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4 pointsFor those SP's who charge extra for bbbj, it has nothing to do with the amount of work involved, the extra cost is because there is more risk involved.
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3 pointsI encourage MSOG, whether it be in an hour session, or multiple hour session. Most men know if it's a possibility in an hour, but 2 or more hours should have the SP doing all she can to try and allow a second release. You disagree? I think those who say SSOG are the ones who are trying to get you in and out as soon as possible. So the session is likely to begin quickly, and sadly often end within 15-20 minutes. That's not an hour! So play with him, talk to him, kiss him, cuddle him, cuz honey, he paid good money, so do a little work for it!
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2 pointsWe can not be so easy to judge others....the ladies who responded to blocked numbers have their personal reasons to do so, and more often it is a money issue. NOBODY DESERVES to be threatened....tis bastard is totally scum.....he can not use women as if we were in the 1800's. I* wish I could get my hands on him....I tell you I do not support this kind of crap..... remember something: we are all judged, particularly when people knows we are in this business...who are we to judge the women who answered blocked numbers....? I do not answer to those, but I completely understand those ladies who do so and, being a person who believes in God...whatever His affiliation, I do not censor anyone.... This reminds me of a lady being killed in the Western Parkway 2 years ago...some people said "she was a prostitute, no loss"....what???????????? no loss my ass...she was a human being and who in hell are you to judge her way of making a living?????????????? I know a couple of ladies who are in desperate, I mean desperate need, and they answer to blocked numbers....they be blessed....all the danger they go through, just to EAT!!!! Please let's be civil and understand others.... Tracie G.b:cry:
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1 pointHi All! Well, I'm back from my gloriously relaxing and some naughty vacation to Hedonism III in Jamaica! Admittedly, this was not my first tryst with this wickedly wild resort - I knew exactly what I was getting myself into!!! :-D For those of you who do not know - I can't imagine - it is a resort for groups, couple or singles who are in the pursuit of pure pleasure!! There is also Hedonism II, no "I" and not sure why, and another adult only resort in Cancun called Desire. Though I have not been to the latter two I would absolutely love to visit someday, perhaps even with a benevolent gentleman! :wink: The first time I vacationed at Hedo 3 I went all alone....:sad:....but it wasn't too long before the interested parties came out of the woodwork! Hahaha! As the only single lady at the resort I felt as though I had a bullseye target on me! Though overwhelming at first I began to really love all the attention and got right into it - even experiencing some firsts! Top Secret of course - until you are a part of the circle of trust! At that time I was not a working lady but while I was there this past time I did happen to see a few of them, just guests from various parts of the world. Not a bad idea I thought, if done carefully. This time around I went with a gentleman friend; the experience was every bit as fun only with a trusted companion to eat and lounge with etc. My friend had never been before and it was actually quite comical to hear what he thought it might be like - naked people jumping out of bushes demanding sex of him, him having a preapism, orgies around every corner! It was somewhat disappointing that the hotel was only at 45% capacity, but that fact lended itself to the intimate charm of our small numbers. One gets to know others very easily at this place provided one has a positive attitude and open mind. I returned home from this hot holiday recharged and eager to share my hedonistic indulgences with those around me! I am curious to hear experiences from those out there who have visited any of these sexually charged resorts - or others that I have not come across. What was it like for you? Would you ever consider going to one of these "anything goes" type vacations? Who did you/ would you go with? Curious to hear from you all!
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1 pointI'd have to disagree. Sexually perhaps not but so long as the client doesnt get emotionally involved to the point of forgetting about his SO I dont consider it cheating. Some men are in situations where their SO cant provide for them sexually or are too busy...it doesnt mean that because he sees an escort for a sexual release that he doesnt care about his SO in my opinion...sometimes its quite the opposite. If I quit escorting and decided to be in a relationship (ha..at this point I'm so happily single as well that I cant even dream of the day coming tho! lol) I'd almost rather my SO turn to an escort instead of picking up some girl at the bar ans sneak around with her on the side....somehow seeing this side of the fence I'd be way less threatened by it as I know this isnt a girl thats going to be calling at odd hours of the night wanting him to leave me for her. lol
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1 pointyeah but you take the risk or not. I respect that decision, but I don't respect charging more.
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1 point[/url] by Sarah Treleaven Apr 13th 2010 3:05AM Categories: Sex, Love & Relationships, Advice, How to Be Happy Print Email More One of the most common issues that arises in a long-term committed relationship is a decreased frequency of sex - maybe you couldn't keep your hands off each other for the first several months or even years and now you both just want to go to sleep. A recent book, 365 Nights: A Memoir of Intimacy, explains one couple's sexual odyssey as they force themselves to have sex every single day for one year. We asked sexpert Dr. Belisa Vranich if having sex every day is the ideal for a long-term committed relationship and for some tips to keep sex interesting (after many years, kids and busy jobs). Q: Is having sex every day a good idea for a long-term committed relationship? A: No, it's boring and makes it a chore. Here's what I wrote about 365 Nights: "The initial idea, lots of sex every day, sounds good. Then reality sets in: it's sex with the same person every single day. Ev-er-y single day. Now same-person sex with a hot bedfellow on a regular basis is great - don't get me wrong. And you calling the shots as far as whatever you want to consider "sex" that day ("I'll have a BJ today, Honey") or with whatever variations you want ("How about the French maid outfit today, sweetie?") may work, but...it would become a chore, like anything else you have to do regularly - laundry, bathing, food shopping. The only upside is the fact that if you do have problems in the bedroom, you'd be forced to fix them. If [it was] for a week or even a month, anyone can get through lame or even just average sex for that amount of time. But think, day 95, day 140, day 240...you have to start being creative and really communicating." Q: So what do men and women want from their sex lives? A: Summarizing from my male patients, when it comes to sex, here's what they want: 1. Sex with same person, but having her be "the freak" she was when they met. 2. Sex with same person, but have her initiate and "mix things up" so that she sort of has different sexual personas. 3. Sex with other people, because if it were really a "gift," it would mean variety in the most honest sense. Female patients: 1. Sex with as much physical/intellectual foreplay as the sex they had in the beginning. 2. Men to read their minds about what they want rather than having to instruct them. 3. Not to have sex when they are tired or stressed, or have too many things outside the bedroom to focus on/worry about. 4. Not to have sex when they aren't feeling sexy (fat, bloated, unshaven). 5. Not to feel guilt about preferring to take a nap then have sex, rather than sex then nap. Q: What do men and women commonly want from their sex lives that they often don't get from a long-term partner? A: Men want diversity and consistency. Sounds like opposite things but it's not! Women most often complain that their long term partners are not as attentive in bed, that they don't keep the same grooming, they don't "make them feel special." Women also would like that their long term partners understand how monthly and lifelong changes in hormones make for changes in libido. Q: What are your top tips for keeping sex exciting (and frequent) in a long-term relationship? A: Here are some suggestions I recently published: 1. Talking about sex can get your partner thinking about it. Literal foreplay would be reading erotica to each other, but if you are plum out of Violet Blue or Rachel Kramer Bussel, try "Dear Playboy Advisor: Questions from Men and Women to the Advice Column of Playboy Magazine. Even if you end up snorting and giggling like Beavis and Butthead, just talking about "members" and "vulvas" can get you moving toward sexy time. 2. Prefer something more serious? Try sitting in a beginner's Tantric sex position, called Yaby Yum. The man sits in a loose cross-legged position, and the woman in his lap, facing him, her legs straddling him. Wrap your arms around each other or place a hand on each other's heart and breathe with your faces close together, feeling each other's breath on your face. While this position by itself doesn't guarantee an explosive ending, it is intensely intimate - and you can get things moving in the right direction of your "lingam" and "yoni." 3. Create anticipation: Try giving each other a massage, without the pressure that it will end in sex. Just a scalp massage (think of getting your hair washed) or foot massage (reflexology) can be tremendously relaxing, as can a really gentle stroking of the whole body with your fingertips. Make sure the person's feet are covered so they don't get cold. 4. Done with babies? Switching from oral contraceptives to a vasectomy can give your sex life a big boost. Research shows oral contraceptives can lower libido, and assurance of a reliable birth control can raise it. Taking a trip to Snip City is fast, affordable, not overly painful and has no noticeable differences in ejaculation quantity or quality afterward. 5. Viagra can't make you more aroused. If you are "randy," it makes your erection last longer, but it can't make you feel sexually attracted to someone if you aren't already. 6. It's good to keep up your grooming and hygiene no matter how long you have been together. Kick it up notch. Try a little "manscaping" and prune that jungle back a bit. Though the idea of gluing crystal chips to decorate your lady parts sounds excessive to me, it might sound enticing to you ? try the new trend in genital decoration: vajazzaling. 7. What turns him/her on can be very personal. Ask, ask again and pay attention. Whether it's murmuring in French (like Morticia does to Gomez) or Italian (think Otto reciting the menu in the movie A Fish Called Wanda) or just faking it, feeding that little fetish can be vastly rewarding. Hugs to all Tracie G.;-)
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1 pointAside from my sibling ?NO ONE knows about what I do & that is the way I would like to keep it?.Best way to keep a secret is to NOT tell anyone!! I know my sister would NEVER sell me out!! Before reading, please note this is regarding my OWN personal situation!! I come from a very loving & caring family, far from perfect, however they are ALWAYS there for me and my daughter?Therefore, if my mom or dad or any other family members were to find out it would be devastating? Although I am a grown woman, my parents would not only be terribly hurt, but they would also be repulsed by my choices, and to me this is very understandable (my honest opinion). I personally feel that very few parents would want this lifestyle for their child, irregardless of how happy or content they were with their work. I realize this sounds very hypocritical, however this is something I NEVER, EVER would want my daughter to be a part of!!! I want her to value herself more than I do (How?s that for honesty??) To be completely honest, I have days when I feel sooooo liberated. Why? Because I do not have a boyfriend, no fuck buddies & I don?t date either-so basically the men I see are not only used for financial gain, but for my personal fulfillment too! Personal fulfillment is very important..It is a very nice feeling to enjoy & be paid for it too!!! Then, I have my days when I feel totally shamed for choosing to do this. Why? Because I am someone?s mother. Unfortunately, society as a whole, is not as open or as friendly as the members of this site, therefore, the thought of someone ever passing judgment on my child because of the lifestyle her mother has chosen to participate in ( should she or others find out) , worries me quite a bit . I try to be as discreet as possible & hope to get the same from the clients I meet with!!!
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1 pointWhich is why when girls leave or end the session before the time is up, some of us refer to that as "street walker" mentality. From what I hear these days, you'd be lucky to even get the service. Some of those girls would just take your money and run. I figure some girls don't know who they are or what they are - it's up to you to find out what angle they're coming from because there is "everything" out there due to easy access to free Internet advertising. You have to be careful. What can be frustrating for ladies like me is when a client says he's good for two in an hour, wants to get the first one out of the way fairly quickly so he can recharge and then says, "Oh, I really didn't think you'd actually be able to make me come that fast - I'm not really good for two at all". Then I feel guilty. So even communicating beforehand doesn't always help. All I can do is try and work with them and try to tune into their rhythm. This is sometimes difficult to do with first timers. I do my best and hope that whatever happens, my clients walks away with a smile on his face.
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1 pointThis refers to uncovered oral sex. I have seen several different studies and charts, all pretty much agree upon the risk levels of these activities and the difference between giving and receiving. (and yes, that 1/10 is WAY too high lol) The facts answer that age old question of why an sp who does cbjs still offers daty. It is a risk factor, which is way low for her at risk of receiving an std via daty vs it being quite high for her to contract an std by giving a bbbj. It also answers why many guys are ok with receiving bbbjs, since their risk of contracting an std is very low. This is the risk factors of rimming, fwiw. These are the risks of uncovered sex, fwiw. I do not see a huge difference between uncovered full sex and uncovered bjs, btw, excepting as it applies to the male receiver of bbbjs: www.inspot.org/std-info/sexual-risk.aspx?regionid=48&sitelvl=1 sps who offer bbbjs should be treated with a great deal of respect, imo, as they have made a decision to provide a preferred service at great risk to their personal health and safety. They do this knowing that many of these stds are curable and treatable, but that they will be at increased risk of exposure, if you consider that men in and out of this hobby tend to not get themselves tested (based on a TER poll a few years ago, an overwhelming majority of men had never been tested at all, and this on an escort review site) :confused:
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1 pointI wish more couples were open like you are. That's so excellent! It feels good to confide in someone, eh? So my story, which I've told before, but goes like this. My mother and my sister know, but my father, grandparents, etc do not. Here in Ottawa, where I live, I'm out to everyone I know and people you have random conversations with and they ask, "what do you do for a living?" I always answer that I work as an escort. So my hairdresser knows, my waxer knows, multiple classes of students at the University of Ottawa and Carleton, as well as some of my professors. When you are sometimes asked to give guest lectures on the subject of sex work, you can hardly be "in the closet" about what you do. Why do I put myself out there? Because I personally believe that the more of the general population that is educated as to the variety of experience and diversity of human beings who participate in this industry, the more I can change public perception of whores/hookers/escorts/courtesans/sexual healers/sex workers/service providers. Oh and when I told my mom, she said, "I'm impressed that you have the courage to take advantage of such a goldmine." True story.
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