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I disagree with your statements. You are assuming a lot about other people and where they are coming from. In English we have an expression, when you assume, it makes an "ass of me and you". Which is to say, you are sure to turn off any would be clients if you continue to use threads like this to berate men. I neither wonder or care about whether he is saving whatever for his SO. My "job" is provide the best service I can. If he is less than a perfect lover, so be it. It doesn't mean that he hasn't been generous, well mannered, well-meaning or groomed. I have to remember that as much as I may enjoy it, of course there will be times I don't, but that is why I am getting paid. I am not using my position as an SP to satisfy my personal sex life. If I and when I do, I consider than a very welcomed bonus and luckily I have some great clients who fit that bill. And that does not mean because he is paying me, he can do whatever he wants. I have very few "bad clients". If someone is doing something wrong or hurts, I tell them right away. But those clients are thankfully in the minority. As well, (as you have implied in other posts), I do not believe by simply reading or educating yourself in the erotic arts as you put it, makes one a better lover. This is one area where practice supercedes any book learning and to imply that if someone does not educate themselves does not make them a good lover, whatever, again is with a "put down" tone to both hobbyiests and SPs on this board. I am not trying to give you grief Amanda, but you may not be aware of the fact that you are may be alienating the very population you hope to get as clientele on the hobbyiest side and support you hope to get from the SP side. If I have come across too harsh, I apologize, but this thread is supposed to be about breasts! Now as far as breast play goes, I like my nipples to be kissed, licked and sucked very gently - doucement!! I do not like to be handled rough or pinched or bitten. If someone gets a little rough, I ask them to stop. I am pleased to say more often than not, a gentleman is happy to comply with my requests. I am very lucky in that I do not get a lot of "bad" clients. During a duo, I love to massage a ladies' breasts, especially if they're natural.

I'm kinda with you Pete but each of us need our safe place to rant about such things and I'm OK if CERB is it. But just so the ladies know - I've never skipped out or been a no show on an appt. I've ran late but the lady and I got into an exchange of texts which only raised the anticipation of our meeting. (I'll save that story for a different thread). However, I've been left 'high and dry' (sorry) twice and never have I received an apology, compensation, or even a good excuse. Hmm-respect works both ways in these relationships.

Well, the person booking , he/she, could call upon a delay or cancellation....I find the issue goes deeper than the screening or the booking ahead of time....I thing it is in fine boundary line with "who cares"...... My doctor charges 50 dollars for "no-show ups"...the dentist I went late today has a sign: "We cater to cowards and if that is not enough...we charge 90 dollars for not showing" I am sorry I did not make the point clear: either they pre pay or if they do not attend, they are billed to a credit card number provided at the time of booking. I do not understand why this happens...I had a call today that was pretty explicit "I need you now...I am to hard to wait"...I answer the call for a half hour because it was all I could offer in my schedule.....I request the same attention and the same deference....my time is not free! Loralee

I don't think it belongs here, that's what facebook is for. No ofence to the original poster, but it opens up a huge pandora's box about something that is not even remotely close to the purpose of this board. The call to action is bothersome. If I sign one petition, the expectation is to support the next cause, then the next, then people start to post more youtube cat videos, then groupon offerings, and flashmob invites and so on and so on... again that's what facebook is for. my two cents.

This reminds me of all the bleeding hearts in Victoria who won't let UVic do a massive cull of feral rabbits which have let loose on the grounds. The municipality of Saanich (Part of Greater Victoria) is discussing a cull of deer. Besides over running everything and coming down with disease due to overcrowding, they are also attracting cougars (not the good kind) which find pet cats and dogs easier pickings. The point is, we have created an artificial enviroment for feral animals where they thrive with no natural controls. So for anyone inclined to advocate on behalf of these poor animals, are you willing to step up with the thousands of dollars to capture and retrain cats, or relocate deer? And would you adopt said cats or rabbits and provide a garantee they will never be released to become a pest again? If we didn't interfere, nature would take care of the problem, but we don't like see bunnies dying in the street from disease and starvation. Nature tends to pretty hard on the slow, stupid and fertile. Rabbits are like nature's fast food. Deer are pretty much the same. As for feral cats, count how many song birds are no longer around. As humankind, we are responsible for many of these situations, and it's time to "man up" and do what needs to be done. And we simply can't afford to treat every feral animal like we would our grandmother. We are the top of the food chain, dammit. (unless you live in Grizzily country)

I am a smoker, so I do know what the sacrifices are. For those that have never smoked, it's no use throwing statistics and timelines and wonderful utopian ideals at a smoker. The decision has to come from within. I once was told that every cigarette you smoke takes 4 minutes off of your life expectancy; I figured that a good smoke break was 10 minutes so I was 6 minutes to the good anyhow. I have quit.... a number of times. It is easy to have that last cigarette and say never again, the hardest part is making it stick. I guess it's like alcoholism in that respect... you can NEVER smoke again. The first time you cheat, that's it. You are a smoker again. All this being said, I sincerely hope that you can do it Emma. One day soon, I will join you.

Boy, tough one to answer, but here goes..... Hobbying is one of the most selfish things I have ever done......period... However, I have come to rationalize it, by convincing myself that I HAVE EARNED the right to spoil myself from time to time...... Why you ask ? To me it's simple, I have provided a stable home over the years, provided all the emotional support that was needed, the material wealth that was desired all this and worked MY ASS off without complaining or asking for a rest or demanding more than my fair share. I have ALWAYS been there when needed, my support has always been unflinching for my family.... The time I spend with an SP is 'ME TIME', it is my time to spoil myself, to relax and be with someone who DOES NOT JUDGE ME, nor expect anything in return other than for me to be myself, and of course the donation that is required...... No drama, no demands, no expectations, just a good time to be had by both people, and a chance to steal away with some 'us time'......an oasis away from the day to day norm.... So, when I hobby, it is ME TIME..... Is it selfish, damn straight ! Have I earned it.....I believe I have ...well, in my mind anyway...... That is how I rationalize my hobby.......I don't seek assurance that I am right, because I have convinced my self that it is just fine.....and I am enjoying myself.....:pimp: SNK

One of the main problem is that when a man has time with one of you ladies, we have a time frame and we are rushed to do what we have to do. One hour passes very fast and it's not everyone who can afford to spend 2 hours... I've been with other escorts before and it's always the same thing, when it starts to be hot, it's time to finish because some have other appointments... I find it very annoying... Why can't you let it go with the flow if you don't have someone else in line? I know that we donate a full hour but if you have the time, why not keep it up? Maybe if we knew when we arrive that there's nobody else after us, we would take our time and it would be more pleasurable for both parties... It's just a thought...