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Sparked by a thread earlier regarding losing your virginity to an SP (which I would take as an honour), how did you lose your big V-card? I'll start..

 

I was in my first "real" highschool relationship. We were both virgins and it was probably the most awkward situation of my life. Naked bodies, fumbling, unknown holes, weird feelings and bodily fluids. Needless to say, it didn't last very long.

 

Year later, now, I find myself much more experienced and sexual. Thinking back to my first time, I realized how silly the situation was but how seriously I took it. Sex should be fun and about exploring each other's bodies. I'm thankful now to the older fellas how taught me a thing or two about sex and myself. ;)

 

Now, tell me about yours! :D

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I was 16. He was 24. I planned it because all my girlfriends were ending up in the backseats of cars with guys they never saw again, so I figured I was going to do it up right with someone of "my choice".

 

We "did it" at his friend's apartment because he's Italian and was still living at home (I believe he still does from what I gather). I picked him because he was cute, with beautiful long eyelashes, layered shag haircut, and looked very smart in his platform shoes and open shirt with gold chaines (disco outfit). Oh, and he drove a yellow Trans Am.

 

The act itself wasn't memorable but not horrible either until he found out I was actually 16, not 18 and then he avoided me after that.

 

Sometimes I drop by the convenience store he owns and he stills throws me a wink even though he's now greyer, but still drives GM sport cars.

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In a van ;) (not down by the river). But at a drive in movie theatre. It was an all night movie marathon so I lost my virginity well..twice ;) I was 16 she was 17 and our second date. We went out for 2 years and I would have to say in was a very nice and memorable night.

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It SUCKED!!! It was both our first time and it SUCKED!!! I remember thinking, THAT SUCKED!! Thank goodness it get's better from there...guess you have to start somewhere.

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The night I lost my (mouth and lips) virginity since she did not want to do the whole penetration thing yet(and it took me 2 years to do so after that). At the drive in with my dads pick up truck half way through the first movie she let me go down on her and she thought I was a pro at it(watched too many porn). She was not ready for the penetration part and told me after I was way too experienced for her and that she was a bit embarrassed to have screamed like she did.

We were both 17 and dated for about 2 month in the summer holidays.

My real virginity was lost when I had just turned 20 and in college with a high school girl I knew that was 18, we were both virgin and did it on a camping trip.

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I was almost 15 years old, my boyfriend was 19 years old...both virgins. He was 6ft7 and Morrocan...let's say the penis was really big...I passed out from the pain the first time...I remember the feeling being torn apart, like literally...after that we waited 6 months to do it again since I was so scared. During that time thought we did a lot of oral, and he use toys on me so I got use to something bigger.

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We were both 15 and virgins. I was sleeping over and her parents had set me up in a sleeping bag on the living room floor. After her parents and brothers went to bed she came back out. It was fast and horrible. After that night I decided that the next time I would give oral a try and only penetrate her if I could make her come with my mouth. It worked and I loved the taste so much that it was always the first thing I did. It also took anouther 3 years before I got a blow job.

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I was 14, they were 16,17 and 17, in my schoolyard park

They were exchange students who couldn't believe the prudishness in Canada and thought it would be fun to try someone with charecteristics they didnt have at home with their boyfriends

 

Basically i had liquor at a dry host party, and the 4 of us snuck away

 

Great story, awkward sex, but at least i learned you could access a lady from more than one position, and that i could recover quickly with the right circumstances

 

The only thing they learned from me was where they could get lemon gin

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Oh God. It was horrible. It happened months before I turned 18. I had been into heavy petting and things when I was younger than that but never went all the way. LMAO!!! I waited a year and having a first serious boyfriend to attempt anything again... The only reason I did it was because I got dumped by a dude who was a childhood friend turned puppy love and I was not interested in having sex with him. Things with him were innocent until he turned 15 or 16 and then all he wanted to do was bang girls he knew. Then I figured I wanted to see what this sex thing was all about after being crushed by this guy.Total fail! LOL. I walked away thinking what was the big deal about and I also had to cover up a hickey on my neck at the Rideau Centre before going home and then having that Leah Chapel who was a CJOH news anchor at the time in the bathroom giving me dirty looks. And I had my school uniform on. I would have been in s**t. Big time! Afterall, I was a good Caholic girl. My father used to be waiting at the door when I'd hang around guys and once shoved one up against the brick wall at my house when he brought me home late. Mind you, I was only 13 and my parents were freaking out because they didn't know where I was. He used to chase away all boys who were interested in my sisters and I. Or hunt them down if they were jerks. But that's another story for another time. The guy was a 17 year old idiot, I was the same age and I lost my virginity at his place on Frank St off Elgin. Next time you drive around there, think of me having REALLY lousy sex with a guy who couldn't get it up!!

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My first time was when I was 17 years old...she was an older woman...18years old, both of us virgins

I had a summer job up in Parry Sound (Junior Rangers)...during that summer we had to take a 3 day canoe trip putting up prevent forest fires signs. Second night of the trip we stayed at a camp where an all female :-) workcamp (under auspices of what was called Ontario Experience 78, geez just reading it now, takes on a whole new meaning :-) ) was located.

Well it started out all the guys/girls mingling over supper, and seeing as they were 18 (then legal age) a lot of beers by everyone was had

Then a guy and girl just latched on to one another, went to somewhere secluded (me, it was a cabin, no one but the girl and me) and a beer or two, some kissing, then awkward fumbling, a messy orgasm, and we both lost our virginity

And thats how I developed my love for the outdoors

RG

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I was 13 and lost it with the ginger girl who lived across the street from my back home in England. We had been playing "doctor" with each other for a long time, so it seemed appropriate that we would loose our virginity to one another. What a great way to celebrate your 13th birthday!!!

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I was twelve, he was thirteen and it was in a sandpit out at camp. It was lame and I didn't get off, so I went back to just masturbation until I was with my first boyfriend at 15.

 

(Technically though, I lost my virginity to my CCM bike when I was like 9. I rode a guys bike and I slipped off the seat onto the middle bar. SMACKO, hello non-virgin.)

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In the high school yearbook office to a fellow student/staff member. Wasn't expecting it ... I think it was her idea!

 

By the way, it was after hours.

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it was with a girl i didn't even liked and found really unattractive, she afford and i said yes. i regretted later on since i really didn't like her at all, but i was the last virgin in my group of friends an was getting tease alot so decided to get it ever with. I wish i would of waited for somebody i like before doing it.

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I was 14, and he was 15. We'd been dating for about 6 months. His friend was sleeping in his room, so we went to the basement (?!) and after 10 minutes of awkward fumbling, and some pain he was done. I thought it was horrible :/ Thankfully, when I was 16 I met a nice boy who was sweet and gentle and showed me the love of Orgasm!

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Gails Erotic Aerobics......ha ha ha!

 

I too remember Gail, brings back many good times in Halifax.

 

I was pretty shy, so I lost my cherry in my early twenties. I was driving down the Autoroute to Montreal from St Adele, when a lady probably 10 years older then me pulled up beside me and started to flirt. Anyways we pulled off at one of the exits and adjourned to a bar to chat. In the end we wound up back at her place in Montreal where she ravaged me LOL. Saw her for many months after that, as a willing student she completed my education.

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I too remember Gail, brings back many good times in Halifax/

 

Never saw her after that. Once broken in, I galloped off for the fillies.

But what a way to be broken in. Wow. Her tongue explored every crevice. Every crevice. ;-)

Did I lose it to some inexperienced, fumbling teenager? NO SIRREE! Very memorable.

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I was dating a friend of my cousins at 18, she was 17.

 

We had made out lots but never had sex until we had my apartment to ourselves. No rush no fuss, lots of time. It was painful for her, but with time to relax and recover and ensure she was hot and wet to go again, we ended up staying in bed all weekend.

 

We only took a break to shower and freshen up only to go at it again. The showers didn't stop us from fucking. It was an incredible high for us both and we just kept going at it as much as we could.

 

I can't say for sure, but I would guess we fucked at leats 20 times over Saturday night up to Sunday dinner time when I had to finally drive her home

 

Weekends after that would never be without marathons of raw hot sex.

 

Aah the memoires.

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Candlelight. Girlfriends. I was 16 and she was 20. Both virgins. It was actually really nice, and put a bounce in my step all week long.

 

I need a cold shower....STAT!!!!

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I feel like the odd one out, in that I had a really good experience my first time... sort of... haha... I lost my virginity to my girlfriend when I was 15. We had been dating for 4 months at the time and ended up together for another year and a half. She was also a virgin and we had previously lost our oral virginities to each other as well.

 

The first time we tried, it didn't quite work... We tried to take it slow and romantic, with candles and massage and such, but she succumbed to the pain and I didn't feel right about pushing it. Besides, I was nervous about being too quick on the draw. The second attempt was decidedly less romantic... we skipped French class and went to hers... Afterwards, I asked her how it felt... She bit her lip, looked at me through veiled eyes and said: "It hurt but then... then it was wet, and hot and I loved it.".... With her looking at me like that, I couldn't help myself... Our third and fourth time followed in quick succession. I wouldn't have it any other way...

 

Also, she was gorgeous... She's still just as hot... I should have kept her around... haha...

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17.. Drunk, some girl @ the club that i never got the name or the number.. :(

left alone in bed in the morning!! rofl.

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