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I am going to have to respecfully disagree with point number 2. As many of the ladies have posted in other threads, escorting is unlike other professions, in that it requires the lady to give (if thats the right word) herself intimately to a man. If a potential boyfriend/husband asks or wants a monogomous relationship it doesn't necessarily mean control as long as that is a two way street. Personally, I've never cheated in any relationship I've been in, but I would expect my g/f/wife to be monogomous too And I'm not judging, because everyone has to do what is right for them. But it's not neccesarily a red flag to control a woman by asking for a monogomous relationship, any more than a girlfriend/wife asking her boyfriend/husband not to see any other woman Just some thoughts RG

In the spirit of being told you look like someone, I changed mine for now to Elizabeth Montgomery :)

There are factors too numerous to list involved in making this kind of decision. If the relationship is one you are committed to making work there will be details that need to be addressed upfront. My opinions are for SPs... 1. What will you do to replace your loss of income? If he is replacing it, you need to get it in an ironclad written agreement. If he is not replacing the income you need to think long and hard about whether or not you can afford to leave. 2. Why is he asking this? Is it a control issue? This is indicative of possessive tendencies and can lead to other problems down the road. 3. What about long term financial planning for yourself? Is he willing to pony up and ensure these things are looked after. 4. Will you be happy? If you escort to pay the bills and don't actually enjoy the work, he is willing to sign the appropriate documents and take over financially then it could be a good thing. But if you like your work and would not consider leaving except for the fact that he is asking, will you genuinely be happy with "life" after you have squared up? If you can't answer yes to that, then don't do it. You have to make this decision for yourself, not for him. The fact it is asked or even implied is a red flag and you need to proceed with caution. If he truly loved you, he would not ask... cat

I get a lot of pm's from members requesting information, opinions, etc., and I'm happy to help as far as I can. I'm glad to be considered a useful and trustworthy resource! I never of course provide information that's better requested of the sp herself, like specific services, locations, or rates, and things like that, but I've had some good exchanges with members on their expectations and experiences. That more private side of cerb communication is something I enjoy. The reason I'm posting this is to say how much I appreciate it when members get back to me after I've responded, even with a simple thank you. It's good to be acknowledged, and I'm grateful to my correspondents who take the time to do this, and to let me know afterwards how things went, or just in general to share their own thoughts. But that 'thank you' is the important part.

I hope I posted this in the right section..... I thought that it was high time that I ditch the ? pic and put in a real avatar. The question is, its so hard to pick. How did the rest of you finally come to a conclusion of what avatar was right for you?

Anyone here ever donated hair to make wigs for cancer victims? I've been growing mine out for quite some time for this exact purpose, and right now it's about down to the middle of my back .......and driving me bananas! I'm so anxious to cut it but don't know if it's long enough yet! I've tried going online but some places say the minimum is 6inches, other places say 10inches, some 12, some 14, etc. I want to still have it long enough to have in a ponytail after having cut it. Has anyone here ever done it or know exactly what the required minimum is? Also not sure where to go to do it...does any salon participate? Thanks all!

Anyone that knows me knows that I am an AVID Boston Red Sox fan so I simply selected the Boston "B" as my avatar. I felt that this represented my passion for the team and sport in general as well as being very much in keeping with my personality!

NO! This is who I am, Not what I do. I love it! Entertaining, pleasing and taking care of men is thrilling, exciting, awesome, fulfilling, giving, rewarding! ect... Here's a True Fact about me. I MARRIED A CLIENT! AND HE LOVES ME, and knows I love what I do and knows I am good at it and treat men with dignity and respect and do not cross lines or compromise my integrity. He also knows he comes first and I also take good care of him above all.:bowdown:

No, I would never stop for someone else. If someone wants to love me and be a part of my life, then they need to accept that I run an erotic massage business. To give it up would be to give up control over my body, my sexuality, my independence, and my financial freedom. Those are very important things to me.