Friends with Benefits...

[jafo105 39057]

Has anyone ever had a "friend with benefits"?

What was it like?

Any regrets?

Are you still friends?

Would you do it again with someone new?

 

This can be either way -- female-male / female-female, etc...

 

 

 

My self, The closest thing I have had to a friend with benefits is a regular SP. Even though, I was paying for it.

[drlove 37202]

I once had an open relationship with someone at work. It was great at first, but after the novelty wore off and I was able to catch a glimpse of the real person underneath, I was left regretting it - even more so when I consider the fact that I still had to see her every day after we ended it. Would I do it again? Perhaps... however, I think I'd be a bit more cautious next time around.

[piano8950 32577]

Nope, and don't think I'd go for it

 

But then again, this year I've done things I never would've done before, so who knows

[BarrhavenWoody 10776]

Sadly no. But I'm open to it. Ladies? Any volunteers? lol

[Boomer 33202]

Yes, I did have a friend like that many years ago. She was older than me, and when I met her I was a virgin. Suffice to say she taught me a few lessons about sex, and we saw each other for quite a long time. She got to spend time with a young guy, and I enjoyed the learning experience. We parted friends, and drifted apart, I don't know what happened to her.

[PhantomKnight 7914]

I've had a few. Depending on the lady it can be an amazing experience or a horrific one. Pick the right friend with benefits. Less mess. Less stress.

[Guest S**a*Q]

I have a lot of FWB.

 

I've never had any regrets. I'm still friends and fucking most of them and I do see myself continuously adding to the roster.

 

I make it work, but sex isn't weird to me like it is to other people. It's like a handshake or something. I do have to say that most of the benefits happen when me and the other are drinking.

 

People treat sex like it's this big thing, but it's not. Lose the emotions and anything can work.

 

Maybe my friends are just attracted to me cause of what I do, or because I seem to know what I'm doing, but it seems that a lot of my friends want to have sex with me. Who am I to make my friends sad?

 

The only time I don't, is with best friends. They fall into the family category after a certain time and it just gets weird.

[Ashley Ann 75247]

I love having friends with benefits ! It's how I make a living :boobies:

[Frank7 3939]

Nope, and i really doubt it will ever happen.

The only time i had the chance to get one, i was in a relation and said no.

[Reuben Sandwich 13841]

I love having friends with benefits ! It's how I make a living :boobies:

 

I agree, I love having friends with benefits! It's how I spend my living

[bcguy42 38594]

Yes, I've had them. The one where we shared benefits the longest finally ended when she fell in love with one of her other friends. But it was a great time and given the same circumstances, I would do it again.

[Guest C**Tra****er]

I have had a couple. The last one I had was about 13 years ago. We hung out and had lots of sex. No strings. They we started having feelings for each other, and hung out more, adopted a couple of dogs, and moved in together. The thing that really ended the whole FWB angle was when we got married! LOL Zero regrets!

[NotchJohnson 214073]

Twice in my life, not sure if I would do it again.

Both time the girl moved away and we lost contact(somewhat). I do see them once in a while and we talk but I think they are now happy where they are. One was almost enough for me to break up my marriage.

[Butterfly Kisses 2301]

Yes, most recently. It started out being an sp client relationship, but then evolved into a FWB for almost a year. We travelled together, stayed over at each others over night frequently, and sex was fantastic.

 

She was still an escort, but whenever we could get together we did. I am much older than her, she was looking for someone who could share experiences with her to assist in her own personal growth, and our relationship also provided a sexual satisfaction we both would not normally have had, that being her having an older man who appreciated her youth and not as a client, and me having a younger woman and not as an escort.

 

Both of us have found SO's our age but still see each other for basic social meetings, like coffees, dinners or just a chat.

[roamingguy 300291]

Nope never any FWB. While dating yes but there was the strings attached, I was the boyfriend, she was the girlfriend, but nothing like a no strings FWB.

I guess the closest to a no strings FWB is in this lifestyle. I've met some ladies I would consider friends, and obviously there are the benefits. Whether that qualifies as true FWB or not, don't know.

RG

[loopie 15358]

Yes, I have had friends with benefits, and I still have sex with some of my former sweethearts with no expectation that we are getting back together. I don't have any problems with it. It's a good time. I fully endorse this product.