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A little Emma rant: there is a reason why we call them appointments....just like the word means..you pm,call,email whichever to make an appointment...just like you would to see your doctor,dentist..etc. We do have a life outside the biz we are just not sitting around knitting and waiting for your calls...most of us need time to prepare...time to look and feel good before an appointment.. i sometimes as I'm sure others do as well get letters saying such things as: appointment now? ready yet? Can i see in in 15? what the heck is up with that? A lot of times I'm either in bed sleeping or out....I'm not running back to see you..lmao nor am i getting up at 3am... that's my rant for today...:wink: kisses, Emma

I realise there are other threads on this linked above but I havent commented on any until now..... As an Sp, I know many of us would be happier if you PMed *US* for info as to the clients we have see or the service we provide regarding your personal questions. Many Members Have started recent threads in the forums stating that they cringe at being PMed by prospect clients about their experience with a lady hey have seen...they feel like they are breaking a rule of discretion sometimes. I know that it is an instant turn-off to hear from a potential client "I asked *insert Cerb member name* about you and he said yadda yadda yadda" I end up wondering....so why didnt you ask me? I'm here, available on PM, I'm not going to ridicule you for asking questions because *news-flash* you want to know just exactly you are going to be getting naked with without meeting...and who better to give you that info than me?? Just beacuse we shared a certain chemistry with one client does not mean that your experience would be the same so its best to message the lady in question with your requests...and like another member said, dont be shy (but be respectful) In the end, its best to eliminate the middle-man and speak directly to the woman you want to address. dont worry, we dont bite. (unless thats what you're looking for ;-))

When I first started out, which incidentally is a year ago today, I used to receive calls with a half hour to an hour's notice. I used to do as many as possible, which weren't that many as I HATE to rush. But because I didn't know any better, I figured this is just how it is. Now, don't get me wrong, if I can, I will do a last minute request. However, after building my reputation for the last year, I'm finding (thankfully) more and more clients are booking far in advance, which I love. It gives me time to send a couple of emails, maybe a phone call or two, and by the time the appointment rolls around, I'm not nervous or anxious because we've provided ourselves a bit of time to soak it all in, ask questions, find out each other's preferences, and most importantly of all, ENJOYING THE ANTICIPATION! That's the difference I think. With a new client, whether he be in town or not, it's essential you build some sort of foundation with a newbie so you can ensure the session goes exactly how the client wants it to. Not necessarily guaranteeing a repeat session, but at least giving the client the ride of his life during that one magical hour. It is possible with a little communication. The anticipation of an appointment booked in advance works both ways, believe me.

I have one word..... LURKERS!!!! and most people know my feelings about lurkers........:fes:

I see many people that don't do reco's or hardly ever post...check to see how long they have been members for..if it's more then 2 months then i think they should be cool..everyone has to start somewhere... kisses, Emma A

if they are asking for info as to the phone number, address or rates of a girl it is different than the recos section.....also if they are asking a gent about his experience with her, he really should be a gent and point them to her recommendations section or say 'ask her yourself" As an Sp I have received messages from potential client saying :I was speaking to *so-and-so* and he gave me your number and said you were great" Guys realize that when you speak to a member he may take your word and use it as a potential means to bulk up his reperatoire od "friends" who recommended you to a girl. In cases like this I always say(once they start asking questions like they have no idea who I am or have not read my ad) that they might need to review my ad and research me.... some girls dont catch on to that and if they have a horrible or dangerous date with the fellow, instantly remember "oh this was *insert member he references before*'s friend....that not good. Guilty by association. All this being said there are many things to loose by giving info to a guy who is too scared to ask the girl in question...including your own reputation...play safe boys! xoxo

"How do you do it?" It's the question I have been asked most often about my work. People so often get caught up in the reality they see in front of them. Everything around us seems real, but in reality is truly an illusion. A persons physical body is not an accurate indication of who they are, it is simply the matter that houses the essence. We all have the same biological makeup, but some are more visually appealing than others. Does ones external appearance change the spirit inside? No, it doesn't. I see every person as a sexual being and I know intimacy is one of life's most neglected needs and is an integral part of maintaining personal wellness. I provide a service to people who are not having their needs met, and how they look on the outside is not a factor in choosing my guests. It is easy for me to enjoy someone who doesn't fit the society's current ideal because it's not the outside I'm interested in, its the inside. I know this sounds very Pollyanna, but it is true for me. Its the essence of people that hook me, not the appearances. I know better than to judge a book by the cover... cat

No offence, but what is the point of your thread? No idea what or who you are talking about, sorry.

I agree with everybody. I also prefer a few days booking or even a day but being ready in 15 minutes is rarely doable. we have lives outside of what we do and there is great need for preparation beforehand. I've had several people get mad at me because I am never ready when they call. One time he gave me 10-15 minutes but i declined as i hate to rush, it's not natural. Gheeze, 15 minutes isn't enough time to take a shower and get dressed! Appointments are appointments! You don't call you doctor 15 minutes before you want to see him! Were no different. If you want us to be pleasant, totally ready, clean and in a good mood, for petes sake give us at least a few hours. This thread was much needed... Tks Emma :butt:

Just a note on how I have changed in my life here on CERB...... I used to jump all over people.....now..... I politely tell them that as much as I would like to give them some info I am affraid that without some sort of referance or CERB input I can not herlp them till they help others.......

Thank you Mod:bowdown: Thank you Mod:bowdown: All hail and bow to the almighty Mod:bowdown: I do not even get the shakes from caffine withdrawl as I did when I could not get on CERB

Wow....that would be a wonderful booking! I am not knocking the 1 hour notice at all but even a next day booking is a luxury :)

I like to take my time getting ready for an appointment. The less stress getting ready, the more relaxed I will be during my time with that special guest. This being said, I hate wasting that time for a no show! I could have been gardening, reading or even dancing around the living room, naked with the music blaring! The rituals we go through prior to an engagement can sometimes be extensive and if not required it's a waste of time!!!! Please do not make an appointment that you may possibly not be able to make or atleast give us a heads up!....And as Emma said, NO I will not be able to see you in 15mins!

Thanks all for the replies! It's been insightful! :lol: I actually only use online ads and even though I am in a very small town I seem to get enough calls to keep me happy. I think personally I prefer to not advertise in the paper and stick to online. At least it gives the person a better chance to see what they are getting and make a more informed decision. But that's just me! To each their own! I was just curious how others felt about it and what worked for them. Thanks MOD for the info btw! Always nice when the powers that be join in the conversation. I like how you stay involved! Koodos! Julie 807-472-9900 if in the Thunder Bay Area!

before I had a computer it was the paper or chat lines now online is the only way to go

I only read the paper from front head lines to local news and sports. While at work and on the computer I choose online always. ;) I use to read the sun ad's for ladies years ago but after 2 scary incidents that was history. Now it is CERB and EC that is it :) WELL OF COURSE THE LADIES WEB SITES TOO :bowdown:

Being relatively new to this hobby, I started the search by using google, which took me to Escorts Canada, and then eventually to here (CERB). When I selected my first SP, there were bascally 3 things that I looked for 1.) SP Has a web-site (Critical for me ) 2.) SP has reviews on CERB (or similar site ) 3.) Responsiveness to my POLITE emails, and interaction from there. Whether rightly or wrongly, I eliminated anyone who didn't have a web site, since I wanted to read in detail what the etiquette was etc. Reviews of course are also very important to see what the hobbyists liked, so I can match it to what I was looking for Hope this helps SNK

EC and CERB are by far the way to go. We have 17,000 members and lots of visitors reading. Lots to go around. We recommend providers to each other. We talk to them here about all kinds of things. Providers even have a section to report bad clients. You can't do that in the newspaper or yellow pages or CL. Those places are full of bad people looking to rip us off and we never know who they are untill it's right there in our face. I for one try to spread the word around about our community here. I read the adds in the paper and yellow pages but don't call. It's a waste of your money in my opinion.

Yes, I am very interested in this also. I am a travelling lady dividing my time among Ottawa, Pembroke and Fort McMurray, other places on the Prairies too, but only a couple of times a year. My main form of advertising for Ottawa is CERB! :) I Love Love Love that I found this Board! In Alberta I use the local papers. Unfortunately, my small area of Pembroke does not allow such advertising. Although, being such a small town it is likely best that I only see travelling gentlemen - people DO like to talk! :-o

At what point these TWO teachers thought any of this was acceptable is beyond me and I am hardly a prude but this behavior in a school, by students or faculty is way out of line. What makes this situation worse is that the student who captured the dance on video was being threatened with suspension for using celphone and video devices on school property. A rule in place by their district to protect the safety of both staff and students. So the student's know what they the teachers are witnessing is wrong, they document it to prove their case and the teachers union wants to go after them for breaking a rule far less offensive than the sexual lap dance performed by the supposed adults, what has this world come to. Thankfully the teachers union realized they should not pursue that line of defense. I would not want those teachers to be anywhere around my children.