"Best of" threads

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

The "best of" threads are for those who wish to participate. Permission is required to post a CERB lady's picture there. No one has to view these threads.

 

The participants are consenting adults.

Then why is my butt photo is a "name that butt" contest when nobody asked me permission and when I explicitly stated I did not want to be in these threads? I did not consent and I'm not happy!

[Guest s******ecan****]

Then why is my butt photo is a "name that butt" contest when nobody asked me permission and when I explicitly stated I did not want to be in these threads? I did not consent and I'm not happy!

 

I suggest you report the post and PM whoever posted it, we discussed this issue at length last year and it was agreed permission was required.

 

I myself don't follow these threads (except for RHAG) but I defend their existence on the basis of mutual consent.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

I suggest you report the post and PM whoever posted it, we discussed this issue at length last year and it was agreed permission was required...

 

I'm not aware of any Cerb rule covering this - if I'm correct, then "reporting the post" may not be effective?

 

By my count, only 3 ladies and 5 gents posted their approval of the "ask the lady's permission first" suggestion, when it was made on this thread last year. In the absence of a formal Cerb rule binding everyone, it would therefore seem that the list of members who consider themselves to be "honour-bound" to ask first ... may be quite a short one.

[Sensual Erin 33898]

This doesn't give me a lot of confidence to post albums if this is the case?

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

This doesn't give me a lot of confidence to post albums if this is the case?

 

Your Cerb albums are all Private Albums, Erin - so it surely would be a clear transgression for someone to copy images from them, and then re-post into a public thread.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

Oh how some of the girls will hate me for this one...

 

But for all the photos I have posted here, on this website promoting my services as an escort, feel free to post them anywhere you'd like on cerb. I've felt flattered to see a few of my pics in some of the best-of threads. This is a site that promotes, among other things, T & A - so YAY if you like my Ts or A enough to put them among the best.

 

I put up photos of myself on here for people to ogle my goods and to see if they'd like to come and see the goods in purrson. I don't see how then rating the photos I've put up for inspection can be deemed derogatory.

 

I know many of the girls do NOT feel the same as I do, and based on their reasons here I can see their sides. But I wanted to be free to say my side too, and that's to let you gents know that not all of the ladies here feel the same, and I for one say go ahead and post me in any best-of thread you'd like, it makes me happy :D

 

Additional Comments:

One thing I don't understand though - some of the threads called 'best of... on cerb' include photos of girls not on cerb. This makes no sense to me. If they're not on cerb, don't post them on cerb - seems logical, no?

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Your Cerb albums are all Private Albums, Erin - so it surely would be a clear transgression for someone to copy images from them, and then re-post into a public thread.

 

We seem to have different views on what the word "Private" means. My album in my dresser or closet inside my locked apartment is private yes but if I post my picture anywhere on a board where all board members can access and view it, It becomes "Public". Yes still private within the board and to ALL board members only (not the whole world), but otherwise within the board it is public.

 

As I have said I still believe if those album pictures (posted by the ladies themselves for members' view) are to be posted somewhere else on the board, still permission is needed from the lady in the picture and based on what I have read, since last year when we all agreed upon this procedure, permission has been requested prior to posting the pictures. so, I am confused about the protest posts really!!!!. Have there been pictures posted without permission since last year's agreement?.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

We seem to have different views on what the word "Private" means. My album in my dresser or closet inside my locked apartment is private yes but if I post my picture anywhere on a board where all board members can access and view it, It becomes "Public". Yes still private within the board and to ALL board members only (not the whole world), but otherwise within the board it is public.

 

Some members on cerb, including the lady above who has her albums listed as 'private', do NOT put their pictures on this board where all members can access and view them. They mark them as 'private', which means only people they choose can see them. So you are incorrect, posting albums on this board in general does not make those photos 'public' within the board.

 

What you are saying is very similar to what I said in my post above - I put my photos on this board, publicly to the board, so I don't care where they are posted on this board. But if a lady has her albums marked as private, I really do see that as a huge no-no if someone then posts those photos on a public thread on this board. Private means PRIVATE.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Some members on cerb, including the lady above who has her albums listed as 'private', do NOT put their pictures on this board where all members can access and view them. They mark them as 'private', which means only people they choose can see them. So you are incorrect, posting albums on this board in general does not make those photos 'public' within the board.

 

What you are saying is very similar to what I said in my post above - I put my photos on this board, publicly to the board, so I don't care where they are posted on this board. But if a lady has her albums marked as private, I really do see that as a huge no-no if someone then posts those photos on a public thread on this board. Private means PRIVATE.

 

Never realized you could make an album or pic private...you learn something everyday. So, I agree, if private then it may not be included in ANY public thread!

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Some members on cerb, including the lady above who has her albums listed as 'private', do NOT put their pictures on this board where all members can access and view them. They mark them as 'private', which means only people they choose can see them. .

 

I was not aware of private albums on cerb!!!!!!

 

In those (likely rare) cases then it is a private album and based on my understanding of your post no one on cerb can access the album and post the picture somewhere else unless he or she is authorized by the lady to access and view it. If the gent or lady wishes to re-post the picture then s/he must acquire permission from the lady in the picture (otherwise it is a clear case of breach of trust) and that is what I said in my post....

[Cleo Catra 178382]

In those (likely rare) cases then it is a private album and based on my understanding of your post no one on cerb can access the album and post the picture somewhere else unless he or she is authorized by the lady to access it. If the gent or lady wishes to re-post the picture then s/he must acquire permission from the lady in the picture and that is what I said in my post....

 

Marking your albums as private means only people on your friends list can see your pics. So if someone from your friends list decides to post one of your pics, no 'permission' needed, in a best of thread, people who are also on your friends list will see this photo pop up when viewing the thread. So it may not become visible to people you didn't intend it to, however, it being posted there to begin with goes against your purposes in marking it private.

 

Additional Comments:

I was not aware of private albums on cerb!!!!!!

 

 

as the lady you discussed in your comment above about private/public clearly said she marked her albums as private, I assumed that when you responded to her comments you realized private albums existed

[VedaSloan 119179]

I call bullshit on the asking for permission thing.

 

Some of the ladies whose photos are posted are agency girls from Vancouver or Toronto and I somewhat doubt you're getting their permission.

 

Just sayin'.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

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as the lady you discussed in your comment above about private/public clearly said she marked her albums as private, I assumed that when you responded to her comments you realized private albums existed

 

What lady I discussed in my which comment!!!! Now I am totally confused as I have no idea what you are referring to lol!!!!!!!.

 

I have NEVER posted a single picture in any "best of" threads lol, so I am totally confused by all this!!!!

[Cleo Catra 178382]

What lady I discussed in my which comment!!!! Now I am totally confused as I have no idea what you are referring to lol!!!!!!!.

 

In your comment saying 'private' becomes 'public' on cerb, you quote WIT comment about Erin's albums being PRIVATE

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

SA what I believe WIT meant when he said 'private' is that if a lady decides for her albums to be seen by members in her friend's list only she can change her settings for other members not to be able to see them.

 

Yes still private within the board and to ALL board members only (not the whole world), but otherwise within the board it is public.

 

 

For what Megan just said yes, there have been. She claims to have asked not to include her pictures in any of these threads.

 

Have there been pictures posted without permission since last year's agreement?.

 

@ Cleo ... I understand your point and I agree with you, is always flattering to have someone compliment one of your features but at least my personal feeling and I believe others here too about these threads is naming them 'the best' when they could be named differently, ie. some of the beautiful bums/breasts, etc. on cerb. Adding 'some' and taking 'best' off the title would make a difference I think. I know it has been said by others that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' and it is true but I still don't agree with the term 'the best'

 

Also as Megan pointed out I find kind of shallow dividing a woman in different parts and focusing in that and the fact that there is no one single thread about 'nice personalities on cerb' confirms that IMO. I know pictures play a big part on the decision of you guys to meet a lady but I have read in several threads from many of you that is the attitude and personality that counts the most well, that is not exactly reflected in any of those threads, is it?

[Cleo Catra 178382]

Also as Megan pointed out I find kind of shallow dividing a woman in different parts and focusing in that and the fact that there is no one single thread about 'nice personalities on cerb' confirms that IMO. I know pictures play a big part on the decision of you guys to meet a lady but I have read in several threads from many of you that is the attitude and personality that counts the most well, that is not exactly reflected in any of those threads, is it?

 

You're totally right, those threads don't exist - although I'd think that nominating posts and the members choice kind of give that kind of honour, don't you think?

[Capital Hunter 18263]

In your comment saying 'private' becomes 'public' on cerb, you quote WIT comment about Erin's albums being PRIVATE

 

I quoted WIT (I did NOT respond to any lady's comment as you incorrectly said in your earlier post) debating the word "Private" not commenting about anyone else's albums being private or public. I didn't realize that WIT meant the one single album being private but rather I thought he was referring to all albums on cerb being private. My apology to WIT for misunderstanding.

 

SA what I believe WIT meant when he said 'private' is that if a lady decides for her albums to be seen by members in her friend's list only she can change her settings for other members not to be able to see them.

 

Thanks for the clarifications. For a minutes I was so confused, I was feeling dizzy lol !!!!!.

 

I have read in several threads from many of you that is the attitude and personality that counts the most well, that is not exactly reflected in any of those threads, is it?

 

You are correct. I am likely one of those guys, as my stamp says too!!!. In my recommendations I comment on ladies' personalities, attitudes and friendliness (and hygiene) as very important factors and I always regard and comment about GFE as the emotional aspects of encounter rather than services and as I said i have never posted any pictures in any best of threads either but to clarify that personality is very important and more so than looks but in all honesty looks are important too just not as much as personalities and attitudes (to me) but in no way it means (or I mean to say) that looks are not important.

[Guest s******ecan****]

Also as Megan pointed out I find kind of shallow dividing a woman in different parts and focusing in that and the fact that there is no one single thread about 'nice personalities on cerb' confirms that IMO. I know pictures play a big part on the decision of you guys to meet a lady but I have read in several threads from many of you that is the attitude and personality that counts the most well, that is not exactly reflected in any of those threads, is it?

 

 

- Consenting adults

- no one need view these threads if they are bothered by them

 

As for reporting the post WIT I thought there was an agreement made formally last year re this subject, if there isn't then fine, any lady not wanting her pic there could still ask it be removed by sending Mod a PM.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

... any lady not wanting her pic there could still ask it be removed by sending Mod a PM.

 

I like your other suggestion better, Scott - since mod has plenty to do without getting involved in this, "PM whoever posted it" directly, and ask them to take the photo down themselves.

 

Alternatively, those who would like to see these threads discontinued entirely would want to PM mod each time. Mod might then get tired of dealing with the annoyance ... and just ban these type of threads entirely.

 

That's my free advice for both sides of the philosophical divide, ha ha ...

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

Scott let's not forget having actions done by ' consenting adults' does not mean that is the right thing to do. I as many of us here have witnessed things done by consenting adults that are brutal, not saying the threads in question are lol, just trying to make a point. Besides, this consenting adult action is done in a community not in private so the thread being done by adults does not mean others can't give their POV on them.

 

Also, of course people choose what to read and not to read but IMO that view on things is one of the reasons for the world to be the way it is today because some people think if one does not like something he/she should just look the other way or walk away. as opposed of making an effort on getting to an agreement that will make both parties happy.

 

- Consenting adults

- no one need view these threads if they are bothered by them

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Cleo, I think I may join you in the "not so popular thing for an SP to say". MOD has enough on his plate. Sometimes it IS more beneficial to directly contact the person that has pissed us off and ask them to recant a statement, picture post etc.... Policing this site is a huge responsibility and if anyone has a problem with something perhaps the best first step is to try to deal with it privately. If that doesnt work...then by all means involve the MOD!

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I like your other suggestion better, Scott - since mod has plenty to do without getting involved in this, "PM whoever posted it" directly, and ask them to take the photo down themselves.

 

Alternatively, those who would like to see these threads discontinued entirely would want to PM mod each time. Mod might then get tired of dealing with the annoyance ... and just ban these type of threads entirely.

 

That's my free advice for both sides of the philosophical divide, ha ha ...

 

On first point I agree with you, to PM the member asking s/he to remove the picture (and only mod if the member refused).

 

On second point, the advice is free however not sure I can agree that it is the best advice to encourage the behaviour. That everytime someone or some people who may not agree with a thread, a topic (especially in case of the best of threads when they seem to be so popular with at least some members) to continously PM mod to complain and make mod so tired that he decide to ban the (likely popular) threads altogether out of annoyance!!!!.... I am not sure if you meant it as a humour or said it out of frustration lol.

 

. as opposed of making an effort on getting to an agreement that will make both parties happy.

 

We did reach an agreement last year (as Scott have been saying) on the best of threads issue.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

... not sure it is best to encourage the behaviour.!....

 

I didn't suggest PMing mod. On the contrary, I supported NOT doing so:

 

... since mod has plenty to do without getting involved in this, "PM whoever posted it" directly, and ask them to take the photo down themselves.

 

I am not sure if you meant it as a humour or said it out of frustration lol.

 

The spirit of the post lies in the ...

 

... ha ha ...

 

Pointing out the potential consequences of doing something is not necessarily to either encourage or discourage it. It just allows for more informed choices.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I didn't suggest PMing mod. On the contrary, I supported NOT doing so:.

 

 

Yes the ha ha at the end indicate humour lol, but the post did suggest to PM mod each time and given as free advice for the second side (or I have to go back to high school lol :-)). And yes on the first part of your post (which I agreed) you did encourage members to refrain from PMing mod (for the first side).

 

those who would like to see these threads discontinued entirely would want to PM mod each time.

That's my free advice for both sides of the philosophical divide, ha ha ...

[NotchJohnson 214069]

I'm going to butt in here and might be hated by both side of the argument party. Ladies if someone posted your picture on "the best of" thread without your permission and you ask him to remove it and he does not, I think you can click on the "REPORT ABUSE" icon and then the mod will be advised about the action done, you report him and if this happens to often I'm sure the mod will delete "the best of" thread.

 

My 2 cents,

NJ