is fine also.... I personally love chat to get to know a personality of the ladies......I like to see them have fun and converse...I find that the women I have seen ...and most know I am very careful...are the ones that have posted interesting topics and comments and interact with us horndogs....... I feel that half of the sexual attraction and stimulation is through the second largest sex organ we guys have....our brain...hehehehe.....I love to chat before..and after a session...... Now if a lady comes on and she gets asked to cam in whisper...she should openly say if she wants to or not.....that way who ever is there will know.....and if any one asks again we can help defend her decission........or she can vote to kick with reason......if that is her choice..... After all it is her choice........always is her choice and should not feel pressure from any one...... I would prefer to "out" the people that lurk and harass then have the ladies upset and/or leave.......:cry:

Don't knock it, I masturbate to that shit.

Good thread, hope you don't mind if I post. Being a very emotional person it struck a cord with me. When a favourite SP retires, I feel everything! Deserted, abandoned, lonely, rejected. As true and okay as these feelings are, they're all selfish feelings though. If I really care I should be happy for the girl! The only problem is when I've been led on, led to believe they care back...and then they go and retire without even a goodbye. That hurts. You suddenly realize you were lied to. But as Cat said back in October, maybe they didn't lie to you instead they just needed to cut all ties so they can walk away and find a different life. I've had the same experience in my life. Many years ago I walked away from my life and had to leave all my friends behind with it. I did say goodbye though. That gave them and me some closure I guess. I felt guilty hurting a few of them, but I had to do it for myself, to get away and cut all the ties that bound me to that lifestyle and allow myself to walk into a new life without anything holding me back. So I understand a retiring SP, I really do. If she's serious about changing, she's got to have a clean break, cold turkey, and launch into her new life 100% committed to it. No ghosts haunting her. No reminders. Of course she can't forget the past, but she needs to distance herself from it or she won't be able to leave it behind. And as others have said, you meet people throughout life and you leave people throughout life. A little piece of them is always with me, and hopefully a little piece of me is always with them as well. I've seen a lot of death in my life and it's the same. The people live on through my memories. Same with a retired SP...all I have to do is close my eyes and remember, and I've got them back again. Nobody can ever take that away.

Unfortunately this world has many people who like to put down other people to make them feel better about themselves. This happens in the discussion boards all the time and is a big reason why we do not allow any negative comments here. When I see someone like that I just boot them, they are not welcome here and are just a sad waste of space. You need thick skin to survive in a business like this. People will judge you from your outside in and some abusive people will prey on anything that may break you. It can be a very shallow business but it can also be very rewarding if you can shrug off the jerks. The guy making the intentionally hurtful comments (or the girl pretending to be the guy who may see you as competition) probably has a lot deeper issues and your just the person to pick on for the day to make them feel better about themselves. It really is even more pathetic since the person is hiding behind that anonymity of a email and a alias.