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I wanted to take a few moments to thank not only the gentlemen but the entire Cerb community for one of the best changes I've seen since my return to the hobby ( had been gone since 2008 )... During the pre-chatroom era ( circa 2005-2008 ) I was often chastised for being an SP who wasn't a size 0. I'm a size 12. You know who else was a size 12? Marilyn. I don't need to write out her last name, you know damn well who I am talking about. Over the last few months, I can see that the diversity of cerbites has increased greatly, which shows in cases like preferable women's sizes no longer being a biased, one-sided affair. Even if women my size are not your cup of tea, the respect shown concerning "to each their own" is staggeringly exceeding my expectations. Thank you cerbites for believing in "all women are beautiful in their own way" !!! An especially BIG thanks to the mods also, as this chastisement was allowed to take place on "the other board" which is the main reason for my switch to this one only :) I love your no tolerance for BS! ________________________________________________ FOOD FOR THOUGHT: 1. Marilyn Monroe's body measurements: Height: 5'5 Weight: 118-140 lbs Bust: 35-37 inches Waist: 22-23 inches Hips: 35-36 inches Bra size: 36D 2. Dove's "REAL BEAUTY" campaign: http://www.dove.ca/en/Social-Mission/About-the-Movement.aspx 3. Definition beau·ti·ful adj. a) Having qualities that delight the senses, especially the sense of sight. b) Excellent; wonderful. beauti·ful·ly adv. beauti·ful·ness n. Synonyms: beautiful, lovely, pretty, handsome, comely, fair All these adjectives apply to what excites aesthetic admiration. Beautiful is most comprehensive: a beautiful child; a beautiful painting; a beautiful mathematical proof. Lovely applies to what inspires emotion rather than intellectual appreciation: "They were lovely, your eyes" (George Seferis). What is pretty is beautiful in a delicate or graceful way: a pretty face; a pretty song; a pretty room. Handsome stresses poise and dignity of form and proportion: a very large, handsome paneled library. "She is very pretty, but not so extraordinarily handsome" (William Makepeace Thackeray). Comely suggests wholesome physical attractiveness: "Mrs. Hurd is a large woman with a big, comely, simple face" (Ernest Hemingway). Fair emphasizes freshness or purity: "In the highlands, in the country places,/Where the old plain men have rosy faces,/And the young fair maidens/Quiet eyes" (Robert Louis Stevenson). 4. Most importantly: BEAUTY LIES WITHIN THEY EYE OF THE BEHOLDER

I'm not ashamed of me being a companion. I have come to terms that people in my life will either continue to love me or leave. The most important adults in my life know and they're still here and in my life and that is what counts. I have been having an inner battle with myself to tell my select group of friends that did not know what I do besides my other "vanilla" business that I run and this weekend I did when we were having a gathering at my home. Were there lots questions? Oh Yes. Concerns? Oh Yes. Do they still love me? Yes they certainly do! Being a companion allows me the freedom to do as I please, I'm the boss. I now get to take care of my Mom and put my sister through Dalhousie, where I went. There's six including me that I am financially responsible for and that is what I chose, it's not always easy but I love my family, my life and being together under my/our one roof. My family loves me. I have have family that does not know and I feel the time is almost here when I do say something, we BBQ and camp a lot together in the Summer and they can't run from me out in the wild, I have no problem answering any questions that they may have. The ones I know I'm soon to tell, knew that I was a companion in the past, so why would it matter now. I'm older and much wiser. I do wish I could be 100% open and show my face again but I have been blackmailed, slandered and harassed in the past and I fear that could happen again by those three people. Anyone that knows me as a "friend" or personal friend, knows I am a mother of two growing boys and I don't believe they are at the age where I could or should tell them. My chosen professions allows me to be the best Mama possible, volunteer at a number of places and my sons school and be a present involved parent. I love being a companion and wouldn't have it any other way. When I finally get over the fear of being blackmailed and the threats of being outted to my sons, they will be prepared the best way I possibly can but not until then. I may just come out 100% and tell the blackmailers to go suck the big one because I don't give a sweet shit anymore. With that said, I have no shame and never did. I have fears but not for me but my children. There are many wolves in sheeps clothing out there, I'm just blessed to know who they are and have developed the radar through experience to detect them. There is no room for shame in what we do, if you want to keep it private that is your right but what we do doesn't make us bad people, it's made me ever better in every aspect of my life! All my love and support to the providers and hobbyist, Lexy

As Samantha's wonderfully articulated message indicates, people do not usually enter in the sex trade for healthy well thought out reasons. More often than not there is an act of desperation on some level. Since the stereotypes are so ubiquitous in our culture if someone told me that they wanted to get into the sex industry I would treat their statement as a red flag that something serious was going on. Being a client for many years I have met people working in the sex trade on all levels from drug addicts in the survival of the sex trade to the "Madame" conducting business in nicely furnished surroundings. Of the people, after considering all the ramifications, that freely choose this profession, and this is my own personal opinion, they must have an above average work ethic. Unlike the rest of the employment sector these entrepreneurs have no support aside from [if they can find them] peer groups. On top of that they almost by default have to become activists and well-versed in the criminal code and legal discourse. I have never been ashamed of being a client or of the people I date and can afford to be extremely open about it. The two main reasons for this are: I'm single. Physically disabled. Having Cerebral Palsy means also in this context that I can come at the issues from a slightly different angle outside of the typical stereotypes. And it's been my experience that public opinion is slowly very incrementally changing in regards to sex work. Most people I talk to will privately admitted after a long discourse with them, that maybe some of their assumptions are based on erroneous information. But they are, as yet unwilling to speak out publicly. PatrickGC

I love me some "B.I.G" women!!! Screw all the people who are haters and embrace the fact that you are beautiful. :)

I'm glad your feeling more appreciated, I'm sorry if there was a time when you didn't feel acceptance or appreciation for your beauty. In this business, an in life there is room for all types, ages, all personalities, intelligence and motivations. I'm glad that message is becoming a strong one in commercials, society and boards like this. Why some try to make others feel less than I will never understand and unfortunately it is usually women. We are far more critical of one another than men are of women. I have been called a rusty old hag, by a woman on this board, some have said my legs were crooked, my hairstyle was stupid, lol, I didn't realize hairstyles could be stupid. All parts of my body have been criticized and made fun of and all these criticisms and comments were by other women, yes other women in the business. It happens and sadly often. I've learned that its pointless to try and understand hate and dislike towards others and specific types the important thing to know is that beauty is as much internal as external and yours, mine and hers is all wonderful and should be celebrated, accepted and appreciated, as there is no other like it. Embrace yourself for being you, unique and special just the way you are:) A big thank you to those who want and accept different types because wouldn't it be boring if we all came from one mold:)

I'm not ashamed of the choices I've made or how I live my life, including seeing escorts. I love the company of women and I've met many wonderful, strong and self determined women in this industry who I would be proud to call friends. Shame, guilt or self loathing would involve behaving inconsistently with my sense of identity. You can only do that for so long without developing unhealthy emotional and pyschological problems. Having said that like most people here, I keep this choice private for all the reason cited. It would be hypocritical to say that I would be opposed to any of the women in my personal life becoming involved in the sex industry. At the same time I'm also not naive and I realize that participation in this industry involves unique physical and emotional health risks as well as safety risks. The sex industry is one of the few jobs you can enter with no training at all. I don't mean sex technique either, but rather basic health and safety training and how to handle "difficult customers". That has to be a concern to anyone who cares for those close to them because there are unique and serious risks in this industry. While the CERB community is a positive one in which men and women generally view each other as equals and women are treated respectfully, this is not representative of the industry as a whole. I would want anyone close to me to understand the range of conditions and clients in the industry and the associated risks. Having said that if they were considering joining the military or becoming a coal miner I would want them to consider the risks unique to those jobs as well! In general my experience is that most men are "good men". That observation seems to be confirmed by the comments of most of the women on this Board about their clients. I'm happy to hear that. However I've seen what men are capable of when sex is combined with inequitable authority, intimidation, physical strength and vulnerability. I've intervened to stop a rape in progress, fired men for sexual harassment and sexual assault in the workplace and been a juror in a trial involving the rape and physical assault of a sex worker. In addition, looking at some of the comments on other industry boards it's clear that many customers are mysoginists. Men like this will be clients or potential clients and that has to concern anyone who cares for the women in their lives. Hell, they could be friends, lovers or husbands and that concerns me too! As much as most of society sees the treatment of sex workers and women in general as separate issues, I see them as identical. The bottom line is that I would not "tell" anyone how to live their life. The more mature a person is the more confidence I have to have in their decisions. I would however encourage them to speak to women who have managed to be safe, healthy and successful in the industry. There's a limit to how much useful advice I could provide from the client side. What I can give is unconditional love and support and if anything more care and attention if this is their choice.

Unfortunately, this is not something that I am proud of, , most probably for the fact that it goes against the morals and lifestyle that my family lives by and tried to pass on to me ;) And honestly, its just not family either, I would not share this really with anyone, accept for those I meet as clients, and a few select sps too. I guess you could say it is the shame that holds me back and keeps me from publically exposing myself as an sp. I am envious at times of those who are open about it, as I imagine that the freedom that comes with this job matched with the freedom of exposing your true self and not caring what anyone else thinks aside from those who count, must be so personally rewarding. The one thing I am proud of though, is that I have remained to be my true self and not change for anyone or the money. I have always kept a level head, stuck to my restrictions, been selective of whom I spend my time with, only see clients when I feel to, and put my money to good use, which allows me to not only support me and my child, but also allows me way more time with her than if I were working shifts. I get to do and see a lot with her, and this make our relationship awesome. And that is something I am very proud of ;)

While some of us tough old cocks like to roost with the tender spring chickens, we're not so spring chickeny ourselves. In my case, 20 years of abuse has taken its toll on some of my joints. I tried Big Pharma's pills and I didn't like the side effects, but there are lots of natural remedies if you're willing to invest the time, money, and ritual: turmeric, ginger (very effective), fish oil, etc. I do all this and more, but was puzzled regarding a recent prolonged flareup. Then I read an article that vegetables from the solanaceae family, such as potatoes, tomatoes, eggplants, etc., can cause joint pain in those susceptible to it. I was eating (organic) potatoes and tomato sauce almost every day! I abruptly stopped eating these foods and, wouldn't you know it, a couple of weeks later and my joints are (practically) fine! Now, back to the spring chickens! :P

I felt the same way, hence my cerb name. That feeling of emptiness would just get worse and worse, eating everything inside. You are a stronger man than me, to go so long with that emptiness inside you. A combination of loss after loss and that emptiness inside building up left me severely depressed and suicidal. With professional help I learn to get over the grief and came to realize that the emptiness was a lack of intimacy. Companion is the right word cause to be honest sex had nothing to do with it. Guys may think I'm insane but I've had wild threesomes and nothing felt the same. Only real relief is when it's intimate and meaningful to me, did it ever help. To confess I've been on dates just to be held and to connect. For that I used to be a shame, but not anymore, why should I be ashamed for something I need to live? So your not alone feeling empty, and stay strong there is nothing worse than to watch someone die slowly, just cherish every moment like it may be their last.

I know that you ask the gentlemen, but I just can't help but answer anything remotely close to a fashion questions. Anyone will notice a lil' glam. Whether is be a "wow" leopard print, a bright red or pink lipstick that oh so in the season and right paired accessories, I believe it gets notice. I nice look on a man gets noticed too! I'm a sucker for casual yet clean and modern look on any man. Nice dress shoes, a bright colored chemise buttoned up with dark jeans and optionally paired with a neck scarf or vest... MMMMMM... Yummies! Don't get me wrong either! A T-Shirt can go a long why too when matched with a neutral color or same color hat or shoes that gets same "I'm checking you out hard!" Both make me droll! Although.... clothes always look better on the floor! :) A mani/pedi and great hair always finish off any outfit nicely too, no matter what the sex. Guys if you haven't had a mani/pedi yet, You Gotta Try it! It's Awesome! Looking good makes you feels good! Most probably influencing they way one carries themselves when they feel good, with confidence, poise and positivity. So do the small things get noticed? Ummm... Most definitely yes!!!

Ashamed? Maybe at first when I started, because of all the social lack of acceptance taboos and we all know about it! Yes I don't have to announce it with screaming voices, but if anyone is to find out, oh well you don't like me because of my work, too bad so sad! Maybe they should think about their sense of friendship,because if you accept people for what their job is and not for who they are as a person, then I don't want you as a friend! And I ve got so many new friends here who wants more! ;) xxoo

Claire Heavens and PassionVitto are the new hot duo in O-town... what can be better than Passion in Heaven yay! Blonde and the brunnette! cant get any better! all thanks to Al from Quebec who brough us together! Thank you Al! It would have never happend if it was not for you!

Violet wands are modern electrical sexual or kink stimulation toys. They are used for the application of low current, high voltage (min 35 kV to max 65 kV typically), high-frequency, electricity to the body. They are most commonly used in BDSM though erotic sensation play is also possible with them. A violet wand typically consists of a hand held "wand" made of plastic which encases a high voltage electrical transformer. The base of the handle has a permanently attached electrical cord which plugs directly into a wall outlet. Though use of a GFCI is recommended with some wand designs, to protect from surges. The wand has an intensity level control and sometimes an on/off switch, usually located near where the electrical cord is attached. Some models operate on an electromagnetic disruptive discharge circuit while others are powered by electronic circuitry (called solid state wands) or combinations of the two. Various electrodes are inserted into and used with the violet wand to provide the sensations. A violet wand electrode is usually made of clear tempered glass which is sealed and evacuated and back-filled with a noble gas, typically argon and sometimes neon, in a process similar to the manufacturing of neon signs. The high voltage current causes the plasma inside the electrode to excite, emitting a glowing color when the wand operates and through which the spark emits. The appearance and process is identical to plasma globes, though the net discharge is higher in order to create spark streamers external to the glass which cause the desired sensation to the skin. A violet wand creates shock sensation when there is a gap between the electrode or the attachment and the body. As the wand is held near to the body, the spark will jump, providing the sensation. Full contact with an accessory creates a slightly warm sensation, but a violet wand provides a wide range of physical sensation properties with different settings and attachments. Some typical uses for a violet wand include temporary or permanent branding of the skin for Body modification, electrically charged impact with paddles or other conductive implements, electrified touch or massage, or erotic stimulation of the genitalia. Violet Wands can be used anywhere on the body but should not be used around the eyes. The following 'terms for techniques' were standardized by the International Violet Wand Guild c. 2005. Direct Users employ a violet wand by using various accessories which emit sparks for different physical sensations and purposes. These accessories include electrodes made of glass or metal and other conductive accessories and attachments. In-Direct Utilizing a body contact accessory the person holding the contact becomes electrified to the touch. Any part of the body can be used to pass the arc to the recipient. Additionally the person holding the contact can utilize any conductive material as an accessory. Reverse Users employ a body contact accessory by attaching it to the bottom subject, which electrifies the 'bottom' partner, and then conductive accessories are used by the top partner to electrify the bottom. Extension Using an extension handle and cable, allows the most net discharge current to pass to the subject. Extension handles are used with many electrodes and accessories. Branding Through the use of certain condensing electrodes, violet wands can be used to effectively "brand" or cauterize a design on an individuals skin which makes them popular in body modification. Violet wand brands can be semi permanent or totally permanent and are an easy and inexpensive method of "scarification" (the act of intentionally scarring ones own body) often used by professionals and avid enthusiasts alike.

I have a kit, and I'm in the process of learning to use it safely. It's a lot of fun! I got to sample a demo at Sexapalooza this year and couldn't resist getting one :D

Great post Peachy! I totally agree with you, as an older woman i do like to look sexy but dont want necessarly the younger look...i like to keep it classy! I do notice what a man wears...but i will mostly notice a yummy smell...major turn on!! take notes gentlemen ;)

I found your post interesting and had to google to find out more I hope this added info is helpful What are nightshades and in which foods are they found? Potatoes, tomatoes, sweet and hot peppers, eggplant, tomatillos, tamarios, pepinos, pimentos, paprika, and cayenne peppers are classified as nightshade foods. A particular group of substances in these foods, called alkaloids, can impact nerve-muscle function and digestive function in animals and humans, and may also be able to compromise joint function. Because the amount of alkaloids is very low in nightshade foods when compared with other nightshade plants, health problems from nightshade foods may only occur in individuals who are especially sensitive to these alkaloid substances. Since cooking only lowers alkaloid content of nightshade foods by about 40-50%, highly sensitive individuals may want to avoid this category of food altogether, while non-sensitive individuals may be able to eat these foods, especially in cooked form, without problem. Green and sprouted spots on potatoes usually reflect high alkaloid content, even though the green itself involves the presence of chlorophyll, not alkaloids. For this reason, sprouted areas should always be thoroughly removed before potato cooking, or the potatoes should be discarded altogether. Nightshades--a description Nightshades are a diverse group of foods, herbs, shrubs, and trees that have fascinated scientists, doctors, and nutritionists for centuries. "Nightshade" is actually the common name used to describe over 2,800 species of plants, many with very different properties and constituents. All of the plants, however, belong to a scientific order called Polemoniales, and to a scientific family called Solanaceae. To give you an idea of the diversity associated with this group of plants, consider the fact that tobacco, morning glory, potato, and tomato are all classified as nightshades. Pharmaceutical nightshades Nightshades are actually more famous as drugs than as foods. The best-known nightshades when it comes to pharmacy include mandrake (Mandragora officinum), tobacco (Nicotiana tabacum) and belladonna, also called deadly nightshade (Atropa belladonna). Nightshade vegetables and fruit The most famous food members of the nightshade family include potatoes (Solanum tuberosum), tomatoes (Lycopersicon esculentum), many species of sweet and hot peppers (all species of Capsicum, including Capsicum annum), and eggplant (Solanum melongena). Less well know, but equally genuine nightshade foods include ground cherries (all species of Physalis), tomatillos (Physallis ixocapra), garden huckleberry (Solanum melanocerasum), tamarillos (Cyphomandra betacea), pepinos (Solanum muricatum), and naranjillas (Solanum quitoense). Pimentos (also called pimientos) belong to the nightshade family, and usually come from the pepper plant Capsicum annum. Pimento cheese and pimento-stuffed olives are therefore examples of foods that should be classified as containing nightshade components. Although the sweet potato, whose scientific name is Ipomoea batatas, belongs to the same plant order as the nightshades (Polemoniales), it does not belong to the Solanaceae family found in this order, but to a different plant family called Convolvulaceae. Nightshade spices The seasoning paprika is also derived from Capsicum annum, the common red pepper, and the seasoning cayenne comes from another nightshade, Capsicum frutenscens. Hot sauces that contain hot peppers should also be considered as a nightshade food. It may be helpful to note here that black pepper, which belongs to the Piperaceae family, is not a member of the nightshade foods. Ways in which nightshades may affect health Alkaloids - The chemistry of nightshades Most of the health research on nightshades has focused on a special group of substances found in all nightshades called alkaloids. In chemical terms, alkaloids are easy to identify because they all have at least one ring-like structure that contains the element nitrogen. Plants produce alkaloids as a regular part of their biochemical activity, and these alkaloids are primarily designed to help protect the plants from insects that would otherwise eat them. Four basic types of alkaloids are found in nightshade plants. These types are: (1) the steroid alkaloids, which contain a fairly complicated fused ring structure and are found in most food nightshades including potato and tomato; (to compare the value of one of the most notable steroid alkaloid -solanine-in the foods in which it is most concentrated, please refer to Table 1)(2) the tropane alkaloids, all originating from the simple amino acid ornithine and found in fewer of the overall nightshades, but more extensively researched due to their strong drug-like properties; (3) the pyrrolizidine alkaloid and (4) the indole alkaloids, both important groups from a drug standpoint. Table 1 VegetableSolanine contentmilligrams per 100 gram servingCommon peppers7.7-9.2Eggplant6.1-11.33Potatoes2-13Effect of steroid alkaloids on the nervous system The steroid alkaloids in potato - primarily solanine and chaonine - have been studied for their health effects in two areas. First is their ability to block activity of an enzyme in nerve cells called cholintesterase. Many of the alkaloids found in nightshades possess this kind of activity, called cholinesterase inhibition. If the activity of cholinesterase is too strongly blocked, the nervous system control of muscle movement becomes disrupted, and muscle twitching, trembling, paralyzed breathing, or convulsions can result. The steroid alkaloids found in potato have clearly been shown to block cholinesterase activity, but this block does not usually appear strong enough to produce nerve-muscle disruptions like twitching or trembling. Effect of steroid alkaloids on joint health A second type of problem potentially related to the potato alkaloids involves damage to the joints caused by inflammation and altered mineral status. Whether alkaloids can contribute to joint damage of this kind is not clear from current levels of research. Some researchers have speculated that nightshade alkaloids can contribute to excessive loss of calcium from bone and excessive depositing of calcium in soft tissue. For this reason, these researchers have recommended elimination of nightshade foods from the meal plans of all individuals with osteoarthritis, rheumatoid arthritis, or other joint problems like gout. Effect of nicotine alkaloid on health Just as there is no firm research evidence for the impact of the steroid alkaloids in nightshade foods on the nervous system or joints, there is also no solid research evidence for impact of the more drug-like alkaloids in nightshade foods on body systems. But to the surprise of many people, nightshade foods do contain very small amounts of drug-like alkaloids that have long been fascinating to medical and drug researchers. Consider, for example, the most famous of the one-ring type alkaloids (monocyclic alkaloids) found in the highest concentrations in tobacco (Nicotiana tabacum): nicotine. This alkaloid is found not only in non-food nightshades like tobacco, but also in the food nightshades including eggplant and tomato. But there is one important difference here: while alkaloids like nicotine are definitely found in nightshade foods, the amount involved is dramatically less. Even in the case of eggplant, which is the food nightshade that appears to have the highest nicotine content after tobacco, the amount of nicotine is far lower than the amount found in tobacco. In the case of green tomatoes, which also contain nicotine, the amount is even less. The levels of nicotine in all nightshade foods are so low that most healthcare practitioners have simply ignored the presence of nicotine in these foods as a potential compromising factor in our health. At the World's Healthiest Foods, we both agree and disagree with this conclusion. While we agree that the amount of nicotine in nightshade foods is very, very small, it still seems possible to us that some individuals might be particularly sensitive to the alkaloids found in nightshades, and that even very small amounts might compromise function in the bodies of these individuals. Increased alkaloid content of green and sprouting potatoes It's important to point out that green spots on potatoes, or sprouting on potatoes, usually correspond to an increased alkaloid content, and this increased alkaloid content is one of the main reasons for avoiding consumption of green or sprouted potatoes. (The green color itself is chlorophyll, and helpful to our health, but unfortunately, it's also accompanied by the increased alkaloids that we can't see). Interestingly, in one study conducted with hamsters who were fed the sprouted portions of potatoes, increased alkaloid content did not seem to impact the nerves or joints nearly as much as the digestive system itself. The researchers focused on damage to the stomach and intestines when trying to understand the problems caused by ingestion of potato sprout material, and concluded that there were reasons to avoid this material based on digestive system evidence alone. A bitter taste in potatoes after the potatoes have been cooked is usually a good indication that excessive amounts of alkaloids are present. The effect of cooking on the alkaloid content in nightshade foods

I wouldn't say I necessarily notice the "details" per say, but you can always tell when a lady is "put together". I'm not usually going to come right out with a "great shoes" or "I love your hair" kinda compliment because that's just not me. But it's all part of the "look" and I defiantly notice when a lady has the "look"! There is nothing sexier than a woman who has her shit together and that usually includes hair, make-up, nails, outfit, etc. but it's not he hair, nails and make-up that makes it sexy, it's the confidence that usually radiates from a lady who has taken the time to do all these things. So do I notice the the little things women do to feel sexy? Not exactly, but I definitely appreciate the effort they put into it to allow that ass kicking confidence I love to shine through!

I don't know if I've ever been ashamed of doing this. I did have a lot of reservations, and I was much more guarded in the beginning. I still am to an extent, but I don't, nor have I ever felt a pang of shame due to visiting and SP or MA. Just because the topic popped up about imagining a female family member doing this, I thought I'd add my thoughts. My cousin is a remarkable girl, and we're quite close because of our age. She's is as good as a sister. And I don't know if this would be an odd thing to say, but if she ever told me she was an SP, or MA, I think I'd be happy for her. The thing is, and this is an assumption that I've made so forgive me for being so bold - SPs and MAs here know that they are desired. It is a contributing factor for you ladies to be in this business (Again, complete speculation, just reasoned logic). It is that sort of confidence in oneself that I wish she had emotionally. I mean she is just a fantastic person, intelligent beyond anyone I know, and a career on steroids. But after a couple of bad relationships, her self worth and outlook has been shot. I always get the sense that the ladies here are quite sure of themselves. Everyone has doubts and those bad moments with everyone, but for the most part, I'm always in awe for how women her have taken the leap to get into this business, and thrive. Sex between consenting adults isn't bad. And money passing hands doesn't cheapen it (in my humble opinion). I'm not ashamed, and should I find out that my cousin somehow decides that the industry was for her, even part time, I'd cheer her, and never check out this website again (Do NOT want to run into her pictures). The only thing I was ashamed about was certain fantasies I've had. I've kept them to myself, and finally started to get the idea...wait a moment, I have carte blanche access to live all those fantasies out, wtf are you waiting for?!?

This is so true, and it goes back to what I said in my earlier post - society is a slave to convention. It's perfectly acceptable for a guy to go downtown, talk to a lady, buy her drinks (while spending lots of money in the process), and then get lucky... or not! lol. There are no guarantees in the civilian world, yet the hobby offers up an honest monetary exchange for a service. It's essentially the same as the millions upon millions of transactions we deal with on a daily basis. The only difference here is the type of service being offered. Throw that into the equation, and suddenly all bets are off. Go figure... Similarly, it's perfectly acceptable for a couple to spend money on one another in the course of dating, only to arrive at the same end as paid companionship. Also, since we're talking about getting screwed, don't get me started on the amount of money which changes hands in divorce court! :icon_eek:

I do understand your point of view, especially since I started at the bottom almost five years ago and had to earn every single point (in 20 point increments, no less!) I was merely suggesting that we should not get hung up on appearances, and focus on what really matters. However, in the interest of fairness - perhaps mod could top up the senior member's rep points. In other words, if new members are accorded 5000 points, while older members were not afforded this luxury then long time members should now receive a "bonus" 5000 points, or whatever the number happens to be, to even things out. How does that sound?

My dear this is definitely not something to be ashamed of. To do what you do to support you and your child and to be able to spend time and have a good relationship with her. This tell me you are a great mom better than most I've seen and there is no one who can says otherwise without lying through their teeth.

Well a sounds like a strange highlight but it is only because it made dad happy. Dad had his 84th birthday, and had a little party with his wife and friends. He was happy because he thought he wasn't going to make it to his 84th, and the highlight of the day, first time since he told us of his cancer, and cancer aside, dad seemed happy, so that is a highlight RG

I think guys notice as they pick us, for all our glory. Weather that be for our looks, attributes, clothing, or lack of, ect, ect. But I'm sure every guy notices something different, some may notice individual details, some a whole package. Alot of how they view us may be determined by the females in their lives. I'm a glam gal, love all that goes with it, I wake up natural, live in my world natural, but if I'm going to be sexy for someone I want the whole package, nails, hair, makeup, lingerie,high heels, all these things make me feel sexier and more prepared to want to be intimate and its fun to get all "dolled" up. It is about a total package and a total package as I see it involves glam. But to each their own. I think where things become blurred for guys is in the thinking that natural is just that no makeup, uncomplicated hair, ect, as some pictures depict in magazines, but what they don't know is a lot of these so called natural "looking" girls have spent more time in hair and makeup than a lot of the glam girls. All in all it doesn't matter what someone else notices or likes as we all have to portray ourselves as we see fit and are comfortable with, guys noticing our efforts is a bonus:)

Lol - this is why I always carry my toothbrush with me!! Love the benefits that come with fresh breath!!

I've often asked myself that. I'm a girl who has to talk to a guy before anything else happens (I like to get a vibe from him) but I hate when they ask me to justify what I'm doing, mostly because it goes hand in hand with "trying to save me". Lots of girls lie because they are sick of hearing how they deserve better and should be doing more with their lives. There is a good portion of guys who want to hear how much we hate our jobs and how they are doing us a favor. I don't take those guys. I love my job and anyone who wants to degrade what i do will be trouble in the back usually. Just my 2c Megan

Sometimes....its just a matter of chewing gum. ;-) Fresh breath always gets rewarded with me ;) Slurp ;)

I'm not ashamed in the slightest. WHen people ask me what I do for a living, I tell them, I'm an escort. My family knows, my friends know. When I tell someone what I do, and they think they can leer at me in response, they learn quickly that being an escort does NOT mean they can touch/grope/be inappropriate with me. I am a woman who loves what she does, and who knows that everything has it's context. As such, there ARE times when I won't say what I do, because I dont' want it to all become about me. For instance, at my sisters upcoming wedding, I will not tell people what I do. Because, unfortunately, if I did, I know there would be gossip/stares/sneers, and I would be mortified if I caused anything like that on my sisters day. Which unfortunately would happen if I was honest. Society forces me to be dishonest sometimes, but for the most part, I am welcomed and respected when I am able to be honest. My friends responded with shock, but quickly the shock turned to understanding, and in most cases, respect.

At Fat Bastard BBM, all of our providers have been trained in the arts of multilingual seduction. Phaedrus: AnCay Iay Eesay Ouyay AkedNay? (Phaedrus is the master of Pig Latin.) Lee Richards: MmmGRRRRrrrMMMmmmZZZGGgggggggRRRRrrghhhhhh (Lee has been studying Neanderthal for years. The sentence above is delivered with a hint of a Homo Erectus accent) Andy of Halifax: Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiizzzzee Titzzzzzzzzzzz laydeeeeeeeeee (Andy has been returning to his Maritime roots, inspired by Alexander keith and the consumption thereof.) And I, well I can barely speak any language. Most instructors have asked if all of my dialect comes as a result of substandard "second language" training. I was in fact raised by wild dogs in the wilds of southern Ontario... so I do communicate quite well in the language of my canine forebears....

It's your roving reporter Cato coming to you from the newly-launched Tease at 5023 Bank St. The night featured a bikini contest with ten hot contestants vying for cash prizes. The crowd was enthusiastic, and cheered the contestants on as they performed their sexy moves on stage and their acrobatic exploits on the pole. Our own Jazy was crowned the winner over stiff competition, garnering the most enthusiastic and loudest applause. Cerbites may remember that Jazy was the original inspiration for the Best Bums on the Planet thread, and she was in outstanding form as she took top honours in the first Tease Sunday Night Special. Congratulations to Jazy and all the contestants for a rollicking fun night.

Bonne Fete mon beau! xoxo

Everything around my house is dying, right after the warranty is up! Yup, year 11 is expensive. The latest, how long should it take to dry a load of towels??? Jeeze! I am gonna go bankrupt before July!

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Happy Birthday Royal Fun.... May your day be wonderful....

A very Happy Birthday to you, and my thanks for all your tasteful and beautiful posts!

Congrats to you Midnite Massage ! Love your posts too :)

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Well remember a half hour or even an hour really isn't a lot of time. It's just enough time to get what you really want done, whether it's a social time, conversation, sex well you get the idea. I only had one shorter encounter early when I began this lifestyle, and it was so structured an encounter it was terrible. X number of minutes for a conversation which was more like a structured interview, y number of minutes for a shower, z number of minutes for sex, then a few minutes to have a shower before leaving. If you want quality time with a companion, which I assume is seeing her for more than just sex, well that type of encounter takes more than an hour. In fact as I have seen more ladies, even two hours seems not enough. You have to be willing on your part to invest in an encounter, allowing enough time for the date to unfold naturally and hopefully the lady and you can develop some chemistry Just my opinion RG

Have a wonderfully fun and sexy birthday filled with things that make you smile! :tongue:

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Yes, and I also want to say that you were quite correct in pointing out that too many rep points too soon for newer members may skew the perception of credit worthiness. It's a very valid point, and should be considered. Additional Comments: Ultimately, it will be up to the Mod / Council on how to best proceed, but judging from the responses in two threads so far, I feel it merits some debate.

Interesting thread, especially nowadays since wherever we look, be it online, print, tv programming, music, etc. people are working hard to get noticed. Personally, yes, I do notice when/if a woman goes to the effort, including the effort that goes into looking one's best au natural. (Wonderful how simple plain lip gloss makes a woman's lips look oh so yummy!) But great looks are transient. Yes you can get my attention with how you look, what you wear, the glow that goes with healthy skin... but you'll lose my attention just as quick with poor attitude and language. There's a lot to be said for good follow through. Just my two cents...

I used to be ashamed of it, but not so much anymore. After a couple of long attachments, I've come to the conclusion that I'm too nomadic to ever live with anyone again, or even maintain a relationship maybe. But I still want to give and get physical pleasure, especially with somebody I might click with. I was considered hot in my youth but I fucking hated bars and I was (and still am) totally clueless to the signals which come from women unless they grab my crotch! I was (and still am) shy too. So instead of staying home jerking off every night, I entered the hobby. Glad I did! One day when my kids grow up and my parents are gone, I won't give a shit and will tell anybody. Until then, it's under wraps (not that it would ruin my life if it got out, however). Hell, you never know, my Dad and I might finally have something in common! I've always had my suspicions. ;-) I can't be bothered to date anymore. It's just too much bullshit. Forced blah-blah-blah on a $200 date just to find out you mix like oil and water. Bullshit. Unless fate intervenes and my true love and I bump into each other half-drunk at the wine store, hobbying is and will continue to be a major part of my life. Actually, I'd like to find a woman who would love to share this hobby! LOL Well, one can always dream. Also, the financial risks involved in cohabitation (for either party, man or woman) are not worth it to me anymore. I'm lucky that I support only those I love; other people are not so lucky.

Yep, I agree with the majority of the guys here ... I am told that I am quite skilled orally, and I very much enjoy going down on my guest .... and I can very often bring them to climax ... and this is a massive turn on for me making the whole encounter that much more enjoyable. So I would say, don't feel bad ... enjoy the fringe benefits of your job !!

Lol at least sp are honest about screwing you, and you leave happy.

I will preface this review with the standard your mileage may vary disclaimer but in all honesty, if you have never gotten a massage of this nature previously or have been hesitant to try then do yourself a favour and let Katrine be your first. It is easy and accurate to state that she is excellent at what she does and regardless of what massage package you choose, it will make for a great time and your body will thank you for it once you are finished. Upon entering her residence, Katrine greeted me with a warm welcome and if you are the anxious type like myself this is just the first step in the many that she executes that will help put you at ease. I wish I could describe what she was wearing in great detail but to be fair she wasn't wearing too much and frankly I wasn't bothered by it in the slightest. If you've checked out her website and perused her pictures then you have an idea of how beautiful a woman Katrine is but face to face is where you really get to see how fantastic she looks from top to bottom. She says she goes to the Gym and it shows as she is toned and very fit. Beyond that there are a number of places you can get lost looking at Katrine; her eyes, her lips, her legs, and you certainly cannot leave out her breasts. It is safe to say they are a handful and presumably a mouthful as well. It is understandable if you cannot keep your eyes off them throughout the massage. Prior to making the short walk over to where the massage takes place, you can see that she keeps her place tidy. While it likely isn't a deal breaker for the majority of people, it certainly doesn't hurt that she takes the time to make her place presentable as well. Of course if you are spending too much time looking at the decor, you are already not taking full advantage of what you have in front of you. The massage room is well lit, has music playing in the back ground. For my visit it was of the top 40 variety but again if you are putting too much stock into the music then you clearly need to loosen up still. The background noise could be a dentist drill and you won't mind. Once Katrine gets her hands on you, that's the ideal time to let your worries go away and focus on what's important. Letting Katrine take care of you. If you choose a massage with girlfriend privileges then you are certainly in for a treat. While I have a rather uncanny ability to ramble on excessively (review not withstanding), even before I stepped foot on the massage table I got to find out how good a kisser Katrine truly is. On her website, she is confident enough to state that she is a great kisser and she backed it up and then some. She absolutely emanates sensuality and you start to feel it after a few soft and delicate kisses. Yes tongue is involved and Katrine got me going just enough to have me yearn for her and what she had in store next. If you think it can't happen to you so easily, Katrine will prove otherwise. It's almost easy to forget I was there for a massage as kissing her and holding her body close to mine was as great an ice breaker one could ask for. When it's time for the massage, the table Katrine uses is comfortable and lengthy so taller individuals like myself won't have to worry too much about dangling off of the sides. If you've got the skills, I'd recommend starting with giving Katrine a massage. Since I can't massage my way out of a paper bag, I had to decline this offer but you don't have to be like me. If you want the opportunity to rub her body up and down, do it. She is bound to thank you when it is time for her to massage you. Since I started with the massage after the brief but delightful make out session, I learnt quickly how good Katrine is with her hands. I noticed plenty of attention was given to my upper body and with all the pressure points and sensitive muscles there, it may be a subtle observation but worth noting. She focuses on one side of the body fairly thoroughly before moving to another side. Of course having her hands on your shoulder blades is just the beginning. Feeling her hands rub and caress my back, legs, thighs and neck. Every extremity gets attention all the while Katrine stays attentive making certain I am enjoying myself which I most certainly was. An early exclamation point to the massage would be Katrine's bodyslide which is arousing as it sounds. If you are wondering what big breasts feel like against your naked back, the short answer is fantastic. Katrine isn't shy in the slightest and when she gets up close and personal the way she does it will get your body tingling. This is dependent on the type of person you are. For the quiet types, you can certainly let Katrine do her thing but you'd be missing out on some very light hearted and easy going conversation. Whether you prefer to speak in English ou Francais, Katrine doesn't miss a beat as I was able to keep a dialogue going with her for the duration of the massage. Presuming you aren't just focusing on her naked body, and you can be forgiven for doing so, being able to just talk about anything and everything certainly helped get rid of any lingering anxiety I had coursing through my body. Don't be afraid to ask her questions. She's a fascinating woman and while you come for the massage (and perhaps some extra benefits), you certainly can stay for some stimulating conversation. Yes she has an accent, and yes it is sexy but I figured that was a given. When it's time to turn over, this is where business picks up. This portion will vary depending on the type of massage you arranged but in any event Katrine gives you special attention in the area you were most likely waiting for. Have to admit I tried in earnest to shut up and just enjoy it but even if you still feel the urge to talk, Katrine doesn't get fazed in the slightest. If you're going with strictly a massage then Katrine will work you over until the very end. Of course when that very end occurs is up to you, or more specifically when you have reached your pleasure plateau. While Katrine is unquestionably an expert masseuse with her hands, if your massage includes girlfriend privileges or more then you get the immense pleasure of seeing and more importantly feeling how much of an expert masseuse Katrine is with her mouth. There's a number of worthwhile cliches I could use and all of them would be relevant to describe the feeling I got from Katrine and her mouth but instead I will just state if not implore that you experience it for yourself. No need to thank me afterwards. Katrine has frequent specials and I would be amiss not to state that you should take full advantage of them when they come around. I was apprehensive about it prior to the encounter but when it was time for Katrine to switch from using her mouth to sliding me inside her that's when the ride (no pun intended) reached its crescendo. Katrine quipped that she has a magical pussy; sorry there was really no way of stating that conservatively but she wasn't lying when she said that. Again I encourage you to try it for yourself since words can only describe the experience which is nowhere near as good as actually participating and doing it. Perhaps the only thing missing from the session was getting the opportunity to find out how good she tastes down there but unfortunately I have no one to blame but myself for that not happening. Hey, I am only human remember? So in summation, Katrine will make the time you spend with her worth your while. Just being in the presence of her and putting yourself in her capable hands is something you will want to do time and time again. She will give you the massage of a life time and certainly more if you choose to pursue additional perks. It goes without saying that I recommend her wholeheartedly. However fair warning that whether she is your first massage or it is just your first massage with her, you will fall under her spell and have no need to worry about getting a massage from anyone else, period.

Some of my clients have children around my age. At times, the topic comes up and we discuss their futures, what they are doing, and how they are supporting themselves (financially and otherwise). When I feel particularly courageous (because it does take courage) I sometimes ask my clients if their daughters, who are around my age, were to start escorting, how they would react. Their responses are often a very stark and honest portrayal of their thoughts on this industry, and the women and men within it. At times those reactions are hard for me to hear. Like I said, I sometimes need courage but feel it's a good opportunity to make a small shift, or to remind my clients that I'm also a daughter. In fact, I'm a daughter with incredibly supportive parents who understand and appreciate what I've decided to do to support myself throughout my education. "I would never let my daughter do that", they sometimes say. Or "she has no reason to do that because I provide this and that for her". Sometimes it's simply an honest answer "I would find it really hard, and would want to convince her to do otherwise". The comfort with someone else's daughter doing it, but not your own, is a testament to work that needs to be done. It's also a broader reflection upon us, at times. Hence the courage. As RG often says, a few ramblings. Nat xox p.s. I'm really not ashamed at all. Society makes me feel like I should be ashamed but I'm smart enough to know that I'm not the problem.

I second this recommendation. She has Nuru Service that I enjoyed a great deal. Check out her website for more info.

This is service provided by a woman from her home. She gives the massage on a table and it is undraped. She gives a light type of massage, more sensual than therapeutic. She gives a very nice finish. I have been several times over the years but it has probably been about 2 years since my last visit. She is a slender older woman, about mid 50's I would guess. This is my age range so I am very comfortable with it. Any mutual touching is done over her clothes. When I first started going she would wear dresses but the later visits she wore lingerie. She is a new age type and I think considers herself more a healer than SP. I did enjoy going there but as always YMMV.

I agree with those above that recommended Zoe. She's very good at what she does :D