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Hello Ladies and Gents.... Just a friendly reminder that if you are sick - keep it to yourself! 'Tis the season and all that for coughs and colds. I have seen a couple of fellas who mid way through our date showed symptoms of having a cold. I notice when you sniff sniff.....it's sort of hard to hide. Lol I know you want to have a sexy party....but maybe just have a solo one before seeing a lady....k?

We all have things that make us cringe or make us scream in ecstasy when it comes to sexual encounters. Briefly name one of each. I get turned off when daty is being performed and when I am moaning and telling you to keep going, you stop! I love being caressed ALL over. Touching my hair, face, body...sends chills up my spine.

I could not agree more Dorinda. And remember that it works both ways. If a SP or hobbyist feels those cold/flu symptoms approaching then be preventative and do not make appointments. Keep those pesky little microbes to yourself rather than pass them along to others. Stay healthy and play safe!

This one too??? and this one??? and this one??? or this one? what about this one???

You are advertising in Maritimes (Mainly Freddy) and there is no comparison with the number of ads compared to Ottawa. The impression I got (someone correct me if I am wrong), is we would do it only for Ottawa to start because of the number of ads and then follow suit in other cities if/when the need warranted it.

I'd like to describe a very funny instance of a 20 yr old I saw about 3 years ago. I was living in Toronto on the 14th floor.. He booked a 1/2 hr session and was dressed and out the door in under 10 min... and then called me from the parking lot outside to say he was hard again.. I laughed and invited him up for round two.. telling him as he left the 2nd time that he was welcome to stay and chat between rounds when he rebooked me. Younger guys... why begrudge them a 2nd shot on goal? They can't help it if they shoot first and ask questions later!

You obviously haven't looked into my eyes, sweetie! :bj:

http://dream-makers.ca/companions/charlize/ Charlize in Toronto :)

Traditionally, January 1st is the day Christmas comes down at my house. My tree is already at the curb. Reminder to anyone with a natural tree, the city is scheduled to pickup trees on your garbage day next week.

Is it just me or did she actually just make snot sound sexy???? ;-)

I more than admire Dorinda, for she is a beautiful and caring woman inside and out.

I do offer it on half and hour appts but it rarely happens unless something is acheived in the first 5-10 minutes and i am warned of this beforehand. When a guy asks me this prior to booking, I will say yes as long as it is within the half hour but I often find that they never end up going for a second round in 30 minutes. I can equate it to going to a restaurant wanting to know if there is an all you can eat buffet or more value for their money. And I don't mean this as a remark that could be considered insulting. I think with some men once they are comfortable in knowing that, perhaps they feel you won't have them out the door in 10-15 minutes. Or their eyes are bigger than stomach type thing.lol. But don't ask me at the 29th minute because it won't happen.lol. My guests always stay for the half hour unless they decide to leave early for whatever reason. In my experience, MSOG occurs more on one hour appts.

I adore Isabella because she has helped me sort some things out recently and she is a true friend. Someday I hope to be the friend to her that she is to me!

I admire Dorinda! :)

I've been reading and participating in another thread (Sex Basic Human Right,) and have also had discussions with some friends that have brought me to wonder: what would the ladies and gents here say is the importance or meaning of sex in their lives? It's one thing to say sex is good, and sex is a human right and that more sex is better than less sex, and it's another to explain why. What is sex to you? What does it mean? What does it do for you? What part of who you are is linked to who you are sexually in a way that it isn't to anything else or any other activity you do? (I may quote you (without attribution to protect the innocent) elsewhere in my blog because this is all part of the research for my master Machiavellian wonder opus. It's what us scribblers do, yo?) I'll start: I have varied and probably pretty dull intellectual interests, one of which is the way that people construct their notion of Self and their identity. Without getting into that, I keep coming back to the idea of sex as the most basic representation of true self; when we are having sex for the sake of sex, we are as close to knowing who we really are as we possibly can be. In sex, we are ourselves. In every other situation, we are more in control of the persona we want to project and our need to live according to the perceived expectations placed on us. I love sex because of the unspoken, unspeaking bond between myself and my partner. I enjoy the way certain touches, changes of position, light breaths and light licks are met with reactions that can be read and adjusted to. I can completely lose myself in the moment of absorption into someone else's sensation, where I can sense and feel a woman's reactions, mounting excitement, and the tension and anticipation building up to an intense release. I could spend happy hours repeating that whole cycle, because in those moments everything else about myself is stripped away, and what's left is the most basic essence of who I am as a person, if I can begin to understand it.

A very difficult question for a alot of reason but I would have to be honest and say I have really been looking for a way to word it myself for a while. I guess I should make an attempt at a reasoning. For me, it's two things, of course the physical release but moreso and more important the physical expression and several different feelings and emotions. The build-up or working your way to it is more about figuring out who you are and testing "your own boundaries" of physical expression and creativity. As Sara has so eloquently mentioned above, it truly "is" about what goes on prior to the actual act of penetration, it's the stimulation through touch, smell, sound, taste...that brings you to the point that is the actual "orgasm" of the mind. If my mind can't get itself off, then it simply doesn't matter if the rest of myself does. This is why some people although they may have the physical chemistry or wnat too so badly, simply can't get to where they want because the connection isn't there mentally so ...for myself, the connection has to be there in more ways than one. Perhaps it is putting some needless pressure on myself, but for me, I cannot have what you would refer to as "routine" sex as for myself there has to be something else with it. It the most talked about thing in the world because at some point, besdies eating, sleeping and breathing, it's pretty much the only thing every person does, it's just the circumstances and reasons around it that are different. Sex is about expressing who you are mentally through a physical act and obtaining a physical result by reaching the ultimate mental orgasm!

I like RG because he knows where his priorities lie ;)

Well slap me silly and call me Susan !!! I missed the erstwhile part ! or after 15 hours or so at work I couldn't wrap my head around what it meant :icon_rolleyes: Anyways thanks for not being Yankee GaGa and for posting quickly WIT .... I just had my big black marker out and was about to scratch your name out of my phonebook ;)

My favourite credit card is someone else's (them paying the bill), ha ha. Seriously, just prepaid ones for this girl.

In another thread discussing the genuineness (is that a word?) of the encounter, I mentioned that I thought that sex was a basic human right. Kubrickfan suggested I start this as a topic, so here we are! My reasoning behind the assertion that sex is (or should be) a human right is that on a very basic level, everyone requires touch and intimacy. Sex doesn't have to be something that is limited to marriage or relationships and it's not a bad thing if you like to fuck all the time (join the club!). It's an emotional and physical release. I know when I'm cranky, a good fuck will make it better. I tend to think the world would be less fucked up if certain people were getting laid more! Society often puts restrictions on sexual behaviour and what makes a person worth sleeping with and that means that some people get the shaft when it comes to the sexin's. That's totally fucked up to me. Why shouldn't everyone be able to enjoy sex, when they want and how they want? So Cerbies, what do you think?

From a Hobbyist point of view (my 2 cents) . When I am looking for an SP, I dont want to have to read through all the ads or guess whether an AD is what I am looking for. This board has become way too confusing. I think the 2 services Sp and MA are different enough that they both should have their own section.

ahhhh Eagles are big freakin' birds..... so are the .... The Fabulous Thunderbirds - Tuff Enough

Turns on: That little look of happy surprise after our first kiss. Someone appreciating my interest in a woman's back, neck and shoulder areas. Conversation. Being as real as individual comfort levels allow because I will be. Turn offs: Obvious disinterest. Peace MG

I believe that could be solved by changing the default forum view - I think it's currently at about 25 and that could be changed in forum settings by the mod so that more posts show per page.

My biggest turn on is a man that is open minded and has an intelligent mind. My biggest turn off is when someone books an extended date that is GFE all the way and then pounces on me as soon as he walks in the door. Back to the intelligent mind!

What about in that little space where you can choose a smilely for your thread? Some people use them, a lot of the time I see this sheet of paper looking icon, which I'm guessing is the default.. Anyways, could you just add little SP and MP icons that people could choose to use if they wanted?

The "billards" shots above got me to remember this one:

I can see why one might want to have them separate...but then again I kinda like to browse through and entertain the range of possibilities. At the moment I only see an MA. I have come across SP's that offer massages and have seen one for that purpose. Would an SP that offers massage have to post twice? Would this create any confusion? I think that once one gets into cerb and gets to know who's who then the difficulty passes. Not sure.. just offering a different point of view. Peace. Happy New Year.

Any credit cards where you can receive airmiles. Actually I have one credit card with a low limit and that's it. I paid off and ripped up the others years ago. Life is much simpler when paying for things with cash.

I have had numerous indoor picnics (in my hotel suites) with a variety of outcall escorts. Sharing new food combinations or exotic, gourmet food items is a synergistic pleasure experience. Several of my favorite escorts know to come hungry to our appointments. Some, of course, come to bring their own food and drink combinations. Watching the face of a woman as she bites into and savors a new food treat can be every bit as gratifying as sharing an orgasm!!! Really, this has become one of my top sensual pleasures in life :)

Cindy you have inspired me.... I was actually singing this to the tune of "My Favourite Things" by Julie Andrews in "the Sound of Music".... Drinks at a lounge and a ride in a Lancer Walks in the park with a special nude dancer Meeting at airports to go travelling... These are a few of my favorite things A big cup of joe and some crisp apple streudel Live action porn that can straighten my noodle Watching a dancer who wears only rings These are a few of my favorite things Girls that will touch me in places so naughty Getting rubbed down by a quite naked hotty Much better than reading the Lord of the Rings These are a few of my favorite things When the dog bites When the bee stings When I'm feeling sad I simply remember my favorite things And then I don't feel so bad....

Yeah go Angela!!!