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I could not resist to write a recommendation in French for Annessa. She is one of a kind. The English translation follows. I noticed that all the French accent have disappeared, since the big problem that has been resolved now. Would it be possible to replace the French text by this correct one so that it will be readable. I took great care of the texts I write and writing in French is hard. I would appreciate if it could be possible. Thanks, Superlift Annessa ' lorsque la beauté' n''a d'é''gale que le charme Depuis mon premier contact avec CERB, j''ai tout de suite remarqu'é Annessa (Annessa2009), que je considè're comme une 'étoile dans ce magnifique firmament des Dames de CERB. Plus je regardais ses albums, m''imaginais sa beauté', plus je lisais ses ' posts ', ses commentaires et ses opinions, plus je me sentais attiré' ' à la rencontrer. J''en é'tais impressionn'é par ce qu''elle d'égageait de beauté', de classe, de charme, de ' sex appeal '. Mais l''occasion ne s''y est pr'êt'é que quelques mois plus tard, et j''ai enfin osé' lui demander un rendez-vous. Et avec quelle facilité' et simplicité' cela a é'té' convenu. J'''écris ces lignes apr'ès avoir rencontr'é Annessa une deuxiè'me fois. Quel charme fou, quelle beauté', wow. J''en reste encore tout boulevers'é. Lors de notre deuxi'ème rencontre, je voulais que ce soit sp'écial, et pourquoi pas original. ' mon arrivé'e, dans son incall charmant, cozy et discret, elle m'a reç'u en me serrant fort et par un baiser qui a tout de suite ré'veill'é mes sens, mon d'ésir et mon goû't d'elle. Complicité', d'ésir ardent, retrouvailles d'élicieuses. Sans attendre, nos v'êtements se sont envol'és un à' un pour nous faire sentir la chaleur de nos peaux, de nos bouches et de tous nos sens. Mmmm Et puis, surprise, -pause-, j''avais apport' quelques hu'îtres et du vin blanc, un Sancerre pourquoi pas? Ceux qui disent que les huî'tres sont aphrodisiaques, ont bien raison. Nous 'étions nus lorsque nous d'égustions ces coquillages d'élicieux; kinky? Peut-ê'tre ? Charmant, c''est sû'r. Mais tellement spé'cial. Tout un festin, des regards 'échangé's, du go'ût subtil 'éveillé', et le dé'sir grandissant. Notre festin s''est transporté' au lit pour d''autres dé'lices qui ont emporté's tous nos sens, jusqu''au plaisir ultime. Annessa est une 'étoile dans tous les sens du mot. Lumineuse, superbe, charmante, vive, sexy; un feu d''artifice. Mon feu d''artifice. Un feu qui ne s'''éteint pas; je n''attends que la prochaine fois. Annessa ' where beauty meets charm Since my first visit to CERB, I immediatly noticed Annessa, who I consider a star in this magnificent firmanent of Ladies of CERB. The more I looked at her albums, dreamed of her beauty, the more I read her posts and her thoughts, the more I felt attracted to her. I was deeply impressed by her beauty, her class, her charm, her hot sex-appeal. But the opportunity to meet her only happened months later. Still impressed, I dared to ask to meet her. And how simple ans easy it was. I write these lines after my second encounter with Annessa. How charming she is, and what a breathtaking beauty; wow. I am still overwhelmed. For our second encounter, I wanted it to be special, and why not a bit original, When I came in, in her very cozy and discrete incall location, she welcomed me with a warm kiss and hug that lighted up all my senses. What a pleasure to see her again; already intense. Without any more waiting, we went to the play area, drop each item of our clothing, to get our skins meet with sensuality. Then, surprise ! I brought some oysters and white wine, an Sancerre; why not ? Those who say that oysters are aphrodisiac are right. Naked, we were tasting those delicacies: kinky? Maybe ?; charming for sure. But so special. This feast lead us to the bed for another kind of feast where other senses were light up, until the ultimate pleasure. Annessa is a star in every way. A true beauty, lively, superb, bright, so sexy; like a beautiful firework. I cant wait for our next encounter. A diamond in the Ottawa's treasure of gems.

Most of us try to keep our personal lives separate from our work lives and certainly, taking on a prof as a client at the university you attend--that's some major personal and work mixing.

I have to admit this post creeps me out a bit, as do all posts looking for personal information about SP's. Perhaps the question could be rephrased 'seeking SP near Sandy Hill area'. I also know that many providers, myself included, specifically try to screen out clients that may be within their social or professional circle outside of sex work so you may be doing yourself a disservice by claiming to be a Prof at U of O. On another note, if you really are a prof at U of O, wouldn't you want to, you know, be discreet and avoid SPs who are students at your university?

I get a lot of pm's from members requesting information, opinions, etc., and I'm happy to help as far as I can. I'm glad to be considered a useful and trustworthy resource! I never of course provide information that's better requested of the sp herself, like specific services, locations, or rates, and things like that, but I've had some good exchanges with members on their expectations and experiences. That more private side of cerb communication is something I enjoy. The reason I'm posting this is to say how much I appreciate it when members get back to me after I've responded, even with a simple thank you. It's good to be acknowledged, and I'm grateful to my correspondents who take the time to do this, and to let me know afterwards how things went, or just in general to share their own thoughts. But that 'thank you' is the important part.

The DSM IV (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) does not recognize Sexual Addiction. The DSM is a living document and its next edition is due in 2013. There is a working group looking at the inclusion of Sexual Addiction. Since a sex drive and associated behaviours is common to all mammals it complicates the characterization of many behaviours as an addiction. Many professionals find that in those who display the behaviours that we associate with "sexual addiction" are in fact compulsive behaviours. In some studies the same pharmacological treatments used to help patients cope with OCD are effective in coping with "sexual addiction". It is also seen as a symptom of bi-polar disorder and mania in schizoaffective disorder. That said it is not a diagnosis of either just as a cough is not a diagnosis of pneumonia. In sum the "jury is still out" on this issue. Unfortunately this leaves the field open to a lot of charlatans who would be happy to take your money to follow their "program" of treatment. Unfortunately this has been the case in dealing with issues of sexuality since at least Victorian times. Be it electric shocks to stop nocturnal emissions, or interventions to "cure" homosexuality. Be cautious. If you feel signs of compulsion that you cannot control and these are having an effect on your life - by all means consult a professional.

I should change mine to kim kardashian.....or snookie:grin:

I don't think it's just a "guy" thing. And it most certainly isn't a bad thing 99.9% of the time. Theres always the question of where that "line" is between just sex, an emotional bond and sex, and emotionally involved. I myself know where that line is and with my Regulars it is a "emotional bond and sex" relationship. I love being able to spend an evening with a Regular(s) that I know, can talk about things in my life, and they share what they choose. Although I never ask, I am always curious as to why they see SP's and eventually they usually bring up the subject. The reasons are as varied as there are Hobbiests/Hobbiestas, and most are very valid in my opinion. Some it's just for the sex, some is for that oh so important human touch, and to some it's the whole package. Since I don't judge, it seems once that subject is broached and we talk about it, things only get better because they realize I understand. Perhaps that is the guy thing? I do know that I sometimes get rather chatty clients and am only too happy to spend time getting to know the person and the body! They are, after all...attached!

My two cents. I think, in a very small minority of people, sex addiction does exist. And it likely exists for both men and woman. But people who can't (or won't) stay monogomous in a relationship, that isn't sex addiction. And if they use sex addiction as an excuse for their infidelity, well that imho makes suspect the legitimate cases of sex addiction. A laymans perspective who really knows nothing on the subject. As for Tiger Woods (only because he was referred too) he brought his infidelities into the public eye and publicly humiliated his wife...I'm not judging individual relationships but to publicly humilate his wife in the process...why not use some discretion, keep it private Then to market the affairs (the nike ad, "What have you learned") for sponsership, gas on a fire, and obviously no regard for his (then) wife and family, only concern, the almighty dollar RG

As some of you know, I give lectures at U of O and Carleton on sex work. There has been an especially high demand due to the court case. While the overwhelming majority of students are respectful and "get it", there is one thing that seems to come up a lot. That is the mandatory STD/STI testing of sex workers. Many students seem to think that forcing sex workers to be tested for STD/STI's on a regular basis would be "good for sex workers and good for society." This bothers me for some many reasons: 1. It perpetuates the stereotype that sex workers are vectors of disease. I think you are at much higher risk picking up a random at a bar than seeing a sex worker! 2. It is paternalistic. Somehow "they" know better than sex workers what is best for them and must enforce it. 3. It would never be done to the general population. What about bars that are frequented often for casual sex or swingers clubs? Are we going to force everyone to have mandatory STD/STI testing before signing up for "AFF - Adult Friend Finder"? 4. It's sexual assault. STD/STI testing is an extremely invasive procedure that involves putting a speculum in your vagina. To force a woman to disrobe and have an instrument inserted in her vagina is sexual assault. 5. Education, not more laws and rules, works best for society. What ever happened to education and accesible services? It's a pain in the ass to get STD tested these days with the Sexual Health Clinic being closed. I would much rather see a focus on education and accessible health care than more laws and rules. Why do people think laws and rules will solve all of society's problems? Well, that's my rant for the day :) I hope this generates some good discussion. Megan

It wasn't too long ago that I found out that my son had special needs, and since then I have learned that you find support in the strangest places. Many of the people that I used to hang out with and go out for dinner with are now a little distant! I had a group of friends that I used to do everything with. Now it seems that they just don't understand what is involved when you are raising a child with special needs. As I keep repeating to them that I can't go to a restaurant with my son as he cannot eat 90% of foods that are found in restaurants, they seem the be blaming me for not being around like I used to. Of those friends there is less than a handful that I can count on. As I attend different social events for work or different organizations, I am meeting more and more people that are in similar situations as me. The biggest thing that I came to realize is that almost none of these people are complaining on how hard it is to deal with children?s special needs but more how proud they are of there children?s successes. That is cool! My friends with what you would consider ?normal? kids do nothing but complain on how hard it is to raise them. Even when talking to family members I find that they don't understand or don't want to understand the needs that these children have. It just makes it hard to try and talk to them especially when they think that the reason for his behaviour is because you can?t hit your kids these days. I have been a member here for quite some time and I found out that I can always count on having someone to talk to or hearing something good that happened in someone?s life here on CERB. I have had some long chats with some people on this site about anything and everything. Like I have said in the past, it?s sometimes easer to talk to a stranger then a close friend or relative. From reading the joke to reading the General section, there is always something good or something worth reading. I read a thread on ?our kids little giants? made me feel good, and I read the ?what have you learned here?, and it made me think. I read the ?5 freaking riddles? it made me feel less intelligent. (Thanks for that one) It just goes to show you that you can find support, friendship in the most unusual places. Apex

Thank you so much Winnipegcub! *raises a glass to another year of wonderfulness!* xoxoxoxo