Sensual Erin

I've given back to a few of my sweetest clients as well this year. I've done a few two hour apts. that was not much more than the price of my one hour, and shared my mud bath with them. I don't share my mud with just anyone. ;) The one's I chose to indulge with have really brightened my year. It felt great to give back to them as they've been so wonderful to me. It goes both ways.

This video is so sweet. I couldn't give you rep points Emma, but have sent this video to three of my friends for Christmas. Thank you for sharing.

I like Isabella for the exact same reasons she likes RG. :) Additional Comments: Shoot I was beaten to it. I like Soleil because she's always so sweet on the board. I like Lee's avatar and I like how HB has stuck around with us. hehe! He's a trooper.

I can't give you more rep points so thank you. I will try this.

I would like to add that in my situation, the cancellation fee is subjective and I've only had to enforce it once with a client that just decided he was within his rights to just not show up. When I did ask him what happened, he admitted he got sidetracked and couldn't make it. He's a regular of mine and has tried to disrespect my time on a few occasions. The night I asked what happened, he made no apologies. He thinks because he see's me often, which was suggested in this thread by a few, that it all adds up to the same thing anyway. I don't care if you see me once a week or once a year in this case. It very inconsiderate. I had no problem letting him know how much compensation he did need to bring me when he messaged the next week for another apt. If he wanted to see me again, it was the least he could do to pay for my preparation time. If not, he is quite welcome to find another provider. I had mixed feelings about the fee, so that's why I started this thread. Thanks to those that let me know my policy is fair, and for contributing to a very informative subject.

Can someone please direct me how to do this? I've had so many nice notes on my guest page and want to respond back with the same, but when I cut and paste the image, only a link comes up to the place I got it. Thanks ahead if you can give me advice on "Cerb Guest Book Adding Images for Dummies".

First my family and friends My cell phone Music Myself Poutine My morning coffee The ladies here during my stay as a member. They're my strength and support system during times that are challenging. As much as I value and appreciate the Gents, the emotional support I've received from the ladies is invaluable. Things I thought I needed but gave up: My microwave My cable. Just cancelled it and will report back on that one.

Just an article I've read about opposing sides and how to deal with them. I think if we can handle ourselves better emotionally, the threads will follow suit. Perhaps I''m lost too in all this. : ) It's a general article but I'm always always seeking knowledge in human relationships.

I'm not touching this thread, well maybe just a little but I hope this in not another case of the boys ganging up on the girls? Charlotte and Berlin have good points and this is a good question for MOD to answer? Let's stick to the facts even though it may be good wank material. If belongs in another area boys, you'll have to wank off there. Did I just say that?

Please stop taking me to private chat when you're from way out on the other side of Canada and have no intention of booking, asking what I offer and what you would like to experience. Number 1: You have taken me to private chat before and promised to see me in a week or so after I spent a great deal of time talking to you. I gave you the benefit of the doubt you may be visiting our city and inquiring about my services. You never booked and now several months later. #2. Please don't act like you don't remember this when I call you out on it. You've done it to other ladies too I know. #3. Stop being a major WOT! I speak to members all the time about general stuff in chat so expect the same from you. #4. Please don't request to take me to private chat again and distract me from members that are there that have engaged in good chat. Passive aggressive rant done!

I think this is a crucial point for travelling ladies. One of our members from the East coast traveled here last spring and this was additionally mentioned in the Ottawa reco area that she had a few last minute cancellations. It was Sophia Varoushka, if she does not mind my mention, and Cato kindly reminded the guys just as you have. If the Gentleman want the ladies from other provinces or cities visiting, please do not cancel at all even with notice as their cost is high to travel and the decision to do so is based on this factor. Ifa n apt. needs to be cancelled in this case for any reason, definitely a cancellation fee is appropriate and should be pre paid.

Very well said RG, as a very respectful Gentleman. I don't like to see this thread go into "she could have done this, or avoided that." Please let's avoid what she could have done to avoid abuse? This has nothing to do with Isabella and everything to due with the client. He's the danger and do believe Isabella is courageous and strong by sharing her story. Not everyone calls out violence due to fear or retribution. I know as well Isabella is a very caring, kind individual and did not deserve this under any circumstance! No excuse! Additionally, Isabella has warned the other ladies. She's handled this situation with the class and dignity I admire and respect her for.

You should move this question to the massage section. CMJ is highly recommended and you should have your question answered in that area.

and Meg knows how I feel about her. She's so sweet!

Congrats Samantha. You're insight, wisdom, caring nature and integrity has made me a great admirer. xo

Thanks Pete, I've had to cancel a few times myself on short notice as especially in this profession, a client just may not be able to give ample notice in delicate situations. IE: The SO has come home and now you have to shovel. Texting in these types of situation is not always available. These situations are completely valid and as providers we are understanding. My mother showed up once unexpected, and I had to cancel last minute on that note. :) I then offer a discount for a rain check as it goes both ways.

Thanks for all the feedback everyone. It's something I'm implementing on a case by case basis. I only have one so far that has been a little inconsiderate and has stood me up for no reason. He proceeded to make another apt. a week after and did let him know he needed to bring me a nominal fee as his actions were not right. He's the type of client that would not have thought to do this if I hadn't asked. He paid it with no problem but I had mixed feelings about it. That's mainly why I ask. There's been great thoughts presented in this thread from both sides. I will happily answer your questions Jabba. I welcome all opinions in this topic: Show-up for an appointment only to have a client no-show It happens and depending on how the business owner handles this problem, it's case by case. Show-up for an appointment only to have a client want to have a totally different experience. My communication process with a potential new client is detailed and they know exactly what to expect. It's never happened as anyone new knows my services, restrictions, boundaries and limits before an apt is made. I've never experienced this due to a stringent pre apt. rapport with my client so all is understood. I would simple not proceed with a client that wants a totally different experience. I let them know I'm not for them and if they ask during an apt. I would not book again with them. Show-up for an appointment only to have a client no pay My clients pay before the encounter starts to take this out of the way and not have to worry about the money after. I've not had a problem with this procedure, and this ensures I'm not cheated. So, and I realize this makes a very challenging question - why do you think your services should be immune to real world experience. I do believe this business is a part of the "real world" and no business is immune. That's why I asked for feedback. As providers, we can implement procedures to make sure our business thrives like all others. It's simply good business practice. Wouldn't it be nice if everything went the way it should? Oh would it ever be nice but as a realist I cannot answer this one Jabba. Any suggestions? :) Sorry if I sound harsh. Not harsh at all. I don't mind answering all questions or concerns in this thread as the others have.

Now you've got me all curious? Wishing you a very nice relaxing lunch today. :)

I'm the proud owner of a 4-1 new panini grill. Now after all this pickle and cheese sandwich talk, I must try a grilled sandwich for dinner. :)

Thanks for sharing your Christmas story Nikki. The greatest gift I received last year was a beautiful abandoned calico cat my neighbor found in the heating vent at a senior's home she worked for early morning. My little one got into the ducts for warmth from the cold and she was very lucky to be rescued by my friend before they did their morning laundry. She's a vocal girl and if she had not meowed, she would have probably perished when the laundry machines were started. I knew the day she came to my door she found me and has been a daily blessing and my best gift ever. She gives back to me every day so that's how I see "getting." I've fed and spoiled her greatly. She was emaciated and now full, possibly a little chubby, shiny and beautiful. That puts a smile on my face I cannot explain. I'm a constant contributor to FOAP as I can only physically accommodate two cats but always try to help as much as I can in support of other animals. Just like you can sponsor a child, you can sponsor an animal through various pet organizations. If I had children on my list this year that has a love for animals, what better gift to show their friends in the New Year of their new adopted new pet. It's so very true. We do need to give to receive and what we receive back from donating our time or funds to charitable organizations and helping out our fellow people, families and animals is truly a gift that keeps giving. There's no Iphone, Ipad or whatever those gadgets are I cannot spell that will do the same. I would like to add FOAP. http://www.foap.on.ca/

To add to the old re-runs. All In The Family The Jeffersons The Incredible Hulk Golden Girls-It makes me sad though knowing they're not with us anymore. Only Betty White remains. Wonderful actors and brilliant show that really set the stage for a more relaxed ideal about middle aged women and their dating, sex lives. Blanche was a very sexy mature lady. She set my standard at a young age that women and their sexual appeal is timeless.

I will start out with: You Can Leave Your Hat On. Joe Cocker. ww.youtube.com/watch?v=_yJvnG5aIW8

Thanks everyone for your thoughts in this matter. To clarify, I would be doing this privately in a case where there was a no show with no attempt to contact me and I have to send them a message to ask what the reason was? Once was with a good regular client that did admit he was just too busy and skipped. I waited for hours as I did give him the time to contact me. He figured because he see's me often I wouldn't be annoyed. He's not a member here so I feel comfortable using this example without coming across as passive aggressive. I had him add an additional nominal fee for taking the time to prepare. He paid it gladly but he would not have if I did not speak up. I had mixed feelings about it though. I've just looked into this procedure and will not be advertising it to new clients but feel it's possibly necessary at times for a client that doesn't deserve to be blacklisted, but was inconsiderate. The clients I have yet to meet and they do not show, I do not speak to again as trust needs to be established. Hoping that makes sense and not coming across as unreasonable.

Awww, thanks Jessica and NTF. I'm blushing now.

Good points. I have blacklisted. I'm very understanding of cancellations but no shows have no good reason without an immediate rebooking with valid reasoning. I should not have to call or track them down. In this case they were never serious about seeing me to start with. You're absolutely correct. Blacklisting does get the message across and they'll soon run out of ladies willing to see them if they continue this pattern. It's the ultimate in thoughtless behavior.