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I do not know this lady, never met her, so right now I am just going on my own assumptions.... for the past month or so this lady has been verbally attacked on the the list....although I do not know her, I do not believe the negative posts about her...especially since they are always detailed on the list...it is very, very, very obvious that she has many haters.....she is young, she is hot and she has many, many clients visiting her who seem to be content , happy and pleased with her as she has many reviews...and most state they plan on going back..... Although it is an absolute loser who is taking the time to trash her...it still does take a toll on a person....yes you can be the better person and ignore it, but after a while, I am sure it can really piss someone off...the 12 clients comment was basically just a<> take that motherfucker<> type of commment to the a-hole that is posting B.S about her...I am positive she was just being sarcastic....when someone messes with you like that, its only normal after a while to retaliate....I also seen that someone posted a comment regarding the grammar...I understand that, but at the same time this girl is getting viciously attacked verbally, she is trying to defend herself via post, and then someone throws that out there, I dont think it was very nice for someone to try and shame her like that...I am English and if I had to write a long ass letter like that in FRENCH...well I know that shit would not make any sense whatsofreakingever!!!!!! I know these are pretty big assumptions on my part seeing that I do not know her or have ever met her.....Just wanna put it out there in her defense as I would greatly appreciate it if someone would take the time to post something positive on my part if shitty things were being said about me....

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh I know, I know this. Potato chips. Wanna wow them? Chips AND dip. Double wow??? Chips and dips and cheezies. Triple wow??? Ripple chips and dips and cheezies... and for the Pee-ess de la Rezistance??? (Drum roll)... Beer nuts!!!

Hi everyone, First thank you for reading my thread! It's long and more of a rant, but I just wanted to share and see what kind of response I got I'm just wondering, and would like feedback on this topic. It's a situation I've been having lately, specially with 21 years old. Not that they are the only ones but they seem to be the most common. They start their conversations with: "Hi I'm 21 years old, good looking, how about you cut me a deal and I treat you like a lady, you might like it!" When you give them your rate, they keep taking your time asking personal questions, then they say they don't want to book they want to be friends, get to know you and see where it goes from there. When you explain to them that you post because you want to make money, and this is your work. You are not friends, but clients, either don't believe you or ignore it and they keep persisting. I'm just curious if, and I'm sure the answer will be yes, other SPs get this type of client and if they do, what do they say to get them to either book or rid of them? I've used a lot of different techniques and none seem to work. I've even told 1 guy who said:(note: this conversation happened after he told me he was shy and needed to talk to SPs 1st before booking) "I would like to get to be your friend, go out for drinks nothing sexual, just friends and see if we click" I replied: "Great you want to be my friend, then I will meet you for drink but, I will be accompanied by my fiancee is that OK?" (I figured that would get him to give up) He replies: "why would he come?" ME: "Well see, we have an agreement, when we go out with friends we always go out together. Most times that is the only time we spend together, therefore if you want to be my friend then I guess you have to live with him being around!" I then get the obvious response: "Well I was hoping to be friends and see where it goes from there!" Note for all you hobbyist reading this: (And I'm sure most of you probably know this, so please do not think that I am being condescending to you. I'm just ranting and hoping that this will help people who don't look at life this way, to have at least a different perspective) In my humble opinion, if you see someone posting on any erotic board or boards dedicated to SPs odds are we are not looking for dates. Most of us already have relationships outside of our work. Please do not waste our time by trying to entertain a relationship right from the start. (If you are looking for a relationship, there are tons of dating sites full of women waiting to chat and do the dating thing!) Book our time, spend some time with us (for a fee), then you never know we may just like you and want a relationship! :razz: And for those of you who have this theory "I would never pay for sex!" Ask yourself this: Have you ever picked up a girl at a bar and bought her drinks, supper, movie, clothes, jewelry, etc... slept with her but didn't have a relationship her? If your answer is YES then you've paid for sex.It's not because she was in a bar that you didn't exchange something for the sex you got. This said, the only difference between that girl in the bar and an SP is; you don't have to spend 4 hours trying to pick us up by making an impression all you need to do is call and show up. With her you're not even guaranteed to get any action, no matter the amount of drinks you buy her. With us you are, if you pay of course. So if you want a relationship, pay our time instead of drinks, use the time to flirt and try and gain our attention you never know it just might work! See . Different setting.same result!

Vancouver sells escort licenses, but not seriously, and no one gets fined for not having one. Plus, the GVA is pretty large, and all the neighbourhoods nearby are on a different municipality, and literally just across the street or over the bridge. No one enforces it at all. Their interest is primarily the asian massage parlours (have a business front, massage rooms, biz license etc), the micros (illegal workers working out of apartments), and the SWs (street workers). Everyone else goes at it. Edmonton is the other city that HEAVILY enforces the city escort licensing requirements. On a recent sting they collected over $90,000 in fines. They fined drivers and sps who showed up to a hotel for an outcall, because they work without licenses. This is their idea of stomping down on prostitution, lol, but in reality they are just keeping a level playing field for the ladies who do pay for licenses. The cost of a license there is high (2,000?) for an independent, but really low ($200) for anyone who works at a massage parlour. Victoria is another city to add to the list of licenses. A lot of sps get the city license (a few hundred dollars, I believe) and a lot work out of massage parlours and agencies as well. I have not ever once heard of any bylaw fines for unlicensed sps in Victoria, so I do not think they enforce the licensing. In one of those cities tho, an sp successfully took the fine to court and argued that she was a prostitute, going about the legal business of prostitution not an escort and therefore did not need an escort license. I believe she won. But the sp needs to want to go to court over it, Additional Comments: On topic, I recently read the term "leech" being applied to a guy who tries this carrot dangling approach. Needs to meet first, needs to have several phone calls, needs to go for lunch, wants to hang out, wants to hang shelves (or offer unsolicited financial advice), the list goes on, but we are talking about active board member sps with exceptional reviews, good ads and detailed website. If none of that is enough for a guy to make up his mind, then he is a leech (or looking for an sp SO). Neither possibility is attractive to ladies who are in the business of offering their company for a fee. secret admirer, please STOP referring to the sessions as "just paying for time" sort of thing or only book by phone. It is legal to discuss rates and services and to exchange $ for services in Canada. That time thing is a US affectation and could be a detriment to you spending time with some sps who do not know what you are up to lol. Be straight up, for heavens sake. No one is going to arrest you for asking how much is it for a half hour GFE appt.

The logistics of working independently, answering your own phones or emails, or texts, etc to set up 12 appts at all in a (say) 16 hour work day availability is ridiculous. (let's face it the other half of that is that you are only talking to serious callers looking to book same day appts, show up and do not cancel. Getting 12 people to do that in one day, for one person? That would be unusual) The only possible way to do this is someone else not only sets up the appts (taking all calls, taking the time to give out address, taking the time to make sure the appts are on time and arrive promptly without getting lost, making sure the majority of the appts are 15 minute duration lol, because even a 15 minute appt will take the sp a minimum of 30 minutes to accomplish, and make room for the next guy)..... Well, I think you can see why the post referred to was not very likely to have been posted by the sp but rather by either someone who has no clue about this biz (maybe a would be client who cannot get what he is looking for?) or an agency owner (who cannot get her to work for him?) or another sp (who is worried about the competition?)

For all it's faults, I love my country and feel truly fortunate be a Canadian. Having said that, this country has some pretty serious blood on its hands regarding how it was built. Not nearly as much as the Americans but still plenty. How we have treated first nations from day one has been criminal and it should be just as an important issue as Healthcare or Afghanistan. And first nations themselves shouldn't be the only ones fighting this kind of treatment. White, black, asian, everybody should be disgusted by this. It's the responsibility of all Canadians to insist this issue gets national attention and substantial change.

I totally agree about us 'older guys' being more respectful, and really understanding what this is all about ...or perhaps we have been properly broken in !!!....... Young Buck #1 - I had 2 orgasms in 1 hour ! Young Buck #2 - I had 3 orgasms in an hour ! Young Buck #3 - I had 4, and could have had a 5th in the hour but didnt want to Us Old Bucks - I had 1 orgasm in an hour.......she had 4 Enough said......... SNK

Yeah, i remember being 21... your perspective on life is quite different at that age, which is why as Megan points out many providers prefer their clientel to be on the fair side of 40. I was 21 and working in strip clubs at the time I had a better understanding and respect for these ladies than some other cocky 21 year old. This understanding along with my natural charm worked in my favor :) 20 some odd years later and still working the charm ;)

All moms are heros. They carry us for 9 tough months. They give us birth with excruciating pain for hours. They breast feed us for months and they love us for life. They teach us how to walk, how to talk. They nourish us, charish us, love us, even sacrifice their lives to save us. Their love is unconditional and is the strongest purest real love ever existed in this whole universe. Moms are the real heros in this world. To simply put moms are sources of life and eternal love and sacrifice where there is no other hero to match. Bless them all.

some people say I look like Hommer Simpson..........Doh!........

I titled this WOW! because thats all I was able to utter following my WOW filled visit with Miss Constance! Although I vaguely recall having a conversation before leaving, I cant for the life of me remember because all that was happening in my mind was WOW. On my way back to the car people must have looked at me funny as WOW kept leaving my mouth every few paces. Thankfully I did not walk into anyone, nor into potholes(or off ledges). Which is surprising really, considering I am a clutz at times, and generally a spazz. I just kept thinking how I want to turn around and go back up and spend more time. Truly incredible!! Anyway... Where do I start...I guess at the start... Setting up an appointment was easy, or as easy as it gets with me as a client. I generally introduce myself in what is probably an epic email or pm, which may or may not put the person to sleep as I ramble on for like 30 pages. Well she responded right away and wasnt all "I think you need to get on some meds". After a flurry of correspondences, and nerves somewhat allayed(I am a bit neurotic especially upon a meeting), date and time where set! (and hyperventilating began). So the day comes, and my mind is going about a billion miles per hour. Any of the ladies that have seen me can probably attest that at first it probably seems like i could pass out at any moment!... I get to her door. Wobbly legs. Thinking 'Oh my God...I hope I dont know her or her me in personal world'. Knock. Thinking 'its probably going to be like my wifes best friend or some other..."Door opens. Thinking 'WOW!' I just stood there and I think I did a semi hand wave as I said 'hi' and stood. She semi hand waved back and suggested I'd feel more comfortable inside, so grabbing my hand she led me in, closed the door pushed me up against the wall and gave me a deep and passionate kiss. I think this is where I said 'WOW' out loud for the first time. She smiled at me and gave me a look as if to say 'if you thought that was WOW, wait til you see what Im going to do to you' (Now I doubt thats what the look was saying - I may be taking a writing liberty here, cause for all I really know, the look could have been for 'oh boy he is a terrible kisser!') Taking my jacket she asked If I wanted a drink and told me to make myself comfortable. Some chit chat ensued, and slowly the nerves started relaxing, but I think I managed to actually speak. As Lonskater mentioned, she is very intelligent. She is funny, sweet and gorgeous. Her personality is very warm and welcoming. Very easy to talk to(that is, when you finally get over the 'OH MY GOD SHE IS HOT AND SHE IS RUBBING MY LEG AT THIS VERY MOMENT AND WILL BE RUBBING AND TOUCHING OTHER PARTS SOON' that runs through and clouds your mind). As the conversation winds up she starts kissing me and its even more passionate then at the door. Taking my clothes off she starts kissing me all over and then stops at the one area and my mind explodes! Watching her give me a BBBJ was 'WOW'! she makes eye contact and does things with her tongue that you cant even explain! Well I wanted in on some tongue action too and went down on her. 'WOW' She is extremely yummy, so very tasty and very responsive as her legs started tightening up around me and she pulled my head in more and more. Hearing her and feeling her twitch was driving me wild. I could have stayed there in her tasty wonderland for a long long time... and i did for a bit longer(yay) as she positioned into a 69. And again I have no clue how she makes her tongue do those things. After a little while she looks back at me and says 'I want to feel you in me' and reached over for a cover. She turned around to face me and lowered herself on me and grabbed my hands and rasied them over my head as she rode me and kissed me and thrust her nipples into my mouth... and she started getting into a rhythm faster slower faster slower and it was getting intense as we pushed into each other. Before we had met we had discussed a multitude of positions that we were going to try out, but the way she was riding me with the intensenity and the ecstasy I was feeling I wanted to be in this same postion and rhythm all day and night long. To be honest I dont know how I lasted this long and was still going, as our breaths were getting shorter and the rhythm got faster and i could feel her quivering as she thrust me deeper and deeper within her and then she leant down and kissed me and then arched herself back as she started her orgasm and with that I joined her in that moment as she kept pushing herself down on me and i kept pushing myself up. She then collapsed onto my chest, pushed her hair back, kissed me lightly on the lips, looked at me and I said 'WOW!'... she laughed and rolled over onto her side and snuggled up as we talked a bit more... or I should say she carried a conversation with a guy who can only really recall 'WOW!'... Im just keeping my fingers crossed that my side of the conversation didnt paint me as a total moron! All in all it was an abosolutley mind (and I suppose, body) blowing experience. So much fun. Constance is extremely hot, gorgeous, so very nice and I could go on, but lets just say she has it all! I wish I didnt have to leave but like Loneskater I too did not want to over stay my welcome, as she is not a clock watcher. So heading to the door she again pushed me against the wall and kissed me, hard and soft all at once as our tongues met for the last time before leaving. Giving me a smile that said 'Good luck paying attention at work' (again writers liberty here...as it could have said 'Thank God hes finally leaving') and I stumbled down the hallway saying 'Wow!' Constance - I thank you for such an amazingly delicious time! It is something I will never forget and I can not wait until the next time (which hopefully will be really soon!!!)! Constance is for those looking for a smokin hot, smart, fun and amazing GFE gal. Treat her well guys as she is a gem that will (echoing Lonskater here)hopefully be around for a long while :) peace, spacey PS. Repeat? Duh... will be, I imagine, many many times! PPS. YMMV PPPS. WOW!