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I saw her pass by, And yet I shall remember her until the day I die.

Remember when TV's and stereo's were furniture.

I chose the avatar of "Mr. Bean" because people used to identify me with him. -- The looks and the occasional awkward clumsiness. The only difference between my avatar and I is that I wear glasses. Sorry... no teddy bear or compact car. Cheers, Jafo

Thank you Qwerty for the information. I tried to send you some rep points, with a comment, but the system said I had to spread them around. This seemed odd since I have not sent any rep points for a few weeks. Cheers, Jafo

This afternoon a very aggressive woman called me (blocked name and number) claiming to be with Microsoft Corporation. The reason for her call was to inform me that my PC is downloading large amounts of inappropriate materials (porn) and my PC contains hundreds of thousands of inappropriate files (porn). I tried to get more information out of her (including her name and contact number) but I had a lot of trouble with her accent (not English or French). I eventually wished her a nice day and hung up on her. She never called back. I know this must be a scam since I have taken appropriate measures to protect my computer. And I monitor these safe guards on a regular basis. I would have expect to be notified of any inappropriate activity by my internet provider or the police.

daddy don't you walk so fast By Wayne Newton - 1972

This is where I run into trouble - body language. I have Asperger's Syndrome so I have difficulty reading peoples mood and body language. As a result I have stopped dating all together and only see a SP. She appears to be a lot more patient and understanding. She also takes the time to teach me the subtle signs over and over again until I finally figure things out on my own. When someone spells things out to me in detail. I feel like I have missed something along the way. It takes away the self discovery -- the WOW, I get it now feeling. A big thanks to the ladies of Cerb for their patience, understanding, comments, suggestions and advice. Without them I would have had a lot more mood killer moments. This thread for example, the ladies have explained to me the importance of going slow and gentle and not focusing to much attention on the breasts and nipples for too long. They have still left me with learning the WOW factor on my own. How to read the woman's body language when I am doing something right.

You know you're getting old when... You don't go anywhere without your sweater/jacket.

It is a wonderful feeling when something unexpected catches our heart.

Thank you so much ladies for your help and understanding. Cheers, Jafo

I thought most women did not like things touching the cervix or deep penetration.

I thought the female condom was not that popular among women?

Me not to bright at times :frown: Thanks Meg

I have but I am not sure how to approach an SP about them.

I have gone back and read the threads on condoms, and I still have some questions. I am an average sized, circumcised gent. I have trouble with sensation with most condoms. I usually use Trojan ultra thins, but from what I learned from the old threads is that they smell and taste bad. I find that Lifestyles condoms slip off easily or break for me. The flavoured condoms and Durex lacks sensation. could someone please recommend a drugstore brand that would be more appealing to a lady and is good for male sensation.

This post has been deleted. It appears that some people do not like it when I voice my opinion or side with the ladies on issues. The message I received was through the shrinking of my friends list.

Sorry Erin, I am not very imaginative with these sorts of things.

Congrats Phaedrus! Keep them coming. Jafo

Follow this link to get to the story. http://news.nationalpost.com/tag/sex-workers/?iact=hc&vpx=668&vpy=379&dur=664&hovh=147&hovw=342&tx=203&ty=56&ei=mio5TurMOc3TgAfKv8TOBg&page=18&tbnh=93&tbnw=216&start=362&ndsp=20&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:362 Additional Comments: Here is another article "Prostitutes are people too", this is from the Lancet, a medical web site. http://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736%2805%2967523-X/fulltext http://myweb.dal.ca/mgoodyea/files/prostitutesarepeopletoo.pdf It is nice to read supportive articles from people who are not part of sex work. It shows how much some people care.

How rood! You should not have to describe your lady parts to a potential client. IMHO. I like the mystery of not knowing too much before the rendezvous. It adds to the excitement and the anticipation. For me its all about the chemistry between us that is important. All I am really looking for is companionship, warm tender embraces, and maybe some kissing. If we get around to sex great, if not that is fine to. I let the lady decide when and if the time is right. I am not looking to see how many women I can be with. All I want is a special friend over an extended period of time.