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CERB to me is a place to go to and have fun with friends, it a personal space for me and a place I am coming to cherish. Having said that, I want to say a couple of things and hopefully open some windows... a bit. Government - After 7 years & 4 elections (2 of which were unnessary at $300 million each) , we need some healing time in this country in my humble view. Let's slow down a & lick our collective wounds & reflect a bit and most importantly count our blessings. We've got a country and living space that is literally the envy of the world. Make no mistake, I'm not a fan of the initial moves of our new leader & his team has made, but all of us are responsible for the political system unto which his government has been elected. We have to live by our collective decision for the next 4 years, at least. We've got one hell of a good place to live, prosper and grow - some would say "the envy of the world" - let's not forget that. I've have had the blessing of travelling throughout many parts of the world over a long period of time. One of the biggest lessons I've learned throuhout those travels is that Canada is argueably the best place in the world to "come home to" Now, have to check out the best bums.....forgive me for ranting Musings from guy who has a few miles under his belt.... G11

If you have been watching movies as much as I do (Mon to Fri evenings), then you must have a few most favorite actresses that you enjoy watching the movie because of them. So who are they???. These are mine: Jessica Pare: Milla Jovovich: Kate Beckinsale: Brooke Burns: Liv Tyler: Kari Wuhrer: Emily Blunt: Jennifer Connelly: Audrey Tautou: Neve Campbell:

So, it is known that we are all here on cerb temporary, some long term but still not eternally. However, it has previously been discussed how someone's sudden absence affects some of us, especially the ones that were 'close' or constantly communicated with that member or even often read his posts if he/she was an active member. Is very understandable and expected that sooner or later for whatever reason (hopefully a positive one) most of us will move on but in most cases the person just disappears on us. I personally in this past week through posts or from my profile noticed that two members on my friends list have become ***** (account no longer active.) And now I'm wondering what happened to them :confused0024: This is not a complaint but I believe same way (some) rely on cerbites to learn about the industry, share things that for some reason they can't tell others, ask for advice, etc. they should let us know when they are ready to leave and say good bye to us and prevent us from worrying about them, yes I and know others have, especially when the account was not even closed. I more than ever am thankful to those ones that obviously can't read this but took the time to let us know they were leaving cerb and said good bye. *Sigh* Good evening all!

I just love a good summer storm. The impending doom of the distant thunder rumbling, mumbling, grumbling boom-boom-boom- a silence ....and then BOOM! A giant steps through the valley searching just for you. My imagination flies when I gaze in wonder at the bruised sky. Green, black, blue swirling and gathering overhead. Cotton ball clouds. I pause to admire the art. How long dare I linger? How bad will this be? Bad but harmless, I hope. The breeze dies a quickened, fleeting death and the oppressive heat sinks in. Silence seems to creep along the streets like a shadow; visiting each house and building. Stalking all as a deadly plague there is no escape. Colour disappears and is replaced by strange light. My heightened senses smell the air and the detail of the leafs in the trees leap to my eyes. I welcome the pending violence as much as my courage will allow. I know nothing of the adventure that awaits, but I trust my home to protect me. Foolish boy. Pardon my poetic approach - I love storms. I've been in some pretty violent hurricanes and tornado conditions, whiteout snow and of course the Ottawa Ice Storm. So what brave tales do you have?

1 oz of orange vodka 1 oz of peach shnapps 3oz pineapple juice 3oz of cranberry juice. shake with ice and strain into a large martini glass Remove panties. :)

I have an auto reply on my email and if you email between 7am & 3pm you will get a reply within a couple hours of your initial email. Anything received after that time will be replied to within 24hrs. if you pm me you will be directed to email as that is my preferred communication. I personally think that unless you are away or taking time off 24hrs is more than enough time to respond.

GFE eh? I've purposely been lurking this thread since it started. I was waiting to see what others would say, and now I think I see where the confusion lies. If I may? terminology seems to be an issue in the sex trade industry because there is no set AGREED terms by both SP's and Hobbiests. In refection of this tread alone is seems that SP's and hobbiest have different meanings to the same abbreviations. The first time someone had asked me if DATY I asked for the meaning, dining at the Y. why don't we all be big girls and boys and use the proper terminology cunnilingus? I know I do now, because we have created this "gray area" of terminology and language that prevents us from clearly communicating with each other in a truthful way. Now don't get me wrong I am not saying that anyone is being purposefully deceiving, just that it appears that the symbolism of the acronyms and expectations of such are too open to interpretation. But thank you for this, when I re-launch my new add and digs I will be sure to make my postings, website, and conversations VERY clear. One last thing...................... SUGAR KANE!!!!!!!............ ty for the comments about safe sex being so important. I am happy when a client asks a skin to mouth contact fellatio act (bbbj, for those stuck on acronyms) and then they don't book because that's not the services I offer; it saves me from telling them that I do not wish to book with them. My health, safety, and FULL happy life is and always has been the most important thing to me and even $20,000 per hour wouldn't make me risk that. Even in my personal life I would never participate un-protected acts until we both at the same time got our STD, HIV test together. So I guess that's the gray area we created.................. I would never have un-safe sex without proof that my partner was clean.......... meanwhile I know that this is not the way that most couples transition into uncovered sex acts.............. so how can we have a CLEAR understanding of what a GFE "should" be? THe people who have booked with me before know that I am a good time. I'll go out for dinner, nice walks, hike you out to a beautiful picnic and make love to you the forest................... or maybe I'll make you beg me to let you please me as I tease you into a sexual frenzy ;) But they also know that a few hours with me won't cost them a lifetime of illness Peace and love Kizzez Madison

Sometimes it is difficult to reconcile biological urges with social institutions.

Fair enough Phaedrus. This being strictly a recommendation board, how can we alert the other guys if a particular MA should be avoided. Short of being a bait-and-switch scam that can be reported in the appropriate section, there's really no way that I can tell. Sending PMs only works once the discussion has been initiated. Oh well, best to stick to MAs that have received positive reviews!

RG, let me try to understand the above... GFE is more then services offered, it's also an attitude BUT PSE is only "services off a menu"??? Would you care explaining that one to me? I know that some GFE ladies (I'm excluding myself in this one) will accept outcall rendez-vous at "no tell motels"... Does that make them less GFE in your books or do you think it has to do with a poor BFE (boy friend experience)? ;) RG, I have to comment on this one... I'm a total GFE companion, both in attitude including acronyms (ldk, dfk, bj, daty, hj, covered fs, msog, sensual erotic massages) and I go out regurlarly on dinner dates with my gentlemen. Now, I do not advertise as PSE because PSE also includes some acronyms I'm not comfortable providing (cim and greek) but I do not lack one ounce of the PSE attitude once I am alone with my gentleman and will also partake in other PSE pleasures like foot fetishes, cob, light domination, etc... So it is possible for a lady to be both GFE and PSE or simply PSE without having to "order off a menu". PSE is also an "attitude" just like GFE is! Side note: Some PSE ladies will charge more for certain activities such as GREEK but I have seen safe GFE ladies become "unsafe" and advertise BBBJ for extra too. What would we call that? A service off a "menu"?

Frankly, if all guys are just looking for is a list of services off a menu, wouldn't they be further ahead to go for a PSE I still maintain a GFE has to be more than services off a menu Or if it's just services, would, hypothetically speaking now, since it's not legal, going to a street corner, getting all the services you want from a woman, and doing it in the backseat of a car or the no tell motel qualify as a GFE...don't think so. And I'm not endorsing this practice first and formost because it isn't legal, it was a hypothetical argument As for a GFE being more than a menu of services, it being a social/interpersonal encounter which includes sex, how many SP's offer overnight dates, 4-5 hour dates which include dinner out etc etc etc...unless your planning to do on the table at the restaurant, it is more than just sex If just a menu your looking for, maybe PSE is more to your liking RG

Glad I missed that as well. On another note, when you ask a lady to go on cam and we refuse do not beg or ask us a second time after she said no the first! We do not go to private chat for these things. The ladies do go on from time to time but at our own leisure, discretion, with class and not to stimulate your???? Chat is not a cam show!

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All very nice suggestions. Okay I do it for you Monica Bellucci: Jennifer Connelly is my favorite too and a picture already included in the OP, but as pretty as she is, a second picture would be nice too. And this is for OutForFun and Maverick: Many thanks both. Great favorites: Natalie Portman: Mila Kunis: Emma Roberts: