ripleymonroe

I had a few dances with Vlaska today in the CR and she is awesome. It was her first time dancing for a woman (outside of a couple) so we giggled together for a while. Great presentation, great dancer, very charming. I wouldn't hesitate to get more dances with her next time I see her. :)

Ok, we're probably talking about different people then. Never had a problem with the Destiny I know. In fact, she gave me a free dance the last time I saw her. :)

Hmm, I don't know if she's of Jamaican background because she doesn't have an accent. I know that she works in North Bay sometimes too.

I agree, there are a few beautiful black women at the 'mate. I'm not sure who you're thinking of but my favorites are Destiny and Brianna. Both work nights. Additional Comments: So true! I was at the playmate recently after not having been there for a couple of months and except for Brianna and Jasmine, all of the dancers were new or I had never seen them before. Definitely makes it hard to come back for dances with your favorites.

Totally missed this event due to the flu but sounds like everyone had a great time! Hoping to meet you all at the next one. :)

Check out Phoenix Kazree - she's a pole dancing competitor who now lives in Canada. I would imagine that you can get a lot of ideas for dance routines by watching videos from the pole dance competitions and just adapt them to your level of comfort and agility with the pole. :)

I had a terrible lap dance at a club today so I thought I'd come back to this thread to share my favorite dancers solely based on the CR experience.... Playmate: Foxy, Annessa, Destiny, Brianna, Natasha Barb's: Shannon, hands down...I would spend hours with her if I could! Most sensual experiences I've had in the CR have been with her...but I've only seen her once...if anyone knows what her schedule is like, let me know! Additional Comments: Danika works during the day. :)

That's interesting...for me, it's the opposite. There are some dancers that I've gotten to know so well that I don't ask or accept dances from them anymore (but I'll buy them a drink if they come over and chat it up). For me, the fantasy is in barely knowing them. I like a bit of small talk and then dances. Otherwise, I find it uncomfortable getting lap dances from women with whom I may have formed a strong platonic friendship.

Hahaha, yeah I went to a club with a buddy of mine recently and he was totally infatuated with the waitress. He felt that she was the most beautiful woman in there. For me, it's service over looks when it comes to waitresses but I know what you mean. My pal kept asking me if she was a dancer too but I had to tell him that she wasn't. :P

Guys, it's all pretty clear... The award rules mention that this is "a recognition award for the ladies who take time to participate and contribute in the forums and chat areas." Forums and chat are both public areas. This isn't about community-building anywhere else. Clearly, what's happening here is a problem with the members not bothering to vote for the SP who fits the description of who this award is meant to honour (based on the award description itself). I was going to recommend that the mods make the rules a bit more clear, but now that I've read that line, it's clear as day! Additional Comments: No no, it's got nothing to do with you. :) Honestly, it looks like it's just a misinterpretation of what qualifies a person for the award. The guys likely really appreciate your private contributions but the issue at hand is that award is meant for public participation. But in the end, who knows. Maybe it's a clear indicator that the members want private contributions included in this. So in a way, this is a good thing - it's either an evolution or it will require clarification for the next one.

Here's my take on it as a new member to CERB. When I first started out posting in the forums or in private convos, I noticed the Member's Choice graphic next to some of them. Without having any idea what that meant, I assumed that these women had won some sort of award for being highly respected by CERB members. It was natural for me to assume that I could trust them more or that they were veterans here on CERB. Now that I'm seeing what's happening here, I'm thinking that the guys are shooting themselves in the foot. New members won't know that someone has been voted in because of private participation or because they somehow got some publicity through discussions like this. They'll likely be like me and see that badge as evidence that this person has garnered the trust and respect of members through long-term community-building. I would personally prefer to see this kind of award going to someone who engages the community publicly rather than privately. Otherwise, it's no longer a community - it's email.

How long has CERB been around anyway? (Maybe it's written somewhere else, but it's late and I'm lazy). ;)

Not yet. I have a few leads but I'm adding them to a list so I can interview them. Have you got any recommendations or are you looking too?

lol, hopefully see you at the next one! :)

Yes, I work in the porn industry.

I will be there and look forward to meeting everyone!

Great thread! I'd have to say that I'd love to be able to play more musical instruments, particularly the cello. It's on my bucket list. :)

If I spot you, I'll say hi. :) Looking forward to meeting everyone!

Haha, ok sounds good. I'll leave my socks and sandals at home. ;)

YES. Thanks for writing that. You make such an important point here: in the end, we are alone. I also survived an illness at one point and it's amazing how life changes when all of a sudden, the people you thought you were friends with disappear and don't come and visit you. There are times when we have to depend on something else to keep us going. And that also reinforces the notion that really great friendships are truly rare. Sometimes we need unfortunate events to uncover these kinds of truths and to appreciate the people who make life less lonely.

hahaha, as long as it's platonic it's all good. i think a lot of guys here know now that we play on the same team. ;) btw, maybe you mentioned it and i missed it, but is this a formal event or casual?

I have been homeless and lived on the food bank during my last year of high school. That experience alone, and knowing that there are others who haven't been successful at bouncing back from something like that, has made me who I am today. We all go through bad times. Sometimes, you need a mosh pit, sometimes, you need to dance, sometimes you need to reach out to a mentor, a hero, a good friend. And me? I cling on to my dreams. If I fail, I keep going. And if I fail again, I try harder. I hold on to the fact that if you take a moment to refocus, you see that life is incredibly beautiful. It's beautiful precisely because it's possible to start over. We can't help everyone but we can recognize that greatness is inside us. And when you push through the bad times, you may be quietly inspiring someone else too. :)

Hahaha, best. reply. ever. I'll be there. As a woman. Being a man sounds too complicated. ;)

Wigs are so much fun! I've used them for photoshoots, they're fun for play, and for the person wearing it, it's like being someone else for a day. My ex and I used to get them at Malabar, that theatre and costume place in the west end. The only time I find it weird is when I wasn't expecting a wig and then run my hands through a woman's hair or start giving her a scalp massage and then the truth reveals itself. Awkward, but cute nonetheless. ;)

I know some very good lawyers (mostly all women, very liberal), but as it has been mentioned, a little bit more info would be required (like what area of law and whether you're in Ontario or Quebec). Feel free to PM me.