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Before I make a comment on the hotel topic just an observation for hotguy1967, Shelly is not visiting Ottawa but London. Ok now, we have seen threads like this before in fact there was one of them where the lady mentioned having taken one of the hotels suggested and confirmed being there at the moment she was posting. I think asking for hotels suggestions in the general section is alright as not all ladies have access to the SP area but IMO they should request for the responses to be via PM and believe those topics should be discussed privately as is not good for anyone to get hotels names out here as it may attract the wrong attention to those places mentioned constantly and guys who care for discretion and have concerns over this would not likely visit a lady working from any of the places mentioned which could even affect other ladies business. Not trying to impose anything here just giving my point on view on something the OP probably did not realize when decided to post.

I think on the sexy meter I completely agree with you, I will have a more comprehensive review after my marathon but I should say that I am a little sweet on Pierce. Having grown up in the '80's-'90s like Maverick said, may be to blame. Only now after having grown up can I admit that I never really gave the older Bonds a chance, I had a negative bias growing up that forced me to disapprove of anything my father enjoyed- older Bond and John Le Carré films being at the forefront of this bias... Sorry Oldblueeyes, I think you could use a better word than "gayest". I wonder if he is so attractive that you feel he might be the one Bond that would turn you- hence, your usage of the word, lol! Not to get all PC on you, but really, was there not another word in your vocabulary to use there? On a side note, I find gay men incredibly hot, so I find your comment not only complimentary (IMO, because gay men are hot), but also offensive by the negative connotations your comment has on being gay. I'll be back with a better take on Bond (... James Bond :icon_razz:) after my marathon, and hopefully after seeing the movies I am missing too! Bethany Xoxox

Sorry to hear about your situation, Soleil. I'm sure some of the SP's might have better solutions, but I would recommend blocking his phone number (you can usually do this with your phone company) and ending all contact with him. If there is any chance he would know your security code, it is a good idea to change that as well. I would imagine that the likelihood of him going to law enforcement at this point would be fairly low, especially since he would be implicating himself, and he has no actual evidence of anything. Hopefully, cutting off all communication with him will stop the problem. If not, Samantha Evans posted about her experience with a former client here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=66258 which may be useful. Stay safe!

At first, I wasn't going to comment on this but I feel like I have to. Where to start? First, let's be open and honest here: the gentlemen who have encountered these situations in the past most likely didn't deal with reputable ladies; a reputable lady would not do false advertising or post fake pictures and have a guy hidden in the closet to take your money in case you wanted to break the engagement for a legitimate reason(s). Ask yourself this: why the need for a guy in a closet in the first place? Because it was a scam from the start! If everyone did their homework and took the time to research the lady they wanted to spend time with before scheduling a rendez-vous these things would not be happening to them. Furthermore, if those gentlemen enjoy taking chances with someone from CL (or the likes) and absolutely have zero information on the said lady, well... (fill in the blank). TOFT can be great at times but it can also be risky! Up to you to decide which risks and situations you are willing to deal with. Note: I'm not saying that everyone who used to advertise on CL was a B&S or did false advertising and used fake pictures. My point is that those sites earned their reputation for a reason. I have no idea why you would assume that a lady who offers incalls as an option to their gentlemen would automatically be considered a high volume provider (Who says that the young lady who just visitied you at your home didn't just see 9 other gentlemen in the same day before you?) Some of us only indulged in quality over quantity and much prefer longer engagements over the short ones. Again, up to you to do your research to see who you are going to be meeting with. As far as cleanliness is concerned: I find it quite 'insulting' (for a lack of a better word) to see that our cleanliness standards might not be equal or as high (if not higher) as yours. For example, I entertain at my hotel suite when I travel and would never consider reusing the same bed linens if I were to see another gentleman on the same day. Do I change the whole bed? NO! I put a clean and fresh flat sheet on top of the duvet. Once my rendez-vous is over I take it off and put another clean one on top. I will also change the pillow cases, empty the garbage cans, clean the shower and toilet... Clean and fresh and unused bath towels will also be available... Sometime it is very difficult to not take something personal when so many misconceptions transpire within certain posts.

To take Annessa's idea to the next level, say it's your boyfriend's/husband's dungeon. And he's been dying to experiment...however he is dominant, and would like a male partner to be a sub. And your SO likes it rough You just like watching. Also tell him the dungeon is soundproof Seriously my advice, to be taken in addition to advice already given Keep a record of all communications/contacts (phone calls, trying to visit etc) he makes to you Clearly tell him his calls are unwelcome and if not stopped, you will report him. And in his line of work, he may be bonded, this may deter him Call block a good idea. He may get the message with that, but if not, he could just call from another phone,. If it should come to it though, get an unlisted number Tell the phone company you are being stalked, they will change your number for free (they did for me) Definitely change your security code as has been recommended earlier Not to sound paranoid here, but you might want to get (another ) security company to do a check of your premises, to make sure this guy didn't leave mini cameras, microphones etc there. Working in the security field who knows what he might have access to. If continued, call his company and report him. Who knows who else he does this to. Probably at this point call the police too, they may just give him a chat, a few words of discouragement. Just a few ideas to compliment those already given Good luck Hope everything works out RG

Or when Harveys actually charbroiled their burgers. My friend used to work there and he told me it took them almost an hour every night to clean the grill. But boy they sure tasted much better!

Yours are perfect!!!!!!!!!!!

Sean Connery is the best Bond. My personal favourite Bond movies: From Russia With Love Goldfinger

I think it's a double blind. He either knows or suspects your profession; in fact he could be a member here and recognizes you from photos. It may be that he didn't snoop, he may have just put two and two together and said, "Hey, I recognize that pretty lady, she is Soleil from CERB. She is smoking hot, I would like to have intimate time with her." On the other hand, you have his home phone number and his work phone number. You know who he is and what he does; moreover, you also know exactly where he works and for whom. You have a great deal more information in your hands than you would for your average client. If knowledge is power, then you have power. Oh yeah... you also have his offer that he would do extra work off the clock... what employer would be happy with that? If the answer is no, you have several options, but my personal favourite would be, "Thank you for your offer Mr. Singh, but I would rather keep the nature of our relationship professional. I appreciate your interest but would also like to maintain my relationship with ABC123 Security in good standing."

Well, as there was a report of Craig misbehaving in a gay bar in the States somewhere, and as I can recall no such story regarding other Bond actors, I stand by my assertion that he's the 'most-likey-to-be-gay/most-likely-to-have-a-gay-following/most-likely-to-wax-his-body/most-likely-to-pout-like-a-little-girl' Bond ever. I believe he has a large gay following too, so that adds to the factor. :) I'm not too intimidated by any Bond actually; I'd make a good one myself! :) Craig is a good-looking man, I can easily admit that, and has great blue eyes, but would I want him massaging my prostate rather than a hot dame, hmmmmm, I think not. :) Actually, in an attempt to reconcile with Cristy, as she is one of the hottest ladies in Metro, I genuinely agree, Craig did a great job as Bond and I really liked his movies. I hope that gets me off her ****list! :) And, to appease Bethany, as she has a hell of an avatar, I will replace my wording. I shall remove myself to the library and sip my red.

Both. Clitoris is the best way to make me cum but after 2 or 3 times I become overly sensitive and don't let people touch me... G-spot...omg does it feel ever good. I prefer orgasms from there as they are WAY more intense and "earth-shattering" then g-spot, but not that many people know how to actually work the g-spot properly... and squirting is messy as hell but you also forgot to included other place from where a woman can cum;)

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Hello REWPG, Welcome to cerb. First of all you're question is EXACTLY why this board is useful and it's not out of line at all. CERB is pretty open but they don't tolerate negative reviews of SP's publicly but members are allowed to share their own experiences with each other using the PM feature. If you're new to this hobby this is exactly the kind of post to stay away from, there is no real info here at all, not even a phone number. Anyone could have posted this so you contact at your own risk. Most of the best SP's advertise on EC and on CERB but BP has a growing following and many professionals advertise on all three. BP is very cheap to advertise on which is probably why it's popular and its unregulated so anyone can do it. EC is more pricey so you find less issues the SP's there and it's a very popular website for hobbyists, especially amongst those who don't want to sign up for a membership on one if the boards. If you need any recommendations just send a shout out and the guys here are great, you'll get some good leads. Keep posting, ask questions, and have fun while you do it. WR

I'd like to take this opportunity to be a good samaritan and volunteer. By the way, does anyone know where I can get a clown costume?

I prefer hosting. As it gives me the chance to set the mood and the tone of the date. Also I feel more comfortable in my own environment. You never know what you could be walking into. As well as if I host I do not have to worry if I am over staying my welcome. As I do not like to feel as I am rushing out. Therefore if at my place, the ball is in my companies hand.

I prefer outcalls, I guess because I enjoy being the host. I like getting a nice hotel room, get it ready (wine chilling etc), then as it get closer to the scheduled time, heart thumping, waiting for the knock on the door. But that is just personal preference, the most important is the lady I'm going to meet. RG

I agree... I much prefer outcalls since they are 100% legal. I tend to shy away from incalls for this reason, (the legality aspect) - even if it's a lady I really want to see. Hopefully, the SPs that visit Halifax from away will consider this, as providing "incalls only" may limit the amount of bookings they get.