waterat

... and I agree with Mr. Green - there's no need to invite drama!

Emily any gentleman should respectfully recognize that your safety is indeed more important than their privacy - and for more reasons than just your safety though that is the most important reason. Waterat p.s. thank you for checking!

Yeah it's so Great up here at the Northern Lodge.... we have the right to bare breasts while our neighbours (who can't even spell) to the south only have the right to bear arms!

I believe Roaming Guy uses the phrase 'Fish or Cut Bait'!

I have had many wonderful visits with various ladies and not one of them could be categorized as 'disappointing'. I feel that the only safer bets than enjoying a visit with any of the lovely ladies here on cerb are death and taxes!

Well, certainly Trisha can! It may be a YMMV issue - take care of your dental/breath hygiene.

Wait this is all about hockey...... what about the true Olympics?!? The kids at my local outdoor rink would be the best representatives!

I imagine common sense dictates that they only 'advertise' as providing "erotic" services but in reality I don't believe that not providing at least some sexual services is a viable business model.

It took me a while to find this on the net but here is a Gruk from Danish scientist/mathmetician Piet Hein: A PSYCHOLOGICAL TIP Whenever you're called on to make up your mind, and you're hampered by not having any, the best way to solve the dilemma, you'll find, is simply by spinning a penny. No -- not so that chance shall decide the affair while you're passively standing there moping; but the moment the penny is up in the air, you suddenly know what you're hoping. Or put another way: Lose your mind and come to your senses!

What are the Ontario laws on tinted windows? It sounds like maybe the SQ or Gatineau police were being rather arbitrary but I think maybe the same thing could happen in Ontario.... I always find tinted windows a challenge for ensuring eye to eye contact with other drivers..... and I have them in the door windows of my vehicle!!

I suggest both kinds of toys - some for the children and some for the ladies!

.... the MA's may have an advantage: more experience with Nuru gel!

I don't think there is any naivity in finding the erotic appeal provided by a MA.... possibly it is simply an excellent example of having one's eyes opened.... so to speak.

Vanessa I totally agree this dude's action were incredibly careless. Definitely a cautionary tale. Not that it excuses his actions in any way - perhaps he was 'extremely, extremely inebriated' a la Rob Ford! lol It is important to always remember that discretion is paramount.

I believe this lady can accomodate your request - haven't experienced her manscaping skills but I assume they are consistent with her other excellent services. Please let us know how things go! I plan to use her barber skills in the near future..!....

Minglewood Band/Matt Minglewood

I've never considered parking to be an issue for any of the clubs..... but for the first time I bought myself a ticket. Rolled into the lot behind Barb's and left my vehicle, as I often do, and returned an hour later to a $55 ticket. Damn. My own fault. Barb's is still my favourite club due to location and atmosphere. Wish I had spent the $55 in the CR and not donated it to the City!

....into forgetfulness. There have been many thoughtful and considered responses to this thread.... I think maybe it has gotten more mileage than it deserves.... J

I think this is an excellent suggestion!

Erin is quite correct! This would have happened to me on my first spa visit had the MA not graciously explained how things work. I hadn't done my research...... in fact I don't think I was a cerb member at the time. This community is a great resource, especially for those of us who can't see the very obvious! lol

I think she was just about finished a school program last year so may be working elsewhere. Ooooh, the sexiness!!!

I think that Nicolette makes excellent points here. The distinction for SP's is, I think, between what they do 'for' a living and what they do with their life. Many clients would benefit from recognizing that there are two different personae here. Perhaps we should realize there is a difference between what we do to to keep us lively and what we do with our life. waterat

all-in: It appears to me that this is not 'Blurring the line' but jumping back and forth across it. Be cautious of the classic 'Victim-Rescuer-Persecutor' relationship! It is not healthy and I know of what I speak. More unsolicited (though free and unused - sort of) advice: Maybe start paying your new wife for sex? Blurring lines doesn't keep things simple!

I think it is only fair of your to remember that your problem could have cut both ways. A classic Steve Goodman analysis to this: