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Speaking from experience in regards to being married, it is very easy to get comfortable in a rleationship/marriage and things become mundance and routine. That spark is gone. Where do you turn? What do you do? marriage counselling may help but if you have no intention of leaving your spouse and/or it's too difficult because you're in too deep or have too much to lose financially, hobbying seems like the perfect escape where you can have the best of both worlds. It's a new, exciting experience in your life where there is a spark in your life again. Who wouldn't want some attention from a sexy female willing to cater to your sexual needs all within certain boundaries of course. I also think imo that a physical affair for an hour two is much less painful than an emotional affair. Having been in that position in the past, an emotional affair is much more hurtful to a woman than a physical one. Like others here, I do not equate sex with love. Look at the business that I'm in. LOL. I really don't think we as human beings are conditioned to be monogamous. However, as someone who doesn't associate the physical with the emotional, I would rather an SO of mine to see an escort than see him go and have a love affair. And I think that's why many men hobby. There is no emotional attachment. To me it is a physical release and while the client may fancy the SP and enjoy her company, 90% of the time it does not reach a more intimate level, just a business interaction. With regards to my opinions about clients being married, I am certainly not one to judge. I sell companionship for a living so that would make me a hypocrite. But I will say this and I find this hard to fathom and that is that many clients have asked me if I've had a boyfriend or husband and the million dollar question they ask is "Does he know and is he okay with it?" First of all, it's no one's business and second of all, I find it very hpocritical that a client would think that considering that their significant other doesn't know their activities but if an service provider's spouse or boyfriend knows what is going on and is okay with her doing her job, suddenly it's a big no no. Sadly clients do judge but do not bother to think of their own activities which have been kept from their spouse. Admittedly, that is when the wheels in my head start to turn and that's when I begin to think about a client's relationship. Then I realize I have to let those thoughts go because I do not know them. I'm sure they are curious about the lives of SPs as well. Personally I do not care to know about whether or not a client is married as I do not wish to discuss my own personal situation because it's no one's business. Period. I sell a fantasy and I think judging a client or vice versa about their relationship status would inevitably destroy that fantasy. This isn't to say the topic of spouses hasn't been brought us. Part of my job is to listen and I have listened many times and if this is part of the process of the client being able to let go, so be it. That is what I am there for - Companionship whether it is a half hour, an hour or five hours. I personally think people should do what they feel is right for them. We don't know everyone here or know them enough to judge them on a personal level. Each and every situation and why a man hobby's is different on a case by case basis. We are here for a good time, not a long time. Let's enjoy it while it lasts.

As someone who recently visited Ottawa with a $300 price tag, I had no trouble meeting clients. You're ranting about visiting sps charging too much. And then you say it doesn't matter that they charge too much because they'll be disappointed anyways. So what is your point? If they overcharge, you're right, it's their problem not yours. So you must be annoyed that clients are paying more to the visiting sps than they do to you. You want us to charge less to compete with your business? If your business is so great, there's no reason to rant. If you're business isn't great, that's on you. Maybe it's not that visiting sps are over-estimating the strength of the market, maybe it's that you can't compete. Just saying.... And I don't know anything about your business or your sps. Just like you don't know anything about my business. Look at yourself first. Lots of visiting sps have no problem getting their rate and more.

It seems that since the Great City/Province Split of 2010 that the New-Brunswick section seems to have lost its recommendation for Emily. Shockingly enough no one's written a new one since then. In an effort to rectify this I will once again, attempt to provide a recommendation without too much in the way of details. This was my second time seeing Emily. I saw Emily recently, in fact it was only a few days ago as she was visiting Moncton. I had been anticipating seeing her for quite some time now as scheduling just didn't work out the last time she was in town. However, the more the day drew near the more tired and stressed I had become (nothing relating to her, just the normal terrible work week). Sometimes you just have one of those weeks where at the end you just don't want to do anything except go home and pass out. I can tell you, I'm glad I did not do that and instead went to see Emily as we had arranged, there are very few things I find more relaxing than holding a woman in my arms and just talking. Emily seemed to almost sense this (and my obvious exhaustion) and within minutes of us sitting down on the couch was in my arms talking to me about anything ranging from the semi-serious to the downright silly. This gentlemen is GFE in its purest form. Yes we eventually left the couch to move on to other more "vibrant" activities, and they were most certainly fantastic on their own merits. But upon reflection of my time with her, the fact that she recognized my mental state and moved to make me feel better on an emotional level is really what GFE is all about in my mind, and that's what sticks with me about Emily. Clearly I won't detail what happened after we left the couch, but suffice it to say that if you treat Emily right she will do what she can to make sure that you're a happy man. She's very skilled and a joy to be with in and out of bed.

In an effort to drum up renewed interest in our spinner group here on CERB I thought I would list some of the fine SPs and MAs who belong to the ‘Paying homage to the all mighty spinner group’. If you love spinners, or you are a spinner, then come join our group and share in the fun. If you don’t know what a spinner is then cum check out our group and become educated. Alicia – Ottawa Bellebordeaux – Ottawa Isabella Gia – Ottawa Jackie James – Edmonton Jazy – Ottawa Kayleighcarter – Toronto Lady Lyndsy – Totonto LilHottie – Ottawa Littlelady – Ottawa Mizz Martinez – Vancouver to Montreal Nia More – Toronto Peachy – Ottawa Spinderella – Winnipeg Stacey_xo – Ottawa Sweet-brunette – Halifax Sweetshay – Mississauga Sweetstacey24 – Dartmouth Tess – Ottawa Trinity1 – Winnipeg Willow – Halifax Hopefully I didn’t miss anyone Edit Note: Here is the link to Cerb's spinner group - http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=32

I started to "hobby" after an extended illness by my s/o I love her immensely and would never have considered an affair period, but i had come to miss the intimacy of certain sex acts that masturbation simply could no longer satisfy. I was also terrified of std,s and felt after significant research that a "visit" to a professional was the safest alternative, i was also concerned that my extended absense from actual intercourse at my age would greatly effect performance - i was truly afraid i had developed massive performance anxiety and felt that a so called Pro would,nt judge me...although my first experience was so so and my second brutal i tried a third thank god and since then i,ve been fortunate that the majority of my experiences have been wonderful and i,ve met some very incredible ladies thanks to cerb although things still are not back to normal at home i seriously wonder if i could quit hobbying now-I don,t think i could give up some of the relationships i know enjoy.

Most of us cannot spend $300.00 for 1.5 hours of pleasure, especially if the extra money is for your pleasure. This sentence indicates to me what my instincs had already observed when you guys are paying you dont care about pleasing us. I am from Rio de Janeiro where we have something called joie de vivre donc, i am usually ready for a good time. I thought i was gone be a sex worker and have loads of erotic fun. However in reality i find myself most of the time with very narcisistic guys who think like your frase. "Me I and Myself" ...especially if the extra money is for your pleasure. I particularly despise if guys are narcisistic when i give them discounts. I am gone stop doing that! Most of you sound very sweet on the phone and way sweeter once you meet me and way nicer when you write on Cerb and then in bed you change drastically. Not all of us is trying to get rid of you. I am here to enjoy myself but your narcisisit approach sucks. I think i have to get my s together build my web site get better photos and raise my prices for 2 hours mininum and hope the very well to do will be more willing to be the spoilling type! I make as a mandate, my obligation to educate myself in the arts of erotics to give you the best of my abilities, the best fellatio in a foreign tongue u ever got! However been a gentleman means not just having good manners it also means you give to a girl the way she enjoys getting it! Do not come to see me if you want to f rape style. Common guys! Make Canada proud, the bed should be a place from which we get up from it empowered from withtin. Sorry if this post sound rude but i had to say it. Amanda.

This is just ridiculous. There are hierarchies of all kinds of services including food services, hairdressing, music lessons, etc. It's not devaluing to us as individuals to place our services in a hierarchy. Remember, we are not selling OURSELVES, we are selling a SERVICE. There is nothing wrong with comparing our services to other fine things in life like wine or a fine restaurant. I'm sure I feel the same way about the service I provide as a 5-star cook feels about his service.

First, I don't believe anyone has the right to judge others, for actions that have no bearing on them. Everyone, and that means everyone is or has done something that they themselves can be judged on too. My own philosophy is live my life the best I can, and not hurt others. I'm in no position to judge someone else (generally speaking) and their actions...because you never know, someone could turn around and be judging you As for a client asking about an sp's relationship, dependant on circumstances, it could or could not be appropriate. I've seen four sp's so far. In two cases, questions of a personal nature were asked (initiated by them btw) but in the form of two people meeting, getting to know one another. And these two ladies I will see again One it was more like a interview, question & answer. The last one was my first one, from CL (my mistake)..all she wanted was money Hope the rambling made some sense RG

I tend to disagree with your statement about ladies losing track of the business as well that expecting $300+ an hour is out of line. As someone who travels 80% of the month, I think it is you that does not understand how a touring lady conducts her business. If people are interested in seeing a companion, regardless of what her donations are they will visit with her. Why would anyone travel to another city and work for less than they currently make, would you? If a lady is travelling she has expenses among other things on top of normal everyday expenses at home. Not all providers are high volume ladies either, most come to visit with the expectation of seeing a couple amazing clients. Their donation among how they carry themselves allows them to be able to do just that. Some increase there donations to cover expenses others require a time duration minimum. If the lady has a great additude, personality and service, she is worth every penny of a what ever she chooses to charge for her time. There is no "Market Rate" /"Going Rate" in any city, people like to use that term to barter and that is a load of garbage. You use the term to "keep the flow of business steady" - Not all ladies offer a revolving door service. What a lady charges and what she offers are up to her, if she is in demand and people are happy her donation will not matter in the end.