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I like for the people I am spending time with to dress how they would normally dress given the day and time of our encounter. I will never ask you how to dress for our date and I expect the same in return. It is about being comfortable and giving off a great first(or second) impression. If your worried about standing out, take the environment that you will be visiting and dress to fit blend in.

What a thoughtful question !!! I think you'll need to have several replies to establish an answer to your liking. So let me provide my point of view :) A first time encounter with a service provider and a client can be so many different things. It can be intimidating, scary, exciting, so many different feelings - so what I truly want is for you to not only be comfortable mentally but physically too! If that means a full blown 3 piece suit and tie or worn out jammy pants and your favorite tee that is fine with me. When people are physically comfortable it makes a much better atmosphere. One thing I completely dislike is when I arrive at an outcall location and when i arrive and knoco at the door, I am greeted by a man completely naked and stroking his cock. I am not sure why this irks me soo much but I find it extremely ignorant and disgusting. Maybe because the style of service I offer is a true gfe and I like a very sensual engagement starting with a warm welcoming, a small conversation at the beginning to break the ice andbthab let chemistry take over. So when I am greeted by a scene as described I find it insulting and very much a turn off. Also you could always ask the lady you have arranged your time with if she has any preference to your attire, just to make yourself feel reassured and to not be second guessing yourself. All we want is for you to be at ease and to enjoy the real meaning of the encounter. An unforgettable experience that leaves you satisfied and happy!

In light of a recent post concerning a member going through the toughest part of life-losing a loved one. I thought I would start a thread that hopefully will help those of us going through or who have gone through the grieving process. I realize this is a tough and personal subject as we all grieve differently but in the hopes that this thread will bring comfort to some I ask you to share your ways of getting through the grieving process. In my time of need I wrote alot of poetry, went on alot on very long walks, talked alot to friends, family, to anyone who would listen. I just tried to keep busy because when I found myself alone or still I would feel to much pain. This thread is meant to support those who have lost a loved one-human or pet-love is love.

I'm with Emily on this, if we are going somewhere dress to feel comfortable in that particular environment. If we are going for drinks at a pub that might be jeans and a nice top, if it's white table cloth dining then something a little more formal might be appropriate. When we are staying in then I usually expect you'll just be yourself. I think a date flows best when you can relax and unwind and most people do this best when they are comfortable in whatever they feel best in, for some that is a pair of khakis and a button down, for others jeans and a t-shirt and for others they may feel confidant and sexy in a suit. Whatever works for you wear it. As has been mentioned above and I would say you want to avoid is making your potential date uncomfortable, answering the door in next to nothing or nothing at all can make someone feel threatened. It's really very personal and in this business there is an immediate intimacy that is already implied by the time frames that we work under, when you force that to speed up past what some ladies are comfortable with, especially when they are entering an unknown space it becomes very uncomfortable. When we walk into an outcall we generally want a few minutes (at a min.) to get our bearings, to see that the space and you are safe and to feel comfortable. I have had people answer the door in nothing and I can tell you that when it's the first time I meet them I simply leave, for me it's not respecting my boundaries because I want some time to feel comfortable and safe in an unknown environment. I believe it would be the if you were visiting me and did not have a lot of information about me, you may want to take a few minutes just to be sure there wasn't anyone hiding in the closets waiting to rob you. ;)

Of course what you wear makes a statement about who you are and what you find important. If you own nice clothing, wear it if you want to. I enjoy seeing a man in a nice casual look. However, if you feel comfortable wearing "down" clothes, that is ok by me too. I wouldn't however show up at an incall location wearing something that would draw attention to yourself. And no, it is never ok to open the door to your lady naked. Good grief, show some modesty please. There is time for that. Of course, if you two already know each other, that's a different thing, but meeting for the first time, never ok. We are still ladies after all.:obs55:

My girly indulgence I suppose would be a shopping trip to Holt Renfrew. But what I truly love and indulge in often is the pleasure of the company of dogs, being smothered in their licks and kisses.

Ohhhhh yaaaa , I just don't get , you think when you leave out toiletries supplies , mouth wash , variety of soaps, deodorant , they'd don't use them . But to the clients whom are clean & well groomed THANKS YOU , Very Much My biggest pet peeves in this business Text messages that start with "Hey" Grrrrrrrrrrr Saw your ad , what your rates ( there in every ad ) Calls & Texts at 3-4-5 am " are you available And all the crazy myths about escorting ( thats for another thread)

Lol You can see my lovely panties ( maybe for $100) :icon_smile::icon_smile::icon_smile:

Firstly I appreciate any and all the business I get and also the requests but my pet peeve is men who won't prebook. I understand the urge can just come upon you but I don't have the desire to sit around and wait for calls or appts- time is precious and I hate to waste it that way.We all have a schedule and things to work around so please make it easier and plan ahead-it can't be that hard-excuse the pun.

Someone covered this in a rant before, but lack of manners and politeness bothers the heck out of me. -neglecting to say thank you when a door is held open -dropping a door in peoples faces -hogging priority seating on public transit -treating people like dirt because you feel more important then them. This one I see often as I bring customers to nice restaurants quite a bit, some of the VP's and directors I bring out are the rudest most condescending people I have ever met. if I didn't want (actually need) their money I would have choice words for them, generally I give an extra big tip, put my best face forward when dealing with the server and try to make an apology when we leave (out of earshot). Sometimes they see me being extra polite and turn it around, generally not so much. -general lack of respect is my biggest pet peeve.

Inspired by the question on this thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=126713 I decided to do a little digging. Here is how you get American Netflix. And Hulu. And BBC's iPlayer. The three I've tested out, but I'm sure Pandora works too. 1) Download and install Firefox 2) Go to this link: https://addons.mozilla.org/en-us/firefox/addon/media-hint/ And install I apologize in advance for lost productivity. As far as the legality of this goes, there is nothing in the books, so you're clear. And CBC and other Canadian based websites may not work, so download Google Chrome for Canadian stuff (And Canadian Netflix)

Made it through my second work out, with a trainer, in as many days after living a sedentary life for more than two years. My legs are shaky and it hurts to go down stairs, but I feel good that I'm taking my life back.

I'm a serious Pizza lover (it's my absolute fav) but a pet peeve is when I go to take a bite and the stupid sauce is scalding hot in under the cheese and I burn the roof of my mouth, hence ruining the pleasure of the remainder of the meal. I'm like a child, I love it so much that I refuse to wait until it cools.:( My own worst enemy.

I always appreciate a gentleman who is well trimmed... and shaved where it counts for extra sweet TLC :)

I've been manscaping since I can remember. I started losing my hair when I was eighteen (OMG that was 13 years ago, seems like yesterday!) and decided at the time to be proactive and shave the whole thing. Luckily I have a nice head and I've been doing it ever since, becoming quite comfortable with a razor. Shortly after I started shaving my head I moved south to my manly parts. I tried everything I could think of or read about, completely shaved (too weird), triangle leading to the treasure trail (didn't look right on me), and countless other configurations. What I've learned in over a decade of pube design is for me, being of slightly less than average body hair, what works best is light trimming of my upper bush area with an adjustable trimmer, and clean shave for my balls and shaft. It looks neat and clean and I haven't had any complaints of pubes being caught in the throat. As for avoiding razor burn, I use the same aftershave lotion on my balls as I do on my head and face, Nivea sensitive skin aftershave balm. Seems to keep those little red bumps down and usually avoids the ingrown hairs (though those little bastards still happen from time to time). And as was previously mentioned (and should be common sense) be sure to wash before an appointment! Nobody wants to suck on aftershave and it can lead to broken condoms.

I've shaved my manhood once, hated it and never did it again. Now I trim everything with clippers on the lowest setting. But further I always keep the rest of me trimmed as well including armpits and chest but not on the lowest setting. The back and ass get waxed. Even as a guy I think back and ass hair is disgusting. (yes between the cheeks too) I've never really been into oral on me (not sure why but it dosent do it for me) I'd really prefer to kiss than get oral so I usually divert my partner back to the kissing when she goes for oral. Therefore I've never felt that I needed to shave bare for her pleasure. Hand play while were kissing is more my speed.

I scour antique markets for stuff that not only matches my decor, but also matches my interest in cool old stuff.... I love to cook meals that I won't eat until much later - it's fantastic going to the freezer and rediscovering what you made two months before.

This may have been said already I'm not sure but it requires repeating if so. People who believe that pajama pants are appropriate to wear as regular pants outside the home. WTF! (I'm sorry but this drives me mad!)

Well a while back during an exchange of ideas here on Cerb an SP flatly told me that, "We don't care what you guys look like". I just laughed and thought to myself, wow that takes a really big person to not care about that". However further clarification indicated that she actually meant that this is a business transaction for the SP and as long as the client is clean, respectful and has the correct donation all is good for her. The encounters are our fantasy not the SP's and even though in our heads we'd like to think, "my god she's totally hot for me", an SP that makes you feel like the is just really good at her job. That said, I always like to try to put my best foot forward and dress to impress. First impressions are important and especially when you might only have an hour or two with the lady the sooner that she can feel comfortable around you the better. Although I know it's not the case, I like as part of my fantasy to beleieve that the SP does actually find attraction to me and actually enjoy our time together as much as I do. So putting forward what I believe to be my most attractive side physically works toward the fantasy that I'm having. In some cases that has meant three piece suits and other times it's been my fave jeans and shirt. I guess the point is to dress according to how you feel best. If you're comfortable that an SP is getting the best of you then that's the best you can offer her.

Your style of dress is your choice, but remember you are going to visit a lady and first impressions are important for both. I expect any gentlemen that I am willing to see to look neat, clean and presentable, that can be casual, formal or anything in between. Sp's put effort in their appearence I think it only appropriate that you do the same. A good look always is a nice pressed shirt and well fitting CLEAN jeans.

Um... Old Dog... behave, please.

Well, that's probably why they keep texting - when they've sent you 100 of them, they'll find out what they get!

A good cognac ... or two ;)

Sometimes we need to count the blessings in our life to realize that the bad things aren't really that bad at all. Life is good!

She used my pictures again today on BP! I called and texted her but she pretend that is her "real" pictures... Im even arguing with her... like if I dont know if they are my pics or not. shameless. Please guys, Im NOT in Halifax, that "Violet" is another girl who pretend the be me.

Inspired by events that occurred this morning. Feel free to add. These have nothing to do with the SP or client roles though I'm sure there is an extensive list, perhaps in people's minds. Drivers, cruising below the speed limit in perfect weather. Changing lanes with no turn signal Combine 1 and 2 above - WTF The person 5 cars ahead in the Tim Horton's drive through ordering breakfast for what seems like 12 people and then paying with a credit card. Everyone's input welcome.

Aside from hobbying and masturbation, what is your secret indulgence of all time? My secret indulgence is watching the "The Real Housewives" series. Not just one... all of them and I never miss an episode. I admit it now! LOL!

What are your faves? Old dog....we already know yours! I am enjoying The Following (eventhough I was never a Kevin Bacon fan), Deception, The Cult and Scandal. I also like the cheesiness of Banshee...kinda like all those Charles Bronson or Chuck Norris movies.

Is that you Emia ?? Are you an easy catch or put up a fight ??? ;) either way you're a pretty darn good fish and Cerb likes you hanging out here when you aren't getting hooked by sexy women :)

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She had log on since but we didnt hear from her... interesting. I had received few messages from guys in the last week asking if I was in Halifax.. My pictures are still on other advertising sites with her phone number... Be aware Halifax people! I just realized that she is suspended.. thanks mod!!

I'm not sure why this is but I would Have to say Repeating myself is one of my HUGEST pet peevs. LOL I KNOW I am a loud ass country girl. everyone in my family has a loud voice I come by it honestly. So I believe when I say something you should have heard it let alone the 3rd or 4th time I'm asked to repeat myself cause I know I've raised my voice by then. not work related just a general fact lol

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I would only want to look and smell as good as I can when meeting an sp, treat it like a first date, for sure!

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I'm by no means an expert at getting through grieving, but I've lost a lot in my life even at my young age. So I've spent years grieving various loss after loss. What is harder is to watch someone you love suffer until they are gone. I do not believe anyone ever gets over it they only learn to cope and as time passes the pain goes with it. It's still there and resurfaces from time to time. What I find helps me is not to think about the loss try to remember the good times even thought it is hard. For me as simple and strange it may sound but feeling loved helps tremendous. One of the reason I started this hobby. Also exercise helps a lot, for me I concentrate on the exercise I'm doing and when you do a good workout it your body sends good endorphin to the brain and help relief the pain and its good for you. One thing I've learned the hard way is I used to shut out my emotion, even though it help get through its like a bomb waiting to go off. I held so much back and inside that one day it was too much to Bare and when it came out, everything came out even stuff from way back that I had forgotten came out as well. When there is too much grief and pain it doesn't take long until that emotional pain effect you physically. So the best thing you can do is figure out what you need and try to hold on. If you wanna talk, talk to someone. If you been a friend, call a friend ect. You will still grieve but at least you will have something to help.

Smoking cigars. Having a drag from a lady's cigarette. Licking the knife after making a peanut butter sandwich. Jessica Chastain won me over doing it as well in Zero Dark Thirty. Well that and she's kinda perty.

I like RG as first and foremost he is am impeccable gentleman. Secondly he is consistently, kind, just and fair. Just from a lady's point he has a clear understanding of what we sometimes go through and takes the time to speak to all of us and make efforts to get to know us as people !! This can't be beat.

Reality shows...especially Survivor and Big Brother.

I used to watch Gossip Girl but I thought it went off the rails too much in more recent seasons. I still enjoy girly drinks though, like cocktails and stuff, and I do yoga.

There's reco's about Lara on this board in the recommendation section. Didn't take much digging... just sayin Peace MG

I'll probably grab something more later, but I just ate a peanut butter and salad sandwich, and it was pretty damned good! We've been doing that thing of keeping salad in mason jars in the fridge to greatly enhance how long it will stay good. It works! I'd go for another sandwich, but I'm outta bread.

For me it is a simple cup of Hot Chocolate for Second Cup.

Guys who continuously text you saying "will 100 get me anything?". Listen, you don't really know what you will get for 100. I've been polite, even added humour. However, to keep pursuing it, get a life!

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I like gentlemen who are kind, thoughtful, gentlemen of all shapes and sizes and income brackets . Those who appreciate a woman and all she encompasses, the whole package. Those gentlemen who take your feelings into account, who see beyond the exterior and want to experience you not just as an object but as a human being, those who don't seek perfection but want to help you be better. Those who are aware that we try hard to please them and are thankful for us and are aware that we sometimes make mistakes and forgive us for them. Thatsmy type.

I have seen her in the past, and in accordance with the rules of the board I cannot comment.

I usually stay at the W Montreal. It's right in downtown at Square Victoria, the subway station is literally outside the front door of the hotel. There is a great bar in the mezzanine and a good night club on the ground floor. The rooms are always clean and I've never had a bad experience staying there. Make sure if you stay to say hi to the female staff for me ;). http://www.wmontrealhotel.com/

Common courtesy online. Is it so hard to send a quick email (or text) to thank someone for providing information?