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Any adult having any kind of sexual engagement with a minor just makes me sick. I have no respect at all for those who do that and in my opinion they do deserve to go to jail for doing so.

interesting thread topic. I will say that I have dealt with some clients who are serious sex addicts and this is no laughing matter...it can be very dangerous. Trusted clients (whom I would almost call lovers) would turn from good people to crooks overnight. i remember when i didnt even smoke yet used to be the in-between as a teenager for a friend who sold pot and other things.....the return clients who would prove honest at first would eventually come back and ask for weekly fronts......delay paying because their wallet got stolen/ they were waiting for a cheque to come in/ got ripped off by their boss/ whatever story they had to not pay.....an uncontrolled addiction ....which is an oxymoron in itself (of ANYthing) will cause any honest person to burn whatever bridge possible to get what they want eventually...as every addiction has a price. whether it leads to a client digging himself and his family into debt, or not paying his escort, or even worse, becoming a threat to an escort for his lack of respect due to his needs......sexual addiction is VERY serious and generally has very serious results Just because you like the hobby or can't imagine your life without it does NOT make you an addict. losing control over your hobbying and taking advantage of others involved to feed your needs......thats something to worry about...and THATS addiction. we have heard many stories of SPs who trust a regular and leave the money on the table on for the client to replace some $50 bills with canadian tire money when they're not looking addiction states that you dont have a control over your hobby......there are plenty of ppl on this board who are able to keep up with their hobbying.....just because its a sweet "high" and difficult not to repeat doesn't really nail someone as a sex addict.....just the same some of us SPs thrive on the thrill of the idea of being mysterious sex-objects out on a mission of pleasure to strangers each evening.......it doesnt mean we are slaves to our turn ons and we will never put ourselves in harm's way despite our love for sex and our job. funny, I just watched the movie "The girlfriend Experience" (the movie filmed from the client's perspective" and I irked when he talked about the constant need and "going on binges" looking for street-walkers which lead to him eventually stalking a GFE.........that didn't play the role of the more respected client at all! there are so many degrees of being a hobbyist and being a sex adict is a totally different ball-game.....and a recipe for disaster or a plead for help or a proper intervention if you ask me I completely cringe when I see an SP post that shes a horny sex addict or a member jest that they have needs and are sex addicts.......sexual addiction, as buggernot said so perfectly, is more than a need for intimacy. it may start off that way but a true addict will eventually put everything and anything that really SHOULD matter (be it family, or even the women they are supposed to be paying as SPs) as a secondary priority to their selfish addiction. True clients who have needs generally know that being selfish will not land you a repeat date.......I have cut off men who I see as being consumed by a sexual addiction as it is a red flag for problems in the future I've learned many lessons about when to notice the signs, read the excuses of a trusted client. I know better now after being ripped off an over 1k chunk last month by a retainer client who saw too many girls at a time to keep up to what his pocket could manage. Ironically i found out later from a friend that he bought coke behind my back when we were out at a club...then tried to get his money back after he had done most of it because the quality was apparently sub-par. generally when an addict is faced with the invoice for what they owe there will be every and any reason to try and barter or play down the service they have received as a final plea to not have to own up to what they walked into willingly from the start.....drugs, sex, (tempted to say "rock and roll" lol), a once trusted relationship will always be thrown out the window due to money (or lack thereof) addiction tends to present itself in many forms (as I mentiond above).......generally a client who is an addict has little respect in the end for his so-called favorite SP. And an addict usually will be the one to rip a girl off or cut his losses because its not like we're a collection agency that will follow them to the grave, right? just my two (or three) cents

Even prior to becoming an SP, I always felt more empathy to the men who sought professionals to fulfill their fantasies, desires, need for intimacy, ect. than those who sought out a second relationship with another woman. I realize that many of you feel guilty, but sex is natural! And I feel those who treat themselves to an SP rank a lot higher in my books than someone who is truly cheating on their partner by starting an ongoing, emotional and sexual relationship. Many men have high sex drives. So what? Some women do as well. But rest assured that you should feel a lot less guilty for being a healthy, horny male, who still loves his partner but needs some no-strings-attached fun. So many women cannot wrap their heads around the fact that men are able to have sex without love. I also think you're guilt may also unfairly come from North American society's prudishness towards sex. Life is short, have fun while you can.

Another thread got me thinking about sex addiction. Its a real adventure interacting with ladies be they SPs, girlfriends or SOs. Starting into the hobby thing has got my serotonin levels way up and I'm becoming a better person in a number of ways. Its so so good I'm hooked. Now I've dabbled with other addictive things in my life, but they don't compare. Its sort of like I want to be addicted to ladies. Pardon the crudeness but I'm going to say that: Pussy is the most addictive substance know to man. And SPs are the most concentrated form of pussy available. The BS, attached strings and overhead associated with regular relationships is what makes them less pure. It's no wonder hobbying is addictive. What do you think? So are we all sex addicts here on CERB or are we regular guys that for some reason have made the leap, tried it out and are now hooked. I'm wondering if you took a regular guy (assume he has some money and a sex drive) and introduced him to hobbying for a while as part of an experiment, would he be hooked to or would he revert back to himself after. In other words, is the CERB community inherintly different or pretty similar to the general population in terms of having sex addictive personalities? I'm very interested to see what hobbiests and SPs have to say. BTW - I'm pretty sure that I have a higher than normal sex drive. I don't think that makes me an addict. Then again I could also be deluded so who knows LOL. GHT

No one is going to disagree with being disgusted by this behaviour. However, what I find interesting is that we have this obsession based on a legal standard determined by a universal biological/chronological number. If she just turned 18, it's ok - but 2 weeks before that it's wrong. There's a lot of girls between the ages of 18-22 that aren't emotionally mature enough to be working in an adult business. But since it's ok LEGALLY, we accept it. Food for thought... Posted via Mobile Device

This was "Second hand information" but this is not the first time someone has complained that "minors" were present at the incall location. I Removed the identifying information as it could be just one SP trying to slander another (This does happen - not everything you read is true remember). We need to show anyone who thinks this is OK that it is NOT OK!! Now that we all know how everyone feels on the subject we can close this thread. If you go to a SP incall and her children (or anyone's children) are at the incall location you should report it to the police and LEAVE!! If you found that children were present in this house it will HAUNT you for ever if you do not do the right thing and report this person. It is NOT the responsibility of a 3rd party to report this as it's hearsay and it could very easily be a malicious rumor to damage the ladies reputation. It could be from a guy who had a bad experience who is trying to stir up problems or it could be competition trying to get rid of her (Ethics are not really high with all the people in this business unfortunately) She is obviously doing low priced (80.00) bbbjcim (Something many of the other SP's do not like to see - lowball higher risk services) so she could be seen as a threat and the SP's with no ethics could just be trying to slander her here. I don't know and for that reason this type of post is NOT allowed on cerb (and why I removed the identifying information from this thread). The person who posted this (AngelaofOttawa) has been given a BIG warning for posting this. If the police wish to investigate this they can contact Angela directly and she can reveal her source to them. AngelaofOttawa has been warned that if she does anything like this again she will be removed from the site. I know emotions run high when you comment about involving kids (that is a good reason why someone would use this to draw unwanted attention onto someone they wish to get rid of from the business). Again people... DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU READ Hearsay is not permitted in a court of law for a reason! Rumors are often maliciously made and have ulterior motives!

Agencies have fucked me over so many times. They treated me like a slave, some of them well known on this site, some not. I find great fun in being independent and yet, I have made the mistake of joining agency after agency, hoping I could find someone that would treat me like a human being and not an OBJECT. The societal objectification for women is already common enough, I don't want it to follow me into my career. Yes, I have to work a little harder and I have to scrutinize all my clients, but in the end... An independent woman is a happy woman :D

I was really hoping this thread would be closed by now so that I would not respond to it! This maybe the worst thread I have ever seen started here on cerb. The original post on the thread easily identified the sp involved solely on third party information this stigma weather deserved or not will always be with her. These kind of threads tend to pit one person against another and we end up with valued members of the board (Amelia) being banned. irwin what does "I blew in her mouth and she swallowed" have to do with this thread. These kind of comments should only be in a reco and only with the permission of the sp. with a ymmv. Was this comment meant to demean her even more,or make her out to be a bad person. I'm sure some sp would have a issue with this. Endangering a child in any way is unacceptable and is also a criminal offence. Failure to report a child who is placed in danger is also a criminal offence in most jurisdictions Right now there are 2437 views of this thread so are all 2437 viewers including myself breaking the law by not reporting? And i"M not suggesting that anyone should as we are only dealing with third hand information that never should have been posted in the first place. Just another reason why this thread should be closed and removed.

You've come a long way, my friend!

well it will be up to you guys to keep her coming back - lets show her a warm and generous welcome to Ottawa.