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I am sorry if these seems a little impersonal. However I am going to be offline for the next little while. I always love to send all of my friends warm wishes on the holidays. So this begin the case, I came up with an idea to send holiday wishes, plus a little bonus! I hope you all particapte in it. This thread is for everyone to send Thanksgiving wishes, along with, what exactly in your life you are thankful for! I feel I am very fortunate in life. That I have many things to be thankful for. I am thankful for begin blessed with a wonderful family. Many kind friends and just to be alive! I think it is very important to realise these things. Even on your worst days, you sometimes need to stop and think, " It could be a lot worse". Happy Thanksgiving to every individual who takes the time to read this. May you get to spend this weekend with those you love and cherish.

Today, October 6, is National Depression Screening Day. If you want to screen yourself go to http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/10/06/national-depression-screening-day-is-today/ and take their 8- or 16-question test. Some thoughts: Depression is part of my day to day life. It has been since my early teens. It was "manageable", if you consider turning your back on it and pretending it didn't exist a management technique, until the mid-1990s. About that time the black dogs moved in and almost took over my life. I had the good fortune at that time to have a GP who was paying attention. He referred me to a kind, compassionate shrink. Together, we came up with a way for me to continue. The black dogs are still there. They sit beside me most days. But most of the time, most days, I can see past them to a brighter place. So go take the test. If you come up with something, talk to someone. Don't let the dark dogs win. Posted via Mobile Device

Carley how appropriate this thread is and I am sure not only for me but for many of us. I know that I have had a lot of down periods since last Thanksgiving, and it is friends and family that have brought me back, time and time again. One of the best things for me is to remind myself or to be reminded of what I had and what I have to be thankful for. A marriage that was made in heaven with incredible happy remembrances. A grown family that has become even closer since last Thanksgiving. True friends who have refused to let me become a loner despite my inclination to become one. Cerb men and women who have done the same for me and supported me with compasson and empathy, way outside of the bounds of Cerb itself.. I have met amazing people here who have persevered through their own tough times and have come out with such positive outlooks and live their lives now with vitality and enthusiasm. An incentive for me to know that attitude can and does influence what we are and who we will become. I sometimes am a slow learner. So thank you Carley for this reminder as I am truly thankful for so many things. May you all be as fortunate as I. Happy Thanksgiving :)

Nice to see that this thread has returned to civility, it was in danger of becoming a joke way too quickly... I would also like to point out that any SP who agrees to your request will likely have some additional security concerns, because she's putting herself in a more vulnerable position (no pun intended) than she usually might. So, if she ends up asking a lot of questions, don't be surprised - she's just trying to avoid getting gang-raped. If you're willing to be patient, it might be best if you saw her solo first, just to establish a bit of trust, and you can discuss the details of the three-way after she has an idea of how comfortable she is with you. She'll likely be a lot more willing to do this if she already knows you from a prior get-together, and even more so if she knows you're not abusive or too aggressive; after all, when men get horny, they sometimes push too hard, and might be inclined to be even more aggressive when there's another man in the room. Just be sure to take the SPs concerns into account when setting this up, you'll have a lot more fun if she's not concerned for her safety. For my part, I don't think I'd ever agree to see two brand-new clients at the same time; too many things could go wrong, and unless I know the guys pretty well, it could be anywhere from awkward to dangerous. On the other hand, one of the reasons I love doing duos is because other female SPs can enjoy certain things that are normally reserved for MMF threesomes; a MFT three-way has so many unique possibilities! ;)

I had a few dances with Vlaska today in the CR and she is awesome. It was her first time dancing for a woman (outside of a couple) so we giggled together for a while. Great presentation, great dancer, very charming. I wouldn't hesitate to get more dances with her next time I see her. :)

I trace a line down from your navel, careful to stop short of my next journey. My tongue once again follows that line, your hips rise. Reaching up your inner thigh, lightly drawing the tips of my fingers towards your groin, moving along the edge of your panties up to your hip, I follow across, slipping my finger under the band until I touch your other hip. This time as I draw my fingers down your groin I brush against your lips, just enough, but don't stop there. I lick along that same path, pulling at the lace with my teeth on one side, hooking my fingers on the other side, slowly pulling your panties down, careful not to touch you. Holding your panties I run them between your legs, drag them across your body, the cool shear fabric causing your nipples to strain more as they respond to the satin touch. And now I start, lowering myself into position, my tongue licks each side of your pussy lips. You spread your legs, allowing for more access, pleasure growing. Moans tell me my efforts are appreciated. Up one side down the other, tongue reaching, settling for a moment so close to your ass, a quick stab and then a repeat. Nibbling the soft tissue that protects your most sensitive parts. My fingers join in, lightly brushing over the top of your mound. Gently I part your lips, nudging ever so slightly my nose against your clit. I lap the juices lying between your outer and inner lips, both slides, slowly, ensuring every drop has been tasted. Once agian you raise your hips, arching your back pushing yourself at me, wanting me to finally attack your clit. I reach under you with my hands, hold you up, slide down and find your ass with my tongue as I spread you open and reach my target. A quick probe causes you to pull back slightly, then you relax, I come back for more. The nerves around your anus cause it to spasm with each probe and lick. You gyrate up and down on my tongue as I cover you with licks, gentle bites and kisses. You pull your knees to your chest affording me full opportunity to devour you, the energy building, both of our hearts pounding, our bodies flush and warm. Your pussy is dripping, I lick upward, I lick again, moving higher with each taste of your juices, moving past your entrance, but stopping first to reach inward wanting to feel inside your pussy with my tongue. My nose once again brushes your clit as I move up. Once, twice, three times my tongue laps at your clit. With my thumb on the top of the skin that covers your clit I pull back, the hood uncovering and exposing your blood filled and swollen button. Now I drag the flat of my tongue up across the entire area exposed. When I reach the fold of skin, I come back down with the bottom of my tongue. I repeat this, slow, then fast, soft then hard. Each time I come back down, my tongue settles deep into your pussy and the tempo heats up. Next my mouth seals the area around your clit, both of my hands have pulled back your lips firmly leaving your clit protruding and erect. With the area sealed I suck, just enough to help the blood rush to your clit, and while this seal is applied my tongue feverishly laps, sensing your clit enlarging, filling with blood, nerve endings totally exposed. You feel it, a rush through your body, converging on your clit, each lick bringing it closer, faster until the juices flow freely from your pussy and finally everything erupts, your orgasm causes you to hold your breath and convulse as the passion explodes from within. I kiss around your groin, in appreciation of your pleasure, softly, slowly as your passion subsides, but your sensitivity still at unbelievable level. Your face is flushed with sexual satisfaction, your heart is racing, you lay back, it is quiet, we savour the moment of bliss. Soft candle light flickers across your body. A warm glow is cast upon your beauty. Finally silence is broken, a demand is made, and once again I strive to meet your insatiable desire and lust.

The safety issues trumps all! Much as i like the flirting and would love to continue I can manage without it too, at least via this medium. I think it a testament to the "knowledge of the commons" that by keeping calm, expressing our honest opinions and listening, MOD may have a solution that balances these views. Yay 100!! CB

Pre-wrapped sausage... isn't that a prerequisite here?

RG is one of the classiest voices of reason. That factor outweighs some of the bad jokes. :) And he is going to come tuna fishing in PEI one day I am sure!

Yes, with family...OMG, did I remember to clean the closet in the guestroom??? LOL (overbearing mother!)

Pretty simple. For the sunrise and sunset that I enjoy daily and for each and every single breath I take. Life is good!!!! Peace MG

I'm thankful for each and every day...I've been through a lot this year...learning experiences for sure. I'm especially thankful for the doctors finally finding out what was wrong with my son...the unknown is always scary and worrisome.. I'm thankful for my friends and family and the special people I've met on CERB...and my friend that sends me a note at least once a wee to see how im doing...{thank you}..and I thankful for the fall...I love this time of year...now I can go crunch some leaves...I rolled in them while apple picking but no one would join...party poopers..lol Happy thanksgiving everyone! hugs, Emma

Can't wait to get those hugs in person! :-)

The big "omniprescence upstairs" gave us 2 ears and one mouth to work with down here. Having said that I try to listen to the ladies preferred method of contact. If PM is her preference, I enthusiatically respond. If however (& a lot of cases it is), PM is not the preferred contact venue (text, her own site, phone or whatever), I try to follow her wishes to the "T", (references, requested honest info, phone numbers as required). Musings from a lazy guy. G11

Hey daroot, Sage advice in this thread so far my friend, my own humble thoughts include: - Enclosing your donation in a very nice thank you envelope with personally annotated card (unsealed) - Be on time, not early, not late (5 mins either side) - As was said many times in the thread, be gentleman in all respects, it will warm you inside, make your lady feel special, and at the end of the day make you both feel fantastic and wanting to enjoy each others' company again - If you're so inclined, and I do think the ladies appreciate you asking, ask their thoughts about you writing a recommendation about the experience. If you do indicate that a recco will happen - follow through on it! - Truly enjoy the nervous energy, it is spectactular and ensure that it gets engraved in your sexual soul. The ladies are so warm, empathetic and engaging on this site, but most relevant to you, they truly take care of the new hobbyists in a very special and welcoming manner. Musings from a senior guy who enjoys this hobby either way too much or not enough. G11

I like AngelofOttawa for organizing these social mixer things which I hope to attend this December.

Aside from the personal hygiene stuff already mentioned, you can always message the SP directly and ask her if there's anything specific you can do to make the date more comfortable for her. She'll probably say nothing, which should help you realize that you have nothing to worry about. Also, tell her it's your first time with an SP and so she'll know to really take the lead and guide you through everything.

If you don't have some degree of "nerves", you aren't normal! All the advice here is excellent. Remember they're ladies, each and every one CB

Relax and enjoy..we ladies are used to first timers and know what to do..we were there once ourselves too..no need to be nervous but it is endearing..just be yourself and have fun.

Smile and be friendly and respectful. Hug and kiss but assess and adjust as how intimate to get and yes buying a small gift like a (red) box of chocolate would go a long way to break the ice at the beginning of the date (and yes see it as a date not paid encounter and it would be much more enjoyable by both sides) followed by lots of hugs and kisses. Flowers do good too but they are not as sweet as chocolate

BE yourself. You have established a rapport based on who you are, not who you want to be. Marvel at the experience. You are about to see one of the most wonderful people you will ever meet. She will treat you well... do the same. Write a recommendation. There's not a lot of people that you can tell... but you can tell us. Be ON TIME, COURTEOUS and A GENTLEMAN. ENJOY!

May I most respectfully suggest you give a bit more thought to your request in as much as, so far, you've stated that the most common price strategy is unacceptable and you have shown that you would like to haggle prices. So far as my experience goes you have thus far taken 95% of the SPs out of consideration. Good luck with that. Sent from my BlackBerry 9780 using Tapatalk

eh ? 2 guys 2x$. that's just basic math.

I would say its pretty much true for alot of clients.. They just dont like to share... She has alot of regulars, so for sure theres no issue with her AT ALL. That said, a general comment is members need to get more involved and review on a regular basis, its good for Cerb, and its good for the industry. Its also very good for the morale for all of the ladies. I am sure very few ladies don't appreciate a kind word. This line of work is very emotionally Taxing and sometimes a reco can really give someone a lift. Its a win-win situation... You help out your fellow Cerbites, and you encourage a lady you had a great time with.