Any SP or MP that are okay with younger client

[hardhitter92 519]

Hello, i have a question for any sp or mp about being with a client that is younger, do you see this as a problem? i am 22 and went to see a mp, partially for the massage and partially for the fun, it was my first time doing this and i thought why not try it, however i was not really impressed with the MP reaction, she seemed to have an issue with me being younger, without going into to much detail she basically wanted to know why a younger athletic guy would be doing this and what was wrong with me.. obviously this wasnt the best experience and i wont name any names ofcoure but it sort of left a bad taste in my mouth.. i dont plan on doing this often, its just a fantasy of mine but im just curious if this reaction is something i should expect?

 

anyways thanks in advance for any responses i get on here or pm

[Guest]

I don't have an issue with younger clients providing they are of age. I have id'd clients before to make sure they were of age because they looked young. No one wants to statutory rape someones precious little boy. As long as you are a gentleman and have respect for the ladies you visit, it shouldn't be a problem. Just don't be insulted if you get id'd. Some escorts have age restrictions. Make sure you read the escorts ad, website or any kind of advertising first.

[roamingguy 300292]

Also let the MP/SP know in your email/pm's that you are younger and how old you are. Some ladies may be ok with younger guys, some may not be

If the lady doesn't want to see you because of your age, don't take it personally, it is just one of her boundaries, respect it, and continue to look for a lady to see

RG

[ALO VIPSOUTH 2962]

Certainly when you do your booking you should mention ur age,d also if you are ok with seeing someone mature... As long as there is communication there should be no problem.. Let's say you were to book an appt wqith any of our attendents we will make sure that she is the right fit for you so that the appt goes with best results... Pluus I would not see why not see a young athletic man and make it even more fun!

[Angel's Touch Ottawa 22561]

Personally I think it is HOT having a young hot 22 year old visit ;) yummy LOL

[DukeSSk 3430]

I'm in the same age group as the poster (slightly older).

 

I've tried to be upfront with the ladies about my age. I was going to meet a lady, who would most probably describe herself as "mature", for a full service encounter, and she knew my age and a bit more about me. Alas, scheduling issues came into play...

 

Anyways, just to say that maybe putting some effort into properly introducing yourself prior to the encounter may show maturity on your part.

[Maverick 2873]

I had my first MP experience when I was 19 years old and it wasn't an issue. I brought it up ahead of time when introducing myself to the lady over email and she let me know it didn't bother her. Since then I've only had one minor issue about it, but nothing too serious. Just communicate and you'll be fine most of the time.

[Icebreaker 3938]

Another reason I could see for an SP or an MP being hesitant to see a younger gent that there may be discretion issues (i.e higher chance the gent could be someone they know in their personal life). For example a lady could be opening her door to a friend of her younger brother, a co-worker or fellow student etc. So for this reason as others have said I would not take it personally. I'm sure with some research there are many fine ladies on CERB that will be a great fit.

 

Hope this helps.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I have changed my policy and do see younger men now because I am in my thirities now and some younger men prefer a more mature woman. As long as you don't treat an SP like a blow up doll or disrespect her, you should be fine. I've found that in the past some younger tried to recreate a scene from a porn movie and many SPs or MPs are not into that. Myself, I'm a GFE and not a PSE into hardcore activities you see in those kinds of movies. If you ask ahead of time, you will get your answer.

[cat 262460]

I agree with Nicolette, the key is knowing what you are looking for and finding a provider that fits with you. I state I prefer clients over 40 but that is to avoid the...

"you around"

"I wanna git with you"

Or my all time personal favorite - "u r hot 4 an old broad, u want 2 fuck a hot 26er?" emails.

Approach your intended SP/MP with honesty about what you are looking for, respect, follow her booking procedures and you should be fine...

cat

[Guest s**nflute]

a question for any sp or mp about being with a client that is younger, do you see this as a problem?

anyways thanks in advance for any responses i get on here or pm

 

 

I am envies, whichI was your age again, regardless:biggrin:

[antlerman 17064]

I wish i had done this when i was younger..... But then back when i was still not that hot looking hahaha

Posted via Mobile Device

[bewlayb 7480]

I think the ladies above hit the nails on the head. Concerns over discretion and attitude prevail.

 

From a strictly massage perspective, I have spoken to several MAs about this topic over the years. Two main reasons are usually given:

 

#1: They wish to avoid awkward encounters with someone from their (direct or indirect) social circle (present or future). Apparently, it's bad enough having to deal with the occasional appointment with a former school teacher. lol

 

#2: Younger clients, more often than older clients, tend to push the limits of the service boundary... i.e. try to get as much mileage as possible. I've heard it expressed as an attitude of entitlement - because they are young and good-looking the attendant should want to do more with them. A corollary is, as a cohort, young clients tend to tip lighter for services rendered.

 

Granted, #1 is more of a concern for younger MAs; while #2 is more commonly expressed by all and is a respect issue.

 

I remember my first foray into the hobby, being told by an SP on the phone that she only saw older clients, and that at 35 I was too young. Meaning: Brace yourself. You might have to deal with age discrimination for a few years to come. Often I wish I still had that problem.

 

Unfortunately there's little you can do about your age, so it may create some hobby barriers for you. However, when you do meet up with someone, you can do yourself and your cohort a favor by being a gentleman and treating the lady with respect, regardless of her age.

[hardhitter92 519]

thanks for all the input from everyone, its nice to hear from people who have been invested in this much longer then i have and see that this can be alot of fun

 

i do just want to say that the issue i had with the MP was not that i was being iinappropriate or short with money it was nothing like that, i was probably more then polite because i was so nervous haha, it was more that she was judging me for doing this at a young age

 

i dont think it was being implied that i was doing any of the above well i hope not anyways, but i just wanted to make sure that it was said, id hate to get a bad reputation somehow

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Another piece of advice and this goes for all the young men out there.. don't ever tell an SP you're a hot 20 something. I have guys tell me this all the time. This means nothing to me. As long as you are polite to me, respectful and clean, you could look like Bubbles the Clown or a hot stud and you would still be equally treated the same way. When guys say this, there is an alterior motive present and that is that I might find them so enticing that I will make an exception and lower my rate. Sorry not going to happen.lol.

[Guest s**nflute]

Another piece of advice and this goes for all the young men out there.. don't ever tell an SP you're a hot 20 something. I have guys tell me this all the time. This means nothing to me. As long as you are polite to me, respectful and clean, you could look like Bubbles the Clown or a hot stud and you would still be equally treated the same way. When guys say this, there is an alterior motive present and that is that I might find them so enticing that I will make an exception and lower my rate. Sorry not going to happen.lol.

 

I can understand that would be a "turn off".

If was say that I am retired, built for comfort and not for speed, will bring you chocolates or flowers??:biggrin:

[Rodehard 2058]

I wish that I was 20-21 again and know what I have learned over the years about the "pursuit of happiness".

 

Be yourself, be honest about your age and what you are looking for.

 

I am sure that any of the fine ladies of CERB that accept you as a client will provide you with the experience you are searching for.

 

Be honest and discrete and respectful, it goes a long way in this "hobby"

 

Rodehard

[roamingguy 300292]

Only time I'm a hot guy is in the middle of summer when the thermometer shows 35-40 degrees C, no air conditioning or fan...and the only kinky thing I might do is jump in a bathtub full of ice water to cool off LOL

But even then, I'm a gentleman, awww alright, a 51 year old, bald headed, bit of a belly, eyeglass wearing gentleman, but gentleman nonetheless.

A quick rambling

RG

[whiteman 14028]

Another piece of advice and this goes for all the young men out there.. don't ever tell an SP you're a hot 20 something. I have guys tell me this all the time. This means nothing to me. As long as you are polite to me, respectful and clean, you could look like Bubbles the Clown or a hot stud and you would still be equally treated the same way. When guys say this, there is an alterior motive present and that is that I might find them so enticing that I will make an exception and lower my rate. Sorry not going to happen.lol.

Exactly, same way you know when a girl advertises herself as hot, and young, that you know she's looking for a premium on her rates. :shehot:

 

BTW, I started in this hobby when I was less than the OP's age is now, I was 19. Over the years I found that the only sure way to a discount (if that's what you're after) is to be polite and genuine with the girl, then all kinds of possibilities open up after awhile. There's lots of good-looking guys and girls out there, but surprisingly few polite guys and girls.

[poolasaurus 5877]

Man I wish I had the dineros for this hobby when I was 19! When I was your age I sat in a strip club stretching my $7 beer as long as humanly possible and getting the occasional $5 table dance lol.

[whiteman 14028]

Man I wish I had the dineros for this hobby when I was 19! When I was your age I sat in a strip club stretching my $7 beer as long as humanly possible and getting the occasional $5 table dance lol.

Believe me, I didn't have that kind of scratch at 19 either, back then. It meant saving up for a month, or convincing a dancer at the club to take pity and to do it for a bit less. :vl:

[Guest s**nflute]

Only time I'm a hot guy is in the middle of summer when the thermometer shows 35-40 degrees C, no air conditioning or fan...and the only kinky thing I might do is jump in a bathtub full of ice water to cool off LOL

But even then, I'm a gentleman, awww alright, a 51 year old, bald headed, bit of a belly, eyeglass wearing gentleman, but gentleman nonetheless.

A quick rambling

RG

 

Hey that's me you described ........but I 'am 61......soon

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

"hotness" has nothing at all to do with age :)

[backrubman 64800]

...a 51 year old, bald headed, bit of a belly, eyeglass wearing gentleman, but gentleman nonetheless.

 

I'm going to take a bit a liberty here but I'm pretty sure I am correct in my assumption that the ladies would much rather spend their time with a "a 51 year old, bald headed, bit of a belly, eyeglass wearing gentleman" that is respectful rather than a guy that looks hot like [insert whoever you like here] that is a jerk with a poor attitude.

 

It's not your appearance, body or even clothes that make you sexy (true of the ladies too, but it does help more there but still doesn't make her a lady in and of itself), it's your attitude, hygiene, being respectful, friendly, understanding.

 

That's what makes you who you really are.

[hardhitter92 519]

i think this thread is getting away from its point, it doesnt seem like there is a very high opinion of the attitudes of younger people from some of the posts