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Ok so this is the situation.. One of the ladies in this case works with us. And because of our situation I cant divuldge too much of the information as it is now before the court. That said, the victim involved orginally did not want to come forward due to being in this industry. (we very much encouraged her to but it was her call to make.).. But what happend was this was brought to the attention of SGT Rohan who has been visiting local escorts to speak with them about safety tips and how to report attacks..ect.. During one of his visits this was told to him and he met with the victim and pursuaded her to come forward.. We had information on the individual which we shared with Rohan which allowed him to be tracked down and arrested. The police have the authority to release the individual under a promise to appear, and with strict conditions. He was monitored, obviously.. And when he failed to appear they were able to arrest him again and hold him in custody. These meetings with escorts have been a good source of intelligence for the police, and is the sign of a new attitude on their part and a new way to do business with the escort industry. We organized a meeting last Friday afternoon at a local pub downtown that involved a group of 7 escorts that work with us and Several Officers from the downtown and west end division. Lots of very helpful things were discussed and the ladies left with a feeling of a safer working environment and understanding with the local police. This was a huge turning point in this industry. At the end of the day, its agreed the system is flawed.. No doubt.. But perhaps with the new attitude that is being displayed on behalf of the police, we can enjoy better lines of communication and be look upon as asset instead of a liability at catching these preditors.

When I first started out, which incidentally is a year ago today, I used to receive calls with a half hour to an hour's notice. I used to do as many as possible, which weren't that many as I HATE to rush. But because I didn't know any better, I figured this is just how it is. Now, don't get me wrong, if I can, I will do a last minute request. However, after building my reputation for the last year, I'm finding (thankfully) more and more clients are booking far in advance, which I love. It gives me time to send a couple of emails, maybe a phone call or two, and by the time the appointment rolls around, I'm not nervous or anxious because we've provided ourselves a bit of time to soak it all in, ask questions, find out each other's preferences, and most importantly of all, ENJOYING THE ANTICIPATION! That's the difference I think. With a new client, whether he be in town or not, it's essential you build some sort of foundation with a newbie so you can ensure the session goes exactly how the client wants it to. Not necessarily guaranteeing a repeat session, but at least giving the client the ride of his life during that one magical hour. It is possible with a little communication. The anticipation of an appointment booked in advance works both ways, believe me.

A little Emma rant: there is a reason why we call them appointments....just like the word means..you pm,call,email whichever to make an appointment...just like you would to see your doctor,dentist..etc. We do have a life outside the biz we are just not sitting around knitting and waiting for your calls...most of us need time to prepare...time to look and feel good before an appointment.. i sometimes as I'm sure others do as well get letters saying such things as: appointment now? ready yet? Can i see in in 15? what the heck is up with that? A lot of times I'm either in bed sleeping or out....I'm not running back to see you..lmao nor am i getting up at 3am... that's my rant for today...:wink: kisses, Emma

When I read this thread, I realize how important it is to get in touch with the SP directly to know her better and to make me known a bit better. Maybe I am dreaming , but my fun being a hobbiest is to prepare somehow my apt with a SP. As I said in some thread, the 'quick-quick' "boum-boum" encounter is not my cup of tea. I find that pleasure comes with somekind of relationship where, at least, the Sp and I know some of the expectations of the other, and what kind of person we are. CERB is a very nice tool to learn a bit on someone from this community that shares some values that we want to promote here: authenticity, respect of the person, and the plain fun to have sex in a safe fashion. When I read posts from Annessa or Megan, or others SPs, I feel that I see more than a beautiful SP, sexy and a good and professionnal provider, but a person with ideas, personality showing how she reacts. I dont want to meet a body, I want to have fun with a person, sexy and true. Yes, for sure, a pic, a rec nicely written are good, but IMO to get in touch directly with the sp to find the right info looks the best way. I know, I know, maybe I am dreaming; some hobbiests may want a quick service without notice, and act like as a compulsive buyer, base his decision on a story he heard from one of the guys. That's a choice, but not mine. But a dreamer I may be, and the pleasure to meet a lady is a gift that I want to cherish. I was lucky for my first apts; I have prepared my choices, got in touch with the SP, exchanged emails, sharing info, sometimes with humour, that enhanced my excitement of the experience.

Sometimes you wonder if your first encounter with a beautiful girl is the best it will ever get. Can you ever top the excitement of that first kiss, the anticipation of that first taste, the warm embraces and peaceful feeling of simply staring into bright expressive eyes... Then as the days go by you begin to miss the feel of that soft skin, you long to taste her again on your lips and begin to wonder if what you remember was real or just fantasies blending into your memories... Well let me tell you that after a return visit to the Lovely Meg, the second encounter was better than the first. Thanks for a great experience and looking forward our next meeting...

I think a trend is emerging of slow and get to know. I'm mainly at my hotel when travelling so the showering, etc.. is usually taken care of in advance. I like to find out what a lady likes to drink and have that on hand. I also like the idea of PM's before hand to set the mood, know each other better and build the anticipation. I generally like the 2hr appt to incorporate some chemistry building time before and after (explain that later). Upon greating certainly a big kiss and hug is great and varies on whether we already know each other. A drink or two along with some great conversation. Now here is where I like sitting close and some innocent hand on leg, etc...touching is great (this shouldn't be rushed). Kissing is what then bridges the comfortable conversation and contact into something more sexual. But not a magical stop watch about when this is. I'm Ok with either making the first move. And even with someone I've seen before it is great to know each other but still not be absolutely predictable. I like music if available too. Then I like multiple exploration for both of us over an extended period. In the end I want time if she needs/wants to shower. But must leave time to simply hold each other close and share in conversation. I hate the quick finish almost as much as the quick start. Thats the Girl Friend Experience and what so many of the CERB ladies are great at and appreciated for.

Thought I bring this thread back out for new up dates:smile: If I may.... update my list ( long list too :) ) These are of course in alphabetical order, perhaps some day it will all become reality, if not its really nice to dream. :handjob: There is others on my list but need to scroll through them all in my secret library:shock: Ariane Valmont-Montreal AvaFoxx-Montreal Bailey Summer-Winnipeg Callie Humphreys-Calgary/Ottawa Candeelicious-Ottawa Carly6969-Vancouver Chocolate Dream-Toronto Dahlia Dawn-Vancouver Eva Charms-Montreal Exotic Touch Danielle- Halifax Harmony-BC- Vancouver Ingrid-Vancouver Lindsay-Ottawa Maria Divina-Montreal Naughty Angel- Windsor Megan Touch-Massage-Ottawa SaraMQ-ThunderBay Sierrastar -Vancouver Soleil-Winnipeg Sophie Lauren-Massage -Ottawa Salena 20-Halifax Taylor-Vancouver

I'm a big fan of cracking open a bottle of wine and sitting down together and talking for a while. I never like to rush things. It's better to get a chance to know a bit about each other first, I find the evening goes much better that way. It also means the next time we get together we can talk a bit more intimately about ourselves. There is a lady in Ottawa who I have seen a number of times, and we never head to bed until we've killed off the entire bottle of wine. The conversation is amazing and we really enjoy each other's company.

I agree with everybody. I also prefer a few days booking or even a day but being ready in 15 minutes is rarely doable. we have lives outside of what we do and there is great need for preparation beforehand. I've had several people get mad at me because I am never ready when they call. One time he gave me 10-15 minutes but i declined as i hate to rush, it's not natural. Gheeze, 15 minutes isn't enough time to take a shower and get dressed! Appointments are appointments! You don't call you doctor 15 minutes before you want to see him! Were no different. If you want us to be pleasant, totally ready, clean and in a good mood, for petes sake give us at least a few hours. This thread was much needed... Tks Emma :butt:

Just a note on how I have changed in my life here on CERB...... I used to jump all over people.....now..... I politely tell them that as much as I would like to give them some info I am affraid that without some sort of referance or CERB input I can not herlp them till they help others.......

If I was to have every date the same it would be boring after a while but on average this is how I would like to see it happen. 1)Start with a hug and a kiss, and give me a chance to check you out. 2)If need be I might ask you if I can wash first, this will give you a chance to change into something more comfortable or you can come and join me but I prefer if you join me after our fun time. 3)Sit on a couch or bed get to know each other better. 4)If I start talking to much start kissing my lips and I will understand or I might even do it to you if I feel you are talking to much. 5)Lets enjoy each others company and play hard but safe 6)Lay down on the bed or floor or where ever we ended up but in each others arms and chat for a bit. 7)Take a shower ( I prefer to wash with you but I understand if you have other things to do ) 8)Dry each other up and get dress. 9)If time permits, talk a bit more and kiss and hug each other ( I love kissing and hugging ) 10)Final kiss goodbye until we see each other again. 11)Walk towards my vehicle with smile from ear to ear. 12)Write a reco. with all my memories. Keep in mind if I requested a certain attire to be worn this is done before I show up.

I'm a fairly new hobbiest and have used ........, .........., and the newspapers but found cerb to best source to find sp's. I just wish more girls in Thunder Bay would use cerb to advertise. Tec:grin:

I realise there are other threads on this linked above but I havent commented on any until now..... As an Sp, I know many of us would be happier if you PMed *US* for info as to the clients we have see or the service we provide regarding your personal questions. Many Members Have started recent threads in the forums stating that they cringe at being PMed by prospect clients about their experience with a lady hey have seen...they feel like they are breaking a rule of discretion sometimes. I know that it is an instant turn-off to hear from a potential client "I asked *insert Cerb member name* about you and he said yadda yadda yadda" I end up wondering....so why didnt you ask me? I'm here, available on PM, I'm not going to ridicule you for asking questions because *news-flash* you want to know just exactly you are going to be getting naked with without meeting...and who better to give you that info than me?? Just beacuse we shared a certain chemistry with one client does not mean that your experience would be the same so its best to message the lady in question with your requests...and like another member said, dont be shy (but be respectful) In the end, its best to eliminate the middle-man and speak directly to the woman you want to address. dont worry, we dont bite. (unless thats what you're looking for ;-))

LOL, I am not MOD and MOD certainly isn't me while it so happens we have simillar interests, and I've often been mistaken for MOD on this board I can assure you we are two very different and distinct people. You are such a tease! If I didn't have all these chores to do 'round the ranch I'd hopin' on the first plane out west and be doin' you instead! I think mod's a nice guy but I don't like to share my lady friends unless of course it's with other lady friends :) Ok, but I'm not takin' the boots off, it's a rule I have...that's how I roll.