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Originally I wanted to reserve my 1000th post for a very special event (likely a review of a special girl or discovery of a new treasure or a review of a large number of SP dancers), however, I realized today what a very special place cerb is (something that likely I knew in my heart but never put to test) and decided to dedicate my 1000th post for special sincere thanks to cerb. For some reasons when I came back from work around 3:00 pm and tried to logon to cerb, I wasn't able to logon to cerb :( as this is usually the first thing that I do when I get home after 8-9 hours of intensive work. It makes me feel relaxed and feel being belong to a caring community of friends and read the recent posts by all and ads by lady cerbites and also read my PMs mostly from cerbite friends and hence feel relaxed and cheered up. It was a very boring afternoon as a result of failure to logon to cerb. I wasn't able to communicate with the cerbite friends I have made over years or read their posts/comments. I felt like isolated from loved ones lol. Cerb has become a daily routine for me. Like a TV set which has found a special place in my home without which I would have a boring evening (I love movies), cerb too has found a special place in my heart lol without which I feel lonely. Many sincere thanks to cerb for being such a great community and many thanks to cerbites, in particular lady SPs (whose presence and posts/ads make cerb such a precious fun place to be) as well as gents for making it such a great friendly community. Last and by no means least, I would like to extend my special thanks to mod for making it such a friendly fun place to be by his decisive, fair and strong moderation.

Gabrielle you sort of hijacked the thread. Emma was talking about hotel safety, not sexually transmitted infections or services rendered by SP's, and yes it does have to do about safety.Perhaps you like to start your own thread on your topic.

Just back from extensive travels, I noticed the new album posted on cerb by Cupids. Blair immediately caught my eye. A tight spinner body, nice tits, and a redhead! What could be better? I booked a meeting. Easy, effortless, Cupids is great to deal with. What could be better indeed? I'm asking myself that question as I sit contemplating; Blair has just left, and has left me in a state of awe, wonder, and complete satisfaction. She's very new at this, and when she arrived at my place, she was quite tentative. I tried to reassure her and make her comfortable, and soon we were conversing happily about all sorts of topics, and found that we had lots of common interests. As we talked and drank some bubbly, I was able to admire her. She was wearing a very sophisticated outfit, elegant and classy. Her body looked amazing, fit and sporty, just as I like it. She relaxed, and felt at ease. This was great. So off to the bed, and off with her clothes. We kissed first warmly, then passionately, and then I got to feast on her gorgeous shaved pussy, licking and sucking and inserting fingers in a frenzied bout of oral. I loved it when she came, and there could be no doubt that it was genuine, as she went into spasms on my hand and tongue. I love this! Over she goes, and we do it from behind, and she's moaning and thrusting and I'm completely into this beauty and her responses to me. I ask her to sit on my face, and she does, and I look up at this youthful beauty who is entirely responsive to me, and I'm so turned on, and we start another bout of licking and tongue-fucking until she comes again. I am so totally turned on by her pleasure. I want her to have more. Over she goes for more licking. This is heaven. And I haven't even had my turn yet. So now, she says, I want to make sure you feel good. I get the best bj and ball action from this beauty, interrupted by intense kissing of the true GFE kind. What a kisser! I want more! So we kiss, and we kiss, and then the condom goes on, and she asks me how. Cowgirl, please, followed by doggie with her great ass in the air, followed by more oral on me till I explode in total ecstasy. She's so responsive as we fuck, and she's so vocal, and her bj's are exquisite, and she's a total beauty, and I'm in raptures. I wanted her to come again, but she says the third time is hard. So we cuddle, and we talk some more. Now I discover that she's not only a beauty, and a great lover, but an avid reader who shares all kinds of interests with me, in literature especially, and in the same authors. We talk about books, and ideas, and projects, and I'm now suddenly with a new friend, who is on the same wavelength as me about all sorts of things. We had already discovered common interests at the beginning of the night, but now we found many more. We talk about poetry, and books, and we kiss, and I don't want her to leave, but her ride awaits, and she must. What an experience! She's beautiful, and she's brilliant, and she's a complete turn-on. I have rarely had an experience that worked on so many levels, sexual, intellectual, personality, fun, laughter... Blair is amazing. She reminds me physically of one of my all-time favs, Heather Carolin, but she has an astonishing range of interests, and speaks about them with passion, enthusiasm, and intelligence. And she's such a great lover! I have been loved, and drained, and stimulated, and inspired, by Blair.

Folks, Just had to share this experience with you good people on this site?..especially if you are having one of those days??..( i know a few who are.....) A little over a year ago, a good friend of mine became quite ill and was told he needed a kidney transplant?..and it was urgent that this be done??. Unfortunately, he had a difficult time finding a compatible donor, the search was onerous and fruitless?..and just when it seemed that his fate was sealed??a donor was found????. The other day, as I was ripping my hair out, annoyed that I didn?t get to fly the route I bid, annoyed that the damn lawn care guy didn?t weed my lawn properly, and that my son had ONCE again forgotten to take the garbage out?..the phone rang??.. It was my friend??he called to ask me, if I saw how absolutely wonderful the sun was this morning and how truly magnificent it looked as it rose into the sky??..a sight HE THOUGHT a few weeks ago HE MAY NEVER SEE AGAIN??..those comments stopped me dead in my tracks?? I am by no means a religious man, nor someone who is overly sensitive or very emotional??.but his words rang true in my ear??? Regardless of what MINOR stress I was dealing with that day, and God knows we all have stress?..it was NOTHING compared to what this guy went thru??yet he had the most positive outlook on life??.he was simply glad to be alive??.. So, while I am not discounting our daily stress and how difficult it may seem to us??look up in the sky, and all around you?? it sure is great to be alive ! Especially, with all the wonderful ladies we get to meet on CERB?? Enjoy your day??.

1 no should suffice if you say no once and the guy persists, he should be gone. your body, your rules... end discussion.:) Additional Comments: Guys, Lets try to remember here, when we pay for a GFE, what we're paying for for that session is a bit more intimacy in the experience. We want them to treat us less like clients and more like friends/boyfriends. Ok, but let's remember here that cuts both ways. If your girlfriend said "Don't do that, I'm not into it." you'd have to be pretty dense to keep it up right? Why therefore do we expect our lovely SP's to put up with acts they aren't into? Treat our GFE providers like the queens they are, and they'll treat us like Kings. What's so hard here?:)

Ahhh, ok - I'll try and narrow it down to one. I was going to try and say I Get a Kick out of You and mention Stairway to Heaven...but I thought - nawww, Don't be Cruel. So I leaned back in my easychair and kicked off my Blue Suede Shoes so I could set a spell and think about my Man From Uncle, my uncle - A Man Named Jed. It's a funny story, he could barely keep his family fed, and then one day while shooting at some food; up from the ground came a bubbling crude. Oil that is...Texas Tea. Speaking about tea, I was thinking about my trip to Liverpool and my trip using a Ferry cross the Mersey. I met a crazy chick who almost fell overboard. I saved her at the last minute and the only thing she said was: You Really Got Me. She wrote me a very nice thank you note that started with: To Sir With Love". Ahhh, A Day in the Life of a traveller, but I didn't let it get me down, It's Getting Better, I thought. So, my most absolute favourite song in the world?....drum role please.... I'm Fixing a Hole....bloody &*$%ing chipmunks chewed through my garage door weather strip again grrrrr!!!

I think the ''analysis'' of trying to find the right sp for your encounter is much like trying to be sure you have the exact right formula for a ''good time'' whether it be finding the perfect night out at a restaurant or a vacation.. You can research up the wazzoo.. and I do when I vacation but not so much when I go to a restaurant. Even when you do the best research on a vacation.. it may be a 5 star. I may have won awards for the best restaurant reviews, best beaches, best nightlife shows etc. but then your plane is late arriving.. it rains everyday.. you get food poisoning, etc etc etc.. and you think what the heck? I planned for everything and I still had a rotten time. On the other hand.. you wing it.. and just go by feel and backpack through your journey meeting stranger after stranger and adventure after adventure. (I've done both but frankly prefer all-inclusive as I get older..lol) The important factor in any experience is that you go by feel/your gut. You can't plan for everything. Learn to listen to your instincts and enjoy it as it comes. The most difficult time I have with clients are the ones who are too much in their heads.. there's absolutely nothing I can do about that if they are because they are alone in there. I'm not necessarily saying this is you.. but it's just a caution. I think your generalizations are good ''in general'' but as you've found out.. many don't fit into that category. ie.. the ones I've seen pimped were generally the younger ones.. I don't know any girls in my age group who are pimped. Having said that.. I'm sure there are..somewhere. I very very highly recommend you go by instinct and feel.. how? by reading a girls posts on here since you have a large pool on cerb to view from.. and reading recommendations. Ignore whether she's in an agency or her age as a factor unless of course you have a preference.

Hey bababoom, Nothing wrong with being a virgin, rumour has it that everybody here was one at one time :) You mention in your post that you've dated some women in the past, but couldn't get past your vow to save your virginity for marriage. However, now you'd like to see an escort to lose your virginity. This suggests to me that you've had opportunities in the past which you chose not to pursue (which is perfectly fine!), which in turn leads me to believe that civvie opportunities in the future will not necessarily be too hard to come by. In that case, you're definitely in a better situation that some of us (ahem) who just can't get laid outside of the hobby, for one reason or another. With all that in mind, and at your age, I would argue that you have a luxury in deciding whether you ultimately lose your virginity in a civvie versus a hobby context. My honest opinion is that there's nothing wrong with either approach, just go with what you feel comfortable with. While it's worth taking the time to decide, it's not something you should fret to much over, good luck whatever you decide! Edit: P.S. there's nothing wrong with your question, and it would have been fine in either the general section (more eyes looking at your post) or your local discussion section.

It is crazy to think that if you ask and are told no, that the answer would be yes if you just went ahead and did it. What does it really take to check it out with the lady.

You really don't have to worry about the risks or "ick" factor of ATM if you are using dental dams, which you should be if you are into licking ass. That being said, I would not consider it GFE, but more in the PSE realm of things and I would ask before doing it.