RayRenpelle

Having a lot of time on my hands and out of boredom a few days ago I decided to take a look back at this industry over the past few years (8). Now this was done for my own benefit as I strive to always learn. I search several sites including this one and I found it fascinating. Many familiar names that I see now were active then also, both SWs and clients. However many have moved on. I found the interaction between groups were quite respectful and cooperative even while competing. One aspect of the business that seem to have gotten worse in the last 3 years or so is the issue with no shows, late, contacting often without booking ( time wasters) . This led to another practice that was not mentioned often before was that of deposits. And more and more they becoming a must. Not sure why but the attitude of clients has changed. They seem to be somewhat less respectful. Fortunately not all as I am SWs can attest but many have. I get that mostly from reviews and discussions I have read. Some reviews were actually a waste of time reading. I don't think a play by play description of the visit is a review. Also the wording of these shows a lack of respect for the lady. This seems to be a trend where clients view providers as a commodity or another tool in the tool box. They forget that SWs are women (mostly) who are willing to share some time with a client Anyway this has also led to the ladies losing respect and trust for clients. However, this is not a general trend and I was glad to conclude that we continue to have a good industry going for us. One where both clients and SWs can enjoy time with each other and feel safe and respected and appreciated.

I wish you all the best on your new journey! You have certainly been a valued presence, great to communicate with. Thank you for all you have done! You will be missed!

Thank you so much @KylieJane! True I do support all the ladies even if I do not see many. Also I feel I have benefited of time with you more than you know. The roller coaster life I have had in the past two years with my health and through it all you proved to be a source of strength and gave me the courage the carry on.I will always be thankful and wish you the very best always!! Happy Valentine's!!!

I also want to add wishes to @StephanieMystique and @charlottequinn123 for their kindness and gentle support! Great ladies

I totally agree and I certainly second the nomination of @KylieJane! She is very supportive, always positive and encouraging! Add to this that she is very beautiful with a smile that is contagious! Her companionship has been and continues to be of great importance to me. I always wish I could do more for her. Thank you Kylie Jane! Oh to be your Valentine!!!

Great advice. Something I wish I would have received when I started three years ago. Instead I got insults and was accused of being too promotional in my recommendations. But indeed you give sound advice and well written. Research is all important and the best place to start is right here on Lyla.

I would like to add that for the past two years I have been voluntary sending deposit for longer or special dates, even though I was not asked to do so. So, if a hardcore old fashion guy like me can adjust.....! As for no cash payment, that would need a discussion!

Thank you Stephanie for some clarification. I started seeing SWs before deposits were a norm. In a way it was a good thing asI was "stood up" on my first two bookings. My third try was the real deal but still no deposit. However, those were a bit different times and also clients attitude seem to be changing as well. So I see a deposit being a necessary part of this business. It may cut down on wasted time. Clients must do research. Also I appreciate your insight on the legalities. Thank you @StephanieMystique

Thank you @ninalira. You gave a clear, reasonable and understanding way that both clients and companions can deal with cancellation. No shows, without a very valid reason, are inexcusable. Wasting time is never good!

I know I have written about Kylie Jane in the past but with her permission and, hopefully, that of Lyla I am writing this new one. This is not about how beautiful she is or how great she is at her work as a sex worker. These are already well documented and I feel no need to add to it. This is about qualities of Kylie that I have come to appreciate specially in the past year. Of course my first contact with Kylie was about sex and physical contact. But it quickly evolved. In the past year I have found qualities in her that I did not expect. I already knew she is well educated, knowledgeable and a greedatn conversationalist but she is more. After my car accident one year ago, she did not hesitate to see even though wasn't defaced and not so good to look at. I had also just found that I had cancer, the same kind that had taken my wife's life three ago. It changed me. I felt I had a death sentence. I decided to make the most of the time I had and better from my car accident I started seeking the company of Kylie. That is what she became to me, a companion. I could long periods just talking to her and she would listen, offered some advice. Never did she pity me but continued to treat me as usual. Visits became longer and more frequent. She had a way of making me forget or ignore any pain I had by her words and intimacy. Once I had the surgery which was more intensive than thought, cancer was aggressive, I was supposed to be inactive for six weeks. I lasted two weeks and asked Kylie to visit me . We never stopped. She was always so understanding, encouraging. She can make long visits even day visits seem so short. I am glad I built memories with her as now the cancer has come back and I find I can no longer see her as I did. Each I feel weaker and sicker and seldom dare to go out or entertain. I even had to cancel some events/date that I held firm to for the last three. So Kylie is so much more than just a sex worker. Sure if that is all you want her to be, but she is so much more. She has kept me focused. She is a true companion. Always positive she assures me that things will be better again and she will be here for me. She has been something I had never expected three years ago when I first contacted her. All I wanted then was sex. Well I got that and so much more. I could probably write a book, eh!

Please note. I wrote the cops were in their cars parked away from hotel entrance not standing around the lady's door. Noteworthy difference in situation! Lol

I had that experience a couple of times. When I pulled in the hotel parking there were already 2 and 3 police car in the parking away from the entrance. I texted my companion as usual to let her know I had arrived. Once I got her reply I knew it was all good. I just grabbed my carry-on size bag from my back seat and went in as though I owned the place. I figured that if something was wrong my companion would have let me know in some way. Both times had a great visit and when I walked all cops were gone. Trying to not look suspicious is best. Actually, don't try, just don't act suspicious!

Good interview again! @loopie comments are to the point. Clients should always make it a point to read the intended companion's website or ad fully to know their expectations. A small gift on a first visit or any visit is very appropriate. Flowers are always a nice touch. All that was said is so right. Hygiene, being clean and sober, being courteous, never rude. When we know of the work they do to be pleasing to us should lead us to be appreciative! Just another great topic on which a lot can be said. Thank you @lydiahardwood

I really appreciate your comments @loopie. I too am alone and too old and of poor health. And so lacking experience in sexual matter. I am fortunate to have found a companion that I see as often as possible who has been kind, understanding and willing to teach me. I realized I knew so little. But she ( @KylieJane) has patiently taught me so much. Ever so thankful to her for being a part of my life. So I truly appreciate your interview and to know that there are others like me. Also thank you to @lydiahardwood for bringing those interviews to us!

Fully vaccinated with 2 doses of Pfyzer

Does it really matter? I thought it did at first. I usually try to book early in her workday because I cannot drive in the dark and also because of the distance, one hour plus at best, it is better for me. But with longer daylight hours I have visited her at different times. Also she sometimes came to my home as an outcall as her last booking of that. I have found that she is just as fresh with the same great attitude and personality at any time of the day. You need to build trust and confidence with your companion!

I would like to add one more thing. Another person who knows of my activity is my family doctor. She actually recommended that seek out a well reviewed and recommended Companion as opposed to picking up a random girl at some social event. She was so right. I can say that I feel totally safe and comfortable with the Companions I know. And in 2.5years I never got so much as the common cold from this activity. And the support and encouragement I got from them during all the woes of last year or so( house sale, car accident, lung cancer) is more than a random girl would have provided. Specially my regular Companion who has been like a tower of strength for me. Can't go wrong with good Companionship.

Fully vaccinated, Pfizer x2, two weeks in now!

Great advice in five simple words: " just enjoy the dawn journey "! Thank you for the read and good info, Darcy !!!

I find a woman's body is beautiful on its own and does not really require artwork to enhance it. However it is a personal choice on the lady's part and I respect that. I also do find some tattoos very well done and not invasive. Although I do prefer natural woman I am not opposed to them and not a turn off.

I totally can vouch for Kylie Jane being very capable of making one comfortable and ease nervousness. I started seeing Kylie 2.5 years ago. I had just become a widower six months before and she was the first companion I had ever been with. So I was extremely nervous even a bit shaky. But, like she said, her warm smile, dressed very classy, her hug and light kiss was a big help. Then we spent a good portion of the one hour visit just getting to know each other, likes/dislikes, do/don'ts and other options. She was so attentive and understanding. Ok, I liked my visit and booked my next visit right away for her next work day. I have never looked back. She is all about pleasing you within her boundaries. Great to talk to. My visits with her only grow longer and more frequent. I have never felt more at ease and comfortable with anyone I had never met as I have with Kylie Jane. All I can say is thank you Kylie for being you and continuing to see me. You are my best and my only one!!! Also thank you to @lydiahardwood for bringing Kylie Jane and her insight to this forum

Took the words from me. I intended to nominate @KylieJane for the same reasons and also for being so supportive, encouraging and dedicated to her work. It is always a pleasure to spend time with her, engaging in great conversation and often getting good advice from her. A great companion. I definitely support her nomination!!

I have written about Kylie Jane before but, if I feel it is warranted, I do not hesitate to write this recommendation. I am about to enter a period of inactivity as I go through cancer treatment. In the past year I went through several setbacks in my life making people ask me how I was getting through it. Only one constant would come to mind and it is Kylie Jane. She has given me a great deal of support and encouragement, helping me to keep a positive outlook on things. How gratifying it is for one to visit a lady who welcomes you warmly, with hugs and kisses, who will sit with and listen to you venting and offers words of encouragement. Kylie is well versed in many subjects and has life experiences that helps her to understand you! She is very easy to chat with. Of course her physical beauty is also a good reason to see her and the intimacy we enjoy is beyond words. The knowledge that we mutually get about eachother makes our visits a rich and fulfilling time. The memories I have accumulated during our visits will be great during my time out. It will also be something I can look forward to when I am able to become active again. I never regretted making that phone call to her over two years ago and can't wait to see her again. Beautiful person in all senses! This pandemic only served to make her better, gorgeous physically with beautiful personality! I can't wait to be able to spend more time with her again! I would like to keep her for myself but that would be unfair to others. You treat her well for your recompense is a great treasure!!! See you soon Kylie Jane!!

I think @StephanieMystique tru.y deserves the win! I also support her nomination of @charlottequinn123. I have experienced how supportive Charlotte is and so much fun to be around. Very popular lady! She has my vote!

Happy belated! I join everyone else in expressing my appreciation for all your work! You have provided me help and guidance when needed! Thankful for that! Keep up the good work!