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On a day when we see the tragedy of a small girl in China and the her treatment by apathetic passersby, my friend sent a link to this story out of Australia. There are GOOD people in this world... and there are few barriers that can't be overcome... watch the whole thing... and have a handful of Kleenex handy. Emmanuel Kelly - Imagine (his audition on Australia's X Factor) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W86jlvrG54o

At first, I wasn't going to comment on this but I feel like I have to. Where to start? First, let's be open and honest here: the gentlemen who have encountered these situations in the past most likely didn't deal with reputable ladies; a reputable lady would not do false advertising or post fake pictures and have a guy hidden in the closet to take your money in case you wanted to break the engagement for a legitimate reason(s). Ask yourself this: why the need for a guy in a closet in the first place? Because it was a scam from the start! If everyone did their homework and took the time to research the lady they wanted to spend time with before scheduling a rendez-vous these things would not be happening to them. Furthermore, if those gentlemen enjoy taking chances with someone from CL (or the likes) and absolutely have zero information on the said lady, well... (fill in the blank). TOFT can be great at times but it can also be risky! Up to you to decide which risks and situations you are willing to deal with. Note: I'm not saying that everyone who used to advertise on CL was a B&S or did false advertising and used fake pictures. My point is that those sites earned their reputation for a reason. I have no idea why you would assume that a lady who offers incalls as an option to their gentlemen would automatically be considered a high volume provider (Who says that the young lady who just visitied you at your home didn't just see 9 other gentlemen in the same day before you?) Some of us only indulged in quality over quantity and much prefer longer engagements over the short ones. Again, up to you to do your research to see who you are going to be meeting with. As far as cleanliness is concerned: I find it quite 'insulting' (for a lack of a better word) to see that our cleanliness standards might not be equal or as high (if not higher) as yours. For example, I entertain at my hotel suite when I travel and would never consider reusing the same bed linens if I were to see another gentleman on the same day. Do I change the whole bed? NO! I put a clean and fresh flat sheet on top of the duvet. Once my rendez-vous is over I take it off and put another clean one on top. I will also change the pillow cases, empty the garbage cans, clean the shower and toilet... Clean and fresh and unused bath towels will also be available... Sometime it is very difficult to not take something personal when so many misconceptions transpire within certain posts.

Thanks for posting the link, after the other story it is nice to see something on a much more feel good note. I still just wonder how anyone can walk by a bleeding toddler on the side of the road, it make me sick......

I had the pleasure to meet Michelle, and she was a gem, I agree, Erin. It was only once, but really memorable.

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She could be my highlight of the day :)

This one! Have to say, I cheated a bit 'cos I could see it in my head but I couldn't remember where the hell it was from, and it was driving me nuts. And having been born free... another Maiden classic Iron Maiden - Running Free

I like in's, I like to feel the warmth of being inside her place, makes you feel warm and fuzzy all over ;) you know like deep INside her wet and soft spot, nuff said ;)

I prefer hosting. As it gives me the chance to set the mood and the tone of the date. Also I feel more comfortable in my own environment. You never know what you could be walking into. As well as if I host I do not have to worry if I am over staying my welcome. As I do not like to feel as I am rushing out. Therefore if at my place, the ball is in my companies hand.

I can recommend, that you turn in by 8pm on your first evening, don't nap on the plane, avoid alcohol and walk on a treadmill for at least 30mins after you arrive. As well pick up spme melatonin. Take it 2 days prior to leaving at night before you go to bed and for the first 2-3 days of your trip.

Roasting and then sampling Prime Rib at my new job today! :D

Are you serious? This is not the way for an SP to run her business as she may face the possibility of other guys finding out. The only way would be to put him in the bad date list. If someone has done something that justifies being in there, then they have screwed themselves over in the future to see other reputable ladies as many of us know each other. It is one thing to suggest this but if you put yourself in that situation, I'm sure you'd be freaking out. Unless he has done something REALLY bad ( and I'm not justifying this guy's actions) but discretion is key and there are many other ways to screw over a guy who has jerked you around. It's called confronting him on the spot demanding to be paid for her time, karma will get him in time and being posted on the bad date list. Many of us ladies are not rats and we do not use blackmail tactics and leave personal lives out of a business transaction in the SP-client relationship. Rest assured, I would never out a guy to his wife. There are other ways to deal with it.

Happy BDay Cap Here's your birthday spanking girl.

I have quite a bit of experience with photography and photographing models, so I have a natural bias...but in this context what I like to see good photographs that are well lit, show the subject's features clearly, in various states of dress and undress. Fundamentally, a good photographer will identify and highlight the model's best features - and provide sound direction with regard to wardrobe as well.

I don't want to get into a nature vs nurture debate, but while I agree to some degree that part of it is biological, I think for the most part, how men feel about women, and the kind of relationships we are expected to see as normal, is completely socially constructed. But, if you're going to bring up examples from nature, let's look at the number of animals that are actually lifelong mates who stay sexually monogamous: only 3-5%! And actually, your biological theory doesn't really work since from an evolutionary standpoint, you want to spread your seed as much as possible. Instead, monogamy requires an individual to invest its entire reproductive potential on a single mate. Polyamory is actually more "natural" if you want to look at it from an evolutionary perspective. (I put natural in quotes because the whole concept of "natural" or "normal" sexual behaviour and relationships is entirely socially constructed).

I love it! And any scent that I get to take away with me, well that's better than getting a grab bag to take home from a birthday party!

When you finally discover, after watching the movie annually on B&W tube as a kid (scary monkees), that only Kansas is in black and white and Oz is in colour on those new fangled colour TV's. It was a whole new experience after that. And the monkees were still scary.