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First.....You never really know how much you love something/someone until it/they are no longer available!!!! CERB is the best community and missed when they have techical issues! That being said, on with my rant.... Why do you search for that someone there? Why do we post for that someone there? Lately it is full of bait and switch, nasty people and abhorent, malicious posts. Yet time and again, I keep seeing references to this horrid site right here on my precious CERB...."has anyone ever heard of so and so." From what I can tell, there is a plethora of beautiful, respected, intelligent women to choose from on CERB. It is a terrible fact that we must sometimes go to this hell hole in order to find hobbiests. Not only is it a fact but a lot of work. You not only find unsavory SP's and MP's there, but we ladies must weed threw the trash that contact us in order to find a decent man! Can we not all support the CERB community and show our support by "shopping locally"? Sorry, but today my disillusionment must have gotten the best of me! Happy CERBing to all!

I think in these situations you need to think of this as your business, act professional, respectful and with integrity. I've had many clients that I have said no to in the past, some before we meet, some while we are together and some after our date. No one likes rejection and you can always get a little push back for your choice but if you are respectful of him as a person no one will question your integrity. Use I statements, don't reject a future encounter because of who he is let him know that it's because of who you are and your personal comfort levels. Be upfront and answer his questions directly, lying about the reason will read as false and just leave him wondering what he did (or what is wrong with you). Thank them, sincerely. They were kind enough to not only contact you but to show an interest in it again, that is a compliment in itself. As Emma said offer a suggestion of another lady or two; if your reasoning for not seeing him is simply the date didn't fall in range of what you are comfortable with then let him know what ladies might be better suited to his type of encounter. If of course you don't think that anyone will enjoy a date with him or you don't know anyone suited to his preferences then politely explain that. For future reference I believe the best situation is that if you are not having a good time during the date let him know then. It's much harder to hear that someone didn't enjoy your company, didn't share your interests and didn't speak up than to offer the opportunity to make the engagement better for both of you. Sometimes that means refunding and sending them on their way (as you won't find a middle ground) but more often than not you'll find something you both enjoy. Doing so will demonstrate your integrity and I've found most clients respect that. Very few people are truly interested in a one sided date where you are only going through the motions and in general those aren't the people you want to see. Instead speak up at the time, say "hey that's nice that you like that but it doesn't work for me, lets try this..." If you are really enjoying yourself then he'll find a pleasure in that.

Hmm it is a very delicate situation.Regardless of the guys saying here that they would like to know ...I can say,first hand,that most react very badly when they get told. I had guys that i just had a huge incompatibility and i can count on one hand the ones that react nicely and politly,when i told them.It usually results insults. So...Confront or ignoring the person...both are rarely positive. It is the same for reference...So many ladies don't know what to tell the gents when it get back as negative comments. So my advice would be try to remember how this person was and what could be his reaction before deciding.If you take the plunge and tell him I would choose carefully my words to try to avoid to hurt his ego as much as possible. It is always result better to blame our self for something that don't work out than the other person. VJ

I've been led astray many times with wishy washy answers from girls that don't know how to say "I don't like you" and in the end I wish they just said the truth and let me go in peace, instead of me banging my head against a wall for so long before I figured it out.

Just tell them you don't feel any chemistry and would prefer if they saw someone else... Its your body and your choice.

Well as a client I would just prefer to be told I had seen this lady several times over past 3yrs and tried booking or just asking if she is avaliable but have been ignored for last little while and she is on here almost everday As a larger person I can understand my frame size is not everyones cup a tea but to see someone over a 3yr period and then be ignored makes one wonder Just be upfront and tell this person I know for me I would be more appreciative of this way rather than being ignored Its just like when we see a lady and it doesn't work the way you want you don't go back and if she emails or pms me asking if I want to see her I politely say no thanks Just my thoughts Posted via Mobile Device

I had an opportunity to visit with Carley pseudo-recently .... truth be told I am unsure as to the exact date but it was in March. Carley has a great location, perhaps not the easiest to find but very clean. The young lady came to the door in a very tight dress and was very sociable. We got the financial aspect taken care of fairly quickly and she suggested we go to the bedroom. What followed was a very energetic session that I'd consider GFE or certainly almost GFE... we didn't kiss (but to be fair I didn't ask to, and I'm self aware enough to know she didn't wake up that morning wanting to lock lips with a 40 year old guy) . It may well be a YMMV situation .... but I think it would have been permitted for me had I been specific. This is my first review and I often find very vague reviews next to useless and very graphic reviews somewhat potentially disturbing to the service providers. So let me just say we got comfortable directly, everything was safe, She was very skilled and seemed enthusiastic, and got things started very nicely. We changed around positions 3 or 4 times She actually suggested something that is an extra (typically, for those with a long menu) ... and certainly acted like she was enjoying it.... I did for sure. We finished up with one very spent and happy customer. It was far from mechanical. I can't speak to MSOG availability but in fairness we certainly finished up towards the bottom of the hour ... anyway at no point was it discussed. She was dressed when I got out of the bathroom lol Again GFE is very subjective and honestly I expect things may change over time as experiences change but I can't imagine anyone not finding this girl to be friendly and Pleasant. Her voice is very young, and if you saw this girl in a night club and she was playfully dancing trust me all eyes would be on her ....... I mean it is clear in that scenario it would be very unlikely that I'd be the guy inside her apartment ... yet when I was there she acted genuinely happy about it! There isn't really an acronym for that but I can tell you that it contrasts directly to the situation where one sits down goes through the checklist, and everything is fine ... but she's just not there. I am a bit of an amateur hobbyist and Fredericton is my home town. I certainly have had other experiences and to be honest this one would rate very highly by comparison. As well when I contacted her I had seen her on cl and she replied to my email. many of the girls there will not, they will only talk on the phone .... in those cases they will never meet me, but to each his own. Anyway she had one picture on her site. Now she has quite a few photos and the prices are higher than they were during our encounter. Not saying they are at all unreasonable now but it was different for me that day. It's almost cliche to read everywhere that her pictures don't do her justice but I'd bet an afternoon with good lighting and a good SLR camera I'd have some photos that would knock your sox off!! I think what doesn't come across is that her skin is fantastic, her breasts are perfect and look incredible...... 36 D's wouldn't look right. She is tall and many girls would have to work hours every day to have that body. If she does kudos if she doesn't I can't imagine the Pin Up she'd be! So Overall I would have to say very satisfied. I would certainly repeat and recommend.

I have no idea how to start this particular post other than to simply say that you must read this recommendation and then take five minutes of your day to send Soleil a compliment! I for one, being a health care provider, know how cerebral palsy can affect someone's body. I believe she offered service where others may not have. So to Big Al it sounds as though you had a great time and made THE right decision on who to see. To Soleil you deserve a pat on the back if only for the four hour commute to and from the date. All the best to you both and Soleil if you are ever in my corner of the country dinner is on me!

Just add the following disclaimer to your e-mail: "If the above can be interpreted in more than one way, the interpretation which causes the least offense is the one I intended." Of course, don't forget to remove or modify this disclaimer if you really intend to torch someone.

If I may, I'd like to first thank everyone sincerely for the accolades. For me, the chance to bring some much needed joy into BigAl's life was an incredible opportunity, and I never considered for a moment not to do it. However, I would like to divert the attention from myself, and let you all know about someone else in this situation, who's altruism has restored my faith in the generosity of man. During the 'Dis/Abled Clientele' thread started by the tenderhearted Erin xo, BigAl mentioned he only receives $372 a month for disability. A fellow compassionate Cerbite, from Winnipeg, offered and donated $300 towards BigAl's next visit from me. November 2nd, his 25th birthday. Now this member has requested to remain anonymous, but his sympathy and understanding towards BigAl's financial difficulties, and the kindness and generosity he has shown myself and BigAl, deserves to be noted. With this members permission, I informed BigAl of his early Birthday gift. As you can well imagine, it made BigAl's day, and then some. A former stranger has now become a dear friend, and they'll probably never meet. But this is the sort of selflessness that makes my eyes tear. Some of you have sent me PMs to personally congratulate me. I am touched by my fellow Cerbites' warmth and compassion, but BigAl is the real hero in this story, not me.