Who is the most expensive and exclusive SP in NS?

[jimmytatro 100]

Hey had a pretty decent chat with Manda from here the other day about some of my curiosities of the whole industry which was really helpful. Ha I would totally be friends with her she seems really chill. I had a few more broader questions that may be better answered here one of which is who is the most expensive or exclusive SP in Halifax? Like is there anyone that is very selective with their clients and expensive?

 

Like I am university student/athlete with the means to afford a more exclusive experience to satisfy my curiosity since it is something that will most likely be a one time deal for me I would be more comfortable with the level that would be inaccessible to most price wise and preferably client selection wise.

[CristyCurves 169032]

I think the answer to your questions would be depending on ones idea of expensive. As we all charge a different rate and we all look at costs differently. Not trying to be evasive just answer fairly. Some may think 180 hourly is expensive and some will think 300 hourly is expensive. As far as exclusivity, that also would be depending on who you asked. We all have special skills, worthy of your time and others, notable qualities and attractiveness . The best thing for anyone seeking an encounter is to select an sp who physically appeals to them, speak to her, if the appeal continues check out her reco's if you so choose then book her to find out first hand what her experience is like . If you liked her and want to reco her then do that. We are all equally valuable, worthy of seeing just with different looks, availabilty, options, do's and don'ts.

[roamingguy 300292]

You'll likely find a lady's rate, yes while some more expensive than others, are also based on their expenses. A touring lady has more expenses due to her travel costs (ie plane fares, hotels etc) which will be reflected in her rate compared to say a local lady who wouldn't have the same expenses.

I personally wouldn't be looking for the lady who is most expensive and exclusive. I would instead look at ladies' recommendations, see if there are a few different ladies who interest you, email them, see if you might click, and then when there is one who interests you, schedule an encounter. I also look at a lady's posts, gives me an idea if I would click with her

BTW I have had great encounters with ladies who are as you might say,more expensive and great encounters with those who are average rate. Likewise, I have had horrible encounters with more expensive ladies, and horrible encounters with average rate ladies. Just so you know, a lady's rate isn't a indicator of how good an encounter you'll have

My two cents

RG

[redmana2 2754]

The most I've seen advertised on the east coast is $300, but I'm sure at some point an SP has billed out at a higher rate (and will again). Every lady I've spoken to feels that that is the generally accepted ceiling here at least until inflation pushes it up.

 

I think ultimately it comes down to supply and demand. Travelling ladies do seem to get higher billing rates. I think that has as much to do with reaching new markets as it does covering costs. I've known a couple of fantastic ladies that should easily charge a premium price, but local obligations keep them from travelling and as such their rates were forced down. As one SP described it to me: guys get bored; keep moving and you're always the hot new girl in town, especially when you return home.

 

As for exclusive... you mean highly sought after? Difficult to obtain a booking? I guess anyone that requires a reference might be considered 'exclusive'. If an SP is doing so well that she can limit new clients to only those with a personal recommendation then that's impressive.

[boomer01 5548]

Where the heck were you ?

[cyclo 30131]

Be careful what you wish for Jimmy. All sp's are exclusive. Remember, they get to choose who they see. Yes, everyone has bills to pay, but women in this industry generally and cerb in particular, don't have to see just anybody. While they offer a girlfriend experience, as one woman said to me she's hoping for a boyfriend experience too! So what does that mean? It starts with respect, being considerate, very, very clean and hopefully there's some chemistry (personal and sexual) that allows you to both click. This is why most women choose to see older men. It doesn't start with how much money you have to spend or how young and good looking you are.

 

As for rates, despite all the discussion this topic can generate, most of the women charge within a similar price range per hour give or take $50-100. The primary difference you'll see with respect to pricing is whether a minimum amount of time is specified. Some will allow half hour appointments while others require a minimum 2-3 hours. Yes, the 2-3 hour appointment costs more, but is generally similar with respect to hourly rate. Why the minimum? There can be a variety of reasons. Some women have other sources of income and this approach works best for their schedules and financial needs. Others prefer sufficient time to make a more personal connection. It can be a difficult business and this is how it works best for some women. In other cases the woman may have a graduate degree, be well travelled or multilingual and is therefore able to easily maneuver through the subtleties of various social and business functions. You're paying for that service as well. If you're curious you can see advertisements and reviews for these women in larger cities such as Toronto or Vancouver.

 

My advise is similar to other posters. Choose someone that you think you're attracted to and that you think you might click with. Forget about "the most expensive and exclusive". You're not choosing different models of cars or designers ("Tell me who's the Lamborghini or Armani of service providers"). It's more personal for both of you than that and remember, you're part of the equation, so you should bring something to the table in addition to money.

 

Good luck.

[jimmytatro 100]

Interesting, since I was looking for a one off deal I was thinking that between 1000-2000 would be expected for the higher end.

 

The idea of someone similarly educated and cultured is an interest but at the same time I have gone home hairdressers (and the like) from the bars before. While that may make me hesitant to pursue a relationship in some instances (not always), for a night of fun it does not weigh heavily into my mind, I don't really require formal etiquette I wouldn't be bringing her to a black tie event or anything.

 

I don't know I guess I am surprised, I was aware that there were street walkers or girls that are very accessible to the general populace but I was under the impression that there would be a much higher end as well. However, I am not really looking for a GFE or companionship. Although after chatting with Manda or Msmanda or whatever her name is briefly over email I would have gladly taken her out for an evening in a platonic sense just to learn more about her personal perspective of the industry as she seemed to be both realistic and intelligent.

[Mikeyboy 27113]

Hmmmmmm...... Your looking for the most expensive and exclusive..... ever considered marriage? ;-)

[Barney 2544]

Have you thought about just getting a Girlfriend or dating what are you trying to understand, its a Business a way of making a living, its there bread and butter, most rates are fairly standard here, within $50.00 to $100.00 you also want to think about saftey and the areas you are going to, Happy New Year.

[cyclo 30131]

That money really seems to be burning a hole in your pocket Jimmy! You've been watching too many movies and tv shows set in LA, New York or Paris etc. :-)

 

Seriously though, it seems like you may be seeking a pornstar experience. Rates for PSE tend to be a bit higher. It's more exclusively focused on the sex, fantasy, role playing, pushing boundaries, swinging from chandeliers... you name it. There's a wider range of services offered than in a GFE session and there tends to be more responsibility for the woman to lead the session. Remember that regardless of what you've seen in porn, the woman ina PSE session still sets the boundaries and calls the shots on what's permitted.

 

There are some touring women who offer PSE sessions. There may be some local women who do as well. Check the ads and recommendations here and on Escorts Canada.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

I may have mis-read this but I'm not sure how exclusivity and a one-time event reconcile. In any event, since money isn't an issue. I would expand my search and look at ladies from other cities. You can fly them to you or work it out that you meet together. I've seen ladies who receive $1K plus for 2 hrs and up. They do exist and can be more readily found in places like Toronto, New York, LA, Miami, etc..

 

Just another option to consider but as has been already started $ doesn't always equate to service or more importantly 'connection'.

 

Best of luck.

[jimmytatro 100]

That money really seems to be burning a hole in your pocket Jimmy! You've been watching too many movies and tv shows set in LA, New York or Paris etc. :-)

 

Seriously though, it seems like you may be seeking a pornstar experience. Rates for PSE tend to be a bit higher. It's more exclusively focused on the sex, fantasy, role playing, pushing boundaries, swinging from chandeliers... you name it. There's a wider range of services offered than in a GFE session and there tends to be more responsibility for the woman to lead the session. Remember that regardless of what you've seen in porn, the woman ina PSE session still sets the boundaries and calls the shots on what's permitted.

 

There are some touring women who offer PSE sessions. There may be some local women who do as well. Check the ads and recommendations here and on Escorts Canada.

 

Yeah I think I did have PSE in mind. As for those who mentioned a gf well I'm in university so I do have a few girls that I am "seeing" (non exclusive dating I guess) lol its university right, which is another reason why I was like I want the best.

 

And yeah totally have ideas about the industry from movies.

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

Hey had a pretty decent chat with Manda from here the other day about some of my curiosities of the whole industry which was really helpful. Ha I would totally be friends with her she seems really chill. I had a few more broader questions that may be better answered here one of which is who is the most expensive or exclusive SP in Halifax? Like is there anyone that is very selective with their clients and expensive?

 

Like I am university student/athlete with the means to afford a more exclusive experience to satisfy my curiosity since it is something that will most likely be a one time deal for me I would be more comfortable with the level that would be inaccessible to most price wise and preferably client selection wise.

 

Interesting, since I was looking for a one off deal I was thinking that between 1000-2000 would be expected for the higher end.

 

There are also some higher end clientele (e.g. drug dealers) that would also argue that escorts in the 1000-2000 range are still accessible escorts. So the issue of accessibility turns out to be relative and what you might view as inaccessible because most can't afford while you can might also be viewed as accessible by the higher end clientele.

[roamingguy 300292]

$1000-$2000 range...how long are you planning on seeing the lady for.

A rate like that would generally speaking be for an multiple hour encounter or maybe a dinner date or even approaching a twelve hour sleepover. That is generally speaking, of course, not a hard and fast rule.

But for an hour I think, unless there are some ladies profiles I haven't seen yet, I don't see a rate in that range. But I'm sure if you paid a tip to the lady in addition to her donation that adds up to $1000-$2000 for an hour, she would be happy to accept.

A quick rambling

RG

[fortunateone 156618]

I guess re: exclusivity, then I do think that higher rate does equate to more exclusive. Higher rates tend to be used by someone with the 2 hour minimum, and she will likely see one client a day, and beyond that a handful of clients, if that, in a week. maybe a few clients per month, even. I mean if someone does charge 500/hr with a 2 hour minimum, chances are she doesn't need many clients to do very well. And to be honest the ladies who do charge more, tend to attract the clients who are not booking half hours, but more often 3 hour, 6 hour, over nighters, etc, many thousands of dollars from one client for one appt, and that same client may see her a few times a month.

 

Getting an appt with such an sp has to be very very difficult. For one thing, can he provide 2 references? And is part of that 1000-2000 going to have to go towards seeing two other sps so that he can get the required references lol

 

So if the OP wants "exclusive' I think what he is going to encounter is someone who he may not ever actually qualify to get an appt with. He is probably going to be too young for the minimum age that so many less available escorts have. He may have expectations that she is not actually offering. someone mentioned PSE, which is in other words the sps who do offer the non stop sexual activity for the duration of a session. An exclusive high rate courtesan type can probably do that, but I'd think the majority of her clientele is not looking for that. They are looking to show her off at dinner, and while there will be fun time, that isn't what the majority of the time with her is going to be about.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

WOW! Pedestal? Meet Cinderella! You really shouldn't base your opinion on the provider's donation requirement but on your interaction(ie emails etc) with her and perhaps maybe her recos as well as her interactions on the board. This ain't Hollywood baby lol but I am sure that should you feel more comfortable with a higher donation, no one will object to a generous gift!

[jimmytatro 100]

I guess re: exclusivity, then I do think that higher rate does equate to more exclusive. Higher rates tend to be used by someone with the 2 hour minimum, and she will likely see one client a day, and beyond that a handful of clients, if that, in a week. maybe a few clients per month, even. I mean if someone does charge 500/hr with a 2 hour minimum, chances are she doesn't need many clients to do very well. And to be honest the ladies who do charge more, tend to attract the clients who are not booking half hours, but more often 3 hour, 6 hour, over nighters, etc, many thousands of dollars from one client for one appt, and that same client may see her a few times a month.

 

Getting an appt with such an sp has to be very very difficult. For one thing, can he provide 2 references? And is part of that 1000-2000 going to have to go towards seeing two other sps so that he can get the required references lol

 

So if the OP wants "exclusive' I think what he is going to encounter is someone who he may not ever actually qualify to get an appt with. He is probably going to be too young for the minimum age that so many less available escorts have. He may have expectations that she is not actually offering. someone mentioned PSE, which is in other words the sps who do offer the non stop sexual activity for the duration of a session. An exclusive high rate courtesan type can probably do that, but I'd think the majority of her clientele is not looking for that. They are looking to show her off at dinner, and while there will be fun time, that isn't what the majority of the time with her is going to be about.

 

I probably wouldn't want to pay more than $4000 really as I'm not really looking for an overnight, half day or any of that and am looking for more of a PSE I guess. Didn't really think of the age thing I figured that most of the girls I would be considering would be fairly close to my age early 20's and therefore that would be more desirable than some grey haired middle aged dude in a yellow porsche lol. Also didn't consider the references thing.

 

I like the idea of someone that only needs to do a few encounters a month but the fact that I may not qualify is kind of a surprise, I guess the reasons that make someone desirable at uni or in the dt bars doesn't really apply to this context.

 

I'm kind of thinking that it may be better to hold off till I am in New York or Toronto or something for the weekend... that is if I don't get completely talked out of the whole idea first by the destruction of all my misconceptions lol.

[fortunateone 156618]

I probably wouldn't want to pay more than $4000 really as I'm not really looking for an overnight, half day or any of that and am looking for more of a PSE I guess. Didn't really think of the age thing I figured that most of the girls I would be considering would be fairly close to my age early 20's and therefore that would be more desirable than some grey haired middle aged dude in a yellow porsche lol. Also didn't consider the references thing.

 

I like the idea of someone that only needs to do a few encounters a month but the fact that I may not qualify is kind of a surprise, I guess the reasons that make someone desirable at uni or in the dt bars doesn't really apply to this context.

 

I'm kind of thinking that it may be better to hold off till I am in New York or Toronto or something for the weekend... that is if I don't get completely talked out of the whole idea first by the destruction of all my misconceptions lol.

 

 

 

And that is where you will be absolutely and completely wrong. It is far harder for a young 20's guy to get an appt with a higher rate escort (who are actually usually mid 20's and up, i think) than it is for a guy 35 and up. i could probably provide links to a half dozen sps thinking off the top of my head with minimum age requirements that you don't meet.

 

You are falling into that 'I'm young therefore I'm more desireable' trap that affects many of the younger guys. In fact it is such a syndrome that even lower rate sps have minimum age requirements, lol.

 

I think maybe read in the general area the section "New to This" and you will get a pretty great idea about what is and is not attractive to sps.

 

In the US, many escorts charge higher rates, sometimes because they are out of an agency, and often because it is just so highly illegal sometimes just having a super high rate helps reduce the chance they will see LE. And even then, they are more likely to need references and have minimum age requirements lol. You can definitely try Toronto, but you can't just wait until you are in Toronto, you have to do some searching now, contact the sps, provide the information they want from you to screen you, and then wait to be selected (or not).

 

This is not a pickup joint or bar, and what works for someone in that situation is quite different. It is a fairly common misconception that the clients only have to show up with cash to get whatever they want. Read the recommendation section, and the advertisements, and the websites, and especially the Etiquette pages on websites. You are a university student so I expect you to know how to do proper research and studying before you 'take a test' of contacting an sp lol.

[roamingguy 300292]

And that is where you will be absolutely and completely wrong. It is far harder for a young 20's guy to get an appt with a higher rate escort (who are actually usually mid 20's and up, i think) than it is for a guy 35 and up. i could probably provide links to a half dozen sps thinking off the top of my head with minimum age requirements that you don't meet.

 

You are falling into that 'I'm young therefore I'm more desireable' trap that affects many of the younger guys. In fact it is such a syndrome that even lower rate sps have minimum age requirements, lol.

 

I think maybe read in the general area the section "New to This" and you will get a pretty great idea about what is and is not attractive to sps.

 

In the US, many escorts charge higher rates, sometimes because they are out of an agency, and often because it is just so highly illegal sometimes just having a super high rate helps reduce the chance they will see LE. And even then, they are more likely to need references and have minimum age requirements lol. You can definitely try Toronto, but you can't just wait until you are in Toronto, you have to do some searching now, contact the sps, provide the information they want from you to screen you, and then wait to be selected (or not).

 

This is not a pickup joint or bar, and what works for someone in that situation is quite different. It is a fairly common misconception that the clients only have to show up with cash to get whatever they want. Read the recommendation section, and the advertisements, and the websites, and especially the Etiquette pages on websites. You are a university student so I expect you to know how to do proper research and studying before you 'take a test' of contacting an sp lol.

 

Echoing what fortunateone said, don't fall into the belief that being young athletic, thinking you look like you should be on the cover of GQ is the way to see a companion. For guys, irrespective of how young they are and how they look (or how they think they look) and that they have the needed donation, don't for one second think this entitles you to see a professional companion. The lady chooses who she will see, and qualities like being a gentleman, maturity, willingness to be (and passing) verification, are far more important than being young and thinking you are good looking

A quick two cents from a balding greying haired man in his early 50's who doesn't have a porsche, but a beat up old pick up, but has had many wonderful memorable encounters with ladies...ladies who have enriched my life and I am better for knowing them

RG

[Athos 108589]

Echoing what fortunateone said, don't fall into the belief that being young athletic, thinking you look like you should be on the cover of GQ is the way to see a companion. For guys, irrespective of how young they are and how they look (or how they think they look) and that they have the needed donation, don't for one second think this entitles you to see a professional companion. The lady chooses who she will see, and qualities like being a gentleman, maturity, willingness to be (and passing) verification, are far more important than being young and thinking you are good looking

A quick two cents from a balding greying haired man in his early 50's who doesn't have a porsche, but a beat up old pick up, but has had many wonderful memorable encounters with ladies...ladies who have enriched my life and I am better for knowing them

RG

 

 

Really can't do anything but echo the good advice the OP has received in this thread. Don't equate donation rate with service and don't equate youth with desirability. Donation rates are as much about defining the nature of a SPs client base, rather than the nature of the service provided. And exclusivity only lasts for the period of time you have booked. Make sure you understand how the time you book will be spent. If you book 2 plus hours, it won't be spent in non-stop sexual activity. There will be lots of talking, enjoying a glass of wine, snuggling, etc. In short, even if you book a PSE it won't be like a porno ... where scenes go on forever and no one ever takes a break.

 

Many SPs will be leary of a young fellow with too much money to burn. Expectations are too likely to be out of line with the reality of the situation.

 

 

Porthos

[jimmytatro 100]

Well thanks for the advice everyone, I guess a lot of it has been enlightening and generally disappointing. I don't know it was kind of bucket list but now it seems like what I originally had in mind when I came up with the idea is an experience that is either all based on misconception and impossible or just not available to me regardless of how much money I have and the traits that I thought would have made the experience easier turned out to actually work against me to make me less desirable and ineligible to receive what I was seeking.

I guess it is a good thing that I did come here to get informed even if it was a disappointment.

[Guest p**h*x]

Well thanks for the advice everyone, I guess a lot of it has been enlightening and generally disappointing. I don't know it was kind of bucket list but now it seems like what I originally had in mind when I came up with the idea is an experience that is either all based on misconception and impossible or just not available to me regardless of how much money I have and the traits that I thought would have made the experience easier turned out to actually work against me to make me less desirable and ineligible to receive what I was seeking.

I guess it is a good thing that I did come here to get informed even if it was a disappointment.

 

I'm not sure why you would be disappointed. Why spend $2000 when you can have an amazing hour for $250-$500 (give or take) from a beautiful and professional lady. There are lovely local ladies and some great traveling SP's that visit Halifax often at those rates. My all time favorite is within that range and she knocks my socks off every time. And If you really want to spend $2000 you can probably have a fantastic multi-hour or maybe even an overnight experience.

 

Just read ads on who is available and read some of the recommendations on anyone that might peak your interest. Contact them and explain what it is you are hoping for and they will tell you if they can provide your desired experience.

 

Paying a huge amount of money doesn't guarantee you are going to get a premium experience. But taking your time to research and ask questions will definitely help your chances for a memorable encounter.

 

Good luck!

[roamingguy 300292]

Well thanks for the advice everyone, I guess a lot of it has been enlightening and generally disappointing. I don't know it was kind of bucket list but now it seems like what I originally had in mind when I came up with the idea is an experience that is either all based on misconception and impossible or just not available to me regardless of how much money I have and the traits that I thought would have made the experience easier turned out to actually work against me to make me less desirable and ineligible to receive what I was seeking.

I guess it is a good thing that I did come here to get informed even if it was a disappointment.

 

You shouldn't be disappointed. There are many wonderful and memorable ladies out there who enjoy seeing gentlemen. Their donation isn't what you thought, it is less, so either have a multi hour encounter with a lady who interests you, or provide a big tip, if spending

a huge sum of money is part of the fantasy for you

While yes, having the requested donation is required to see a lady, what trait a lady likes, in my experience is to see a gentleman. Be a gentleman, that will make you a desirable client to a lady

RG

[Athos 108589]

I agree ... don't be disappointed.

 

You can easily have a wonderful 2, 3, 4 hour or even overnight or weekend experience. Probably for much less money than you were originally imagining on your original plan.

 

One thing about this hobby, it is expensive and addictive. Don't plan for a one shot, blow it all out of this world experience, when you can have multiple out of this world experiences. The other thing I would say is that in my experience, the mind blowing times only come after you've seen a lady several times and you get to know each other more and more. I'd say only about 3 or 4 times have I left the first session saying "OMG, that was the most incredible thing I've ever experienced" .... but many times I've said that after the 3rd or 4th visit with a lady.

 

I've been at this for 15 years ... and there are still things on my bucket list. That's what makes it great.

 

Also ... if you are thinking of an overnighter or a trip away, you'll probably need to book the lady a few times before that happens. Just to make sure the comfort level is there.

 

Go forth and have fun. Don't be disappointed, there's a whole world of sexual fun waiting.

 

Porthos

[bunnyfufu 661]

OP, You'd be more likely to find that what you're looking for in Toronto, or NYC.

 

But that's a long way to go just for one hour.

 

My suggestion is to look at websites of escorts in those cities who command those fees, and compare them to the escorts available in your location to see if there is a very big difference in terms of the standard of physical beauty you have in mind.

 

My guess is if someone took a photo of a woman who matched your description of beauty from each location - with one at $300 per hour and the other at $1,000 per hour, but hid the info from you and only showed you the photos, you wouldn't be able to tell who's the super pricey fancy NYC date, and who's the lady offering her company at the going local rate.

 

Remember a lot of what you see in photos has a lot to do with lighting, camera angles, and background setting. It's not hard to create an luxuious "money shot" in a photo, then slap a high sticker price on the model's time.

 

Something to consider anyway.

 

Have fun, whatever you decide.