Mikeyboy

I enjoy both types of shots. I don't think I would ever prejudge a person based on the fact that they are using selfies, but I have judged on their choices in those shots. If they can't be bothered to move the piles of dirty clothes or move the ashtrays and dishes out of the shot, I think that says something about the person. It still doesn't necessarily indicate that they are on drugs, but it does show that they are likely not for me. I also find that the shotgun approach to photos is not always best approach either. Even if they are not professional shots, take some time to review them and select a handful of good, enticing, flattering pics. I'd rather see 6 of your best shots than 100 random pics of varying quality. I've often found this to be the case with selfies as it is so easy to just take more shots.

Last time I saw her, she was in the process of moving out of her old place. (January I think) She indicated that she would still be offering in call from time to time in a hotel. I've been away for a few weeks so I haven't been watching ads but she used to place ads on bp lot. I'd keep an eye out there if looking for her. Hope this helps.

My favourite haunts: For fine dining, you can't beat The Press Gang. Wins for shear ambiance alone, and the food is amazing. For sea food, as already mentioned The five Fisherman. Can't go wrong. For Thai: Chabba Thai. Favorite neighborhood restaurant: The Vines Pasta House. (For Dartmouth folks.) good food, great value. (Wine list a bit lacking.) Pub: The Henry House. Best pub food in the city, and great beer list. I'm getting hungry now.

Happy Birthday my friend! Treat yourself to something special!

Because not everyone is smart enough to do their homework on CERB before picking up the phone. ;)

Congrats Mr Green!

I'm not 100% positive either, but I believe you are correct on the "general" and "Elite" levels. I thought that "senior" was in between the 2 (100-499 posts) but I could be wrong or perhaps has changed. I also assumed that "long time member" referred to a time frame, not a post count. (I am both Elite and long time at the same time.) I don't believe rep points play into this, but that is only my guess. 1000+ Posts gets you Elite with a crown. (Can't wait to be crowned ;) )

Nice lady and one hell of a sexy body. Would definitely recommend.

Yes.... And I don't think they do her justice. ;-)

Pretty sure that this is the lady who goes by the name Skye. (Sky?) If I'm right: Drop dead gorgeous. Incredible body. Definitely recommend. FS, but not GFE. Fun none the less. Search her here. There have been a few conversations and a recco thread. Enjoy Can anyone confirm that this is her?

There have been several discussions about this agency. Have not tried myself but doesn't paint a pretty picture. Here are just a couple of the threads: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=146788 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151989

Recognition threads are a great example of what makes cerb special. The founding idea of speaking only the nice thoughts and keeping the negative ones to your self. Like the internet itself, cerb is an eclectic collection of ideas and thoughts that vary so drastically that there is something for everyone. And also like the internet itself, you must learn to pick and choose the things that interest you, and skip over the rest. Sometimes I enjoy reading these threads, and sometimes I skip over them, depending on my mood. I do however appreciate that there are those out there who take the time to recognize others. A big kudos of recognition to the recognizers out there. Keep up the great work.

20 years and counting....... ;)

Happy Birthday Reddog! Hope it's a great one. Mikey

I believe that you need to find the right balance of the two, and that it is a different balance for everyone. (How's that for a diplomatic answer? ;) ) I don't believe in a higher purpose in the religious sense, but I do feel that one needs to find some meaning and purpose in their own life to feel complete and worth while. Whether these are work related goals, family related, or whatever gives you satisfaction, you should strive for something. That being said, if you spend all of your time striving for goals, but forget to stop to smell the roses and enjoy where you are and what you have, then you have wasted your life. I try to adhere to both philosophies, without letting either take control.

I agree with the above sentiments. This community is like a family. They can be brutally honest and quick to point out when you cross the line, but I've also found that they can easily forgive when asked. I also am unaware of the specific situation, but if you did in fact cross that line, apologise and move on. Don't let your own hesitations keep you from being part of something you enjoy.

Happy Birthday Beautiful! Have a great day.

Congrats Someguy! Well done.

Happy Birthday Old Dog! All the best to you.

I agree with most here. I don't think you can be so black and white with it. Defining cheating based on one specific action is an oversimplification. (Bill Clinton tried it and it didn't work out so well for him ;) ) What is considered cheating is going to be different for every couple and every relationship. For some, flirtation is enough to cross the line. For others, it may be something completely different. The bottom line is, if you feel the need to keep it from her, then it likely is to some degree, cheating by most definitions. Why some of choose to even though we know where the line is, is a subject for a different debate, but I think most of us know where the line is, at least in the eyes of their own SO.

I probably don't take the time enough to thank and nominate posts. If you feel it theliquor, keep doing it. You shouldn't ever feel bad for showing your appreciation. Thanks everyone! You are all amazing!

One thing is certain now and that is that the relationship is forever changed. Carrying on with the hobby and just being more careful is not likely to be easy as she is on to you now. You will be under the microscope so to speak. It's likely time to make a call about what the relationship is worth to you. If you choose to stay in it, (and no one can answer that question for you), I agree with those here who have said that you should tell only what you remember. No need to research and find every last detail. No good could come from it. Give as few details as needed to satisfy her need for understanding on the topic. Then try to move on. Just some initial thoughts on the subject, from one who is not "yet" in the same boat as you.

She has a new ad up now. Wow ;) Any takers?

Good luck Castle. It is a wise man who can look at his life objectively, and recognize which aspects are positive and which ones are not at any given point. It is a wiser man still who takes the initiative to do something about it. Best of luck to you in all of your future endeavors, and thank you for your contributions over the years. Your input will be missed. Mikey

Thank you for your contributions over the years mrgreen. Your perspectives will be missed. All the best to you over the holidays and beyond. Cheers