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While I know that the majority of the company I keep is married, I respect your privacy. I would NEVER do anything to jeopardize your personal life. What upsets me, is that there is no mutual respect for my personal life. What really bothers me is the fact that you are not capable to clear your cookies on your computer or delete the emails or texts we have exchanged from your phone or pda. I hear all the time, I hope you will delete this or remove all traces of our contact, yet that some common courtesy has not been returned. As of this weekend, I have received one of the nastiest email exchanges from a VERY irate wife of someone that I have not even met yet. These emails from this woman, have wrecked my travel plans for the week as well made me quite upset. She is now harassing me, and there is nothing I can do about it. I ask you as a responsible adult, if you have someone who means something in your life and you wish to engage in the opportunity of an escape with a provider, please for the love of god - erase your tracks. It seems possible clients are worried about discretion from our side yet it is your side that is being very careless with being discreet.

Mrrnice2 and backmanrub if they were all like you we would have nothing to talk about !! :biggrin:

First, I have nothing personal invested in Moncton. I don't go there. But I do know (and like and respect) ladies who's tours to Moncton turned out not so good (from a business sense) for them. And I would actually like to see Moncton on a lady's touring list, because it means she is in a city which is good for her business. But seeing ladies get stood up time and time again in one city, well frankly it offends me as a gentleman to see ladies treated with such disrespect. And the ladies don't out any of the clients that stood them up on this board. They do name the city that's all. So if you like, if your stood up by a lady, name the city that the SP was in that was a no show, just don't name the lady. As for comparing you being cancelled on by a lady to a touring lady getting stood up, well lets compare. You show up for an encounter, get stood up, disappointing yes. But I'll bet you walk away with your money still in your wallet don't you. Call me when a no show lady also gets your money for the donation, then you have a valid comparison to make. A touring lady on the other hand. Guesstimate here, but to do a tour to a city, lets say $500-$600 for plane tickets. Hotel, about $150.00 a night. Meals and incidentals maybe another $100-$150. And she invests this money on the business belief that she will get a return on her investment. The ladies are quite eloquent in their posts, but I'll say it bluntly, they are likely pissed at spending around $750 to $900 a day to be stood up. That's money they are in the hole for. Not to mention the allotted time for an encounter could have been spent in another city with a paying client, which would be a return on her investment. And all because a guy didn't keep his word on committing to a encounter. And a person is only as good as his word Frankly this isn't about taking the ladies' side versus the guy's side, this is about objectively viewing what has been posted, and seeing who is right. And as for me posting about Moncton, the thread keeps coming up. I don't initiate the threads or the posts, but as a member of the CERB community I'll voice my opinion. If you don't like my posts, frankly, don't read them, doesn't bother me one way or the other. But I'm entitled to my opinion and will articulate it. And you could have avoided seeing my post altogether by avoiding reading the Moncton thread and posting your own comments on it RG

This thankfully has only happened to me once and she left it after being reassured that he hadn't actually visited with me. BUT I would respond this way. Your husband contacted me for sex. It didn't happen but even if it had..I did not solicit your husband... he contacted me. Deal with him and leave me alone or I will contact the police re: your harassment. While you're understandably upset you don't run into a store and yell at the person who sold smokes to your husband if he promised you not to smoke or the liquor store if he promised you not to drink do you? Redirect your issues to him.

On the contrary, RG brought up excellent points as to why ladies do not wish to visit Moncton and I do not believe that a lady pulling no shows on you (5 times?) is the same as a lady receiving 5 no shows during her visit. It's like comparing apples and potatoes in this case (and yes, not apples and oranges). Perhaps if you had paid the donation in advance and then the lady pulled a no show on you without giving you a refund then we could compare the two situations as WE do pay for all our travel expenses in advance, expenses that are non-refundable, and incur more when we are in the city for a few days. I don't know how many times people expect a lady to invest money and lose out on before she decides to write off a city from her touring list. Perhaps if every gentlemen that booked appointments with a traveling lady would give deposits or even pay the full donation in advance, they would be more inclined to show up and not waste the lady's time!

I had the unexpected and extreme pleasure to meet this Goddess last month when she decided to come to Winnipeg :) Her amazing, intelligent, fun, witty personality peaked my interest long long ago and I knew she was someone I had to meet. Well I did and she is indeed a Goddess extraordinaire !!! A beautiful and sexy lady and an absolute amazing woman to spend time with !!! Amelia Middleton http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=48783 http://www.stateofamelia.com/

I was with Phaedrus on this one Frenchie .... but you have redeemed yourself with the humpy time comment :) If you are an early riser then you can hump before class too...helps concentration....or say fuck it once and awhile and skip class and hump alllllll dayyyyy longgggg ! :hump: Oh ya highlight. I got a big fat raise on Tuesday from my main job and another raise this morning from my part time job !! Also I just bought a ticket for tomorrow nights lottery and I am pretty darn sure I am gonna win...that excites me also

Sadly I did not read this post and had multiple requests to visit Moncton,then I finally did a few weeks back,and was one of the worst trips ever. I had three no shows,two cancel within thirty minutes from our arranged engagement. So with that said I will not be visiting Moncton anytime in the near future,and actually felt like it was something I perhaps said/did to have such a bad turn out,now reading this thread I know it was not me but more likely the timing and city.

Home is a small (865 sq foot) house with a garden that provides fresh produce for about 6 months of the year. A back porch for early morning coffee and contemplation. Recently did a complete re-do, took everything out and didn't bring eveything back. Simple no pressure living suits me :) Peace MG

I suspended access to the shout box to new UNMODERATED members at this time. The reason for this is we have a few people who get banned and come back with a new moderated account and are still able to post in the shoutbox (ads or crap no one wants on cerb) so the only way to stop this is to disable the shoutbox to new MODERATED members. Once a member has been on cerb for 5 days and has at least 5 posts the shout box will open for them to post. This is a good incentive to post too!

Regardless to where I live or travel my donation stay's the same and that is never an issue (the size if the city has nothing to do with it). There are plenty of ladies in Big cities with high donations and they do just fine - as it has already been said there is something for everyone, if you do not like a ladies donation move on to someone else in your budget, dont complain about it - or save up so you can see her.

If you're in an environment where you can listen to music, take a moment to listen to this song while you read and potentially respond to this thread: 'Home' is a place we often take for granted. It is so incredibly important to feel a sense of 'belonging'. For some, there is a physical space associated with this feeling of 'home', for others, 'home' is where a person resides. I have an incredibly beautiful relationship with my step-father, Roger. I often feel 'at home' in his presence, regardless of the geography involved. I live in downtown Ottawa, but I've spent a fair amount of the month of July outside of my 'home'. I've missed it terribly, and I'm so happy to be back. There is something special about being surrounded by my books, my art, my papers and knick knacks. There's something special about my pillow. I bought it especially because it's flat but firm. I often sleep on my stomach. Although I had English Breakfast Tea elsewhere, it never tasted quite right, it never tasted quite like home. I'm home now. How would you describe 'home'? What is 'home' for you?

In the beginning and it seems like in a galaxy far far away I arrived on Cerb as a total Newbie, went months without making a single post, went more months before I posted a single recommendation, and any time that I did post anything, there was that BIG question mark beside my name as the avatar that Cerb uses as a generic symbol. Just yesterday Meg made reference to my rainbow avatar in a thread on here and it made me think about the person who suggested to me that I could do way better than a question mark as the symbol that I use to represent myself. I looked long and hard to find the one that I eventually settled on and for that little suggestion I want to thank Samantha Evans. Without her suggestion I might still be a question mark. I love my avatar and it has all sorts of meanings for me. So, I am betting with certainty that many of us have similar thank you's to Cerb members for little things that they have done over time. Not looking for the life changing things, though I bet there are some of those too, but just those little things that people do that are a part of what makes this such a great community.

I though i would bring this subject as it seem that new pooners and more experience pooners forget that it apply for both parties. More than often i have gent been very hesitant to provide the info i request and ask me to be discrete..No to contact them without their permission,etc.. It doesn't mean because we are escorts that we don't have private life.. It is not appropriate to approach a lady in public..Even if you have met her in the past..You shouldn't.. To call her escort name out loud..She may be with friends,or family.It is an invasion to our private life..I am sure that if a lady would approach you on the street meanwhile your SO is next to you ..You would be extremly angry. Also it happen more than often that a gent that inquire to see and provide me a reference of a lady gave me her real name..If the lady decide to share with you it doesn't mean she want the entire world to know..Otherwise she would be working with that name.It happened also that i had gent gave me private number of ladies..If her number isn't publish it is that she doesn't want to unknown people to have it. To approach a lady that you have an app later or you recognize her, at the bar of the hotel Those are big no no It also apply to ladies..i had a lady giving my personal number to a client i don't know without my consent. Remember if you expect discretion,you should also be discret yourself and respect our privacy Thanks Victoria Jolie

And now for a smoke break with Bette Davis:

Happy Birthday to the sexiest farmer/biker I ever had the pleasure of meeting (at the Halifax social).

I'd love to pay in advance, but with my vocation and schedule, I don't really have a clue when I can get away. Therefore, I have to make tentative inquiries and plans and when I can get away for a minimum 2 hour drive (one way), I set out and hope I can connect. If I cannot- and it's happened more than once- it's a lovely day for a drive. If I can, I'm in heaven and always have a great time. However, my good time depends on a lady having time in her day to see me. It's hit and miss so therefore, I have a hard time making a commitment most times. Today, on my fricking birthday, I had plans....albeit tentative ones. However, I made no booking and it's a good thing, cuz things took a dump here early on today. I'll keep watching schedules, looking at ads, and very soon, I'll meet my Cinderella. However, I'd be mortified to be a no-show and would gladly pay some agreed upon remuneration. I can live with being a "what-if" because I won't waste their time.

Two funerals last week and two hospitalizations (family member and friend) this week.

Well said Gabriella. If a lady has a spectacular reputation like yours or I have seen her before, full payment in advance doesn't bother me, in fact I very much prefer it, then I don't have to worry about being in some "mysterious" car accident and not showing. And if I haven't cancelled then it's ok to book 1 - 5 PM (paid in advance) and show up at 3:45 as long as I don't expect any more than 1:15 minutes of her time or any refund :) Of course if I was going to be that late (or late at all), I would do my very best let her know so she need not worry about me (yes, the ladies really do care about us) and make sure she is still available until 5 before showing up. If you're going to pay, why not always pay in advance? I don't get it, doesn't cost a penny more and makes for less worry all round.

It keeps being said over and over because guys keep lamenting on how no ladies want to travel there. I had the same problem in Fredericton with cerb members begging me to go there and ALL of them reneging without one single cancellation fee. Next time, deposits for sure.

Emily, I am so sorry this has happened. As others have said, first the individual in question needs to show more respect. This shouldn't happen to anyone, but when it happens to someone as wonderful as you, it's just downright unfair. It really isn't hard: --Use private browsing on whatever computer you are using --Never use your work computer --Even if you do the above, delete cookies, browsing history, etc. regularly. --Don't leave your computer on where someone can simply hit back and see the last websites you were on --Use a separate phone. If not, make sure no one else uses your phone and you control the billing statements and record of calls. My phone is my phone. No one else in my family uses it, touches it. They have their own! I also don't leave it sitting around. Even at home it is usually in my possession or in my office. --if you do have a separate phone, don't take it home! Leave it locked in your desk drawer at work, or in a filing cabinet. You only need it when hobbying. The rest of the time it can be out of sight and out of mind. --Delete browsing history on your phone, --have a separate e-mail address that doesn't automatically push to your phone. So if your partner does have your phone, and checks your e-mail, only the e-mails she's allowed to see will be there. --Delete text messages immediately after receipt. --Same goes with i-pads or other tablets. Delete, delete, delete. --don't keep escorts names and numbers in your contact list. It's really strange when there are all these names of friends and families followed by TiffanyXXX in your contacts. One of the reasons I really appreciate SPs with two names. Emily Rushton in my contact list could be anyone, and there are lots of people in my list that my SO wouldn't know. Work contacts, etc. If you do keep names and numbers in your contact list, make up a second name for your favorites along with a fake business name or some such thing to cover the trail. But frankly, better not to have them there at all. All of these things are common sense. Others might have suggestions to add. There has certainly been lots of discussion of this over the years on the board. Build a firewall between your hobby world and your real world. As you proceed always ask the question: what would happen if this became public, or what would happen if my SO found out. And the more prominent your position, the more important this must be. I'm a bit of a nobody, so really it's quite likely very few people would care. But within my immediate workplace, this would matter to some people. And certainly with my SO it would matter. At the end of the day, I truly adore the women I see. (Emily, I'm really missing seeing you in St. John's). Just as I wouldn't want my SO to be hurt, I don't want to hurt the other ladies in my life! Consideration and discretion. The two go hand in hand. Porthos

I like Issy because she is a generous, witty and beautiful person.:grin:

Billybob, I don't think that RG has anything personal invested, I think he, like allot of us are so sick of hearing about Moncton and the BS that he feels the need to say something. I can say that is someone talked about no shows in my home city I would be all over it, supporting the ladies as he is in this thread. It is a shame that this stuff has to be debated on and on....

I'm trying to understand why everyone always try to compare cities and forgetting some major factors... Montreal has lower donations for agencies ladies and most of them are outcall only When i travel hotel aren't cheaper in Halifax than other cities..They are the about the same prices than other cities..I can say that my flight is more expensive in the maritimes than most of the other canadians cities.As Emily said the size of the city has nothing to do with the rates that can be afford in a city. My rates is about the same in every cities in Canada to the exception of Montreal..It is higher as it is home and i generally do not work there often and have to do some major planning to be able to see clients there.

After all the emails I received asking me to re-consider a trip to Moncton, Ive announced one. This is the last chance, and if this is not a pleasant experience I will be holding true to my word of not returning and not recommending it as a city to travel too. I feel awful coming across in this manner, but sometimes you have to be firm to get your point across.

I'm an early riser:) Which almost mean that all of my classes are done by 11am so more humpy time for me:P

That sucks Amelia. And especially after some Moncton guys have gone to the trouble of posting very recently how unfair it is for them to not see touring ladies in Moncton because they are great clients, and they are getting lumped in with the rest...or words to that effect You guys just had another chance, and again, you blew it. And you wonder why Moncton is not on a lady's touring list. How many chances do you guys need. What is it about Moncton that the guys don't keep appointments? My morning ramble before I head off to work RG

Home for me is my apartment, which is fixed up the way I like it. I like coming home, approaching my door at the end of the day, and I can hear my cat come running to the door, and greeting me. Here I'm the master of the remote control. And nothing better than up early in the morning, de-caf brewing, checking emails, a couple fishing websites and CERB. And knowing I'm secure doing so, because I'm at home, the only one else around is my cat RG

I like Porthos cause he is also wise and contributes to every type of topic in a very helpful and diplomatic manner. Also likes tits and ass and stuff. No longer a Newfie so thank christ for you Ontario folks. He will be on iceberg watch next spring ;)

The rainbow in mrrnice's avatar says volumes about him! Wonderous, kind, beautiful and needed.

Equestrian. Yes I do love horses, but it's the only sport that show Gender Equality

Home for me is in my truck at work. I am a workaholic. Every morning when I crawl in my truck at 6 am with my coffee and turn the key ....I instantly relax and feel at peace. That is where I am happy and life is good. Sad eh ??

I don't feel completely at home in this body, so how on earth can I feel completely at home anywhere? My goal someday is to be homeless, without possessions and the attachments to them; I suspect this will occur shortly before the death of my current vessel. Until then, I will strive to detach myself from this material world and transition into a nomadic life. But here's the catch: my life as a nomad will require the use of a camper, which will, I suppose, become my 'home'. Sometimes people get stuck on their houses. They build them bigger and grander. They buy up bigger and grander. Sometimes I wonder if the effort to build such determined permanence is merely a denial of the inevitable impermanence of us and our surroundings, including the earth itself. I don't think I'll be home anyday soon; I probably have one billion more lives to live first. Someday though, someday. I have no idea what I just said. Another glass of wine is in order!

oh hai more than 3000 posts! Friday is almost here! and I just receive my schedule for school in September and most of my classes are early morning and I have two days off!

For me, 'home' is wherever my little fluffy family of felines is. As soon as my big kitty brushes his big fluffy tail against my leg, I'm home :)

However said it shouldn't bother it does... I have had similar experience than Emily where i never met the guy..Once contact me even stating he wouldn't via work to be discret..Yet he never delete his history and wife found my site..I got an email while i was in europe Attach a picture of the family telling me i was wrecking a marriage.i had absolutly no clue from where the email came from who it could be so i reply... It took me time to research to find it was "potential client that never book" that was negligent. Earlier when i was in the USA...I use to have a local number and one day while i was in a photoshoot i receive a call..A woman..She was asking me about a treesome but i could hear her voice been very shaky(plus i wasn't providing couple app then).I told her i couldn't help her..I start to have text telling me i was the devil..How could i be so mean and destroy a marriage..I said i had no clue was she was talking about she stated that she found my number in her number phone billing ...I had to do a lot of search to realise it was a guy calling me while i was in Chicago pretending been an assistant wanting to book for someone..Since i do not book trough a third party and wasn't in that city i never return the phone call. On recent event i end up having my name add to a gent reservation to his insistance which lead me to some problem when i was trying to work..He had my personal phone which i have express several time to e very leary and not comfortable due to the fact that he is married..He assure me he was the only having access to it..Well i had to call for the first time ever and end up having his wife answering me. I personally find very unfair that you ask me to be discret..To be private but you are careless about my infos.. I completly support Emily on this point and would ask gents to be more careful as not only it cause us distress but it can also ruin a tour we had plan as we get treathened. It is really not fun!!! VJ

I'm surprise that some here think that those things don't happen..:frown: I post it, as i withness it and leave part of it... I also post it as i have seen treads on "other boards" asking other pooners if he should approach a lady he has recognize.. Worse i have seen a post where the gent assume that his room neighbour was an escort and though about calling the room or knock at the door. Like you could knock at a door where a party happen and invite yourself because you heard some noise.:icon_rolleyes: -I had a gent..ex client that became a mod and as a joke posted my name on the board -I had clients been paranoid about providing me some infos..Heck!They actually never met me and i end up having their wifes harassing me because they neglected to delete the infos in the computer at home or because my phone number showed up on their bill(it had then a nyc number) All this should be common sence but unfortunatly it isn't and sadly by my own experience it has been experience pooners that has done those things. VJ

And privacy is a sacred trust. May sound like a rigid pronunciation to some but most on here both ladies and gentlemen have lives outside this lifestyle. Should it ever be disclosed because of a cavalier attitude towards privacy (either accidentally or intentionally) it could have devastating consequences, such as marriages breaking up, maybe loss of career (some jobs may have morals clauses), estrangement from family and those are just a few I can think of off the top of my head. And I say this as someone who is single, unattached, and pretty much if I was outed would suffer compared to most, little if any harm. RG

I'd start laughing if I were to try to talk dirty. When someone did one time it didn't sound or seem very sincere. Though I guess that's not the point.. :) Peace MG

Very sexy intelligent creative mature SP who charms with both her mind and body. Meg has an amazing gift or putting herself into the moment. For those who appreciate the human art ...her legs are a masterpiece.

Wages haven't kept up. I'm in the federal government which is downsizing. I'm certainly paycheck to paycheck, not rich, a working joe. To have encounters I have some added expenses those in big cities don't. I live in smalltown Ontario and have to travel to a big city (Toronto or Ottawa) which runs me $80.00 to $120.00 in gas to travel too (although gas prices fluctuate, and seems quite often the price goes up) Since I have to travel to a big city, I need to get a hotel. It's not an exaggeration, before I even factor in the ladies' donation, I'm looking at around $200.00 to $300.00 in incidental fees to embark on this lifestyle And when I get down about work, the economy, the news whatever, what keeps me up and smiling is this lifestyle, my monthly encounter, my monthly escape, most of the time a monthly memorable escape with a wonderful lady. And in the lull between encounters, I look forward to future upcoming encounters, and contacting ladies to see when they will be available and planning and scheduling new encounters with them. If you really want to see a certain lady, you will find a way. You might have to save up for a few months. And not to sound cold, but this lifestyle is a luxury and indulgence. You have to prioritize your budget, that's for sure. But I know I partake in this lifestyle on a regular monthly basis, and to boot, with disposable income, every encounter is cash only for me. No bills coming in the next month. Some long winded ramblings RG

Lots of ladies have no websites (I don't know this lady, but maybe she is new to the biz) Honestly sometimes in this business you may be the one "taking one for the team" as you put it. Secondly, asking that question is considered offensive and I dont know a single lady that would book you myself included if you talked to any if us like that. This is a business where you take a risk with anyone you spend time with, and regardless to the ladies health - do you really think she would tell you if she had an STD? I suggest you read the etiquette threads in the new to this section prior to contacting any future companion as will the way your going about things no one is going to reply to your request for an encounter.

yunno... we been praktizzin our sinkrownized divin.... Thatz Lee Richards up frunt... he got the preemeeum mullet just for the Olimpix

The only way I could imagine a lady doing this is if perhaps if you were a regular client who came to see her consistently at so many intervals for at least a year or more. I don't think it's polite to see someone a few times and then expect something for free just because it's your birthday (or any other type of anniversary). But even then, it would be up to her. I think it would be extremely rude to ask a lady for a freebie of any kind.

... okay it's not such a secret. I LOVE this lady. Whenever we speak, she makes me smile from ear to ear. When I see her pics, it makes my heart go pitter pat. When I met her, I KNEW that all of my thoughts about her were absolutely accurate. She is the one and only.... Dorinda Bloom http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=D&t=10304 Miss ya hun!!!! xoxox

Well not much can be said to this thread that has not already been discussed in another one last year mostly in regards to Moncton http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=49878 To be honest, I hate more than anything to remove a city from my list of places I travel too, but it is hard to want to visit in a city where you get disrespected, haggled and treated like a piece of fast food. I travel, I pre-book and I DO NOT visit last minute (as do MANY other ladies) Why do we work this way? to ensure that we have bookings to cover the expenses as well to allow time for ourselves. This may be our means of a form of work right now, but we do have lives outside the hotel room. When I travel I do a heck of a lot more than sit in my room and wait for an email to come through. If I book spa time or a dinner date with a girl friend that time is spoken for as is any time reserved for a date. I like to plan my day - as do most people and when I plan personal time that time is taken. Three different ladies have posted on this thread already, and I can only guess that any other ladies that post here will be adding to the disappointment with their Moncton experiences. When I have had a not very postive trip to a city - I do go back a second and third time as timing and other factors can be a big deal in some cities. With that being said if it does not get any better I wont be coming back. When I am asked from other ladies that travel about cities I am very honest about the experiences and when they have been disastrous (like Moncton) I share as last thing I want to hear about is another lady getting no-showed and disrespected. What is a great client to one lady can be the chronic no-shower to another. It's not the case of a few bad apples in Moncton, it's more like almost the whole garden. We write ads, all the details are in them (and in some cases up to a month before we visit) so I dont get what the issue is with Moncton all I can say from a personal perspective is in Saint John and Fredericton there are no issues, people keep their encounters, follow instruction respect us making it enjoyable to visit those cities. I guess since the situation clearly is not getting better in Moncton, the option is to head to one of the other cities for an encounter, and if you make an appointment I sugget you keep it. This is one of those cases where the reality of the situation is worse than you realize and I don't blame ladies for not wanting to visit there.

Agree. However, I admit that I am a bit biased. Having worked as an executive assistant and transcriber most of my adult working life, bad spelling is one my pet peeves. I hate to sound judgmental, but I believe its says something about a person's character when they don't take that extra care to review the spelling or grammar in their ad. If a person is disabled so to speak in this area, perhaps have another person look it over for them. When I do office work, I would never dream of submitting a report that was fraught with typos. I'd get fired! I suppose most would-be clients don't care, but I have had some tell me they chose my ad because it was the only one on CL that morning they saw, that "didn't" have typos. I think now days with a lot of younger people or people who's first language is not English, we are seeing more and more bad spelling and grammar. It's truly unfortunate, but reality. My nieces for example, use short forms when texting and in chat, and their regular writing is horrible. They don't seem to care - just shrug it off as "oh well". I see far too many people rely on spell check when words can be taken out of context or have variations in spelling (e.g. there, they're and their).

My only concern in terms of advertising is how the provider in question is presented. I feel that some of the agencies advertise their providers in a way that is detrimental to the provider and may attract a type of clientele she doesn't want.