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Happy Birthday JoyfulC Enjoy your special day RG

Normally that would be an option, but these two ladies aren't duo partners regularly, in fact this was their first time together, so no duo picture exists But thanks anyway :-) RG

I'll ask this question here, it is sort of related to the topic at hand. I know how to post recco's, done a few. But I'm going to be posting in a day or two, once I polish it up, a recco on a ménages à trois with two special ladies. My question, I like posting the lady's picture in the header image. But there is only one header image icon, so how do you get a picture of both ladies posted. Or would I be better to insert an image of each lady into the body of the recommendation and avoid the header image icon altogether Thanks in advance RG

Happy Birthday Lexy Enjoy your special day RG

Congratulations Spud Enjoy reading your posts, looking forward to reading 2000 more RG

Are you talking about putting pictures on a CERB thread you are posting? If so, there are icons above the screen you type into. The fifth icon in from the right (looks like this ) is what you want. Copy the URL of the photo you want. Then click on that icon. Up comes a screen saying enter the URL of your image. Paste the URL of the photo into that screen, and Bob's your uncle Hope that's what you were looking for and hope it helps RG

More thrown in for discussion. Are there, on the ladies' part, assumptions about higher/lower volume hobbiest's. In other words, guys who see SP's very frequently (a few times a week for example) versus the average guy (sees SP's about once a month) versus the guy who occasionally sees a SP (maybe three-four times a year) My bet, no assumption whatsoever, by either ladies or gentlemen. And my point, really should even the question about assumptions about higher/lower volume be asked...seems like kind of a double standard to me, and unfortunate that it needs to be asked IMHO Just a thought RG

Mushroom cheddar chowder It's cream of mushroom soup, with grated cheddar cheese and sour cream on top. Followed by fresh pineapple Was too lazy and didn't feel adventuresome tonight RG

Most of my encounters are outcalls to my hotel. So yes, my wallet is with me. In my early days embarking on this lifestyle, I hid my wallet (just in case) but forgive me, I was a newbie then. Now my wallet is with me, not hidden away. In fact the one sleepover I had I didn't feel the need to hide my wallet (and a unscrupulous lady could wait till I was asleep, get up, steal my wallet and leave) because this lady is a class act, and trustworthy. Even incalls, the few I've had, never felt worried about my wallet because the ladies I see are honest and class acts. I've only had one time where, while my wallet was never in jeopardy, I do think this lady if she had an opportunity, would steal. In short, I've learned to find great ladies to have encounters with...ladies who are class acts, and make seeing them be an escape, not a cause for concern A rambling RG

Like Meg said, face sitting And it is in the Urban Dictionary http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=face+sitting RG

I think come the New Year I'm going to splurge and get a portable CD player to take with me on out calls to have some background music playing. Can you get detachable speakers for sony discmans, and if so, does anyone know how the sound quality is. Or are there other smaller portable cd players out there. I don't want to be walking through a hotel lobby carrying an oversized boom box with me LOL Now as for music, and ladies, your opinion greatly appreciated (although all CERBite's may join in), what sort of music would you like to hear if you went to an out call. I know someone who can burn a disc or two for me. Thanks in advance RG

Congratulations Nicolette on the 4500 milestone Enjoy your posts, look forward to 4500 more RG

This recommendation is a little slow in coming, sorry Angela. Angela and I had scheduled our second encounter for October 13, 2012. I was looking forward to reconnecting with Angela. My last date with her was good, and I was expecting another great time with her. I had nervous excitement all the way on my drive to Ottawa. I showed up at Angela's incall on time. I knocked on the door, and was greeted by Angela, looking as sexy as ever. She ushered me into the kitchen, where she had some hot hor d'oeuvres waiting. And Angela remembered I can't drink, and had non alcoholic wine for us to drink. We sat down, and got caught up on old times and current events. Well after awhile of catching up, we went downstairs to the bedroom, and continued catching up, the details of which are private between Angela and me. After catching up, we were just lying in bed, kissing cuddling and more conversation. Unfortunately, as always is the case, our time ran out and it was time to for us to say goodbye...well until the next time. Angela is a great lady to see. I would recommend that any gentleman looking for a lady to see in Ottawa for a good encounter give Angela a call. You won't be disappointed. And Angela, thank you again for a wonderful second encounter. Looking forward to when we see each other again.

Sorry, but as a gentleman who exercises discretion and treats SP's like ladies, because they are ladies, I find your statement off putting. I don't forget my manners, I don't, in the case of incalls, arrive early. I respect all boundaries. Just because some men don't behave like gentlemen don't lump us all together. I don't characterize all SP's the same because of some encounters with bad SP's RG

A bottle of wine RG

Really only you know whether you can keep the love for your wife and sex without romance with an escort separate. Every individual is different But, as has been mentioned, do things to keep this lifestyle discrete. A disposable cell phone, which you don't take home, a separate account (maybe only cash only) definitely no credit cards, don't change your home behaviour, use your own soaps etc. One more thing. I see you are in the USA. If you plan to see escorts in the US, keep in mind for the most part it is an illegal (criminal) activity down there, and you may risk arrest. Also escorts in the United States, from my understanding, for the most part, require verification (your full real name, reference, phone etc) I personally support verification, but are you comfortable in your situation providing such information to a lady Whatever you decide, good luck RG

Well my thoughts. Not that I am looking for a escort to date (well except within the confines of this lifestyle) or for that matter am I looking to start dating again. And I can't envision falling in love with an escort, or for that matter, any lady. Given the unique dynamics of this lifestyle, in my opinion, only the lady can broach the subject. If a gentleman brings up the subject, it can be confused with asking a SP out for another encounter, or just looking to see her for free. If a lady brings it up, she can make it clear she is looking at you, the gentleman, as not a client, but potential boyfriend. So to answer your question in short, absolutely if a SP says she loves you, would you date me, it is fair. And completely unfair and ungentlemanly for a guy to ask a SP the same thing...this is a very unique lifestyle with special dynamics But if a lady does ask the question, she should, as anyone does, be prepared that he may not feel the same way, and not be interested in dating, or a relationship. He may want a uncomplicated no strings attached lifestyle As I see it RG

Happened to me too Meg. Paid my internet last month, then forgot, and paid it again...so no internet bill this month RG

$80.00 worth of gas, didn't even fill the tank :-( RG

And to add to that, you can't fix stupid If you are early, go to a Timmies, a mall or somewhere where your presence won't be noticed RG

Good luck mistert. Your will be missed while on your leave of absence and welcomed back when you return Again good luck RG

The only, well not assumption, but question in my mind when looking for a lady to meet is will I have a good encounter with her. If the answer is yes, then I will contact her. If I do have a good encounter with her, then she is a lady I will schedule repeat dates with. But it is no more my business whether she is a higher/lower volume provider than it is the lady's business whether I see a lot of ladies, or a few. And I enjoy my time with the ladies who have provided me with wonderful good encounters. Whether they are high or low volume providers never crossed my mind, whether they are good companions, that for me is what is important and the only thing that matters to me Good post Nathalie RG

Maybe I did take it wrong, if I did I apologize Bananasplity. Just as someone who has ED issues the wink wink I took it the wrong way, don't see it as humorous at all. For me, because of a medical condition requiring certain medications the side effect of one was erections hit/miss, mostly miss. And I need the prescription, it's not melodramtic to say it's a life and death matter for me ED drugs, can't use because of a family history of strokes in my family, my doctor said they are contra indicated if you have a history (including family history) of strokes. But as has been advised, try the ED drug first, if it works, no need to tell the lady. And as an alternative, well here is a thread I started a while back on another ed solution, well worked for me. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=365001#post365001 But again, if I took the wording of your post wrong Bananasplity, I do apologize. And please don't stop contributing to the CERB community because of this RG

Well a few comments. First as to references. Since you haven't seen a lady yet there are other options available, which the lady will suggest. When you make your initial contact, tell the lady this would be your very first encounter. But in the course of making contact, provide other verification information. That would be providing your real full name, board handle confirmed by pm, contact email, verifiable contact cell phone number, maybe under your circumstances one other piece of personal information (work phone number, home phone (if different from cell phone) home address or some other additional piece of information) No the lady isn't going to use this information for blackmail or other nefarious purposes. She is using the information for her safety. But she will be very impressed that for a first time ever client you are so forthcoming with verification information. And with that openess on your part, you will impress the lady you want to see, and may (I emphasize may) negate the need for a reference. Now, in the alternative, you can see a lady who doesn't require a reference. Some very reputable providers don't require any verification information and/or references Check the lady's website for her preferred method of contact. Most ladies in my experience prefer email. In the email provide the verification information. If she wants a phone call, ask when is a good time to call (she has a private life too, and may be with family/friends if you call out of the blue) Some ladies just get a vibe from talking on a phone, they use their instincts to screen...and no, being nervous on the phone won't likely screen you out, but a cocky arrogant attitude would. Bottom line, be a gentleman with a lady, that is the type of client the lady wants to meet. Good luck RG

The College of Physicians and Surgeons would have their own code of conduct to follow, many professional organizations do. If you as a professional break one of the rules of your organization you can be disciplined by that organization for breaching those rules. Those rules are seperate from breaking the law, in fact you can be in some cases a law abiding citizen while breaking your professional rules. Easy case in point. A Priest has consensual sex with a woman. He isn't breaking the law, but clearly breaking his vows (professional rules) as a Priest Hope that late night rambling before I go to bed makes sense. RG