misterdynomite30

I've been in this sort of situation recently. I had an SP I was seeing back in 2009 which ended up that we hung out together and we became close. She got caught up in life drama & making bad life decisions and I had to break away from it in 2012. 6 Years later out of the blue she contacts me out of nowhere and wanted to see where I was in life compared to her. I was doing very well but her situation was pretty bad. I made the mistake of feeling sorry for her and lending an ear / attention to her for a few months to the point where I went to visit her in Ontario and help her out a bit which ended up being a huge mistake as she ended up having feelings for me and dragged me into her drama again. Long story short, she's back to being an escort again (even though she's married with kids which I didn't know until I got there) Fool me twice... shame on me. A lesson well learned. As to why some of us men fall for this... I don't even know why. I know I don't have an answer as I'm usually a lot more smarter & intelligent than this so i'm at a loss for an answer. But it happens more than you think.

I tend to avoid all Truro ads. Don't trust them (and basing it on personal experience)

I usually avoid key phrases like "Forget the rest, get with the best" Seems *bleh*... unimaginative / cookie cutter (not to mention "catty" towards other women) Drama usually follows.

Yup I agree. it's not like these girls are our "Girl friends" - Keeping them to ourselves isn't what it's about. It's business. They are providers. And a well job done by these girls deserves a good review. It helps them AND helps us who have TOFTT a few times and posted positive reviews on girls who really didn't have any reviews available prior... sometimes we don't want to be the only ones that take ALL the risks. Help us out too!

I do get it... to a certain extent.. But on the other hand, seems a little unfair though. I post reviews on girls when the service is great and they have a great attitude because I'd like to see them get more business. I mean that's a little more kind than keeping them a best kept secret isn't it? but that's a whole other thread I guess. lol

Anyone meet Olivia yet? https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_sexy_seductive_outcall_only_226_241_5455-4638562 Star? https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_tanned_beauty_all_real_pics_incall_outcall_car_date-4635315 Had a conversation with both.. seemed like they were ok but no reviews anywhere.

Agreed ^^^^ I just recently dealt with a new SP who asked for a deposit and since I didn't know her well enough, I declined politely and then she responded back by rudely & harshly insulting me which was totally uncalled for.

She has an ad titled "Hot Cocoa The HeadMistress" and i recognized her from back when Craigslist was still the place to go. Was meaning to see her a few times over the past 2 years but just couldn't properly link up. Already knew what she looked like from her past ads so she's been on my "want list" for a minute.. Actually just hooked up with her tonight and was pleasantly surprised. Probably one of the more better and memorable experiences i've had with an SP since God knows when. It went from being a half hour meeting to a full hour. Friendly and professional. Worth the hour I spent with her and will most definitely see her again in the near future.

I've certainly had my frustrating times in finding an escort that was reliable and / or wasn't a scam in the past.. I get the "being pissed off" part.. but venting here is counterproductive. Just like in the streetwalker scene, there are scam artists online too. You just have to recognize the signs and back away if it's too good to be true. (i.e. asking for e-transfers before meeting) This site has made things a whole lot easier though. Sometimes the lack of drama & the helpful hints / recommendations are worth the extra $$$.

Ok I tried to meet up with Skye but she wanted me to wire her money first before meeting. Thanks for the info on Miss Melyssa I may give her a try instead.

Looking to see if anyone has tried any of these girls out so far. https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_other_outcall_incall_car_x_t_c_pl_ygi_l-3888194 https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_party_girl_lookin_for_a_good_time-4615254

I guess i'm not the only one who doesn't need to take a toke to get turned on. I don't mind weed smokers at all but for me the best sex I've had was always sober and high on the rush of the sex itself. On the other hand I think it has a lot to do with the person you are with and how comfortable you are and how much you trust them. The last time I smoked weed before sex (1995) I became a paranoid mess.. it doesn't make for a good sexual experience. lol

I only recently started checking out leolist (been away from being a hobbyist for a while) and I got lucky in 2 tries with a new chick on there who i am on my 3rd "date" with this week. I didn't realize leolist was as bad as craigslist as i've been absent from that world for a minute but yeah I can totally see that most of the spammers probably made their way over to LL during the transition.

Wow ok and I was thinking of seeing her tonight. Thanks for the warning.

I've heard this many times too and i would have to agree. As far as cleansiness goes, Redd Foxx said it best : "After the lights go off in the bedroom, it then becomes a question of 'who washed'?" :-P

I hobby for various reasons : - No guessing games about if the money you spend is going to get you laid or not. - No ties or strings and the respect is there after you part ways. - The balance of Mutual benefits ;) - Im single and honestly love the excitement/rush of meeting with a new someone for the first time for a fun time. - Your business is hush hush (unlike picking up at bars) - I love sex ;)

If its not too late to add my additions : There are lots of beautiful ladies to choose from..but the stand-outs for me have been : AmberWyld (in addition to being hot as hell, she is a sweetheart every time i ever spoke to her and even though i haven't been able to link schedueles yet, i am still curious about meeting her. hopefully soon!) :) PorcelainPunk (my taste in women is a little unexplainable and unpredictable even for me, but her pics just fit the discription of the kind of girl that turns my head and makes me glance twice. shes built the way i like 'em) ;)

I can sort of understand wanting to know measurements (even though i never ask).. but i understand it.

These girls were regulars who i've known for years ..not newbies. And i am being real here and i did answer the question at the end of my post : In simpler terms, it matters if you can make it work.

I've only ever bumped into one SP in an awkward moment in public.. i really respected that she didn't say anything because it was on my way to a wedding (not my wedding.. lol) but i was dressed up in a tux and she was in the hotel elevator as I got in with family members and when i saw her i was sweating bullits... we made eye contact.. recognised each other.. looked away and didn't say a word. It was nerve wracking because it was the moment of truth right there to see how discreet she really was. The next time i saw her for a session, i gave her a huge tip just to thank her for how professional she kept things. she deserved it.

Wow dude that sounds similar to a few situations i've been thru. keep this quote in your head for the next time it happens : "If someone offers you a pre-paid session as an apology, just take your loss and move on..." Making a classy exit is better than feeling like a dope for falling for the same thing over and over again. good luck.

Loyalty to a SP has been something i've always tried once i got to know them, but made the mistake of becoming ''too cool'' with them and letting the friendship overlap the business or letting my guard down way too much... Ive been with regulars (regular being someone i was seeing over 2 years at the least) that i trusted and were with for a while and the trust was there and sometimes i would help them out with advances to help them when times were tough because i sympethised with their situation, but then they moved without notice after getting the cash and i never recieved the service that was promised. blocked my phone calls, msn, yahoo, etc. Left a bad taste in my mouth to become too close to them and have that happen... but it was a lesson well learned. Never mix friendship and business. Stay professional but keep everything strictly business. All the power to those who have regulars and can make it work. I tend to try one and move on which is probably better for me. As long as its professional, its all good. 8-)

I use a cooling pad on my acer one laptop (seems like those lil laptops heat up way quicker than my other laptops) probably didnt need it, but i was curious to how well they worked so i bought one (plus it was during a heatwave so i was being extra cautious about my laptops anyway) works like a charm too. I dont know if ppl just dont read the instruction manuals to their laptops when buying them... but i always considered it a ''no brainer'' to not leave it on your bed turned on for longer than 2 minuites or on your lap when falling asleep since the air vents are located underneath. Then again, i wouldn't even leave a calculator turned on sitting on my bed unattended. Its just something about electronics that i turn most of them off when not in use no matter what it is. (alarm clocks and cell charger excluded) Owned laptops since around 2001 and never had a problem concerning fires.

Because Halifax & Fredericton doesn't have as many to choose from as say... Quebec, Ontario or Calgary... and no disrespect to the few that are around Halifax and Freddy, but some of us hobbiests do get bored and like to see what else is out there from time to time and discover new SP's/Diamonds in the rough who may not know anything about cerb and are legit (it does happen). Besides... thats what TOFTT is all about. Cerb is a recommendation board.. we discover, we TOFTT and report back here when we find good ones. Its only seen as 'trolling' or 'being a nuicanse' to the scammers when we discover them as being scammers and warn others about them (esp. when we don't give our credit card #'s and they get nothing out of it.) ..