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I was always under the impression that you never mention you have seen a gent, unless you're sure he's okay with it. The only gentlemen I would mention having seen are those who have written a recommendation for me, or otherwise mentioned they have seen me. Am I wrong in thinking this? I've noticed quite a bit in chat that providers will proclaim to the room "Hey Hobbiest246, it was great meeting you yesterday!" I can think of quite a few reasons why a gent may not appreciate this: -He may have inquired with a few different ladies, and booked with the one he preferred. The other ladies may be annoyed/offended when they realize he didn't choose to see them after inquiring and booked with another lady. -He may have a regular provider (or two) and want to keep who else he sees private. -Some people prefer to keep their activities private (even if it's just attached to their CERB handle). Anyway, just some thoughts! I'd be curious to know what others think because I realize I by no means dictate CERB etiquette. Megan

Nothing is new... and I am aware that there are cultures in which this has been done since the beginning of time. That was not the point of my post. My point was simply that arguing that whether a woman shaves or not is a reflection of how much she cares for her body is insulting. Let's accept it for what it is - a personal preference. And more importantly, let's create a space (on CERB and anywhere else) where women feel free to do with their bodies as they wish without feeling they are being judged.

I suppose if I worked under the thumb of pimp for years, I might feel the same way as them. But that is just one aspect of this business. There is a myth that women cannot be empowered and be sex workers. I chose to be a sex worker and no one tells me how to work, when to work or who to see or how much to charge and I don't have to give my money to a pimp. Forced labour is not limited to the sex trade. There are other industries where people who have ended up in lower power positions are forced to work long hours for low pay and little appreciation and even abuse. Some of them are trafficked, some are not. So it's a problem that does not begin and end with the sex trade. But it is a real problem that still needs to be addressed, but not at the expense of others who are doing this type of work by choice and are comfortable with doing so.

I was wondering how long it would take before somebody posted something along these lines. Let's be clear folks - this is a choice, and an one that ought to be based solely on PERSONAL preference. It is completely ridiculous (and offensive to those who do not shave) to say that shaving is an indication of "caring" for one's body... Pubic hair actually serves a purpose - it protects the vagina from bacteria and other impurities, and it also keeps things cooler down there (by creating some breathing room and wicking moisture away)... So, in fact, it can be (and is often) argued that in terms of sanitation, comfort, and freshness, public hair is helpful. But in the end, the only thing that matters is how a woman feels... about herself and her body. It's unfortunate that in our culture, women feel so obliged to keep up with the ever-changing male-imposed standards of what is right and what is wrong. Let's not forget that in our culture, removing all pubic hair is a relatively new phenomenon. I guess women just didn't care about their bodies until the 1990s... ridiculous. I was taking to a friend of mine who does Brazilians. She always asks the girls, in conversation, why they are doing it. She told me that about 75% say its because it's what their partners want. Only 25% tell her it's because they like it better. I am not saying that women shouldn't do it, or that for some, it really is a preference. But when people say things in forums like this that it is a sign of caring for their bodies, it sends the message to all of the women that this is the only acceptable standard. And before I get slammed for this post - I actually really enjoy a nice smoothie. That being said, I'd prefer to be with a woman who doesn't shave and loves her kitty than one who does reluctantly. OK. Rant over. Time for some coffee.

Just because the ferris wheel is out of order, ya don't close down the whole amusement park, right?

After taking some me time and reading through this months Chatelaine (I bought it for the cupcake ideas) this article really made me think, it also brought tears to my eyes. After reading the article....Would you risk your life for a friend? http://www.chatelaine.com/en/article/23093--would-you-risk-your-life-for-a-friend

After denying this and all this time and effort she put into this account we finally confirm that this was indeed Tracy Gold! Now all of you who had seen Tracy and Met her again as Loralee Reach you all did a HUGE injustice to the site by not reporting this until now!! Finally someone came forth and let us know the truth. Loralee Reach has been BANNED from cerb (AGAIN) as this is Tracy Gold Guess she regrets freaking out in public here and causing the giant multi thread headache she caused when she was banned (The second time when she was given her first SECOND chance) She was on pretty good behavior with this account compared to last time (Only 4 infractions and 3 warnings before being banned this time) She obviously does not like the rules here and tried to fool me and most of you. She is NOT welcome on this site so if you see her try to sneak back in again under a new name and IP like she did with this account please let me know!

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I think this is a matter of choice, many ladies offer reduced service as a matter of course, and men choose to accept this. So long as the lady is passionate, willing to explore and allow exploring, excluding of course the FS option and other services around that part of the body, this is fine. And of course, make sure it is well known up front what is excluded. The issue may be, is this priced differently or not. That is the choice of the lady, but if the service is less, the price might be too. While I realize the women say you are paying for my time in many cases, in the end, that is not what most men are really paying for, let's not kid ourselves. Have a good one.

I believe that if you notice a lady in public (strip club or elsewhere) you should not introduce yourself. Privacy and discretion is imperative. What if she's at the club with a boyfriend who doesn't know she escorts? What if she's with her girlfriends who don't know? Play it safe and respect her privacy. The same goes for SP's who meet clients in public. Posted via Mobile Device

I for one would prefer that the lady I have the privilege of sharing company with (for any reason), was feeling 100% and our interaction was sincere and genuine. That she was perhaps not wondering in the back of her mind how long she may have to pretend-smile, especially if she's feeling uncomfortable or a little sick. I think that if someone really wants to enjoy the company of that particular lady, they should have no problem waiting a few days. I doubt most guys would cherish the idea of seeing a lady after taking a soccer ball to the "manhood" so badly they were feeling nautious. Maybe that's just me.