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I received ANOTHER PM from a member who was concerned because GOOGLE indexes cerb.ca. He says that his significant other has ways to "find" his ALIAS on cerb and thinks we should block the search engines from indexing cerb. Well... if your S/O can figure out your alias on cerb you allowed this to happen - it has NOTHING to do with google or cerb! Basically if this happens you were sloppy! He was obviously doing something he should not have been doing and got caught (Probably a tech savvy S/O) ... and now looking to put the blame on someone or something instead of himself. This happens with the LADIES just as much as the guys. The ladies do something foolish and allow people in their personal life to EASILY find them online working as an escort (and that causes PANIC for many and a headache for me as they want me to delete all traces of them on cerb) - after the fact this is pointless!! Everything that should be indexed by google (and other search engines) is. We block access to the PRIVATE sections (SP ONLY, COUNCIL, ETC...) and we hide your IP address's and Emails on your profiles. The PUBLIC part of the site is indexed and cerb runs a very good SEO system that ensures everything is available and indexed on google and other search engines. Why? This brings us traffic, allows new members to find cerb, allows the ladies to find us and it is a very important part of the site. It also pays the bills! This site is FREE for you all to use but nothing in this world is FREE. Your posts are indexed with the search engines and are considered "Content" and this content on google and other search engines creates links to cerb.ca. In turn our sponsors (All the advertisers here and escorts-canada and other sites we own get traffic from cerb and traffic is money). This is a business after all and it may be a free site for you all to use but the reason this site exists is to generate traffic and feed traffic to the people who pay for this site (The people who make this site free for everyone who uses it). These days if your sites are not listed on google... your nobody and nobody will find you! As of today we have 91700 listings on google alone! This brings THOUSANDS of people to cerb every day! Thousands of people who would not have found cerb without these listings. We can not hide things from google to keep them from your significant others. If you are sneaking around doing something you should not then your on your own to protect yourself. What can you do to keep your identity and actives private? 1) I would suggest you use a username that no one could associate with you. 2) Erase your cookies. history and temporary internet files everytime you are done using the internet 3) Check your computer for stuff like keystroke loggers (as it's common for SO's to use these things if they suspect you of doing things you should not). They act as trojans and quietly sit in the background and log every button you push on your keyboard.... any tech savvy 12 year old kid knows how to do this and you can now buy USB thumb drives that make it possible for ANYONE to do this with very little knowledge of how a computer works. 4) Don't post anything too personal. Ladies this goes for you as well. If you use your PERSONAL cell phone for business it will be INDEXED On google and your friends can GOOGLE your cell number and find your ads. Don't be foolish, invest in a WORK PHONE and keep your private life private! 5) If your name is "Richard Henry John" and you choose a alias here like "R.H.J" or "DickH" or "Rich john" your asking to be identified. This is just silly to do and you would be surprised how many people do this. **** The reason we use Alias's is so that your posts and activities on these sites are anonymous. We hide your IP and Email from public (Keeping your id private). Q: Is cerb really FREE? A: No, Nothing is Free. Q: How can you run CERB for free? A: This site is a BUSINESS and is here to make money. It costs TENS OF THOUSANDS of dollars to run this site each year. Someone has to pay for that! You don't pay for using cerb and the handful of banner advertisers help but don't cover the cost of the servers per year let alone my salary! It appears free to you but your posts are content and your visits are traffic. Content = Search engine listings Search engine listings = Traffic Traffic = Money! This site is FREE to use for all of you and in return you are giving us your time, contributions and traffic. Someone has to pay the bills and in this "virtual" world website traffic is what pays the bills. Hard to imagine but that is how it works. The more traffic cerb.ca gets the more traffic it's sponsors receive (Advertisers on the site). This is how we pay for the site. If we made the site inaccessible from google and other search engines we would have no traffic, We would have no content, We would have no members, We would have nothing of value and we would have no computers and bandwidth to run the site. Bottom line we would have no business. I don't work for free (Shocking isn't it) I am PAID to run this website. I have other duties that involved things other then this website but at least 1/2 of my salary is to maintain cerb. The servers that run cerb, the bandwidth, the custom programming, license fee's, the chat room, etc... all cost money (You would be SHOCKED to know those costs!). My point here is that for every 10 visitors we get from google at least 1 of them end up visiting escorts-canada.com (The website that pays the bills for cerb) It's all about the math. Search engine math? Basically 5000 visitors per day is worth 100 grand a year. If you were to PURCHASE traffic from other sites (and that is not easy as a lot of sites DO NOT allow "Adult" related sites to buy advertising) it would cost a MINIMUM of .06 cents per visitor. (5000 X $.06) X 365 days a year = $109'500.00 We send a few thousand visitors to EC per day from cerb so our budget is no where near 100 grand but one day it may be!! So keep posting and spreading the word. Out budget here is based on this. (Traffic sent to EC X RATE .03) X 365 days a year = $BUDGET Notice the RATE is .03 and not .06 - If it was .06 it would be simply smarter to just purchase the traffic. If you can build your own traffic that cost 1/2 of what it would cost you to purchase the same traffic... it's a SMART business decision! (And is why cerb exists today).

I love the chat room. My goal is to meet as many members as possible and get to know what makes them tic! You will never see me solicit, you will never see me harass, you will never see me go outside the boundaries. I have no problem answering questions about myself, my services etc... but... I expect in return.... Do not ask me to show my face nor any nudity on cam and if my cam is not on, it's for a reason. Do not request a private chat in order to get online sex talk. Do not try to negotiate with me based on what you believe to be a lesser service. Do not ask me for more pics...I do have albums, don't be so lazy. Sorry if anyone feels that I have disrespected them. In the open chat we all have a fab time but there are limits. I love private chat until it becomes apparent that someone is just using me for jerk off material. Please keep chat the fun place that it is! Today at lunch time it was an absolute blast!!!!

I attended an amazing workshop this past weekend. It was a training for facilitators of workshops (I attended it because I will be facilitating a workshop on self care in the coming weeks and another one on consent and escorting the week after that). Anyway, something that I realized, which is so obvious and yet so overlooked, is the power of thinking about the positive things in our lives. Often, at least in my life and my immediate circles of friends, we are quite self critical and pessimistic (and rightly so seeing as life can be quite harsh at times). Nevertheless, positive reinforcement in our lives is definitely one of the many ways we can attempt to maintain a certain level of happiness and provide ourselves with the means to be able to care for ourselves to avoid burn outs, depressions and overwhelming exhaustion and sadness in general. This thread's purpose is to allow you to tell the CERB community about one good thing that has happened to you in the last couple of weeks. My hope is that this thread will be lively for quite some time and people can use it to share their positive experiences with others on this site. It doesn't have to be CERB related or SP/Hobbiest related. Anything you want, really. GO!

Yes, why feel guilty. If at all, feel good that the time you spent with her provided money to the lady to put food in the child's mouth and clothes on the child's back I do see it leading to awkward feelings, but feeling bad, why? My 2 cents RG

You have nothing to be ashamed of; nothing at all. I do, however, feel that it is ALWAYS inapropriate for a lady to have her children at her incall location; with or without a babysitter present. That was her bad choice and you have nothing to do with it. Don't feel bad at all!

Great thread Alexander, if I may go back just prior to Christmas, a loved one has been battling cancer (and yes life can be very harsh to those that surround us). Without the great care by nurses and physicians that person would not of been able to spend Christmas at home. It was a real positive experience for me, and very happy news of course. At that time,week before Christmas, I really could not care a less about the celebration of Christmas and was not in the right frame of mind, only until our family member was out of the hospital that it all became positive. I also posted this in our Charity group, http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=46 I have a couple of teen age kids, and to give them a life lesson about those less unfortunate, we donated 200 dollars worth of groceries and dropped them off to the local food bank.My kids help with buying, loading and dropping off, then assisting at the food bank for a couple of hours. Lastly as liquor states above, I always have had this motto through my life, from years back I don't recall who told me it possibly my dad, "It doesn't cost anything to be nice to people" I have this quote framed at home....try it some day..it really does help your day in a positive manner ;) "A smile costs nothing but gives much. It enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give. It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. None is so rich or mighty that he cannot get along without it and none is so poor that he cannot be made rich by it. Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away. Some people are too tired to give you a smile. Give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give".

Do's-From EC- Cherry- Wow glad I hooked up with her, polite and great unhurried fun, and what great fun we had, I love a pretty Asian woman and that what she was:grin: . Do's- From EC-Goddess Rachel- Great lips, lovely,sensual,and have repeated when CUMS to Saskatoon. Do's- From EC-Sultry Lauren- MSOG and unrushed. Professional and great time. Do's- From EC- Sexy Lana - Nice curves, great body, simply your girl friend you could take home to show mom, great service,great kisser and repeated with her.:razz: Do's-From PGarden of Eden- Roksi- Spinner type, I was verry happy:razz: doing it standing up with her legs wrapped around my waist, great kisser. Do's-From EC- Alex Grenyait... great service and nice body Do's-From-EC-Harmony... wow..nice body..and great time.

I have been dealing with a situation for quite a while and now i am having the 2 same situation in a different regions.. I am curious of your opinions...thoughs... If i feel that someone is not compatible to me...someone that has done something that i considere a no no...I tell them that i do not wish to see them...Why is it so hard for some to understand that and respect my decision?The first situation has been in manitoba....It is getting ridiculous to the point of changing email,name,phone number and not having static IP and having mutiple handles.. The other situation has been calling every week mutiple time a week at any time to solicitate that i visit his city...Now changing emails and name... a third situation the person nearly harass me on 5 different names and emails to get banned from here not wanting to fit my requirements but insist on meeting I have notice in past tread that some of you(gents) have comment that if a girl refuse to see you..*** this you would still try to see her and sneak in by changing name...etc... Does it mean to some of you that we aren't allow to choose who we see..That if we feel that someone have a stalkish personality or disrespectful,that is simply not compatible and the app will be miserable that we have no choice to not see you?Yes i can understand that maybe i said maybe i could have a wrong impression of the person but why insisting in a sneaky way? I am so confuse as for me if someone clearly stated to me not wanting to be in my compagny i cannot even imagine how a session could be great...Maybe i am not soly bussiness...But seeing the behavior described before really discusted me and make me despite those people..hate them without even knowing them.... It does not want me to give you the time of you life ..Far from it to be polite I am currently in a dilemma...Getting my booking requirements more stick for those 2 regions and penalize many nice gents... Or.......... You inputs would be appreciate VJ

Megan, sorry that someone had to get his jollies and being disrespectful. I had been in chat the last couple evenings after work, and I had not visited for the longest time, (and I mean a long time) anyways the last 2 nights were totally awesome, great ladies, and gents, good conversation, and good fun while being respectful. The unfortunate part for me is that it is so dam hard keeping up with messages,posts...but I do try, it is fun, so lets all keep it that way. And I found my long lost brother in chat too :)

Enthusiasm. This word defines an encounter with Angel. This was my second time seeing her, and it was an evening I will never forget. We had been chatting regularly since our last encounter, but our schedules didn't allow for a repeat visit until now. Between our shared messages and her escalating series of arousing posts on the schedule board, I was approaching new heights of sexual excitement. Adding to that, Angel had agreed to fulfill an all time fantasy of mine during this session, so my brain was approaching an overload. I spent the entire day before our encounter with a huge grin plastered on my face that I could not control. As our meeting grew ever nearer, I recalled that in our first encounter, Angel's beauty had left me shellshocked; reeling and breathless like a prize fighter suffering a deep body blow, and that I had struggled to regain my composure. I was determined to not allow the same thing to happen again. On the evening of our encounter, I had the hotel elevator to myself as I ascended towards her floor and used that time to take several deep breaths to release my nervous energy. I psyched myself up, and by the time I reached her door, I was brimming with confidence. I knocked, waited, and heard her scurry towards the door. The door opened slowly, seemingly by itself, until Angel's head popped out from behind it. I entered the room and she emerged from behind the door. Her outfit was stunning, her body every bit as beautiful as I had remembered and her eyes once again plunged deep into my soul. As we embraced, my mind, already overloaded, shattered. Despite my best efforts, Angel left me shellshocked once again. We chatted a bit while I pieced my brain back together, although the rest of our encounter seemed to take place on a higher level of consciousness. I won't go into the details, but suffice to say that - beyond her ample beauty, intelligence and sultriness - it was her enthusiasm that really made for an unforgettable encounter. I'm not a religious man, but I think I may have seen into the heavens and certainly heard the cry of the angels (or at least one Angel!) So thank you, Ms. Starr for an evening that I will forever cherish, and I would encourage any gentleman who has not yet arranged to meet with Angel to put it at the top of your priority list. You will not regret it.

uh... how did the babysitter know the op and sp weren't already engaged in the session beyond talking with their clothes still on??? Things could have been a lot worse... A bedroom isn't an appropriate place to introduce a child to a ''friend'' of the opposite sex. No matter how old the child is.. it isn't at all innocent. Even if he was a friend that wasn't a paying guest it's inappropriate. Kudos to you for being able to go through with the appt considering the close call you might have had. I'm a little confused. Was the babysitter in the house downstairs from ''her room''? seems strange to come up to her bedroom to look for a child's toys.. almost as if it's an excuse to introduce you to the child. People do strange things sometimes.. Frankly I'm surprised at the number of people who think this is even close to normal or acceptable. If it were an emergency situation.. yes completely understandable.. but interrupting a session with the possible repurcussions for everyone for a mere toy? makes no sense to me. You have no reason whatsoever to feel guilty.. but I'm sure she felt uncomfortable.. so you're feeling the awkwardness of that ''elephant in the room'' not being discussed while you finished up the appt.

You didn't do anything wrong...feeling awkward maybe about the situation would be normal. I'm sure the lady felt the awkward as well thus the introducing of her child. Things happen sometimes and you handeles it well. The lady really should have babysitting rules...tell the babysitter not to come by unless an emerg..have things packed ahead of time to give to the babysitter. So many things she could have done but we are all still learing. So give her a break...i'm sure you had a good time and helped someone out at the same time. big hugs, Emma

Must be genuine, laughs at my jokes (those can be in conflict, but still), is a little aggressive/assertive to pursue me - I think most guys like that. And her attitude should be unafraid and up for adventure. With the above in order, looks matter little in reality. Posted via Mobile Device

Sorry but I still don't understand why this little mix-up of personal/work life would be immoral in any way. I can understand it making you uncomfortable, but I can't see how it would be immoral in any way. My morals are dictated by what helps/hurts people. Hurting people is bad. Helping people is good. I guess I'm just simple like that :) Obviously this situation, no one way hurt, the lady and you were helped and benefitted (as did her little one). So what's the big deal? Forgive me for hypothesizing, but I find that a lot of men have underlying guilt that they are somehow doing something wrong by seeing a sex worker. The media and second-wave feminists love to paint us as victims, and I'm sure that is something clients can't ignore, even if it's furthest from the truth. Rest assured you did nothing wrong.

A genuine smile,smarts and sense of humour. I'm not very complicated!:) Peace MG Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Posted via Mobile Device

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I have some experience with BDSM activities and the ladies that I have met all use the red, yellow and green system as Annessa has previously mentioned. This system is ideal in that usually a person won't randomly scream out "yellow" where you might yell stop or oh no. It also allows the bound or sub person to remain in control of the situation. Green obviously means continue, don't stop. Yellow proceed with caution but things should be okay as long as you are patient, etc. Red...red is stop right now and evaluate. Before you and your lady even begin the session it is IMPERATIVE that you are both on the same page and understand each others experience level and boundaries. By having open and honest discussions I have never had to say "red." Trust is key when surrendering control!:sadomaso:

Al you are a winning athlete. No matter what life throws at you, you just fight back harder. Don't let the goverment win this one. Keep up the fight. I am sure that you have the backing of the cerb community behind you. We must stand arm in arm brothers and sisters of cerb. Soleil you are an angel and deserve honourable mention for your hard work for our brother Big Al.

Big Al you serve as inspiration to us all. You have shown that through determination and a positive attitude anything is possible. Thanks for reminding us all about such a powerful lesson. Keep up the great work my friend. Posted via Mobile Device

It is not very nice to put the blame on these poor women. Many older women are beautiful. If the owners are the one who imports and move the women around from place to place...etc...At this point, I don't see why they would let the girls decide if they want a real picture or fake one to be in their ads. As other said, it gives all legit sex workers a bad name, and tarnish a legit industry. Saying that they don't look good and they are really old won't help. As a matter of fact it's just plain mean.

This is rather disturbing; I don't like the fact that these women are possibly force to be in this industry and do not want to do this. That to me should be considered human trafficking, if a person wants to be in the business and truly enjoys it, I don't see a problem with this. But forcing a woman to do it and making money from her discomfort, to me is worse than rape. But they may be coming here as it is a way to make money for themselves! :?:

Great information and insight Mod! This thread really answered a number of questions. I?m really new so I have to ask the really dumb questions. Assuming that the photo for an ad is a true picture of a lady, and that "all the girls are ?public?, which means they don?t work for any specific agency", is it possible that in some (probably very few) cases, the agency is on the up-and-up and the lady chooses to switch shifts with one of her co-workers, and forgot to let the agency/agencies know, or that she forgot to show up for work and one of her friends is covering for her? I know a (small) bit about dealing with younger employees, some are irresponsible, some are lazy, some are forgetful. Think of the staff of a McDonald?s or Tim Horton?s. In such cases, instead of being lied to ("I?m Tiffany") a better story would be "Tiffany?s car broke down, but I?m her sister/cousin Maria", which in some cases could be a bit of a turn on with a desire to return to visit the sister/cousin Tiffany. Avoiding CL, although defunct for now, seems to be a no-brainer. I?m guessing the same is true for Now and Eye. The true B&S switch operations should be identified and black-balled (thank you tineye.com), I can only hope that the others are just stuck with the odd bad employee, and those employees should be identified and complained about here and more importantly to the agency, who knows, there is a chance that they might be in the dark. How come there are almost no B&S reports, at least in the forum "Toronto Warnings: To Report Bait and Switch, Scams..."? I guess it really comes down to, when in doubt, be loyal to Canadians!

OK, So I am going to be completely honest and as descriptive as possible: The hotel is not the highest quality buts it's clean and allows for quick / discreet access. Karlie is beautiful and sexy but she isn't like a rock hard athlete..breast are small but not flat... BUT, skin is very soft, nipples are perfectly shaped and very very soft. She has a beautiful pierced little P and I really love spending time down there! Most recently she answered the door in a little skirt barely covering her great (really great ass) nice shape and all....I was instantly horny. I mean her eyes are absolutely HOT and she makes eye contact. HERES The thing you have to understand: She really really really likes what she does. she is not really good at faking...Instead, she is really really into what she does. I have been around enough to know the difference. So many women advert. for GFE but don't come close. I mean she will make you feel so good about yourself that I would be willing to pay twice as much! She makes you feel so special and she is not awkward or dysfunctional or any of that. She is VERY normal...and very sweet and happy! I mean, I have only seen her a few times and yet I cant stop thinking about her. I care for her in a weird kinda way...... HERE's another thing you have to understand, she is really horny and explorative BUT never rushes or makes you feel uncomfortable. The best way I can explain it is if my girlfriend was a porn-star. That's right!! she makes you feel like you are in a sensual / intimate and loving relationship with a HOT horny little freak who loves when you give it to her...ITs like a GFE x PSE....BUT , I would put more of an emphasis on the GFE. it's one of a kind I and I have been around!! HERE'S another thing and a big one: She loves giving H. Have you ever had that robotic type H from someone you know doesn't want to be there...doesn't even have any really skills...well Karlie does. I would argue she is one of the best, if not the best (including working women and girlfriends I had that also loved to give H). I mean you can tell she loves it. she is very sensual and really makes you feel wanted.....you won't last 5 minutes trust me!! But if you can last an hour, she'll be VERY happy to oblige! AND!!! her rates are super low BUT sorry guys I am trying to convince her to charge more (haha) you'll understand why after the first 30 seconds!! she deserves the best! so, to sum it up: Hot little body, comfortable environment, BEAUTIFUL eyes - and with one look at you, she has you wound up and waiting to explode AND she cares - I can tell. I am not a naive trick. I know the game BUT Karlie is different. Sure she is trying to make a living but if she was a car sales woman I would trust her She makes me feel good. she can give you what you are missing - whether you are feeling lonely or super horny, she will give you what you need and more!!! Trust me!!! I have been around - variety is the spice of life BUT Karlie is much spicier than variety! I hope to see her over and over again! let me know what you think! But I think I already know what you'll think.:smile:

I've learned it's all about personality. Women with a sense of humour and intelligence turn me on more than anything! I've also learned I don't have a type of woman that attracts me anymore. I never know what is going to cause me to be attracted to a woman, makes it very exciting though!

I have never hidden any of this from anyone in my life. I have no reason to, I was always the wild child growing up and none of my hobbying came as a shock to anyone. I feel no reason to be ashamed or to feel any level of guilt about any of this. I have always enjoyed myself and have met many wonderful people over the years as a hobbyiest and hope to continue to do the same till the end of my days. :D

1. i love to run marathons and love to lift heavy weights. 2. I'm a licenced aesthetician 3. I lost my virginity to a boy in a mask on Halloween night when i was 13 4. i hate ice cream and cake when its my birthday i want meat! 5. i was going to live in Las Vegas but its tooo damn hot for me 6. i have a cat named Diamond (i didn't think i was getting a CAT for Xmas!! LOL ) 7.I'm an aquarius but don't believe in astrology 8. i do not own a car or a drivers licence........yet? 9.I love scrabble 10. I feel like a chameleon alot because no one can figure out my ethnicity and ppl from everywhere come up to me speaking their languages and expecting me to know what they are saying :-D i love getting to know you all a lil bit better by the way xoxo