misterdynomite30

I was supposed to meet shayla & veronica but ..... If you want details, pm me

I wouldn't be suprised if this was the same girl i encountered out there. I had this almost happen in Fredericton... but what i did was she requested that i give her money to pay for the cab and she would 'be right back'... I offered for her to stay in my room and i would go downstairs to pay him, but she insisted that i give her the money and not follow her (and she was very sketchy/boarderline snarky about it). I knew something was up at that point, so i went to the cab with her (but said i would only pay the cab if the money was in my hand, she agreed).. as i was speaking to the cab driver (whom I met days before and conversated with from the airport) as the cab driver and I started talking (and i had every intention of paying for the cab and was prepared to) she hopped back into the cab and rudely told him to drive away thinking i already paid him and she insisted that she was 'in a hurry' so he should leave now. I shrugged and bid them a good night as they drove away and that was that.... it didn't cost me anything, but i was left standing in the parking lot trying to make sense of what had just happened. I concluded that she was probably so 'in a hurry' that she totally didn't realize i hadn't even paid the cab driver yet and the cab meter was still running. (it was at $12 when she first arrived) She rushed him out of there and totally messed up her own scam. :???:

I met Keatan. ..so in reguards to her service, since the motto of this site is "if you have nothing good to say, don't say anything"... i will end it right there.

I caught that ad too... haven't called yet. going to try jessica's $40 massage tonite... then maybe give her a call.

Quitting? nah. I like knowing that getting sex is a phone call away and is finally on my scheduele for a change. :wink:

When i see 'recommended' on here.. i think right off the bat : "whew..ok so she isn't a prank ad.. ok good. we have that established" then i give them a try and come to my own conclusion based on my own personal experience as each opinion i've heard of other women leaves out a lot of detail from the man's point of view. (i.e If the man had a bad experience and it was due to him not smelling good or just being rude... and him leaving out those details and just saying 'she had a poor attitude' and leaving it at that) I think theres a bigger advantage now with the net than before. You can actually windowshop and check up on SP's to see feedback and who does what and who doesn't. Hell, I didn't even know what "GFE" or those other terms meant until i came on cerb. I didn't even know that type of service exsisted until a month ago. Im sooo out of the loop. :oops: But yeah back to the subject.. I think it's easier to shop for potential chemistry (for lack of a better term) moreso now than before the net where you didn't get to see the SP until she showed up to your door and you kinda just made the best of the awkward situation. (which still kind of happens sometimes... but there are more options now whereas that was the only way before) I don't know if 'chemistry' is exactly something i would realistically put extremely high on the list. I'd be just happy enough to find an SP whom i found friendly, attractive, who's feedback as far as attitude was nothing short of "she loves her work and it shows".. and of course, respect (from both parties) in terms of attitude, appearance and just being clean. I dunno... expecting immediate genuine chemistry is a little unrealistic to me. Either that or i'm mistaking what specific type of 'chemistry' we are talking about here.

How is it important for me to remember those reasons? I just indicated my preference ...i didn't put down anyone in the process and i didn't hint in any way that it was wrong for other people to do it if thats their thing. different strokes for different folks.

The best i can answer is ..i had a convo with a halifax SP in the summer who went out to CB and from what she told me.. there's "nothing out there". nothing = no other SP's and no hobbyists willing to pay for the services. she had to go to SJ, NB before business picked up. and shes a very hot lady too. Hate to say it, but CB is like the sahara desert when it comes to SP's. I hope someone can prove me wrong.

I dunno.. cuddling is way too personal tome and i would feel extremely uncomfortable cuddling with a complete stranger feeling like it was insincere. I put way more meaning into cuddling... i can seperate feelings from sex a lot easier than cuddling. Not saying i don't respect the SP's who do.. I can understand being touchy feely and kissing... but cuddling is just too much for me.

I'll let you know if i have any luck there. Im going there this week. wish me luck.

I do the same. It's hard enough trying to find ONE here in my city that isn't a practical joke ad or a sketchy SP that won't give you any info (no phone # or addy) and a short fuse to add to it. When i do finally find one, im probably just sticking with her for a while. I wish i lived in ottawa. It seems like an oasis over there in comparision to here. :cry:

Thanks for the warning. .....If they actually ladies to begin with.... or frat boys playing a prank. (which wouldn't suprise me)

I saw that too & i got really suspicious when i noticed that. :? deja vu

1st sentence = oil 2nd sentence = water (and personally, I strongly dissagree with 2nd as it leads to uncomfortableness of 1st quote) but what do i know? im just a 'real' man who doesn't get his nails done.. (or painted.. or wear eyeliner & blush.. or the other stuff meant for women. meh.)

As far as the coast goes, based on my personal experience I find that even if you eliminate the worry of a 3rd party email by making a whole new hotmail account, you still run the risk of falling victim of prank ads which are on the rise in the coast ads (its happened to me 2 times already in a row... arranged to meet an SP from a coast ad and it was just a bunch of kids trying to get a laugh at the expense of serious hobbyists who now don't know who to trust out here anymore) The coast independant ads for SP's with no pics and no phone number to provide you but arrange to meet with you with only a email addy for info are NOT TO BE TRUSTED under ANY circumstances! It's a shame that Halifax is becoming notorious for this now. :x:sad: The coast = a joke & a waste of serious SP's and serious Hobbyists time. thats my opinion anyway.

I have been looking for an independant SP in Fredericton for quite some time but no luck. Im from Halifax and frequent NB for business and it would be nice to find a friendly SP in Freddytown so if anyone can point me in the right direction it'd be greatly appreciated. non-agencies preferred, but open to any info reguardless. :-D

hmmm. The ad i saw in the personals didn't state that at all. Maybe she posted in 2 sections and left out that info.. because i didn't see that in the ad. ah well...

i emailed her days ago. no reply yet. i kind of don't trust the coast personal ads anymore so im guessing anything goes. :?

Im starting to realize now how hard it is in Halifax to find a decent & reliable SP (without the help from cerb) when there are so many middlemen/middlewomen putting up detour signs that lead off into nowhereland so the good hobbyists never get to find the good SP's. HRM is way too small for this type of b.s. ...i kind of don't blame a lot of the SP for going out west to be honest. :-|

I agree with this as well. Plus, all a guy has to say is 'im not married'. Not sending a pic isn't proof that he is married at all. Thats just absurd. I don't send a requested pic by preference. If the SP isn't down with that.. thats cool. I just give my business elsewhere. Simple as that.

The list of no-shows and non serious people goes both ways as i've met with an escort before who wasn't the person she showed in her pics.. and the worst scenario was she showed up with a dude which was very suspicious and i felt danger coming (i.e. a set up to get robbed) so i just abandoned both as there was no assurance for privacy when she said in her ad "discreet" and it was false advertising. (this was pre-internet when it happened, but it can still happen nowadays) If you're going to make a list, it can't be one sided. escorts and hobbyists both can qualify as "no-shows" or bait & switchers.

Cheating related to Genes? heh... i thought it was more about "Jeans" and how easily they come off. Get a tighter belt. :-D no tlc or attention in a one sided relationship benefiting the other person... along with not being sexually compatable (sex drives of both partners not on the same page) seem to be the 2 biggest reasons why people cheat. That whole yakkity yak about genetic relevance seems to be a lot of b.s. IMO