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OK, everyone step back and count to ten. I love opinionated people real people, with real opinions. As someone objective to this discussion I can see the points that are being made by all parties and do find valid opinions that I can agree with. However, bickering and not knowing when to let let something die just because you feel that there has to be a right or wrong opinion is a turn off. Just saying. Now as far as making newbie mistakes and knowing appropriate ways to post to look for information and interact with SP's. I actually PM'd RG directly to ask his opinion about interaction with SP's and on the Board when I was new and had a lot to learn. I saw that he is almost always a voice of reason and level headed I appreciated that and decided that the way he conducts himself was a way that would work for me. Newbies will make mistakes, experienced clients will make mistakes all that is important is that we learn from them. By all standards, I try to be a good boy here on cerb and I've still managed piss people off and get an infraction through stupidity ;) It happens! So hopefully, the OP will realise that posts similar to the one he made can possibly lead to some opinionated headbutting and will learn to rephrase his posts to avoid causing unintended (I'm sure) bickering on the board.

Like literally two hours ago, and it was great! As of this morning, I was a 26 year old virgin. I never felt ashamed or unaccomplished being a virgin, I had reached this point as a choice. But I was not confident with intimacy, most if not all girls I've met have been pretty sexual or have a sexual past which always intimidated me (I never saw them lower, but felt a bit in awe). I avoided relationships because I was worried about the physical intimacy part, I was going to fall flat on my face. And I created this mind block. I noticed a few threads on this forum about guys who are virgins looking for an SP, but there was no mention if they went through with it, and if they did, how they felt about it. So I thought I'd share for anyone who are in the same shoes I once was. In a nutshell, I loved the experience, and I have no regrets. I got in touch with Peachy a week ago, and explained that I was a virgin, and that was something I wanted to change. She was incredibly thoughtful, and put me at ease with asking her to take me to the other side so to speak. I was nervous, actually, I was anxious for her to come. I booked 3 hours, and I asked her to stay an hour longer once she was here (I was having a great time and didn't want to rush it). So my reasons for doing what I did. 1) I'm more confident with safety when it comes to the women here then the general public. If anyone knows about safety, these ladies do. This was my number one priority always (even before I came up with this idea) 2) I wanted a positive non-judgemental environment (at least in my mind). I didn't want to think and over think everything I did, and with her, I was more then comfortable. I was able to explore, try out stuff that I wouldn't have done with maybe a girl I was dating. 3) I was confident in asking her how I could be better. And I took everything she said constructively, and it was a lot better then I imagined! 4) Confidence! I met this girl a couple of months ago that seemed to be very interested. Back then, the old me kept things between us friendly but non-sexual. I think given the situation now, I'd act much differently. My confidence in this department took a massive beating the last couple of years for reasons too long and boring to share here. I feel as if one evening took all of that self doubt away. Downsides? I don't feel as if there were any. I don't feel any regret, or remorse or anything of that sort. I was hoping when I asked Peachy was that she be someone awesome (I've read some stories here about people having soso dates). Peachy was AMAZING in that she was so understanding about my fears, and newness. I bring this up because I found her through going through pages and pages of reviews. There are some awesome women here, but I found one with very complimentary reviews, and it worked for me. Which I guess leads on to my next part. Would I recommend a virgin meet an SP? To each their own. I wrote down a list of reasons why this would be a good idea vs a list of why this was bad. My bad side of the list had some religious objections, but then the good side had religious support for getting help any way possible (my confidence was shot). There are some that say that this experience should be with someone special. And I think that applies for some people for sure, but I treated this as a learning/therapeutic visit more then anything else. The rate I was going, I was not going to be able to meet that someone special ever. Recommendations: 1) Take your time, read reviews, talk to who you are interested in 2) Take your time, don't book just 1 hour. For the first two hours, we took it slow, talked a lot, and made it more intimate. 3) Figure out your reasons. I was brand new at this, and I think if this is your first time, trying to go into this to fulfil a fantasy might be putting too much pressure on you and her. Just explore the sensation, explore your body (I discovered things about my body I was pleasantly surprised about). 4) Tell her you're a virgin! And that's when you first get in touch with her, not when you meet. I can't think of anything else. This being a recommendation board, this is mine :)

A true Canadian classic pooch, The Littlest Hobo!! :biggrin: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aFZKlfRrGbw Maybe tomorrow I'll wanna settle down, until tomorrow I'll just keep movin on...

Hi there everyone, First of all I would like to say thank you for all of your kind words. It is the men like you that make us love what we do as SPs. I do want to clear a couple things up though... 1. I know that it has been said that I offer BBFs. This is not a service that I provide (no exceptions) so please dont ask. I also dont swallow (sorry guys). 2. I definitely apologize if I have ever kept anyone waiting. Being fairly new at this it took me a while to figure out the business aspect including scheduling. I will only see a couple of gentlemen in an incall day so often my excellent clients are made to wait until the next incall. For that I apologize as well. 3. I do feel bad for the fact that I AM fairly hard to get a hold of sometimes. I generally do most of my bookings online as my phone was constantly ringing from morning to night with fake calls and texts. Through emails we can kind of get a feel for one another better than a 2 minute conversation. 4. I have been asked why I dont work on the weekends...I do. I will work any day a gentleman needs me, I just pre-book all weekend sessions. SPs have a very different schedule. We are on call at most times. Pre-booking weekends is just a way to have a social life along with working. I hope I have cleared a few things up. Thanks for taking the time to read my post. And again, to all of you men who love to have a good time while treating a lady right, I applaud you and thank you. And to all of my regular gentlemen a special thank you for helping to make this experience a great one for me I only hope I am returning the favor.

The romans also had specific coins for use in prostitution, Spintria. Each coin depicted a sexual act. Some speculate that these could have been tokens presented to the lady indicating which act you'd paid for. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spintria (one of the tamer Spintria)

Of course the did Chuck! Of course in Pompeii, GFE meant GIANT FLAMING ERUPTIONS. Pretty much put a damper on the whole trip to the brothel....

I am willing to offer my hands.. hehe if you need one or two.. LOL

My thoughts are this, why do we need another demeaning thread on BJ's when we already have one started in the same section in the same city(A simple search on BJ's would have found it). Some women are fine with being objectified regarding services and others like myself are not. For someone to come out and ask what ladies thoughts are on BBBJ's is sort of a catch 22, I mean do you say hey BBBJ's I hate them but offer them for the money, or do you reply I only do it as I have no choice or do you say I don't offer them or yes I love them. This is a question with no real right answer but the one you provide. Really one's reasons for offering them or what they think of them is their own opinion and thoughts and something that is better left for a 1 on 1 conversation.

This is me playing with Nuru gel in my bikini! :) it's fun!

Here's me splashing about in the Windigo Falls in the Laurentides!

I just lose my uncle a few weeks ago. my siblings and I were very close and when I found out the sad news, I was at work. my bf wanted me to go home. But I tried my best to focus on work. I barely survived. But when I got home. my bf by literally ran to the door, while i was going the door. and gave me a hug. I just started crying. For me, its hard to talk/show about my feeling. I just take it one day at a time. I miss him greatly. And I know, he and my other uncle are watching over me.

I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss. All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together. For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives... Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.

I've been to see Gina a couple of times at ALO's west-end location. There's been quite a bit of discussion of her talents here and here, but I thought it was about time she had a proper reco thread. Here it is :) So, now you've read those threads, what more do you want to know about Gina? She's a lovely person - she'd be great to spend time with just to talk to, even if you did nothing else. She's sexy as hell. She gives an excellent massage - she seems to take it as a personal mission to get *all* the knots out, which is awesome. She can tease with the best of them (and will do, if that's what you like). And when she's done teasing... yes, she can do that with the best of them too :icon_mrgreen: Definitely recommended. I'll be back for sure.

As a hobbyist or Sp or MA Most of us, are living a double life. Like Superman or Spiderman. Clark Kent by day and Superman by Night Peter Parker by day and Spiderman by night. We all have our private lives that we shared with Friend, family and co-worker. And then we have this other secret life where we meet other Men and Women for a quick sexy fantasy encounter. Or for some it is their income. However, we all have our secrets that we need to keep from our friends and family. And run the fear of being caught and suffering the consequences. But this is part of the thrill of living on the edge. It's what makes this life style a bit risky and exciting. But it can be stressful as you are always afraid of getting caught or being found out. Being careful, by having second phone or forgetting to close your browser when you still have cerb or emails open or forgetting to erase your internet history. Just wanted to get your thoughts and experiences of what it is to lead this double life. Did you ever get caught and how did you explain your way out of it out, or had to suffer the consequences. Hope to hear, some of your thoughts on this subject.

Well , I dont so many recommendations but I had the good fortune to meet with Camelia from MGF this afternoon and I have to say she was GGRREAATT. A sweet and tiny college student she is articulate , intelligent and has amazing skills. She has beautiful eyes and a rockin booty. Game for almost anything we had an hour long multiple position porn star experience all over the room and the classic PSE finish. After that I think she was game for more but she chatted about life in general for another 20 min or so ( absolutely no rushing with her ). Guys I would give her a 10 so if you have the chance she is for sure a repeat . Thanks Camelia ( you are so cute )

What is one touch you crave?..... A hand in the hair, a kiss on the lips, a spank on quivering flesh? Which is the -ONE- single touch you crave above all others ( and no fair saying either HIS or HERS) Just curious... and you may list more than one, but do say what tops your list. Me? .......... Feather dusting on my nipples with a soft tongue Gentle kisses on my neck Nibbles on my ears Pure, simple, glorious penatration I could go on, but I think you get the idea. Your turn!

anyone ? thanks.

The two publications at this link are part of a 3-year research project by Chris Bruckert at U of Ottawa and Tuulia Law, and a community advisory committee composed of Maggie's, POWER, Stella and Stepping Stone. "Rethinking Management in the Adult and Sex Industry" "Beyond Pimps, Procurers and Parasites: Mapping Third Parties in Incall/Outcall Sex Industry" Both of these are comprehensive, valuable publications, providing excellent summaries of the current laws related to prostitution in Canada as well as great analysis of the management models prostitutes use, including agencies, pimps, secretaries, booking agents, drivers and web designers.

Browwwwwnies Mmmmmmm brrrooowwwwnies omg! I am dreaming awake! Lol

Spending the day with a friend I haven't seen in a long time! It was a great time!! :)

No idea who it is.....but love the pic :icon_razz:

If may is masturbation month, I'm guessing that we also have June: Jerking off month July: Jacking off month August: Auto-erotism month September: Self-pleasuring month October: Onanism month ...

Two hot new cerbites that I've been chatting with and can't wait to meet: Destiny Xu and Sierra-Rae

Midnight dip, beer and boobies!! Lets get the party started lol

The count is at four and that is when Kimmie & I will cum through the door!!! See Ya All Then!!!

Real name: General Summers or Hugh Humperdink (depending on use of caps) Cerb Name: Dickie Dangle I always thought that you could just use a combination of your first pets name along with the first street you lived on. (me= Buck Ladywell) Not kidding!

"Clitoraid is proud to announce its first annual International Clitoris Awareness Week, May 6 to May 12," said Nadine Gary , Clitoraid spokesperson, in a statement released today. http://www.news-medical.net/news/20130505/Clitoraid-announces-first-annual-International-Clitoris-Awareness-Week.aspx

It's an old tread, but I guess I can have two a year.

haha...umm.... no, the distractions lead to the _lack_ of cookies at the end of the night....remember? but a proper donation will definitely put you in my good books ;)

All the important abbreviations and more: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=4922&postcount=2 :biggrin:

I personally have never been a fan of the best of threads...be it who gives the best (fill in the blank)______, who is the most beautiful etc etc etc Companionship, even paid companionship is about two people getting together for a private intimate encounter. And no two encounters, even with the same two people can be exactly replicated, each encounter is unique. Companionship and encounters are definitely YMMV. Making it about who's the best makes it a competition between ladies. Best of threads demeans, IMHO encounters which can be very special and intimate A professional companion should be focused on providing the best companionship she can provide. She shouldn't have to worry if she is as good or better than another lady. Put another way, I know when I see a lady I try, and hope I am, the best gentleman and client I can be, I don't worry about what some other guys do. And I wonder how many guys would be fans of the ladies putting out best of threads such as "who's the best client" and so on. A rambling RG

Every blasted day of the year for me! I guess it must be my Viking blood!

We all do what we have to do. I had this discussion with a friend, regarding escorts etc. His take was "using their body for money". I asked him, and any of you, what is the difference then between and escort who uses her body sensually and someone like me, who was a truck driver and abused his body for years? Broken feet, toes, hands sore backs, knees, hips. I am 48 and feel 68 some days. I used my body, size (6'3 250) as a means to an end. I was an ape who lifted heavy things for years. I call that abusing myself!! I guess the difference is I can say I was a truck driver, while ladies often have to use caution in revealing their profession. I for one, am thankful there are ladies providing comfort, companionship and intimacy.

I don't really think of hobbying as a double life...my actual life is already one!!! It really doesn't bother me anymore who knows about what I do on my personal time. If they don't like it, than they do not have to associate with me. Though my experience has been they almost always come back to you over time. As for my real life, those I have told the truth to I trust them never to mention it to anyone. So for those of you I have told, you mean enough to me to know the truth! :D

Its being discussed in NFLD as well http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=130766 A deposit is one thing, but a lady with one add asking for full payment upfront is enough to make you start to think why? If a reputable lady only asks for a deposit, why would a basic unknown want a full payment, and WHY on earth would you pay someone you dont know upfront in full. Chances are she is not even in the city and it is an internet scam. This is a definite case of Buyer Beware.

There are a couple of different ways to look at this question. For instance the twin peaks, lord of the rings references, These are great scores and original music. I'd put the classic spaghetti western like the good, the bad, and the ugly or Fistful of Dollars in there too. The music is essential. On the other hand there are soundtracks, usually not original music, but after you've seen the movie you can't hear that song again without thinking of the movie. Your probably own the soundtrack and listen to it on its own. This is my favorite and a couple of directors are masters at it. - Stanley Kubrick - music is core in clockwork orange, 2001 a space odyssey - Quentin Tarentino - especially in reservoir dogs and pulp fiction Then there is the soundtrack to 'stand by me' and 'big chill'. Wow. I listen to both of these on CD regularly, no movie required. For the more modern listeners (its still 20 years old) we have the soundtrack to Clerks, or The Crow. Both stand on their own. Then there is Apocalypse Now! You have the opening scene (The End by the doors), you have the greatest image for the ride of the valkyries (Wagner) ever. And you've got 'can't get no satisfaction' on the riverboat (matched admirably by the opening credits to the tv show, 'tour of duty' which makes paint-it-black iconic).

I love the soundtrack to the television show Twin Peaks and the prequel follow up Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me. Angelo Badalamenti is an amazing composer that has done not only Twin Peaks but also Mulholland Drive amongst others. Fantastic music to play in the background whilst entertaining : )

I've found that when booking a day rate, the most important info is the time you are going to leave - ie leaving at 2pm can be cheaper than leaving at 5pm. As for checkin time, usually you can have it as soon as there is a room avail, ie 9am or 10am. On Pembina, i Like the the Holiday Inn South for day rates. Plus the parking discrete. Or try hotwire.com for a same-day booking - You can select the Pembina area. I have gotten the 4-point sheraton for $69, but more often the Holiday Inn South or Comfort Inn. xoxox Porscha

Very well said Soleil. Although I 99% of the time ignore texts, & the reason for it is because of their approach. U available, or where you located. Not a single hello or an introduction. Eventually what I see having happened here was him getting a lot of pm's wondering who this apparent racist SP is. You asking him to tell him a bit more about himself is far from being racist. He seems to be quite hung up on his race & unfortunately he thinks that the ladies will decline him an appointment due to it. That won't be the reason to decline the appointment, his attitude & how he treated you when you'd like to know a bit more about someone that you are providing your body & time to. Wow Joe is all I can say. The majority of the ladies I know would have ignored your text altogether, zero response. Soleil was nice & patient enough to respond then you play a blame game with her. She is a very sweet & kind hearted woman, who probably doesn't have a single racist bone in her body.

Its called..BOOZE then convince her!lol

What are normal day rates?

Then maybe it's time to combine the two websites into one, and have the Paradise Spa site be just an alias to the Angel's Touch site? That is, it'll redirect itself to the other site automatically.

Nikki Thomas! and whoever female duo partner she has? I do believe she does offer it with Cleo Catra (at least from a reco they had)

Yes Ladies do looove flowers :)

Met her last week when she was hosting in-calls. Unlike others I did not have to wait in the lobby. When I saw her, I was unsure whether or not her photos were current or accurate but its difficult to be certain one way or another as her face is blurred in the pics. Regardless, she was not unattractive. Our apt was 1 hour long. We chatted over a drink. Her service pleasurable and safe GFE, BBBJ, COS with positions changing as desired. Overall, not a bad experience.

all the more reason why you shouldn't be inquiring about the lady. You totally provided her location in your first post ever, which is likely why it would appear she has retired (my assumption, but she has not advertised since) If she isnt advertising, you should take that for what it is. She has likely moved on to better things and would likely not appreciate someone who thinks they may know her inquiring about her past.