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I know we have heard it befor about keeping phone numbers. I would just ask to please not text out of the blue asking if I want to see you I'm sure it goes for most Cerbites. I saw a lady three weeks ago I was getting ready Friday to go away and my phone went off it was the lady asking if I wanted to stop by for some fun. I know some guys have more than one phone but no matter I don't think it is appropriate to out of the blue text looking for a date. If you cant respect our privacy how can we respect yours with a text like this it makes me feel that there is desperation in the text. When there is desperation makes me wonder for what reason. So as I said in title just a reminder to please not text unsolicated dates for me it will have me add you to the DO NOT SEE AGAIN LIST

My incall location is in that area, and I have never had a problem. Mind you, I work alone (no one living off my money!) and I don't associate with the people in the neighborhood. While I understand concerns, I would like to play devil's advocate and remind you that things like this can happen in any neighborhood, any hotel, any apartment. I respect your caution, but to be honest, this is what happens when you go on CL. Stick to Cerb, where everyone is known and reviewed and you know you're not about to walk into a bad situation - no matter what neighborhood. Posted via Mobile Device

Should be there....Honest Lawyer...why not just say we'll meet at the "Faithful Man"?? The two just don't exist. LOL See you there.

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IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck (written after she found out she was dying from cancer). I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle. When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorry's.' But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute ... look at it and really see it . live it and never give it back.. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!! Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.

Every person on this earth sees beauty in a different way...for some it's the morning sun rising ...for others it's the sun setting...everyone is different...what we each see as beauty is different..that being said i am at a loss to why there are very few recommendations here on cerb for the larger ladies...the BBW . Why is there so few reco's on them? Are the men here ashamed or embarrassed that they see these lovely ladies? Seems to me that the only reco's on cerb and other boards are about spinners or average weight ladies...i think we should embrace our ladies...show them how much we love them...you all know who you are who love them and why be ashamed or as some say :"if i give you a reco you will have no time for me" . Horse crap...if you love them and find your time with them fun then be a man and stand up for them. Let's see some reco's boys on our big beautiful ladies...

I've been asked a few times to write recommendations for ladies I've visited (and even some I have not visited) but I only do it when I feel I want to. It made me wonder though, why is it so important to them? Then I made an interesting discovery....some of the ladies seem to keep track of how many pages of recommendations they have....they compare themselves to others and seem to have a hierarchy in their minds as to who is the most popular or best escort, based on how many recs they have. Don't laugh at me, it's true! I've seen girls open their laptop and go straight to the recs section and show me their pages vs. others. This I'm afraid is bullshit and NOT a good way to gain feelings of self-esteem or self-worth. The opposite is true too, just because you have few recs doesn't mean you're trash. A lot of men just can't be bothered to write recs. Some don't want to for fear of the girl getting too busy and becoming too popular and others don't even know the area exists! Some men are shy and don't think what they have to say is valid or worthy. There's many reasons for not writing a recommendation, and the best way to get one is to be real and true and earn your recommendation.