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It is unclear what this part of your post has to do with the original topic of being safe, and it kind of just sounds like you have a gripe. However, in my experience, many e-mails I receive go unanswered not because I have no concept of how to run a business, but because the sender has no concept as to how to address a lady. Or the information I requested is not included and I have other e-mails waiting with all the proper info. Or possibly because the sender is a known bad date. These things include probably at least half of the correspondence I receive regarding "prospective appointments". We are in the business to make money and meet new clients. We LOVE to receive e-mails for prospective appointments and respond to them. But only the ones that are polite, and complete. We don't care to acknowledge or have time to respond to all the other crap that crowds our inboxes. I am not saying this is why you seem to have a problem with this, but I do sometimes see hobbyists complaining about this, and they never seem to think that maybe they are the reason for the lack of response.

Hi, this is my 3rd year on Cerb, 1st year was mostly lurking and reading the various post and threads and getting to know the SP's/MA's and gentlemen on the board thru their postings. It was almost a year before I took the plunge to meet my 1st SP. She was a kind young woman that gave a great first experience and second experience. I met my second SP in the following year, and she was a great experience and I have seen many times since, and we have become good friends. After that I had my first GFE Massage and it was great which then lead to many more GFE Massages, Now in my third year of hobbying, I have started to meet many more Cerb women and each experience seems to get better and better. I even had my first duo last week :). It was exceptional :) This is a summary of what I've learnt from being on Cerb and my experiences with Cerb women :). What I've learnt from the Cerb Community: - it is a community of caring Men and Women. - it is a source of useful information - is a source of recommended women that have had proven reputations. - it is a place where information can be asked and answered - it is a social community where members have helped each other in need. - it is a place where discussions can be debated. - There are senior members that give good advice to the Newbie's - Also thanks the CERB MOD, he has does a great job, keeping the board running and moderating the members and post. - without the Mod there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from the Cerb Chat Room: - This is a great place to make friends and meet the other members. - I have spent hours in chat, talking to the men and women of Cerb. - Have met people from around Canada. - I have helped and been helped with other members. - Some night we have a lot of laughs. - Other nights meaningful discussions. What I have learnt from the Cerb Gentlemen: - They are here to help others with information about the industry - They are kind and thoughtful men and know how to show respect to the women of Cerb. - Established gentlemen are proven safe men for the Cerb Women. - Some of them have a great sense of humour. - They have come to the assistance of other members in need. - Without the gentlemen, there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from Cerb Women: - They are kind and sexy women. - They except people for who they are , regardless of race or colour or size. - All they expect is for them to be clean, smell good and show them with respect. - Please respect their time and limitations. - Arrive on time with the proper donations. - No negotiation of donations. - If you can't make it please call to cancel. - It takes a special woman to be able to do this job. - The women who really enjoy this job and pleasing men give the best service. - Beauty and sexuality is shown from within the person. What I have learnt from myself: - When I started I was a shy man around women. - Now I have more confidence and have no problem being naked with strange women :) - I enjoy spending intimate time with Cerb women. - I enjoy chatting with learning about the real person. - I have become friends with several of the women and keep in contact with them. - Women seem to actually like me for some reason. - As with all meetings, YMMV, But I've learnt to be a gentleman and have in general received better services then I expected :) - Always please the women first, and they will return the favour :) - As I always say, I'm a gentleman and the woman cum first :) Advice to Newbies: - Read the above facts :) - Respect the women. - Be a gentleman. - Women with recommendations are a good choice, but in all cases YMMV. - Participate and become part of the Cerb Community. In closing. I love being on CERB, it has become a daily part of my life. and Thank you to all you women for being sexy, kind, beautiful and emotionally strong to be able to provide the services that you do. I am grateful for the exceptional times that I have spent with Cerb women, they know who they are :). And I hope to have many more great experiences. Gentlemen and women, let's hear what you have learnt from your experiences on Cerb.

There was a song in the 70's... and the chorus had one line that resonates: "the hardest part of love is letting go." Thirteen years ago I was at the point in my life when I had to make that decision. I loved the ex... and part of me still does in different ways, but with the benefit of hindsight I can see that she was doing to me and what I was doing to myself. We each lost who we were when we started the relationship and had become strangers living together. What we had left was the comfort of our possessions and the uneasy sense of belonging to a "couple" regardless of how distant we had become. I made the decision that I was not satisfied like that... and after discussing the status of our relationship and the need to improve it, she decided that she didn't want to try anymore. Of course at the time I was oblivious to the fact that she was in another "secret" relationship... so I left. It hurt like hell. It felt like I had thrown away years of my life and that I was never going to feel part of anything that unique ever again. Then it happened. I discovered "me" again... and dammit, I like "me." I discovered that I had buried "me" so that I could be part of "us"... and frankly,by the end of the relationship, "us" sucked. That was 13 years ago. I have been nearly married 3 times since... but in the end, I am a happier man than I have ever been in the past. My kids love "me." I love "me." My friends love "me." You only have one go at life my friend. No need to live it in misery. Be strong. Make smart choices. Most important, decide to live your life happy and as yourself. It won't come easy, but then again, nothing in life that is worth having does come easy. Be strong!

First, my heart goes out to you. I've known a version of some, though not all, of the things you're describing. I'm truly sorry your life's path has brought you to this unhappy point. Second, it's VERY good that you're reaching out for advice, and CERB is a great community, but I don't think you can find what you really need here. You need to talk with someone, for a long time and in great detail, about: - what's going on, exactly - how you feel about all the various parts of it - you're wife's circumstances and what has brought her to this point and how capable and likely she is to change - and what's important to you You can find a bit of solace and comfort through CERB but really you need to talk to a professional about this. Find a therapist for yourself; this is what they're for, and they can help you work through your thoughts and feelings on this. It's commendable that you're looking for help in this difficult time. I just advise you to go one step further and consult someone who can help you properly in this terribly complicated situation. I can understand that for those who married young and built their whole lives as a couple, letting go of that vision and contemplating any other is deeply painful and terrifying. It challenges your entire perception of the world, your life, and your place in it. What I can tell you is that, unless you do something about it -- no it won't get better, it will just carry on, unfold into a crisis, or you'll become deadened and resigned to the situation. Don't let those things happen. With some professional gudance figure out what you really want next, and then make changes of some kind in line with what's really important to you. You're not alone. Good luck and heartfelt best wishes.

Happy Fathers Day Dads!!! I am missing my Dad today, as this is the first fathers say since he passed away last July. Missing him. If you still have your Dad, call him today, or go see him if you can!!!

Im just curious, since you say you book so far in advance, did you confirm the day prior or a few days prior? other than just texting for the location the day of? As personally to me, if you don't confirm the day prior we have no date.

Stay away..she is known street walker in Saint John....

The problem with your challenge of the premise is the passage of time. As society involves so do our attitudes. The laws that were struck down for the most part have been in existence for many many years. Back when Canada was a different country than it is today. Where living together outside the bonds of marriage was looked down upon, where the Catholic church was a dominant force in Quebec, where gay marriage was illegal, where a transgendered person may have been locked up in a hospital for their aberrant behaviour etc. Those days are in the past and attitudes have changed. Modern legislators have much different viewpoints and beliefs then those of 50 years ago. If the laws being challenged were enacted in the last 5 years, then you might be right, but in this case things have changed in society's attitudes towards sexuality and relationships.

It been 2 years on the 11th that I have now belonged to Cerb. So I thought I'd share some of the things I've learned, especially of late 1. That is: Who some say is a good client may not necessarily be for me. If I get the sense that the person interested in seeing me isn't my type best not to follow through. I've done this to many times resulting in wasted time, no fun and regretful moments. I used to get the feeling just because someone, especially a Cerb member, wanted to see me it was necessary to book. I guess I was afraid of the repercussions of refusing:( One persons champagne is another persons beer! 2.Just because someone is a Cerb member doesn't mean their character is golden. I am grateful to be here and thankful I'm accepted by a lot but I have realized that there are unreliable people everywhere, cerb is no exception and, trust has to be earned it isn't guaranteed by any site. Nothing is. :) 3. This is a great place to discuss sex and to dirty talk. 4. We are lucky to have a Canada wide FREE advertising site and I'm happy and thankful to be a part of it:) 5.Thankfully, a site where there can be no bashing, some still make digs, but hey, they have to have something to do:) 6.That perhaps Ottawa is the center of the universe, lol. 7.Research, research ,research- this goes both ways. 8. Being a provider isn't anything to be ashamed of, it can be like actual dating and sometimes surprisingly nice things can result from it. Never be afraid to go beyond your boundaries. Its my time, my body and, mine to share and to do with as I please:) 9. Ignore, ignore, ignore maliciousness. When you do, good things happen:) 10. Most importantly- ENJOY- its alright to have a good time with a date. It is after all about having fun and wanting to give someone else a sample of "you" and that needs to be beneficial for both sides:) 11. Recommendations are nice but they are just an opinion 12. I'm good at a lot of things but I'm the best at just being myself, to some that'll be great and to others not so good, win some lose some. I've learned that its okay not to be liked by everyone . Well my last sentiment-I've been bad-I've been booted out a couple of times-live an learn-move on:) and I've been good-have lots of rep points now:) and cerbie friends- so thanks for letting me into your neighbourhood:)

Everything can be screen shot. I am unaware of a software that prevents this, but there are inventive ways to get around this.

There was already a thread on this person closed by the MOD due to being outside the boundaries of CERB regarding positive feedback and keeping members safe. There has only been one positive comment so my suggestion would be to contact that person via PM to ask your questions and not to keep beating the dead horse. Sometimes what is not being said speaks volumes.

I was shopping at the local supermarket. I was low on Astroglide for my backdoor activities, so I picked some up. At the checkout, it was the last thing to be scanned. I was paying with Visa, so when the debit machine was ready, the sweet young lady made eye contact, smiled sweetly, and said "stick it in the bottom". Huh, WTF? Times sure have changed....

What I have learned. CERB is a community of like minded people, sharing a common lifestyle. But this community isn't just about this wonderful lifestyle, although some of the subject matters do involve this lifestyle. We are supportive of one another and there are topics beyond this lifestyle. The members here may all share a common interest, but that isn't only what we are all about RG

Point taken and maybe I was too critical, maybe not, but I'd like to temper my post by saying it wasn't meant as an attack of any sort. Certainly there is some leeway to mention things not related directly to the original topic. It's to every member's individual taste what crosses the line or not. I agree in principle with both of those points. Now let's move on! :) FR

I would like to thank everyone for all the kind words and thoughts you have been giving me. Thank you for all your positive energy, it is especially important because of choosing to share this with all of you. In times like this I can say that being in a community like Cerb feels really good. My father contributed a lot to the world and I can see now how everyone in my community appreciated this from him. He will be missed by many but mostly by me. Thanks to all again.

my personal fave is a mix of CoF/CiM -- just spray it everywhere!!! :D

Well, that one was a clear hijack, but to answer your question about safety: Ladies, it will never be a show-stopper for me (and like-minded gents) for you to express your wish to remain as safe as possible. You do what is comfortable and right for you, and true gentlemen will respect that. Oddly, even without any demand on my part, or even any prior discussion, I've received bbbjs in almost all cases by default. If a lady were to ask if it were o.k. to put on a hat, by all means! I may even have to request it myself one of these days ;) - for comfort and greater peace of mind. The loss of sensation is hardly noticeable, if proper lubrication is in place, and just as enjoyable. FR

I'm still trying to figure out what my topic about being safe has to do with not responding to emails?... But to answer that I do not like to respond through emails and I will not give out any personal information through emails...I am blunt and straight forward in all of my posts everywhere I post online that I will not take blocked calls or emails I prefers to speak over the phone ...and if I do answer to you at all its either because I am busy with someone or my family or because I do not have a good feeling about the person for whstever reason...just like you have the right to spend time with who you want we as service providers have that right to choose as well..its not always about the money but rather a good connection and positive vibes between me and him! I hope that answered your question some what...xo

There is a pervasive perception in this industry that rate=quality. The lower the rate, the lower the quality of the woman behind it and the experience you will receive. To this I say, take your judgments and misconceptions and ***** them. Until you meet someone and interact with them, you will never know the quality of them so to make the above statement is judgment clear and simple. Personally, a rate reflects more than just the quality of the encounter because like any business, there are more things taken into account than the service provided. There is the space used for said services, how said services are presented, bells and whistles that accompany the service, the availability of the service and the service itself. I do not consider myself any less or any more quality than anyone else and to others, that is a subjective thing anyway. You could pay $50 or $500 yet if you don't connect with the person, that impacts the value you believe you received. Rates are personal to each individual and are set based on their own criteria and what the market will bear. Are rates set based on how each individual views themselves and the worth they believe they are bringing to the table? For some people, yes. This does not mean for everyone. Some offer lower rates due to the place they live and work. This is a business and as such, you need to be in the business to make money. If you're spending out more on business related items and not making anything, this is not a good business model. All I'm saying is that just as there are many individual providers with individual personalities, likes, dislikes, turn on's, turn off's, so are there reasons behind rates. Just as the value and quality of a hobbyist shouldn't be based on how big his wallet is, SP's shouldn't be judged on how much they charge, high or low. I know people won't change unless they chose to, this is just a "food for thought" topic because I for one, am not cheap or lower quality. It also works on the other foot as well, SP's shouldn't be judged if their rate is higher. They shouldn't be classified as a greedy or a snooty b**ch. Lower rates shouldn't make higher rates look bad. These are all judgments and perceptions that we are in control of. We CHOSE to make these comments that then create tension and negativity. Think about it...maybe.

I wonder what your post has to do with a thread on being safe. It does just seem like your griping YMMV is a industry standard, and not a problem area, at least it I've never had a problem with YMMV. Do you really think all clients should be treated the same? A gentleman who treats a lady with respect, is clean, fresh breath, pays his donation in full, and is not intoxicated, for example, will likely receive a wonderful memorable encounter compared to a man who instead being respectful, is rude, ill mannered, poor hygiene, bad breath, maybe arrives intoxicated and so forth. Just because a man pays a lady for her time doesn't mean he owns her. And whatever happens during that time together is between two consenting adults, not just what the man wants to do. When you read a lady's website and she has a menu, that is a list of services she may offer, not what she definitely will offer. A lot of YMMV is very much dependant on the client, not the lady As for emails not replied to, I've very rarely encountered it, less than five times in three years, and once it turned out the lady was retired. I can't see that being a issue of concern unless it happens regularly. If it does, maybe look at how you write your email. Are you respectful, a gentleman, or rude and vulgar in language. A lady makes determinations based on the impression you leave. If she feels the email is being sent by a crude ignorant man versus a gentleman, she won't want to see him. Number one she has to think of her safety. At an encounter she is allowing a man to be alone with her intimately. She doesn't want to risk her safety, not to mention self respect for any amount of money If you aren't getting replies to your emails, maybe think of the impression you are giving to the lady from the emails you send Now lets get back to the topic at hand RG

Thankfully in real political democracy, the general public does not usually vote specifically on the issues that directly affect the whole population. We vote to elect someone who we trust is actually fully educated about all the issues, knows all of the details about proposed laws and changes, weighs pros/cons and recognizes possible outcomes and how they will affect the entire population. They will then vote on the specific issues how they best see fit to serve the people.

Thank you so much for this thread. Very wise words, and it really is true. I have learnt from Cerb to reach out to others. I have always worked alone. Even if working with an agency, I still kept to myself. It wasn't that I was shy, but more that I really didn't trust others. There were too many trouble makers, shit disturbers and those out to take from you what you have. Here, however, I have made some really good friends. People that want to help, not because they want something in return, but they genuinely want to help you. I have had sp's contact me for no reason, but to say hi, if you ever need any help, I am here for you. Not that I was in crisis, but that they see that I was new, and they wanted to make sure I was welcome. When working in this industry, those that do not work in it really don't understand. They think they do, but really they don't. Here, I have found sp's and hobbyists that have brought information to my attention, that I would never have thought of myself. The perspective of another sp. Also, the perspective of another hobbyist. This alone is so valuable. I am grateful for cerb. Not specifically as an advertising site. I can get that anywhere. Even as a recommendation site, well, that helps, but in reality, even without the recommendations or the advertisements, what I get from here is a sense I have a whole country that is routing for me, is watching my back, loves me and treats me with respect. Wow, and I don't even have to pay anything for this. I have become the provider I want to be. I have been able to showcase my talents, ideas, thoughts, silly stuff and of course the serious stuff. Thank you to everyone that makes this site such a great commodity. It is my resource, my inspiration, my desire to better myself. I am blessed to be here and I thank everyone. xoxo

If a provider goes on webcam chat is it against the rules for others to screen shoot their face picture or is just a mutual respect thing? I've had issue with my face pictures being screen shot and harassed and would love to go on web cam chat but I am concerned for my privacy and discretion. Big Hugs, Lexy

This is mutual respect thing, really. You could take a screenshot fairly easily now... I believe in terms of CERB chat you could even just hit print screen. Or in other certain cases or website you could even run a recording program ... The beauty of technology ... is also its biggest downfall. Hope that helps.

It was 3 different SP's. I asked two, but never got a reply from either of them. The third I just didnt bother asking because two prior never answered, so I had a feeling this one wouldnt either and I felt like it was a waste of my time and disrespectful, considering it was agreed upon.

Thanks for your reply, I feel I'm slim enough, have no issues with losing or gaining weight just want to become more fit, toned, just get into the best shape of my life:)

I wanted to say thank you all for your words of condolence. It is very much appreciated. Knowing dad's condition, I find comfort knowing he is no longer suffering, although especially yesterday I found it somewhat tough But thank you to everyone who posted, pm'd or emailed me. The support made these past couple days a bit easier RG

Every prescription medication out there has side effects for some people. Even things considered to be as relatively harmless as birth control pills have a list of possible side effects that long, too. I'm not a huge supporter of the pharma world, and don't know much about this drug aside from this and a few other articles, but it sounds like it could possibly be a pretty decent medical breakthrough in the fight against AIDS.

I have one not sure if this is within the rules of the game Indiana Jones And The Anus Of Doom

ZZ Top Sharp Dressed Man http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZxJIG77xPs RG

Happy father's Day everyone love hope you all had a great day xo

Spending an hour at my Dad's grave site this morning, wishing he was still here, he was so sick and his death was so tragic. I know it's just a plot and he's not there but I get that alone time to just speak freely and open in hopes that he is listening and is proud of all of my educational accomplishment, my two businesses and most of all who I am as a Mom. I know and feel that he is watching over me but it still sucks that I don't have him and miss him everyday. Miss you Dad! Additional comments: It was nice and good for me to share my feelings and this community is a safe place to do so. Thank you to all who have messaged with kind words and support and my heart and prayers go out to anyone else who is feeling the effects of losing a Dad on this day. One day at a time and just writing has lifted my spirits. Huge Warm Hugs, Lexy

I hope this isn't hijacking, but just want to offer a quick response to Parsborough's comment. I truly don't think any provider can be blamed for adding on the "YMMV" qualification. Indeed, even if that isn't stated, it should probably be assumed. You ask how a hobbyist is supposed to know what to expect, but you have to reverse that and consider that it is more the service provider who doesn't know what to expect from the client. That is, is it fair to expect someone to always deliver on a service irrespective of how good the hygiene, respectfulness, and attitude of the client is? I think when a particular service is advertised the YMMV is in large part pointing out that the above factors can have an effect on what will take place. Plus, while this is a business as you say, we have to recognize that the service being offered isn't quite on the same level as menu from a restaurant. It may just be that on a given day someone isn't feeling comfortable with a particular intimate act and that has to be respected. I'd be happy to discuss further, though maybe we should move to another thread if so. ---- To respond to Danielle's original post, I can only agree with what everyone else has said. Stick to what you're comfortable with. The problem with anyone who tries to get you to change what you offer (or don't offer) is entirely on them.

RG I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Big hugs and love from the Maritimes. xoxo

If someone starts off a text without an introduction by just saying "rates?" "address?", what will they be like in person? Just shows they have no regard for the SP so when people send me those kinds of texts, I don't answer back. If a guy can't address an SP properly, it tells me a lot about their character.

I think you're right about everything except the circle jerk part. The denizens of CERB are an outrageously biased sample, IF the objective of the poll was to determine "what do Canadians as a whole think about this?". I don't really think that's what Berlin was trying to do. On the other hand, I think the poll IS a useful way to get this particular community, who is not only more interested in the subject but also (presumably) better informed, thinking about the issue more precisely -- and that's particularly handy when it's before the court. I wish I could say that being so invested meant we would all be going out and pressing the case to the others in our lives, but... that doesn't really follow, does it? ;) Maybe that can change someday, too. I do like that, at the moment I write this, we have one vote for full criminalization and one for partial. :) Provocateurs! Or just jolly teasing, more likely. But there's also a healthy split between the last two options, and that's probably the part that's most interesting to we CERBites. In my spare moments today I've been conducting a little debate inside my own head about the virtues of legalization & regulation versus simple decriminalization. So far it's a draw. The definitions Berlin provided have a clear idea which is best, and I understand the reasoning presented; but I can think of other factors at play too. My internal arguments are too complicated, with examples and counter-examples, to post here. But I wouldn't have had that internal debate if I hadn't read Berlin's poll this morning, so in my case I think it's probably served just the purpose she was after. Thanks again, Berlin.

... and remember ladies, Fat Bastards BBM only recruit and maintain a staff of former eye candy. Sure our caloric count may be somewhat higher than traditional candy... but we are like butterflies - what eye candy becomes after metamorphosis. Just eye candy with an extra layer of wrapper.....

Delete! Delete! Delete! It is NOT worth deviating from who you are, or outside your comfort zone, just to get the client. Let them go, and be true to you. Don't worry about what they have to say, just delete and continue reading through emails/texts/etc until you find a client that's willing to respect you for you, and that INCLUDES respecting your boundaries.

Disagreement does not equal attacks. As Eric points out, there has been better information provided by others that wasn't present in your post. Just because we disagree, does not mean anyone is being negative, or attacking. Unfortunately saying 'no debate' on something you post on the internet is a moot point. It's here for us to read, and respond to - if you don't want to hear other's opinions, then I would suggest to keep yours to yourself as well. That is NOT an attack - I'm simply saying, if you don't want to hear us, then I don't want to hear you. That is NOT an ideal situation - what the ideal is, you are here and are free to present your ideas and opinions, and we are too. NO ONE should have the right to say "I can speak, but you cannot'. That is not a world I want to live in. Please continue to contribute, and please don't try to tell others they can't. We're all a part of this, and everyone should be able to speak. Also: no one person knows everything. We're here to learn from each other, and presenting facts that show something you posted is wrong does not mean someone is attacking you, rather that they're trying to educate you. I am always open to learning more - if I thought I knew everything there was to know now, I'd be pretty damned sad.

CH, I hate to say this, but you really don't know what you're talking about and whenever you post about this subject you put out misleading information. And what YOU think on the matter is largely irrelevant to what sex workers (the people the laws affect the most) have to say on the matter. That's all I will say on this subject. If you really want your poll to be correct regarding prostitution laws and clear, your options should be : 1. Full criminalization 2. Partial criminalization (eg the Swedish Model) 3. Legalization (regulation by the state) 4. Decriminalization. The end. And again, the reason the living off the avails law is a problem is that we don't need it. Exploitative relationships (what you characterize as pimping) is covered by the already extensive laws in the criminal code regarding theft, fraud, kidnapping, extortion and so on. Second, the courts have not defined what is considered "exploitation." Third, it is paternalistic to have laws specifically for sex workers--we're not a special class of people who need special laws, the ones we've got will do just fine thanks.

Well, first off, some of your choices are actually incorrect. Here are your options (and the only potential outcomes from the SCC case): 1. The three criminal code provisions relating to sex work (s. 210, 212 and 213) are upheld a.k.a status quo 2. The three criminal code provisions are struck down (decriminalization). 3. A mix --one law may be upheld, while others struck down (eg. Bawdy house laws and the living off the avails may be struck down while communicating for the purposes of prostitution is upheld). Legalization just confuses things. That's NOT what is happening. Prostitution is already legal. Also, the so-called "pimping" law, in actual effect is far too broad, in that it is applied to ANYONE who takes money from a sex worker, including family members who live with said sex worker. It's also redundant--sex workers don't need special laws just for them--there are already laws on the books that deal with exploitation, fraud, theft, extortion, etc. These links will take you to some excellent PDF infosheets that covers all aspects of the case. The Basics: Decriminalization of Sex Work:http://www.chezstella.org/docs/StellaInfoSheetTheBasic.pdf?PHPSESSID=77cdc8f26c478d98611705756a952397 Sex Work and the Charter: http://www.chezstella.org/docs/StellaInfoSheetCharter.pdf?PHPSESSID=77cdc8f26c478d98611705756a952397 Challenging Prostitution Laws: Bedford v. Canada: http://www.chezstella.org/docs/StellaInfoSheetBedford.pdf?PHPSESSID=77cdc8f26c478d98611705756a952397 I encourage everyone here to read these infosheets thoroughly if you're interested in understanding what is actually happening.

Thanks for the heads up, I am sure the guys greatly appreciate the warning.

I don't think there's anything to be gained by focusing on the worst-case scenarios and negative what-ifs. We also can't compare Canada with European countries where one of the problems they face is steady migration of workers in all industries which puts considerable stress on employment, employers, police and social services generally. Canada is a genuinely moderate, liberal country, even with the Harper government. Prostitution and regulating the sex trade are not big issues here and certainly don't compare to problems with the economy, the environment, health care delivery and patronage. The SCC hearing this week will be fascinating. The court's rulings, whenever they happen, will be even more so. How the government does or does not respond in terms of legislation will also take time. Things may change. Or not. Worrying in advance won't make a difference in the end. If we have a negative outcome, our basic screening requirements may become much more strict. Prices may rise. One thing is sure: my colleagues and I will continue to work as long as there are suitable gentlemen interested in meeting with us. So, relax.

fellow pooners, i would definatly have to say that leigh bouche, ashley, jessy,michelle fox etc just saying...................... bbbj are like running to get a slurpee and i anit refering to 7-eleven lol

These days people have a SEVEAR problem with expecting immediacy in response to texts. This is in large part to iMessage and BBM which shows if the text is delivered and read. Additionally, people are quickly forgetting to use proper communication language, punctuation and diction. Even with PM's here on CERB there is an expectation of response due to the fact that we can see if the person is logged on or the last time they were on (they are "on" why haven't they responded?). I have been known to send comments to ladies here on Cerb letting them know that I appreciated the cleverness of their ad or the thoughtfulness of a post they made. I do this because I believe that people generally like to be appreciated and have their contributions/efforts recognized. However, I usually specifically let the lady know that no response is required that my message is just a "kudo's". If a ladies preferred method of communication/appointments is text for her business then that's what it should be used for "business" not "bull shit". Seriously, my preferred method of business communication is email and if I received emails daily just saying "hi" I'd so block those senders right away. People just use common sense (I wish it actually was more common) and use ladies business communication for business purposes. If you do just want to say "hi" at least follow it up with "Hi, no need to respond but I just wanted to say I love your tats" (since Cleo was the OP). That took me 5 seconds to type! The SP will know why you messaged and you won't waste her time. I always prefer to use e-mail for my communication with ladies whenever possible so that the lady has the flexibility to respond in her own good time if a response is warranted.