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One of the distinguishing features of cerb is that members here have tended to treat each other with respect, whether sp's or hobbyists/punters. This makes cerb very different from other boards, where people routinely get slammed for their posts, and vile things are often said to and about each other. I have really enjoyed cerb since joining over a year ago, and I've been able to share the enjoyment of new and exciting sexual and personal experiences with like-minded people. I've learned so much since I was newbie here, thanks to the more experienced members, and I've been happy to make whatever contributions I could. So now it's really distressing to hear that valued and respected senior members are being slandered and maliciously talked about, to the point where they're considering leaving cerb. This would be a huge loss for all of us, not only to lose their insights and their presence here, but because it seems to mean a slide into nastiness and pettiness that have been alien to the cerb spirit. Let's get that spirit back, and not start 2010 on a negative note. Let's remember the advantages of this board, and not forfeit them. We'd all be the poorer if cerb deteriorated.

My neighbour is an old guy who is in his 90's. he still drives and lives alone. today he was stuck in his driveway. his van was hung up, pretty bad. one thing that he really does not like is that people the help him. so after about two hours, I sent my worker who was doing homcare with me at the time. even he could not get the van out. I felt so bad that i could not help him. there were even people driving by and they would not stop. Finally, I phoned a guy that I knew. He came over and eventally got my neighbour out. the poor guy looked very tired because he was doing shovelling. All is well with him now. next time you see a person in need, please help.

Firstly there is an entire section dedicated to people new to the business located on the main page of Cerb. Here is the link to the section and threads in question. Secondly the best way to answer a question like this is "How would I treat my spouse, girlfriend, etc." You treat the ladies you are seeing with the exact same amount of respect as you would you spouse!

I am not sure if this is related (yet) but I just posted this on Emma's thread as well. Rumors and problems and this time no one has said anything to me? Odd... Well if this is taking place you can all help. If you receive a PM here on cerb click the "REPORT THIS POST" (Yes, You can REPORT pm's to me as well - I can NOT read your PM's unless you do this and even if I could I would not - they are private! But if they are being abused by someone you can report them to me and I will resolve the issues) We will REMOVE anyone who likes to spread rumors or can not act like a adult here (New or long time member!). This is not highschool and if I feel we have some people who can not grasp that... you get the boot! (and since I have size 13 feet... it's a BIG BOOT) We did this last year with the removal of a number of members (including one particular SP and one long term member who was a chat mod) who could not help themselves and felt gossip was what this site was for. I will do it again as it makes us better every time we remove the bad apples. Ladies: Spreading rumors about other ladies WILL NOT be tolerated we know some ladies do this to make themselves look better and some even thing this is a good way to knock out the competition. If you are caught doing this on cerb (even in a PM or private chat room) you will get the boot. This is unethical and slanderous in most cases! Guy's if you gossip to other SP's about another SP you too will be excused from the site if it is brought to my attention.

I like dr evil, prefer a shaved kitty kat. Landing strips are cool, also the shave little hearts, big in the eighties. Bring on the bigglesworth.