Phaedrus

I think these may have been in a forum of their own, and I think that may have been deleted. Given the shitshow the last one turned into, I can't imagine Mod would be inclined to do it again.

Another thing: if you have browser plugins, disable them all temporarily and see if that helps. If it does, turn them back on one by one until you catch the one that's causing the problem. Additional Comments: Another thing: if you have browser plugins, disable them all temporarily and see if that helps. If it does, turn them back on one by one until you catch the one that's causing the problem.

There are good reasons why negative posts aren't permitted here. You'd be amazed by how many turn out to be written by a client who had a bad experience because he was an asshole, or who thinks making someone else looks bad somehow makes him look good, or even by another provider posing as a client to try and trash a rival's business. Yes, that's frustrating when you get a bad experience and a warning to others would be appropriate - I've been in that situation myself - but those are the rules here, and they aren't going to change. There are plenty of other boards around where you can post warnings and negative reviews if you like. You're entirely at liberty to join those and contribute there; working out how to tell the difference between a genuine warning and someone with an axe to grind is your problem. Nowhere is perfect. Choose your poison.

I haven't signed up yet (I'm a cash-only guy), but I plan to once they're open.

"I'd like to know" is not the same as "I have a right to know". There's always an element of the unknown when you're meeting someone new. Pics vary in accuracy. Sometimes things like tattoos and piercings may be hidden. Personality is always hard to judge before you actually meet someone, and things like chemistry are downright impossible. For those who think this is a big deal... why not simply ask? Yes, you may offend someone - you'll have to weigh up the pros and cons of asking for yourself and decide whether it's worthwhile, or whether you don't actually need to know after all.

I had the pleasure of meeting Naomi recently, having not been to Vibe for a while (I've been hibernating all winter). She's a great person to talk to, and gave me a very good massage while we chatted about things. And having done that, we moved on to other things... which was all a lot of fun. Hopefully I'll be seeing her again!

You guys are aware that cup size is relative to band size, and isn't an absolute scale, right? And so EEE on one person may not be the same size as EEE on another? Good. Just making sure.

CMJ has two locations, but neither is very close to downtown. They have an outcall service called Touch of Euphoria (link in their post above) if that works for you. You could try contacting Kathryn Bardot - she's an escort, but she used to be a MA... and she's downtown.

Well, you've come to the right place. Welcome! There's a huge amount of information on this site if you look around.

You'd be better off asking in either the Kingston or Belleville sections of the site..

Get them off!!! And if anyone knows a graceful way of doing this, please let me know...

People do like the personal touch... but they like low prices more. They also like convenience. That's what drives this. However, that's only of limited use when talking about this industry. When considering who to go and see, there are many considerations other than the purely financial. If I buy a book I get the same thing wherever I buy it; if I spend an hour with someone then I'm looking at very different experiences, even when choosing between people who may offer the same set of services.

It's already here. http://venturebeat.com/2016/03/23/hands-on-pornhub-vr/

I'd give it 15-20 minutes, in the absence of her telling you anything else. I don't think it's reasonable to expect someone to wait much longer than that; we all have lives to be getting on with. FWIW, many ladies have a policy about late arrivals, which is usually on their website; 15 minutes' grace (provided you let them know you're running late) seems to be about standard on their side, too.

How long is a piece of string? Probably depends on which police force in involved, what their policies are, and what he was doing at the time and who with. If you're seeing a consenting adult the chances of getting caught are vanishingly small. As soon as you start to involve anyone who's unwilling or coerced, or underage, then the chances of getting caught go up (because that's what the police tend to focus on, for obvious reasons) and I'd imagine the consequences would, too.

Yep. I think "good/bad mileage" is always relative to what the person saying this was expecting... which, obviously, varies according to the person saying it and has no bearing on whether anyone else will either get the same or feel the same way about it :) It's sometimes useful as a general guideline, but I wouldn't give it any more weight than that. And personally, I don't use it at all.

The post above this one makes it pretty clear that this information isn't going to be made public at this point in time. You can always contact CMJ directly, either here or via their website (link through the ad on the right).

This is absolutely true, but... most of the ladies I've met in this industry have agreed to see me without having seen any picture of me at all, never mind a face pic (full disclosure: I don't look like my avatar). Given this, I'm hardly in a position to complain if they choose to retain some vestige of anonymity. As you said, this is a harsh industry.

Maturity matters to me. Age... not so much. There is some correlation, but less than the casual observer might expect...

I don't want to be the asshole who thinks he knows how you should run your life better than you do, and I know I'm about to sound like that guy, but... that distinction really doesn't exist. If you post stuff online - anywhere - then anyone can find it, download it, and republish it... and you have no idea whether that person is on the other side of the planet or the other side of the road. Whatever you do or don't decide to publish, be aware that once you put it out there, it's out there forever. You can't call it back, you can't control where it goes, and you can't control who does or doesn't see it. The decision to publish face pics is irrevocable; once you've done it, it stays done. Forever.

Well... depends how much texting. SPs do have safety protocols and if it's just a quick "client arrived, not obviously a nut-job" text, then I'm OK with it (and a similar one at the end). Anything beyond that... no. Unacceptable.

Two things... First: you're not the only one. I can't take my eyes off this political train-wreck either. Second: you're absolutely bang on the money when you call it a reality show. Trump has realized what the political establishment has not: reality TV is way more popular than politics (or just plain reality). It's why he has carried all before him thus far.

OOI, why do you say that? I had a look at the IIFYM site and it looked like pure marketing to me.

You're absolutely right. The police want to instill fear throughout this industry; they definitely to NOT want to own up to the fact that it's pretty safe as long as you avoid obviously high-profile stuff. They go after underage providers and clients seeking them, anything involving trafficking, and the street workers. The reasons for the first two are obvious; the street workers and their clients get picked on because they're far and away the most visible facet of this industry, and therefore the people that the kind of people who write Outraged Letters To The Editor are actually aware of. That in turn creates a political necessity for the police to be seen to be addressing the problem so that the letter-writers will perhaps STFU for a week or two. But if a bit of tactical ambiguity can be used to cast a chill everywhere, they'll do that. The thing is, that only works if we let it. We don't have to.

Serendipity is a wonderful thing. I recently paid a visit to CMJ and was fortunate enough to meet Belle. I was impressed when she walked into the room, more so after we'd talked for a few minutes, and by the time we'd had a shower and got to the massage table I was pretty sure that I was in for a lot of fun. I wasn't wrong. Belle gave me a very good massage (much of it without using her hands :) ) and after the levels of excitement had been steadily raised, she brought things to a very satisfactory conclusion. A bit of chat in the shower afterwards as we cleaned up and then, alas, it was time to go. Until next time....