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Awesome thread Michaella! And thank you for the mention Peachy! I love everyone else's replies so far as well. :) I had a feeling that would be the response, and it makes me happy. This is indeed a topic close to my heart. I have posted on my blog several times about loving our vulvas the way they are. Genital healing is very important to having a positive sexuality, which in turn, as women, is vital to our overall self-worth. I can definitely relate to a lot of things you said. When I was a teenager I was also self conscious about my labia, and at one point thought my lips were longer because I masturbated too much! LOL. I also had a boyfriend who told me they were too long (And this was at 22!) I'm sure all those little boys who made girls feel shitty about their vulvas always felt awesome about their cock and balls too, right? My issue was never something that held me back or I took too seriously, but it was something that I was conscious of for a long time. The Wall of Vulva: Real women's vulva casts! Our faces all look different, so why should our pussies all look the same? Wouldn't that be boring? By "text book" pussy, that little boy really meant "porno pussy". The last few decades of mainstream porn were pretty much exclusively shaved pussies with minimal lips and tiny, barely visible clits. The only thing I can come up with of why porn producers thought this was what the average porn user wanted to see is because of our society's obsession with youth, and trying to show pussies that look like young girls, rather than grown women. Shitty mainstream porn also damaged many men's self esteem with the types of cocks that are generally cast - huge and always circumcised. Anyways, a generation or two of men grew up thinking that was what all vulvas looked like before they actually had the chance to explore, because that is where they saw the most pussy. Sex education still doesn't properly cover these things. On the bright, with the popularity of amateur pornography and the internet, it seems that there is more variety of vulvas out there for people to see, and people have a better appreciation of the variety of vulvas that are really out there. I can happily and proudly say that today, I absolutely love my vulva just the way it is. And my feelings about it have only gotten better since I started escorting. I have never been complimented so much on my bits. There isn't a thing I would change about my labia, clit, hood, or hole! They all make me feel good, and that is what really matters. Keeping clean is one thing, but it is entirely possible to over-cleanse the vagina. It is supposed to have a natural scent! Women need to accept this... and consider that most men actually love and crave this delicious natural pussy scent! Douching and using all those products they sell at the drugstore actually causes infections by throwing off the natural balance of flora in the vagina. Those companies (like all companies that sell "beauty" products) prey on self conscious women to hawk their crap. It is very sad that so many women avoid and deny themselves the sexual pleasure that they deserve because they have been conditioned to be ashamed of their parts. This sexual anxiety causes dysfunction and it also a main reason why so many women can't let go and have trouble achieving orgasm during sex. I watched a documentary recently called The Perfect Vagina, which deals with this subject and delves into the labiaplasty phenomenon. It even shows an actual surgery being done on a lovely young woman with a beautiful pussy. They also talk about "Vulva show-and-tells", in which the idea is that a small group of women who are dealing with genital shame get together and show each other their pussies and talk about it. It can be incredibly healing for women to realize that they are not alone in how they feel, and to actually see other vulvas in real life. They realize that they really don't all look like the ones they saw in porn, and they come in all shapes, colours and sizes. If we think about it, I would say that the CERB men are a good sample of the average sexually active man, and we often see threads about guys looking for "large labia and clits". More to play with, lick and suck on! Love your genitals!! :) Range of vulva sketches. Check out "The Snackbar".

It is a shame that people, both men and women, when wanting to hurt someone always go for the looks, why I'll never know but that's what happens. Forever and a day people have been comparing and claiming this is prettier, or better, bigger or smaller, tighter, more cute, whatever! Individuality is what should be celebrated and differences should be accepted and appreciated. Those who don't imo are shallow, lacking personality and just mean. Love yourself, if there are imperfections all the better, those are what make you stand out in a crowd, its those that make you YOU and me, he, she and you are all equally worthy of acceptance and appreciation and beautiful the way we are. If someone says different tell them to fuck off!

With Canada Day around the corner, I thought I'd throw out a simple question: What aspect of Canada do you appreciate the most? Perhaps a law or piece of culture? Something about the geography or history? Our country may not be perfect but overall I'd say we do fairly well. One of the things I like about Canadians is we tend to be relatively humble, but let's put it aside for now and give a . (You know, other than the fact that we clearly have the best beaver! :icon_razz:)

I have never met a pussy I didn't like. I am unaware of a standard by which all pussies are judged. I would venture to say this is one area men compete with women insecurity wise. Our privates. Like your vagina, ours has many names. We must also keep it fresh ad washed. Is it big enough? Is it thick enough? Is the head too bulbous? It is too small or weird looking? How come I don't have a giant schlong like the porn start dudes? Then, after al of that, it has to rise up to meet the needs of the day....... P.S. Any guy who says his ex had a perfect pussy, is an insensitive pinhead. Just my opinion

Well Roddy .... call me insensitive cuz Michaella's pussy is perfect ;) lol. Its Slurps, Squirts and Roars! :) Mmmmmmmmm.

I can see this being the same for both the gents and the ladies. Insecurity happens. Is it because of the sheer pressure of being accepted in the society? I blame it on the media. amongst many things that I blame on the media. Instead of looking for the imperfection shouldn't we look for the good in someone? -- yes that sounds awfully naïve but yep I said it. In terms of vagina itself... my thought is for someone to not appreciate something its because they feel their own insecurity and not knowing what they could do with it. I personally love them all! As long as they are clean I can lick, suck, nibble and you name it. to every area of the vagina, be it the lips, clitoris; everything! YUM! This part is meant to be funny; and not to be taken any different or other way. For someone to say their partner is loose, maybe they are just not big enough? LOL. What happen when the ladies start using that? Haha. As many time it has been said, its not the tool, its how one use it proficiently. And yes, I am one of those that get more turned on when I see the lady is having fun -- and I do understand squirting just does not always happen. This should not be an expectation or a sole reason you see/be with someone. It should be a reward and excellent surprise, don't demand it ... -- My rambles... (I don't know if they worth anything now... I mean used to be my 2 cent. but the government round that down ... so I guess its worth nothing now.)

Thanks for this thread, Michaella's Caress. A topic dear to my heart. :) Take it from a man, there is no thing as a vagina that isn't in it's own way an incredible thing of beauty and it is sad to hear that there are women and young ladies who have these irrational fears about their 'girly bits' being a cause for insecurity, shame, and compulsion to take care of them with all sorts of chemical products to insure ultimate freshness. If you regularly wash with mild soaps, eat healthy, the body takes care of all the rest. The Sanskrit term 'yoni' for the vagina means 'sacred temple', 'womb', or 'divine passage'. It is an amazing apparatus and should be treated with reverence and carried and experienced with pride. I won't go into all the scientific and other reasons for it's unique magnificence, as that would be quite a lengthy opus. I hope that negative body image is becoming less of a problem than in the past, it is so fundamental to one's overall self-image and hence may even relate to one's life goals and fulfillment in general. (not to mention a healthy and pleasurable sex life) FR

I actually have no shame about my vagina and its appearance. Not only do I love the way it looks ( it is voluptuous too :) ), but I have also been told by many men that I have a beautiful pussy. Their words, not mine ;)

When I was younger I thought the States had it all, they have the warm climates and it appeared, more exciting cities, but as I've gotten older I realize just how lucky I am to be a Canadian. We are globally respected, lucky to still have beautiful parks and green spaces, however we are still very behind when it comes to animal rights, Europe leads the way there, and environmental issues, still dropping the ball, but we have Harper sadly, as a leader so what can you expect! All in all though Canada is a wonderful country and I'm proud to be Canadian:) here's a link For its many attractions http://gocanada.about.com/od/canadatravelplanner/tp/reasonstovisit.htm

Realizing that the most I market myself as my "true" self the more I receive inquiries, people telling me that they love my passion etc. Silliness, awkwardness, love for travel and love of humping FTW!

Titties, they are all beautiful and in Halifax there are many sets to be admired, why just pick one set:) and remember honor nipples because without them titties would be pointless:)

Unless a law is unjust and we're breaking it as some sort of moral protest, I'm not sure we can be that upset if we pay the price when we break it. As far as most parking laws go, from what I can see they are usually there for a reason. I've been dinged with a couple tickets myself, generally because I wasn't paying enough attention to signs, but sure enough each time I didn't have any real grounds to protest. I can understand arguing against a given law if you don't think it's one that makes sense (and certainly there are some of those!) or you think the penalty doesn't fit the crime, but the general concept that laws should be enforced for the most part keeps society running.

Sounds to me like I might have to find out for myself! !

Speaking from personal experience Exotic Touch Danielle has absolutely beautiful breasts that won't disappoint. For that matter, none of her body parts will disappoint!

I actually do drive. But I am a respectful driver and obey parking by-laws. I have had one parking ticket in my entire life and it was because it was my fault for staying over my paid time and I accepted the consequences and paid the fine. Obeying parking laws that make the city streets safe and run smoother has not made my life difficult in any way, so I don't really understand why other people seem to have problems with it. The government catching people who have done something wrong is not a "scam". It's the ones who broke the law who fucked up, not the government.

It's extremely unlikely that the federal government will attempt to make prostitution illegal if the SCC rules in favour of decriminalization. Prostitution is not a big issue in Canada and never has been. In poll after poll, most Canadians surveyed do not express any interest in making it illegal for someone to be a prostitute. As a fair-minded country, Canadians aren't interested in criminalizing men who see prostitutes but don't cause any problems for them or for others in their neighbourhood. It would be MUCH easier to enact prohibitive legislation if there had been a recent case that the government could cite as a reasonable demonstration of how dangerous and harmful prostitution is and show that it needs to be severely curtailed. But there simply isn't a case like that. The Picton murders and subsequent inquiry demonstrated the vulnerability of street-based sex workers and highlighted the insecurity of sex workers in general. Public opinion consistently lies in favour of protecting vulnerable groups rather than outlawing them. And yes, I know that public opinion can be fickle, but let's also remember that the present federal government is more responsive to poll results than any other in recent history. The other thing to keep in mind at all times is that criminalization will require increasing police attention and court time to address prostitution-related crimes. In most jurisdictions, there simply isn't enough money, let alone political will, when it comes to expanding the police force unnecessarily. Conflicts related to prostitution are frequently viewed as inter-personal, with one person claiming to have been badly treated by another. This kind of problem never gets a great deal of attention from the police or the public unless there's significant violence or someone dies. Our courts are already overloaded. In some jurisdictions, people who have been charged with violent crimes have been allowed to walk free because it wasn't possible to bring them to trial in a timely manner. Is there much political will to expand the number of judges and generally increase court times and services in order to prosecute prostitutes and their clients? It's doubtful, particularly since the great majority of us work without anyone's notice. Even though we're easy to find if someone wants our companionship, we're not usually easy to notice in other ways. Canadians are more concerned about things like human trafficking and the sexual exploitation of children and minors--rightly so! Ultimately, the big question is whether criminalizing prostitution will make it go away. The answer is no, of course not. We're not called "the oldest profession" for nothing. Ours is a capitalist economy. If prostitution were to be criminalized, expect to pay higher fees and to have to provide significantly more verifiable personal information if you want to see a professional companion. We'll still be working.

I LOVE VAGINAS! That's it! VAGINA! VAGINA! VAGINA! Easily my favourite thing ever! Way to go ladies!

Savage Garden - Truly Madly Deeply

After some frustration on my end because a lack of understanding from the general public in relation to escorts and taxes, I have written a piece explaining how it all legally works. http://www.blogasms.xxx/2013/06/june-29-2013.html

a girl need to have her tastes okay! and Viggo Mortensen is hot! and warriors....*drool*

The gorgeous women. The maple syrup The gorgeous scenery. Gorgeous women cover of maple syrup while being outside in said scenery. The full right that LGBT have.

Stone Sour - Wicked Game http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Qtp9jUr50w

Without the slightest doubt, it is Freedom - first and foremost.

I enjoy reading Emily jJs ads and her most recent..."Happy Hookering" LOL!

My lullaby is news podcast. Friends, I don't need sympathy. Work has been extremely busy in recent months. It's my chance to catch the world news when I hit the bed.

Well, I finally managed to get to see a show earlier this week... and had an awesome time! Lots of fun... and I definitely won't be messing around so long before I go out and see another one!

Congrats Phaedrus! always enjoy your contributions to the board! continue on! good man!

Congratulations Phaedrus on achieving 3500 posts. Looking forward to reading your next 3500 contributions RG

Let's say 5'6", 110lbs. Young. Tanned. French. Very cute. Curly brown hair. Lean, firm, natural body. A few tattoos. She wore stockings when I saw her.

I'm a 5'1 petite brunette with piercing ember brown eyes who has a need to tease and please. Come play with me and enjoy a full body erotic massage that I promise you wont forget! you can find me in the west side until 11pm tonight. call 613-820-8887 for bookings

I definitely agree with you Danielle! Only seen pictures but your tits look magnificent. Hope to see them up close and personal some day soon.

Congratulations, ou plutôt mes plus chaleureuses félicitations, pour cet accomplissement. And many thanks you for your thoughtful contributions.

Amazon reviews of the shoes Wendy Davis wore during her Texas abortion bill filibuster. Sample: "Men, do not try these on! I tried on a pair at the local mall and suddenly Texas Republicans started telling me what to do with my genitals. They started explaining reproduction to me like I was a seventh grader. Unfortunately, being male, I had no way to shut the whole thing down. I'm so confused..."

Congrat's on the 100 post count Bianca.... Looking forward to many more wonderful contributions....

Congrats Bianca - thank you for your contributions!

Congrats to you and your long sexy legs Bianca ;) Keep em coming :boobies:

Waking up at 3:00am shivering. Turn out I had a fever of 102.4. I hate being sick:(

I'm part of the professional huggers association of Canada (HAC) and I hug women all the time as I have a card and we even give out Air Miles! When I first meet a lovely lady I like to find out (after the hug!) if she is aggressive or passive and if she is somewhat aggressive and likes dirty talk then that's even better as I am also a standing member of the Talk Dirty to Women Until They Cum Association (TDTWUTCA)! We have to be careful with our acronym as it is also a word in an African tribe in Kenya and it means "You did what with my daughter!"

Congrats Bianca. Here's to your next 100 posts!

How early are you looking to book? Are you talking at the crack of dawn or a more reasonable time?

Most any I would think. Find a few that interest you and contact them, some even give a discount for early morning risers. :) Additional Comments: lol 4nbstd replied the same time I did with the same answer LOL

@Horndog66 :" You wrote :Are you seriously comparing this insignificant, tempest-in-a-teapot, little contretemps on a sex industry discussion board with Nazi Germany? This has gotten way out of hand." No I am not comparing it with Nazi Germany. Actually my quote is taken from Haile Selassie, talking about the Italian invasion of his country. He ended it by saying : It is us today; it will be you tomorrow. You may think of a wrong as insignificant until it affects you personally. I am not looking to cause a storm ; just to ask that we always act in a civil manner toward each other. It is not necessary to comment on every thread. If you don't have anything nice to say, please just stay mute.

I for one love a Pregnant lady and would love to be able to meet one in Moncton. That is actually of my major fantasies is to be with a pregnant girl. :)

CIM by far while staring into her eyes!

Turn On's -Greeted with a warm smile, hug and kiss- -The lady should be genuinely happy to be with you and see you. Yes it is her job, her livelihood, but it shouldn't seem like she is at a job -Time for sitting down and conversation over drinks. For me an encounter should be a date, it's more than just seeing a lady for sex -Undressing one another -Go with the flow (both the lady and gentleman) The encounter shouldn't feel scripted. Some of my most memorable encounters were where we were enjoying our conversation that we spent more time in the living room than the bedroom (but again for me, an encounter is much more than about sex, it is about quality time with a lady) Turn Off's -The lady making it clear she needs the money -Someone taking a cavalier approach to arriving on time. I'm flexible, if a lady arrives a couple minutes late no big deal to me. If she is running quite a few minutes late then call just so I know she hasn't forgotten. But taking the attitude "I'll show up when I show up" big turn off -Being disinterested, like over drinks, getting up and looking out a window and ignoring me (the client) -Hinting at wanting a recommendation, during the encounter Just a caveat. Greeted with a hug and kiss, and undressing one another. I know for some ladies they only feel more comfortable doing this after they get to know a client, and won't do that on a first encounter...completely understandable And thrown in for discussion, while a darkened room with candles seems romantic, when I see a lady at my hotel for a outcall, I have the lights all on, bathroom and closet doors opened, so when she comes in, she isn't worried about someone hiding in the shadows. It is more of a turn on to have a lady feel comfortable being alone with you than worried someone might be hiding in the closet (not that that would happen with me) RG

Turn ons -white teeth-fresh breath -cleanliness with everything -humor -more humor -humbleness -confidence -respect -someone who appreciates the whole package -dog lovers Turn offs -bad hygiene -bad manners -judgemental people -gossip -bullies -troublemakers -people who diet -those who refuse to read ads in their entirety and fail to follow their instructions

Welcome. That's a nice way (not unlike mine) of looking at it. But here are a couple of things you need to check yourself before you see anyone. A great deal. I won't make any assumptions about your background or how accepting the people around you are, but even in our so called liberal society, we're a very sex negative society. And paying for it?!? Well shit, you must be so butt ugly and undesirable, and the girl must be so desperate for drugs that something like this goes on. <- Unfortunately, that's a common assumption people make about this industry. We are far from treating this industry like any other. And even though most, if not all the men and women here are happy with their circumstance, and enjoy it thoroughly, very few people here have the lucky privilege of having family and/or friends that are completely accepting of what they do. Hence the privacy. I recommend taking a softer approach to finding out the ins and outs of the industry before making assumtions. There are women who offer blowjob without condom (bare back blowjob or bbbj), and some that allow you to complete in their mouth, and some that will even swallow. That is for the lady to decide her comfort level, and while there are some that will advertise all these services, if they see/smell anything off with your dick, say goodbye to all those blowjob fantasies. And another thing you need to remember, there are many people who lie here. You know you're a virgin, you know that you're clean, but for all that matters to an escort is that you're another client, and the exact same precautions need to be taken. Imagine how dangerous it would be to you if the escort you do eventually see just accepts at face value that you're a virgin, would that not make you suspicious that she might have given some allowances to another client that made the same assertion, whether or not it's true. You seem to have so valid reasons for wanting to see an escort, but before you do, please check out the many threads on how to approach your first appointment, how to get in touch with one, etc. And check out the reviews, I know you want your first time to be special, and would like to find someone you are attracted to, hence the face request, but reviews can give you an extremely good assessment of a lady's physical beauty. I can tell you, I have always stuck with well reviewed ladies, and have found all of them to be nothing short of stunning.

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I think if women saw one another as men see us we may be less critical of one another. There is no one that is harder on another woman than another woman. Men don't see our flaws the way we see them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but the beholder should realize beauty comes in all shapes,sizes and colors and true beauty isn't always visible.