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I knew services like this existed, but I never really paid too much attention to them. Insert the last two months which were absolutely terrible. Business/School/Personal stuff that was related to business, I had just started to figure it out, and then sometime in the last week I decided I'd get in touch with Megan from Megan's touch. To be completely honest, I couldn't see myself going through with it, but I went through the motion, I'd contacted her through email, withdrew the cash amount and then set up an appointment to talk. Then I got her call, and after talking for a minute or 10? we set up an appointment for the next day for the actual session. I've never cancelled on anything unless it was for a good reason, and when I confirmed over the phone, and the call ended, I couldn't believe what I had done. To give you a perspective of how big this was for me, I come from a part of the planet where people get killed for suspicion of much less (or at least that's my background). I've never known anyone to do something like this (although maybe some have) The appointment was in the afternoon, and annoyingly, I had finished all the work I needed to do by the previous night. I had nothing to do, and I couldn't stand hanging out with a friend since I could barely speak. Now I've done some scary stuff in my life (And I'm not just talking about skydiving, although I did that too), but none of them made me this nervous. Was it a trap? Would I offend her in my sheer nervousness somehow, what do I say, how do I sit, what if I project on her, am I clean enough (Seriously I showered 2 times that afternoon before going, and brushed 3 times), and so on. A last minute confusion about the location partially distracted me, and when I saw her for the first time, I seemed to have forgotten everything and just relaxed. She was amazing to say the least. Later while talking, she said the experience can be liberating and I agreed. I just didn't appreciate how much. I did something that challenged me, and I didn't give in to my fear, and thank goodness for that!

I missed this part. It honestly never occurred to me, grendall, until now since none of these guys ever proposed it. The timing, randomness & classless acts are our bones of contention. Trust me, some of the cheap S.O.B.s you mean have the bravado to just ask. These were on another site. Hobbyists also responded with laughter. Those we can pick out. Lol obviously. I actually have employed the trade option in the past so I am not averse to using it to my advantage. I have 2 photographers. One is free, he just enjoys photographing SPs. The other was trade. He was reluctant to propose it as to not offend me, he didn't, he freely gave me references & a link to his portfolio. I balanced an hour of my time with what I would get in return & felt it was worth it. It was & I have no regrets. If someone is upfront & respectful in approaching me, about anything, I will consider it. When I had my car, I actually gave a ride home to one gentleman. lol But I knew & trusted him. And RG, simply based on your posts, I would never fear you. It's when Zippy the Wonder Twit pops into my phone out of the blue that I say.....Hmmmmmm? You are so sweet. They have pornstar awards, why not poonstar awards? I would love to see that trophy. Haha! I tend to take most silliness with a grain of salt until it becomes particularly bothersome. This was just one of those times. Truth be told, 4+ years & I have few problems & am grateful for the charmed albeit odd life I lead. Baffled but still happy! When that changes, I will take my leave. Until that day, BEST JOB EVER!!! Sandi

Nope, not at all, as the replies in the thread show. This is a symptom of a bigger social change. There was a time when some institutions were "bigger than" the individuals that belonged to them, and so people deferred to the expectations of the institution when conducting themselves -- like choosing what to wear. Church was the very top example of this; in a place meant for contemplation of Who We Are and Why We're Here, you dressed to show that for that couple of hours, things weren't all about YOU. That attitude has mostly vanished. Across the board, the individual comes first and institutions second. It sounds like church is now a venue for social networking (well, it's always been that too), but people are dressed to satisfy themselves and express their own priorities (sexuality? pointed indifference?), not those the church they're attending. Most of the time I'm in favour of this change. It's good to move power and choice away from institutions and over to individuals. We don't need to get into the flaws of strict obedience to an exalted religion. Deposing marriage from its throne has also been a big stride forward; now people can leave marriages that are broken, when not so long ago you just stayed because the concept of preserving that institution trumped the needs of the individuals within it. The church squandered the respect people had given it through corruption and creeping irrelevance. So have greedy governments, corrupt and violent police working in thrall to the state, news organizations serving advertisers and demagogues instead of readers and viewers... you name it. Each of those exalted institutions has thrown itself on its own sword through corruption or failure to grow and adapt. But... my concern is that there's nothing to replace them. Nothing that tells us to stop and think about what we belong to, and that there are some things more important than our individual, isolated desires. I don't want the church to come back, but I wouldn't mind if everyone took a couple of hours each Saturday or Sunday morning to meet their neighbours and remember we're not each the center of the universe. Having lost that so entirely makes each of us weaker, and easy prey for those organized and efficient institutions that remain. Which mostly means money-making cabals, exhorting us to buy laundry detergent or a flashy new car. I'm not sure where the answer is. But the symptoms of the problem are everywhere. No, Roamingguy, it's not just you.

My preference for Bogart was always Bacall (you can see the chemistry on screen in "To Have and Have Not" that lead to them getting married in real life). That's not to say that Casablanca isn't one of my favourite movies, in fact I enjoy watching this movie with people who haven't seen it before. For Ingrid Bergman I thought pairing her with Cary Grant in Alfred Hitchcock's "Notorious" was another favourite screen pairing (and maybe I should add this film to the underrated films thread).

Tough one... but I'd have to go with Richard Feynman. Christopher Hitchens is a close second, but I doubt it'd be just one drink with him...

Christy's post about the movie "The Way you Were" got me thinking about famous Hollywood couples/pairings. Who were your favorites. My all time favorite screen couple: Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall ... "you do know how to whistle, don't you"

Saw one on Ellen... but couldn't find it. Found this one instead. Still adorable http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/82131991/

For the first time in I can't remember how long, I have absolutely nothing that needs to get done...I think this is what a vacation feels like. All work projects and school exams completed, and nothing till May!!! :D Anyway, I found this forum, and I'm glad I did. It seems that the prevalent culture that's fostered here is friendly, non-accusatory and overall respectful. I've been part of different forums over the years till I either lost interest or got annoyed at the people there, and I have been to only one other that is as polite as the one here, and that to because it's relatively small. I had not appreciated this entirely until I checked out other forums of the same nature, and wow, are the people nasty! I have to say, if I hadn't found this place first, I would've stayed away and might have formed a less then positive opinion of the entire industry. Thanks to helpful reviews, a gentle environment that's extremely considerate towards newcomers, I was comfortable in making a choice, and I'm so glad I did. It ha been an experience I won't be forgetting soon. I guess my point is, thank you all for being nice.

I do greatly enjoy both pretty much equally...but when I start to think about sex and get horny...it's always rough sex...it doesn't make me selfish. Just more kinky than the average folk.

My playoff teams looking grim but on the good note!! SENS is alive! wooohoo!! :) good trade if ya ask me!

I don't really think it's a new thing or necessarily a bad thing... When I went to church as a kid, we were always encouraged to wear what we like and spend time after the serious bits socializing and meeting the boys our age. (I was not originally raised Christian though...) I highly doubt Jesus would care what anyone's wearing or even if they attend church... he was a fairly open-minded and forgiving kind of guy. Maybe he'd even like to see people letting loose a little and showing a little boob? Who knows.. ;)

Two of my cerb threads have passed the 100,000 hit level, Barb's and Best Bums! I'm pleased.

Welcome, piano8950! I'm glad you're finding this to be the kind of place that we want it to be. Poke around, read whatever interests you, ask all the questions you want to ask and maybe post some LOLcat pictures or adorable puppies. When you get a random notion, there's a thread for that, too. And, oh, yeah.... sex. We talk about it a lot, around here. A LOT! The ins and outs, the ups and downs, the what-do-you-cover, when, how, for how long and what happens afterward. We have an entire forum for folks who are new or who may be interested in a few pointers. You may have learned that there may (or may not) be some exciting changes in the laws related to prostitution. We talk about that stuff a lot, too, in the Legal forum. We also stay up to date on the news. And, in case you haven't noticed already, the ladies usually have some great photos on their profile pages. For, you know, when you're tired of reading....

This is Roksi. She's well reviewed on here, but recently I had the pleasure of spending an entire day with her while strolling through Amsterdam. I grew up (to the extent that I ever have :)) in Amsterdam, or at least spent a lot of my youth there. I go back every chance I get. I was able to visit again recently while on another European trip, and was happy to learn that Roksi would be there at the same time. We met in the morning, and went for a leisurely stroll through my old neighbourhood, though I kept being distracted from the beauties of the architecture by the beauties of Roksi, very tastefully dressed but a knockout, as she always is. When I could no longer endure the pent-up urges, :) we rushed back to my hotel for our first round of the day. So good to taste and feel her again. I love her thighs gripping me tight, and her moves, and her look. A passionate lover, responding, initiating, exploring. Always active. A break, time for lunch, a museum or two, and back for round two. More of the same, lots of oral and intense satisfaction. Drinks, supper, another visit to my room, and farewell. This was a very genuine GFE, with a major looker, and a sweetheart: an unforgettable day with an unforgettable woman.

It seems to me that with individual freedom comes social responsibility. I value the former above all else, but it seems the latter is being lost! Porthos

I was out there last fall. Tried to hook up with Alex adare. Great reviews and sounds like fun, but we were unable to coordinate. I saw janice - a late 30's milf, has place near stanley park. Very slim, fit, nice conversation, great kisser and very open minded. http://janisvancouver.escort-site.com/

Well, I'm going for Robert Redford too... but with Paul Newman in Butch Cassidy And The Sundance Kid. A classic Old Married Couple if ever I saw one :)

I'm not a prude either, but I have to agree with you. Today I drove past a funeral home and the mourners were out in the parking lot. One young lady, could have been between 18 and 21, was wearing a very short, and very tight black minidress. Stilettos as well. The thing is the dress, a size bigger and maybe 3 inches longer, with a nice pair of pumps, would have been just fine. For a funeral, totally inappropriate. after I regained control of my car I just shook my head! Porthos

I love Redford too. And I think Streisand has a unique look that in some of her movies makes her beautiful. The movie itself is also amazing. My #1 movie ever though is Casablanca. But my top pick regarding the physical beauty of the characters? Cat on a Hot Tin Roof ( 1958 ) with Paul Newman & Elizabeth Taylor. Two of the most gorgeous people that ever lived. Here is the trailer link. Sandi

Jay and Silent Bob can't help it they make me laugh and I've seen them live so funny.

Today, for some reason, I made the PERFECT cup of coffee twice in a row....K-cup Keurig, Maxwell House, right amount of sugar and cream......OMFG......heaven in a cup.

My first time was about 24 years ago.. but I still vividly remember it. It was an agency outcall and the client was visting his friends so we were actually on the couch. I was nervous people were going to walk in on us but it didn't happen.. To me it was like a blind date only you knew it was fastforwarded to the end of the night make out session. I had 2 followup appts that very night and quit my 'square' job the very next morning. I was a security guard while I was going to school... so I went from a very ill-fitting not sexy at all navy blue uniform to buying lingerie and more skirts! My 2nd appt was very unusual.. I went with another agency girl to the Royal York Hotel to a bachelor party. I was quite overwhelmed and not very well prepped as to what was going on. An obvious low end provider was already there walking around offering $50 blowjobs to anyone.. and the companion escort I arrived with went with one gentlemen to a bedroom. I sat there like a deer caught in the headlights while a very drunk slobbery man started coming at me. I was immediately whisked away by a gentlemen to a room.. and was left alone with a much older gentlemen who turned out to be a recent widower. I was now the only other woman he was going to be with. He was gentle, sweet and appreciative. I left a very happy safe girl. I agree with Emerald though.. in my experience agency's do not take very good care of you.. they just saw the dollars they could make and it was luck of the draw whether the clients were nice or not. It wasn't long before I went indy. Those first two appts were so unique that I don't remember the third..

My first time was awful. I was with an agency back in BC, and of course with an agency, you don't have nearly as much control over your clients as being indy. He smelled awful, was rough, and hovered less than 3 inches from my face the whole time. Basically he embodied all the worst things a client could do. After becoming an indy, I made damn sure to make no bones about my expectations as far as cleanliness and behavior. I also had similar issues when I moved here and worked for agencies. It's my body, and I will be damned if I give any old Joe admittance! I love being indy because I have the final say in whose company I wish to share. Thankfully it's rare I have to restrict or refuse service based on bad attitude or poor hygiene. I've said it before and I'll say it again: I don't settle for mediocrity. Which means, unfortunately, I do a fair bit of weeding out. But ultimately this is to everyone's benefit, since we've all had lackluster encounters, and they're no fun. Posted via Mobile Device

I find it quite astonishing that this is going on. I've said it before, I don't know how you ladies put up with all this BS and yet are still able to even tolerate the presence of men!! You all deserve a medal!! Porthos

That's a highlight??? Oh mightyfinn you should be in St.John's. Today was gorgeous and sunny. Walked around downtown, enjoyed a pint at my favorite pub. Everyone was out. It seemed like half the Island had taken thir motorcycles out of the shed and were enjoying that first ride of the season. Winter coats, boots, and rain gear thrown aside. Girls were out in short skirts, and even shorter shorts and men were gazing appreciatively. Cato my friend, you should have been here, as some of your favorite parts of feminine beauty were on display ... Long lovely legs and gorgeous asses. And since NL has proud Irish roots, there were lots of redheads out and about. A glorious day!

Precisely my impression too. As though they have just invented the wheel. Every one has the right to try to build a business but the way you go about it is equally important. In this age of internet, once you have established yourself as less than proper in your conduct, it will follow you in perpetuity. Like MightyPen says, so are you. So what's your phone number? You know, so the next time I'm short on rent, I'll just pick up the phone.:icon_wink: Seriously though, I get what you are saying, that someone could conceivably make money from my business. The point is, they already do, have done for some time now & faithfully when there was some risk to them. My driver & incall attracted me NOT by hitting me up with spam but by advertising on sites specific to the industry. However none of these new generous guys showed an interest in " helping " a lot of us last month. So the timing of it all, coupled with the erroneous assumption that 1- We are too ignorant to be aware of the new laws, 2- We need to be told how to run a business, 3- They believe we are so stupid as to trust a stranger not yet vetted with our safety, 4- They have done absolutely NO research into MY business yet feel they are somehow suited to it & entitled to have a piece of the pie.....as it were. is why I personally find it incredibly insulting. Exactly. Men have gone so far as to join sites to solicit us their 'help' with these tasks." Some of us have received PMs/Texts from brand new members. These are not businessmen, they are not even hobbyists, they joined for one reason only: they are opportunists. And cowardly ones at that. If their services were so invaluable & honourable, they would have stepped up prior to no longer having to assume any risk. It isn't, unfortunately. My post was in direct response to tacky practices industry specific & while it has been more volume since the SC decision, it sadly isn't the first time. I have been solicited by photographers & web designers. I politely declined as I have both. One photographer's response was to launch into a diatribe of vile insults including " your pictures suck ", " At least I make my money on my feet not on my back " & the fail safe justification for being turned down, " You are just a dumb fat whore " This is only a fraction of what we are often forced to endure given the life we've chosen & most of us handle it with aplomb. We are aware when someone goes to THAT route, they are just rage-aholic idiots, it isn't about us but them & we dismiss it as such. However, it is why, at times such as this, we become very offended when it is assumed we are dumb bimbos with no business sense. After a while, enough simply becomes enough & something needs to be said. Sandi

When you are looking for an SP you must be attracted to her, regardless that you like her post or personality. If you would only meet for a drink and chat (and nothing else) then pic wouldn't mater and personality would be the only thing that mater which is rarely what we are looking for when booking an sp. Not saying personality isn't important with SP cause it is, but if you are not attracted to her physically, then you won't call even if the girl as the nicest personality ever. I believe when you are paying, mystery is a luxury you can't afford. Personally, why would I take a chance on a girl that I might like when I do know for sure I will (if I don't already) like the other one that has pic? It all comes down to risk management and your hobbying budget in the end.

An awesome playoffs Peeps !!! Super Exciting Hockey ! and no sure bets .... just the way it should be ...... Go Sens ! And as a Flyers fan I gotta kick outta this :) Crosby isn't pulling out all of the stops....but they put the stopper in !! ;)

My name is Kennedy or so kennedy ____ lol I am a mama, mom, mommy, wife, friend, sister, auntie, daughter and lover :) I moved to ottawa in august of 2011 in hopes of a better life and more upstanding community for my children t grow in :) Ottawa :) I have a bachelor's degree in psychology and sociology planning on attaining that p.h.d one day lol I come from one HUGE dysfunctional big fat italian family but god love em :) I pride my time in my family and don't really loosin up to much (which I should lol) no drinking thats my bingo lol but life makes up who we are and I love being in my life! I have advocated for military widows in hopes that one day more can be provided to those that have lost "loved ones" in the line of duty...Edmonton is all about the sp's which I knew nothing the less of lol til I moved to ottawa and found a great family to work with :)

I am Meg. I am a mother, a sister, a daughter, an aunt, a lover and a friend. I display many OCD tendencies but am fine with it and embrace it. I love to read, to learn, to devour information. I am often short and curt in my written correspondence and therefor will never author anything worth reading. The little things make me happy. I refuse to let depression sneak into my rhealm. I will avoid confrontation at any cost. I love ALL animals and my little ratty girls mean more to me than any human. I thrive on meeting and spending time with new people. I am not a "girly girl" and could spend my life naked. I hate shopping. While sex is extremely important to me, great conversation is a close second. Mmmmm any food product from a pig (no matter how cute) is heaven. I mean come on....bacon, pork chops, ham.... Eventhough I love people and being with them, I abhor telephone conversations. So much so that I tell my parents not to bother until they get home from Florinda in April.....for some reason, email, text and Facebook are ok but telephone calls not so much. Perhaps an OCD thing? Hey, I even text my son as opposed to calling :) While I am not a girly girl, I like my fingers and toes manicured by me...not salon done. My hair is my obsession and rarely does what I want it to. I am me and me is who I love!