Jump to content

EvaAdore

Senior Member (100+ Posts)
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Content Count

    199

  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won

    1

Everything posted by EvaAdore

  1. EvaAdore
  2. EvaAdore
    Well first of all, I think you should ask yourself why you're asking that question. What is it that is bothering you that would make you want to reach out and ask if you 'should' or 'shouldn't' feel something? I feel like if you were 100% fine with it, the question wouldn't even be in your mind. Second... What is there to be ashamed OF? I can relate to this question on the other side, because there is such a stigma attached to being a part of this lifestyle. But the fact is: people have non-emotional sex with each other all the time. Everybody 'pays' in some way - buying a girl drinks at a bar in exchange for the possibility of getting her in bed is the same as exchanging cash for the same; or a woman accepting those drinks in exchange for sex is still 'selling themselves'. Those people are just in denial about what they are doing, or justify it by saying 'well I didn't give her money for it!' - it's the same thing! I think if anything, this is a much better outlet and there is a lot more thought involved in choosing a lady that meets your interests and physical tastes; this is a hobby, after all (or in an SP's case, a career). You are way more likely to have chemistry, rapport, friendship via this outlet than another way.... so why feel ashamed about it? My two cents.
  3. EvaAdore
    omg this totally made me cry like a broken-hearted teenager. Now you owe me chocolate to suppress all these emotions!!!
  4. EvaAdore
    I think as a society in general we have become numb; we're numb to love, numb to affection, numb to violence, numb to other people, numb to sexuality, numb to gore. We watch movies of people getting brutalized and tortured and we laugh, or we feel nothing. We watch MTV and see 17 year old celebrities wearing next to nothing. We go on the internet and read YouTube comments that are getting increasingly more and more malicious and violent toward each other simply for expressing an opinion. We listen to music about rape, murder, gangs. We watch the news and feel little, or we stop watching all together. And all of this is "normal" to us. And the kids think this is how things "are" or "should be". Scary, and sad. And the scariest part is the younger generation of kids ( like my sister, who is 18 ) are becoming ignorant, entitled, self-absorbed little assholes - why? Because as a society we are numb, and we are raised to fear anything that makes us feel. We're afraid of love because it can hurt; we're afraid of pain because it hurts; we're afraid of voicing an opinion because we'll be ostracized; some of us are afraid to interact with people or go in public places. We have all these mental issues we didn't have before (albeit some of them were there, but the medical community was not advanced enough to diagnose or treat them)... we have issues we never had before. We are a society of increasingly stupid, ignorant, lazy, brainwashed zombies. It's a sad truth, but it is the truth. We live in a digital world where we are all connected 24 hours a day, 7 days a week... but we have trouble looking each other in the face or reaching out to our own neighbors. There are amazing people, and I am hopeful with the recent wave of "self-help" and "self-aware" and nature-oriented movements in the last couple of years. My biggest hope is that we can all snap back to being alive and being here for each other, because I know there is good in the vast majority of people. We just need to tap into that and be there for each other more. That's why I love groups and communities like this :D
  5. EvaAdore
    Look for my cape and party hat! Also, I left a trail of bacon for you to find me with. WEEEEEEE!!!!
  6. EvaAdore
    Happy (Belated) Birthday Nicolette! I hope it was filled with sparkly, expensive things, chocolate (or another sweet confectionary of your choice), and other things that make you smile!!!
  7. EvaAdore
    + a million points for usage of the word "gaul" in a post. lol nicely done! I agree that they should do a study - I grew up in the country, and when I moved to the city I was surprised at how rude and cold people could be... people out in the sticks aren't generally like that, in my experience.
  8. EvaAdore
    As someone who changes their look/hairstyle/attire/etc quite often, I can attest that I sometimes feel awkward/shy about posting older pictures. For example, my hair is currently dark and medium length, but a lot of my pictures show me with short blonde hair. While I hesitate to post these pics with my ads for this very reason, it also kind of irks me; my face, body and general style are the same. The woman you see in those pictures is still ME, I just happen to have a different hairstyle for the moment. That doesn't mean I'm trying to dupe people into thinking I'm something I'm not. Furthermore, it makes things difficult for someone like me who changes their hair often, because I almost feel trapped by the image I have posted here. I am a chameleon by nature, I don't like staying in the same style for too long. But then I have to start getting all these pro photos done every time I change my look so people don't start screaming "Bait and Switch!" or "You don't look like your pictures!" I mean, come on. I can see if I advertised with pictures of some 21-year old with an exotic look when I was really a 35-year old with an afro; but does hairstyle really account for THAT much of your decision-making process? If she looked generally the same as in her pictures minus the hair-do, I don't think that's grounds for a B&S - that's just a woman changing her hair.
  9. EvaAdore
  10. EvaAdore
    Always, Jabba. Always. *bows head* That was... profound. All hail Jabba! Obviously. With capes and masks... I thought you knew I was a chi-eating sexubbus from another dimension who grew up poor due to my Superhero father running (rather, flying) out on me while still an infant, raised a lowly peasant by my mother who was a mere mortal??? Doggy style. Sans capes. Also, "Superhero Style"; we corkscrew while hovering in the air with our super-awesome powers. Like a figure-8, with more skin and vigorous humping.
  11. EvaAdore
    I would stop, then play "Eeny Meenie Miney Mo" to decide which direction to go in. After driving along that course for a little while, I would probably pull over and run into the field with the handsome, intelligent, rich man I am with in all of my hypothetical imaginary situations and jump his bones with the sunshine on our backs and the grass staining our skin. Yum.
  12. EvaAdore
    Hey Maotouing! I am so sorry you had such an awful experience! I can assure you it will not always be like that... - Some people just don't have good sexual chemistry, no matter how hard you and/or the other person try - Some SPs get into this job for the wrong reasons, and their service reflects the fact that they just aren't in it for anything but the money (I think people feel this on a subconscious level) - Maybe she was just having an 'off' day but didn't want to cancel on you - You said she was a germaphobe: no offence to any germaphobes who might be out there, but I really don't see how you can be in this profession with a condition like that; sex is messy, it's squishy and wet and there are all kinds of bodily fluids... At the risk of sounding controversial or ignorant, it just doesn't seem like it could possibly be a good time if you are constantly worrying about germs, touching, etc. You sound like an amazing client, and I feel bad that you had such a rotten time. Perhaps try someone who enjoys the raunchier, wetter and messy side of sex!
  13. EvaAdore
    I had a dream last night that I cut my hair short again... maybe my subconscious is trying to tell me something? :P Myself, I love a woman who is ballsy enough to try crazy/weird hairstyles, crazy colors, and add accessories to their hair (feathers, beads, random braids, etc) - I love unique 'dos!
  14. EvaAdore
    I have had the absolute pleasure of Greyhounding across our country from Ottawa to Victoria, BC. I will be embarking on my very first out-of-Canada vacation in two weeks to the (D) Dominican Republic! I am so excited!
  15. EvaAdore
    To me, "open-minded" means "I'm absolutely willing to hear some suggestions/instruction and discuss your fantasies without judgement, as long as it stays within my well-stated boundaries" For example, I don't specifically advertise certain scenarios in my ads, say duo encounters, however I would be open to this with the right people. And to be clear I mean "instruction" as in, if you don't like something I'm doing, or you want me to do a technique/position/etc I'm not doing, I am all ears so I can best please you. Open-minded does not mean "ask me 15 times if I will offer Greek, when I clearly state that I don't". (This is not a jab at your post Phaedrus, it was just the first example that popped into my head)
  16. EvaAdore
    I have very sensitive skin and am prone to ingrowns and razor burn, even if I use a new razor. My best kept beauty secret is Coconut Oil - literally solves EVERYTHING. I use it as an after-tan lotion, moisturizer for my face, to treat razor burn (instantaneously soothes the burn), and I have not had an appearance of even ONE ingrown since I started using it. AND it smells awesome. AND it's natural and anti-bacterial. ...BEST THING EVER.
  17. EvaAdore
    Awwwww you are such a sweetheart, thank you so much!! I'm actually blushing a little!! Xox
  18. EvaAdore
    TITS! Sex on the Beach or Mile High Club? (If this has been asked before, my apologies - I didn't see it!!!)
  19. EvaAdore
    Movies: ...Anal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind [Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind] ...Chasing Anal [Chasing Amy] ...Mission Impossible: Anal Protocol [MI: Ghost Protocol] ...The Anal Way [The Warrior's Way] ...Anal Flux [Aeon Flux] ...The Man in the Anal Mask [The Man in the Iron Mask] ...The Prince of Anal [The Prince of Egypt] ...Alice in Anal-Land [Alice in Wonderland] ...The Great Anal Detective [The Great Mouse Detective] ...He-Man and the Masters of the Anal [He-Man and the Masters of the Universe] ...Anal-Boy [Astro-Boy] ...The Anal Book [The Jungle Book] TV Shows: ...Anal is the New Anal [Orange is the New Black] ...Star Trek: ANAL [star Trek: Voyager] ...Hell on Anal [Hell on Wheels] ...Analution [Evolution] ...Doctor Anal [Doctor Who] ...Buffy the Anal Slayer [buffy the Vampire Slayer] ...Anal Collar [White Collar] ...Mad Anal [Mad Men] ...Drop Dead Anal [Drop Dead Diva] ...Ugly Anal / Anal Betty [ugly Betty] ...Anal Grove [Hemlock Grove] ...Analwood [Torchwood] ...Anal Nightmares [Kitchen Nightmares] ...The Magic Anal Bus [The Magic School Bus] ...Bill Nye the Anal Guy [bill Nye the Science Guy] (Please forgive me Mr. Nye and fellow science nerds everywhere)
  20. EvaAdore
    Welcome to the boards! I hope you enjoy your stay, meet some very fine ladies and have some exquisitely pleasurable experiences! Don't forget to check out the Newbie section and do your research - there is a wealth of information at your fingertips; we are all here to help each other, so take advantage of that. Cheers!
  21. EvaAdore
    Perhaps this guy felt embarrassed about losing his erection or being "inadequate"? Sometimes childish people feel the need to debase others in order to bring them down to their level... Maybe because he was feeling embarrassed, he felt he needed to also make you feel the same, or "take you down a peg" so he wasn't the only one? Or maybe he is intimidated by the act of pussy-eating... maybe he thinks he isn't good at it, or doesn't really know how to do it. Maybe he has never really done it before... so instead of just communicating that to you, he just blurted out something mean so you wouldn't ask again? Remember: 98% of things people say/do have everything to do with THEM and how THEY feel, and very little (if anything) to do with YOU. I'm definitely NOT saying that what he said/did was right - I think his behavior is deplorable. I'm just trying to think of why any guy would act like that.
  22. EvaAdore
    My heart... is broken... I miss running around town naked and dancing with people. I used to be GM of a guild called Panty Vendor, and being naked was a regular occurrence. Yay for WoW shenanigans!!!
  23. EvaAdore

    EvaAdore commented on EvaAdore's gallery image in Converted Albums

    MUAH! xoxox
  24. EvaAdore
    OHHHH MY GOD THIS THIS THIS!!!! Can we?!?! LETS!!!!
  25. EvaAdore
    Truthfully, I don't really believe there are many norms in sexuality-related topics because every person is different and prefer different things on even a momentary or situational basis (there is always exceptions to every generalization, though!) I have actually answered this question before, so I will just paraphrase what I have written previously: Speaking from my own standpoint, I have fairly small breasts ("B"s) and they are very sensitive. I have always been fond of a light touch in general (kissing, caressing, licking, etc) but especially on my breasts. I had one ex-boyfriend when I was younger who bit my nipples and I almost sent him flying across the room trying to get him off me. I have found, though, that too much nipple/breast play can cause it to go from pleasurable to painful if the man is not careful, even if he is using a light touch or soft licking/kissing. I hate over-stimulation, and not just on my breasts!!! Myself, I like it best when the man plays with them for a few minutes, then goes somewhere else with his tongue/hands to give them a bit of a break, then comes back to them. It seems to really build tension and anticipation, and allows me to enjoy the sensations for a lot longer. Most likely, communication is key as with any sexual practice, and usually you can tell from her body cues anyway. I know myself, when I am into it, I am relaxed, I arch my back, I will pull his face into my breasts, etc. When it starts to hurt I will stop and move my body to try and move his mouth away from my chest. Sometimes I will pull him up to kiss me or something along those lines, or sometimes I just get quieter than usual (I'm pretty vocal).
×
×
  • Create New...