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I used to be a young pup... ... but I have grown to discover that the quintessential advantage of age is looking backward fondly and sometimes not so fondly at life experiences. In short, young guys haven't learned from their fuck-ups because they haven't had enough fuck-ups from which to learn. When I was a young guy, I mistakenly thought that what defined me as a man was the presence of a penis that could snap to attention at will.... that and the fact that I could fill the whole toilet bowl with bubbles when I peed with great force... but I digress. I now understand that what defines the true man exists about three feet north (or 91 cm for you young bucks.) I was cocksure and swaggering when I was young... but I failed to realize that the reality of a sexual experience was the subtlety of movement, the touch of flesh, the art of seduction and the absolute joy of intimate companionship. In fact, I was "zip, zip, grope, grope, lick, lick and BAZINGA!!! insert tab A (penis) into slot A (vagina) thrust, thrust AHHHhhhHHHHHhh. (repeat every 20 minutes.)" It was satisfying... but nowhere near as satisfying as what I experience today. I talk now. I laugh. I enjoy the whole experience and appreciate it more because I am older. I love being with a complete woman now... where before it was just a few parts that were of particular interest. I guess the long and short of it is that I have learned a lot since the late 70's... and now I know that it's more than just about my penis, and my desires.

Hmmm, this is such an interesting question! But, you know, I often think a better questions would be "why do we consider some things fetishes (or obsessions, fixations, whatever), and not other things?" By which I mean, if I was really into bubble baths, rose petals and lighting candles as foreplay and felt they were really integral to my sexuality, that wouldn't get questioned or thought of as weird because the 'mainstream' thinks of those as typical and normal things for women to associate with sexuality. But, if I was in to whips, masks and gang-bangs, I would probably spend a lot of time feeling shame about that, trying to figure out how to get away from those or hide them, because the of how the 'mainstream' sees them. Really, I don't think rose petals are more or less inherently sexual than whips, I just think that most of us have internalized cultural ideas about sexuality and what is "normal". To me personally, I try not to worry as much about where my/our desires come from or how long we've had them. I think I'm more interested in pushing for space for everyone's desires to be accepted and seen as natural, as long as they're consensual and not harming to other people.

I was about to type a bunch of stuff about this ('cause it's one of my favourite subjects), but then I remembered I'd touched upon this very question before. Here, shamelessly copied and pasted to save multithreading, is what I wrote: This is a great subject. You can't really resolve it without looking at how the mind works. Every one of us has a map deep in our subconscious about who we think we are, how we think about other people, and how we think about our interactions with others. These maps get laid down while our age is in early single digits, and we can never, ever perceive them directly. They're completely beyond direct reach, yet they completely dominate how we move around the world of other human beings. One part of that map is devoted to sex, and once again it's completely beyond our ability to perceive directly. We can only get clues about it indirectly, when something we perceive or experience triggers a response. Do enough of that, and you slowly build up a sense of what makes you work sexually, like mapping the sea floor with sonar; most of it is flat, but every so often you stumble across a bump that tells you "something is here!". Thing is, that map is completely irrational. Some of it is built up automatically to guide us to reproduction, but it's also littered with whatever your single-digit mind had access to at the time. It's full of symbolic meaning that often has nothing at ALL to do with reproductive-oriented sex. There's no way to predict what might provoke a sexual response from your deep subconscious until you go exploring and stumble across what works for you. That's how you end up with sexual fetishes, or simple preoccupations. Some thing are charged with meaning; we have a growing thread here devoted to stockings (awesome!) which, objectively speaking, are just an impractical kind of legwear. Yet they trigger ideas about clinging closely to a shapely leg, of something slightly-hidden-but-visible, and of a woman's body pointedly dressed up to emphasize gender and therefore sexuality, rather than practicality. I'm always amazed by the variety of things that can symbolize sex, and provoke a sexual response, without being explicitly sexual. There are entire languages being spoken with clothing, with postures and attitudes, with dominance and submission, risky ventures, simple shared "naughtiness", Good vs. Bad, and the potency of sharing a secret desire. It's --so-- much more about the brain; the body follows afterward. See; LINK

This isn't in response to the original question, but to putting greek as a fetish. I offer anal sex; I do not offer fetishes. I've never understood why anal sex is so often lumped in with fetishes. Sexual fetishism is: sexual fixation with objects, body parts, or situations not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature A golden shower is a fetish - urinating is NOT something commonly viewed as being sexual, but some people do find it sexual - thereby, it is a fetish. Your anus is a sexual part of your body. There are pleasure centres in there, and while it's not for everyone, I truly do not believe that anal sex falls into the category of fetishes.

Is it worth it? Now there is worthy topic, not the mindless chit chat that normally comes up! Unfortunately, we providers have our hands tied when it comes to discussing this on public boards as it erodes the fantasy that we sell to make a living. A smart provider realizes that honest answers to this question could be professional suicide so we tow the expected party line of us all being insatiable nymphos that just can't get enough. There is no blanket answer that will cover every provider, each woman would have to weigh in with her perspective individually and we are a private bunch. TMI will kill the mood, it's like a married couple discussing credit card debt before going bed. This industry is the extreme on both the good and the bad. Is it worth it financially? For me, I would say that I make it "worth it" because I am unemployable in any other field that would allow me to support my family. Providers are an amazingly resilient bunch and we will always find a way where there isn't one. This can be very gratifying trade but the financial rewards for providers isn't anywhere near what is needed to ensure long term financial stability. The bad is unacceptable in polite conversation and best kept amongst ourselves or else we come across as complaining bitches which certainly doesn't help put food on the table. Would I recommend anyone get started in it? No, not if there were any other options because it takes a rare and special breed to survive and thrive in this trade and those that are not forged of the right steel end up rotting from the inside out and crumble eventually. While you may have real questions that burn for answers, remember that every word we write on here is read by clients and potential clients. CERB is primarily an advertising medium, we sell a service that is convenient fantasy and clients read our posts to decide if we are someone they would like to spend their hard earned money with. Offering up honest answers about certain subjects is often not a good business move as it will not change the status quo and could potentially harm our income... cat

Sarah has been visiting Halifax on and off for the past three months. After some mix ups we were finally able to meet. She is bubbly, funny and has great skills. Lets just say she was very attentive to her work. Facially she was attractive and her services were what I desire in an SP. Would recommend and I plan on seeing her again.

To those guys that insist on asking if I am a cop, I want you to think about your question. If I was an undercover cop, would I tell you the truth and say Yes? If I was an undercover cop and you wanted me to kill your wife for money, if you asked me if I was a cop, would I tell you the truth? No, of course not, I would lie and say I am not a cop. Touching my breasts would only give you an assault charge if she was a cop. I think you need to realize that if you are worried that your sp is a cop, dont discuss business in public, dont pick her up on the street corner or a hotel lobby. I am not a lawyer, but my understand of the law in Canada is that if you are not soliciting in public, if everything is being conducted behind closed doors in a private place, you are ok. Not sure if others are noticing an increase in these types of questions, but I just have to shake my head. Cops lie all the time, especially those that are undercover. Just incase you are wondering, no I am not a cop, I am not an undercover police officer or any other combination. I am just a sp who works alone, will never work for an agency and trying to makie some money on something I love doing. I only advertise on CERB and will never do a call in public (ie, your car is very public), or in the washroom of your local restaurant etc... Have a great day!

Well where to begin? How to begin? My mind is still racing and my heart still pumping AND it has been more than four hours since I left the company of Amelia R. in Halifax. Well for those of you who don't know Amelia R. is a young, fit and oh so very sexy young lady who travels to Saint John, Fredericton and now apparently Halifax. My day began, actually it began last week when I read she was going to be in the HRM today. Needless to say I quickly contacted her to initiate conversation. After a brief message or two a day/time was agreed upon and then came the "other messages" consisting of what was going to happen during our encounter. Keep in mind she was asking me...I never had to make a suggestion yet (well maybe one...okay two). Anyway after we established our likes, dislikes, wants, needs and special requests all I had to do was wait 4 days for Monday to arrive. Fast forward a few days to find that I survived the four day period with nothing on my mind but "how is Monday with Amelia going to go???" During the drive to Halifax the same thought of "I wonder how things are gonna go?" After I arrived at her hotel she quickly and very accurately provided her room info. She even included the best route to the elevator (A nice touch, yes). For all I was only going up a few floors it felt like I was going to the top of Willis Tower (formerly Sears Tower). Next came "The Moment" or the knock on the door...WOW! What greeted me was a tall, slender sexy young woman dressed like someone out of a lingerie catalog! Black stockings, garters complete with belt, sexy criss crossed spaghetti top of some sexy sort and a wicked smile. I didn't know if I should stare, smile, say hi or scream hallelujah! So I did all four...I think. As I entered her room I was attempting to watch where I was going but all I was really looking at was her. As I removed my coat I turned and found her already comfortable on the bed staring at me (amazing bedroom eyes). "You aren't what I expected" were the next words she spoke to me as I stared intently at her figure. She then told me to take those words as a compliment, which of course I did. After some extended conversation, touching and caressing the physical fun began. Mental fun being what was happening up until this point. "Why don't you take off your clothes" I heard her say as I attempted to maintain my composure. What happened next made this mans eyes roll back in his head... Sorry, as usual the juicy details are kept to myself. So I suggest if you want to find out what happened you should contact Amelia R. herself. I am sure she would be happy to book you in and show you the time she showed me earlier today! Thanks for a great day my new friend.

Well its not 6900 ....yet....hehe... but 6500 is mighty impressive! Good job on keeping up with your homework and sharing it with us all. From knowledge, experiences, and total sexiness exposed! You give CERB lots of Juice baby! :) Slurp! Roar for More Baby ;)

Fetishes are the product of our prudish, Calvinist society where anything that gives us pleasure is considered to be sinful and where relinquishing basic human pleasure is the highway to eternal salvation. Someone I know says that "heresy is the revenge of forgotten truth." That is, what we anathematize, deny or reject has a way of coming back to bite us in the hindquarters. What we like, we like. What we want, we want. Desire is not the problem. The problem may be in finding others who share an interest in the things we want to experience. Fortunately, the Internet helps with this. If you like Greek, you will have no difficulty finding others who enjoy it. If you like spanking, there's lots of that, too. If you're interested in feet, in bondage, in hot dripping wax, in being denied orgasm, in being watched, in innovative uses for vegetables, in bathtubs full of jello... you can find it. Just make sure that the other party or parties involved are adults capable of making a conscious, informed choice and offering enthusiastic consent.

I was born a red head god damn it so why does my hair consistently revert to blond?

I can see why the question sounds quite silly. I read about it on Snopes years ago. But if you think about it for a moment, there are a couple of reasons why even a normally intelligent person may think that this is an important question to ask. I've read people here mention Hollywood a couple of times on this thread. Which is probably true, but I've heard the rumour about a cop requiring to identify themselves by law. Like every other rumour mill that spreads the internet daily, this one is backed up with seemingly convincing reasons why this law exists. Some of you might scoff at the idea that you'd fall for anything like this, but so often I've seen people share stuff on Facebook that if they take a few minutes to research, they would find out are absolutely false. One that is going around these days is a supposed op-ed an Australian doctor wrote about the virtues of Canadians (It was actually written by an American, extolling the virtues of Americans). Or the one about the wife who was cheated on by her husband, and leaves his house with rotting shrimp in the curtains. Or the one where Mars is closer to Earth for one night only. Or the woman who was charged $230 instead of $2.30 for a cookie recipe, for which she decides to enact revenge by releasing the recipe to the world. All these stories are a fabrication in some shape. But these are just a few examples of fake stories that normally intelligent people have fallen for. Hell, I just recently realized the vast difference in what I believed to be extremely reckless sexual behavior, and acceptable practices. So while I do roll my eyes whenever I hear yet another person give me some "fact", its just amusing. And I guess the second main reason why I don't think this question is completely bonkers is because I still remember the incredible uncertainty and nervousness the first time I saw an MA. I've done some stuff that many people would call insanely dangerous, but this one was the first thing I did that absolutely terrified me, and the legal standpoint was a massive reason. So I spent hours reading on the law, and the MA reviews and this forum and anything I could access. Sometimes scared people to assuage their own fears, in an attempt to convince themselves that what they are doing is safe, will believe almost anything. Even a bizarre internet rumour. Anyway, just a few thoughts on why anyone would ask that question.

Me playing ring the neighbor's doorbell and run on a dare when friends were over one night.lol. I only realized it the next morning... heheh. Immaturity always comes out when you drink!

Absolutely, and a critical point about lots of things other than sex. It takes a lot of work, confidence, and a fundamentally open mind to examine yourself and find what YOU want. If you don't do that work, or simply aren't capable of it, you end up just being what the prevailing culture tells you you should be. Sometimes you really do want the same things the culture expects of you. But other times... no so much. You make the point well here about our sexual lives Audrey but it's true of other things too. Should we buy cars? Get married? Have kids? Buy houses in the suburbs? Go to a church and do what it tells us? Lots of people genuinely want these things, and more power to them. Lots of others, though, just do them because they've simply absorbed the expectations of the culture around them, or of the people who have social sway over them. Tragic.

This is applicable in the thread about 15 minute encounters as well.

Alternatively, some gentlemen who are quiet and shy themselves take solace in the language barrier issue, and it might be a main factor in their choice to visit Asian providers. Some men are extremely nervous when seeing ladies, so for the less outgoing lads, the language barrier can take the pressure off to offer stimulating conversation, or to be witty. Some guys don't necessarily want to make a connection, and just want to bust a nut. Nothin' wrong with that. There truly is something for everyone! :)

It's not a waste if you realise what you have been missing, make changes and start enjoying life the way you want... One of my favorite quotes: Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. -Nido Qubein Cheers xox

I don't know Joseph but I like it when new members feel like they can contribute. Welcome Joseph

There's only 1 cure for that kind of disappointment. :( MORE COWBELL! :bigclap:

The simple answer is, Yes, it's worth it, or it can be worth it. I'm glad that you appreciate Cat's wisdom. She knows what she's talking about. One of the things she says is that "little girls don't say they want to be prostitutes when they grow up." Most women who enter the sex trade do so because something has gone wrong in their lives and they have a sudden, very urgent need to make a considerable amount of money very quickly. It could be that a relationship has ended and they need to pay a lawyer to help them continue to have custody of their children. It could be that someone has tricked them, stolen from them or harmed them in some way. It could be that someone else in their life has become ill suddenly or needs help, support, shelter.... And yes, sometimes the woman has acquired a considerable debt whether through her own mistakes or because she trusted someone else too much. There are many, many reasons. Most of these same women leave the business within about six months. Few stay for more than a year. In my own, rarely-humble opinion, a lot of those who work longer would be better off doing something else because most women are just not equipped, emotionally or psychologically, to be on close, intimate terms with many men in a month, a year or a lifetime. That they need to make this choice always costs them something that may be hard to identify at first, but it's there. Anyone who has to spend a lot of time being suspicious of other people, questioning every motive and accepting that the majority of the people she meets are engaging with her solely out of self-interest while doing their best not to be honest with her, is also going to learn not to be very trusting of anyone. Anyone who has to have a secret life carries an enormous vulnerability, too, and no matter how well-disguised that vulnerability may be, it is never divorced from realistic fear. But the women who get what they need out of our line of work and then either quit working because they can afford to do something else, or continue working because they've found a way to position themselves and build the kind of business they can honestly enjoy--for them, this is a worthwhile profession. There's a lot to be said for having the opportunity to meet a wide variety of people and to know them at a deep level. To be present to another's weaknesses, sensitivities and vulnerabilities is an honour. To have others' confidence and trust is a fine, fine thing. Most of us are kind, empathetic women who enjoy taking care of others and who find satisfaction in feeling that we've made a positive contribution to someone else, even for an hour or two. These intangible things are hard to find in any line of work. So, there's the satisfaction that comes from having survived, from having achieved something very important and from having contact with other human beings who are as messed-up and flawed as we are and who are also worthwhile, funny and engaging creatures.

Cash in your bottles, rob the piggy bank, get a payday loan..do whatever is required to see these ladys...It was the best experience I have ever had...enjoyed watching the girls interact...WOW...Double bbbj...hmmmm I think i fell in love.....

Darling mister_crufty, You are apology is appreciated, it shows character. The ladies were bang on clear in their answers and as I read your initial post before anyone responded; I knew how it was going to roll out. You are not the first newbie to make this mistake and you certainly won't be the last. Those of us who have been around awhile have watched the newbie phenomena before and we'll see it again. We understand it's easy to get excited (especially when pretty girls are involved) and want to learn all that you can when the wheels in your mind are spinning. CERB has a wealth of information just waiting to be soaked up and it's more important for newbies to read in the beginning than it is to ask questions. I haven't seen a new industry related thread topic in years; I would be genuinely surprised if one came up. Every appropriate topic has been discussed at length at some point and is in the archives here somewhere. Newbies would be wise to spend a couple of months perusing and watching a boards dynamic before they decide to start multiple threads asking questions. I will answer your initial question because it consistently urks me when I read posts about providers "rolling in the dough, living the high life". I average $19/hr after expenses/before taxes per week. In the last 7 years I can count on one hand the number of weeks I've seen anywhere close to 10 guests in a 7 day work week and they all fell into a time when I wasn't located here in Ottawa and would return once a month for a visit. There are far to many variables in each providers life to come up with a "general" overview of the economics of our industry. I'm always amazed when I sit down with a man and he tells me what he thinks I make, his figures are so far away from my reality that I laugh out loud. I have yet to meet a person that has any real clue unless they have been a sex provider of some sort. The key here is not take the reactions in this thread personally. Understand that often people will give you an answer to a question that you don't expect and the lesson you learn from their answer is far more valuable than if they had given you the type of answers you were seeking... cat

Some SPs/MAs prefer pre-booking/advanced bookings for screening purposes. I require 24 hours notice from new clients in order to properly verify their information and contact their reference(s). At times, it's very difficult to reach a gentlemen's reference on short notice. If such a feature were implemented on CERB, would there be an option to opt out and/or not use it? I'm assuming so. I wouldn't want to be penalized because I never/rarely do last-minute appointments unless I have seen the gentlemen in the past. Usually in this case they know to send me an e-mail or give me a call to see if I'm available. Sometimes I am, sometimes I'm not. It depends. I suppose I'm simply worried that people will go to CERB, use the function, and never bother to see if other people have different booking mechanisms. This is especially the case for people new to CERB. How would that be mitigated? Or perhaps that wouldn't happen at all and I have nothing to be concerned about. I'm embarrassed to say I never clicked the 'calendar' tab on CERB until I read about it in this thread. Can anyone post there? Or is it only for traveling escorts who want to post what city they are in at any given time? Additional Comments: The "Last-Minute Availability Tool" would be conceivable if SP/MAs utilized the "User Notes" more; that system essentially provides a reference for the person in question. Unfortunately, it's rarely used (Guilty as charged... I rarely use it even if it's an amazing tool!)

Hey Comms. I did see her about 10 days ago and had a fun couple of hours. We danced, sang harmonies, shared a drink and had safe sex. Athena is relocating from another city where she danced so she has not been around lately but I believe she will be back early February. I will see her again once she sets up.

I made a BIG batch of chili and it was awesome! Lots of leftovers in the freezer now. Yum.

After many false starts (all my fault) I finally found a date MsManda and I could actually meet. It turned out to be the snowiest and coldest day of the winter, and even though she is quite conveniently located I had a long walk in freezing weather, with snowy wind in my face, to get there. Completely worth it! :)

As a long time member on both boards, and on the Montreal board too, but hardly use it anymore,I lurk over there and have a different handle, the one in question. I find it amazing how guys over there and are members here (who might even been booted off here) have two different stories to tell about women and this board. I got a name for people that act in that manner "Two Faced" I use to sit back and laugh at all of the crap they were throwing this way at this board (still do, mainly it is the same culprits) and at ladies,and members of this board that post recommendation like myself, they show little lack of respect. It has been said numerous times, that "GUY #1" is NOT the same as "GUY #2" , hence the YMMV, chemistry, being a gentleman gets you a lot further in this hobby. BUT not only in this hobby but in "LIFE IN GENERAL" act like an asshole with an lady, then expect to treated like one back, and in life asshole's really can be a pain in the butt. Is there benefits having the 2 boards? MAYBE To a degree, its just too bad that some over there are not given the boot off there for their continued, lack of regard for "women" and then they jump down guys that may have something sensible to say. This topic has come up many times, about both boards, but it is amazing that it is the same characters that stirred up shit here, that do the same over there, but I'm sure they continue to seek ladies here on this board. I will laugh my ass off, when perhaps some day ALL SPs in Canada MIGHT have a reporting system as in the USA, a reference check for guys ( such as P411,Whitelist etc etc) Lets see how many of you so called gentleman get dates if that ever arises in Canada. Anyways, My Sunday morning rant, but I really don't like guys that talk from both side of their mouth. PEACE OUT!

I guess we've been spoiled by past mild winters as everyone is talking about the cold winter weather of late. When it's this cold I always worry about the defenseless-yes dogs/animals and kids. Some idiot in Saint John left her baby out in the cold, luckily the baby was okay and she was arrested and charged. Many leave their pets out in this cold without thinking and without consequence. So my plea is if anyone sees or hears anyone doing this report them and aid the needed pet or child. Nothing can survive long periods unprotected in this cold. Thank you:icon_biggrin:

Actually I know a lot of younger providers prefer older clients as well... so I wouldn't worry too much about being too old for 20something providers. I'm open to clients of all ages personally. I only prefer respectful ones. Since I started doing milf movies however I don't get the much older gents and more of the younger ones are drawn my way. I've even had some young clients come to me to lose their virginity. This is a huge responsibility that I found daunting at first but am now comfortable with. I may not connect with them on an age level.. but I connect with them on a teacher/student level which can be quite fun. The main reason younger clients can be less mature in my opinion is that 1) some think they're doing us a favor by providing us with a younger body and providing what they think is a more appealing sexual encounter than what they think we'd find a wrinkly old body. They have no clue what we want but assume. 2) They have a much much higher amount of testosterone surging through their bodies which clouds their judgement 3) They have been getting away with their moms telling them how adorable they are and they're spoiled by them so they carry it with them everywhere else in life (I can't tell you how often myself and other ladies have been asked. 'I'm cute. Can I get a discount?' 4)They lack the experience that an older person does which has already been covered here. I should also mention that ladies I know that are actual mothers in real life (I'm not one) don't want to see someone that could be their child's age. It feels too weird to them

Well of course this is true. We have to remember that as hobbyists and SP's, we are just regular men and women too. And with age comes life experience, knowledge and wisdom. There is no escaping this. And it includes everything, especially intimacy and the human connection. While some younger people may have "old souls" and are intelligent, they still lack life experience. And while some older people may have life experience, they might not be as intelligent or socially adept. Those are exceptions, but to judge based on age is only natural, because as humans, we live and learn... and there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it is an integral part of the life journey, and rather than always fighting it, we should be accepting it more for what it is; a thing of beauty.

I do prefer older men. I can't say why. It's not because younger men aren't decent or sexy, it's just a personal preference. I wish younger men wouldn't take this personally. The vast majority of hobbyists do not prefer a woman my age (55) but if I took that personally, I'd be a wreck. But I don't. I respect others' preferences and I always advertise my true age. The good thing about age is we get to sample every age at some point! But there's another reason why I turn down appointments with younger men these days. I'm based out in the sticks, and when we moved out here, we seem to have been adopted by one of the local young men. Never, in 30 years of marriage, has any other person spent so much time in my home! For a few hours yesterday, I thought we were going to have him living with us for a while (his furnace had a problem). He has introduced us to a lot of the 20-something guys in this end of the county. I need to be discreet about what I do, to protect my customers' privacy. I always worry that some young guy I might meet through business will know our young friend. Since we haven't told him, I wouldn't want him to find out this way. So for me, it's just best to stick to older guys for now.

Sorry but, I really don't like your chances right now getting a date with some ladies with a comment like that. Perhaps poor choice of wording? Don't know, but think about it,what lady is going to feel comfortable visiting yourself? Gen has it right about screening clients.

You ask a worthy question zorobaby. These are the factors and experience that influence my decision when deciding to see a younger than 40 guest... 1. Unrealistic expectations of what the session will entail. Porn has skewed manys perceptions as to what is genuine sex and what is done strictly to feed a visual desire. For the younger set it seems to be about how many sog's they are going to get or they have a list of activities that need to be completed in order for them to feel they got their moneys worth. For me this approach is exhausting in the playroom, both mentally and physically and when they leave I often reflect that the money wasn't worth the energy spent for me. This trait is not exclusive to younger clients, just more prevalent. 2. Contact. Many younger men contact us with little to no respect shown for us as people. One line text and emails are an instant red flag as are the phone calls that start with "How much for a blow job?" without even introducing yourself. The civil niceties are seldom present and they do not have the awareness or understanding of what it takes to be a sex worker and that we are living, breathing human beings with feelings that need to be treated as such the same as everyone else. Their inherent attitudes of youth often mislable us as disposable or less than and that is unacceptable to us. 3. Money. If I had a nickle for every time I've heard "Is your pussy made of gold?" from a not yet grown man cub, I'd be rich. My prices aren't and never have been in the upper price range of this industry. I provide outstanding service and take pride and care in ensuring my guests are cared for above and beyond the industry norm but younger men don't understand the cost of doing business for us. Indulging in women is like any other hobby, it takes money and the younger they are the less saved pennies they have to spend on the intangibles unlike their older counterparts. All that said, I have some younger guests on my dance card who I absolutely adore. They are mature beyond their years and we are a good fit so it works. They contacted me with well articulated emails and engaged in an exchange with me that showed they were indeed the kind of client I enjoy. At that point, the age became a non issue. The younger providers often have personal reasons for staying away from their peers and that should be respected but most providers will make an exception if you approach them with the right attitude... cat

You would think that when you are on the Internet every day, I would have the chance to type up my experiences and recommendations.....but not when you are at WORK!! My apologies to MsManda for this late reco, but I have the time. MsManda is the first SP that I had only contact through E-Mail throughout the entire procedure of setting up an Encounter. I say I was lucky to see her as she was tired and had errands to run. I thank her deeply for her time. It was a good 1.5 to 2 hours of fun. Could tell she was tired, she pleased me very well. Wish I had more time to see her and see her in all her different outfits. The next time I schedule with her will be with her in that Body Fish Net out fit, which she can keep on the entire time. I arrive at her location, was starving for pleasure and sustenance. Did not help that there was a pizza shop near by ha ha. My horny nature overruled my stomach, and wanted a taste of MsManda which, I admit was not a 10/10, but the experience left me wanting more. Caressing her body was a splendor. I am always pleased when a SP works on her body to have it at its peak. Very pleased indeed.

I echo Boomer's reco. I had an amazing visit with MsManda earlier this fall. She provides a great GFE experience. She is beautiful and hot and ready to please. MsManda is a great cuddler and very easy to talk to. I highly recommend her.