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In an attempt to offer some input, advice or even just an opinion I do not think that feeling as you do qualifies you as a "bad person." Nor do I think you are chicken s**t for not making contact with a lady. What I take from your post is that you are interested in becoming a hobbyist but aren't quite there...at least not yet. Hobbying, or first choosing to become a hobbyist, takes time and can not be rushed. In many ways it is like losing your virginity all over again only at a late age. Take your time and chose wisely, don't make a choice simply in order to say you made a choice. This could lead you in the wrong direction. Keep in mind the ladies are for lack of a better term professionals and you will not be the first first timer they have met. So keep your cool and keep your head and things will proceed nicely. Also keep in mind that you are not the first married man to think as you do. I too am married and experienced similar thoughts prior to losing my hobbying cherry. Also keep in mind that a lot of the ladies have husbands, boyfriends or other forms of significant others so you are indeed not the first to "be the first." Good luck!

If your conscience is telling you no, don't do it. I've met with several guilt-induced married men and I find their inability to relax and feel comfortable doesn't allow them to truly enjoy the experience.

we men are ...I think....very easy to read.... - fists clenched holding on to towels or sheets like we are on a roller coaster - Toes curled with feet pointed straight out.... - back slightly arched follwed by involuntary pelvic thrusts - making faces like we have eaten lemons....... - breathing like we ran up a flight of stairs......

:ThankYou: Thanks to the travelling gals that are taking the hit on this post. I have had nothing but an amazing, fun, and an unrushed time with all of you. I know you ladies have risk, have to travel, have the expenses, and gamble going to new cities and not knowing what to expect and if it is gonna fly. I for one have sure appreciated so many terrific ladies passing thru Wintery Manitoba the past few months and have had the pleasure to meet you and on occasion have had a repeat visit. I know first hand that most of you that I have met prefer longer visits and repeat visits. Once again :ThankYou:

I don't know if it is so much the # of posts as the quality. Certainly we have evidence of stamina and commitment, both qualities to be admired.

Ask yourself why you want to take this step. If you have a decent relationship, why jeopardize it by cheating on your wife. There are risks, getting caught or contracting a disease just to name a few, and if one of those events happened, would you expect her to forgive and forget under those circumstances. No I don't think so. And the gals have a great sense when you're doing the dirty on them. So think long and hard about it before you jump, there's no goin back.

Asking us if we think it is alright to hobby is a little like asking a weight watcher convention if they think it ok to have desert...

Yes Megan has a good sense of timing. Sigh ... lol!

I can see your point. And if all I provided was a cell phone, email and name I would agree...but when I am prepared and have provided references on top of that, doesn't that negate the need for a work number Reason I ask, just don't want two other people overhearing private/personal conversations (I'm in a 3 person office)...and for me at least, it's a matter of discretion in my personal life that's all, not being evasive. Hey, if a lady really wanted to out me, big deal, the fallout from that is people would know here I am, a almost 50 year old single man seeing beautiful ladies...with no risk of alimony, support, losing half my property etc etc etc :-) And as a sidebar, what about a guy retired...he would have no work number Just asking RG

Frosy my snowman...I think you may be sliding down a slippery slope here. :) Personaly, travelling or local, it doesn't matter to me. What matters is if the lady that has caught my eye has good reviews/recommendations and she is available when my shedule allows me to meet her. Posted via Mobile Device

Regular sex is not cheap sex!!

In all my time of giving out my number, in no account has a SP or MA ever contacted me without me contacting her first. And, because it is my work related cell number, I ask for discretion to the MA or SP to text/call me only during these hours,as I might be in a meeting or with a client. I know that due dilligence is used by 99.9% of the ladies here, so I'm not worried about my number, and I don't think the married men need to freak out about what is stated, in the thread prior to mine. And yes cell phones are required,how the heck are you going know the room number at the Hotel,(Oh excuse Mr.Bellhop I'm looking for Ms. XXX she is 5'8'' blonde, 36dd's,24-36 have you seen her or you know what room she is in? ;) ) or apartment buzz number then actual apartment,or house number.

At the top of the persons post it says "reputation for this post" click on that, and choose either agree or disagree and you can add your comments there!

I have a technical question concerning adding a comment to another member's post. When I agree with someones comments I often simply nominate the post since I do not know how to add a comment. Could someone help me in describing the procedure to add a comment to a post? It would be greatly appreciated.

I'm with all the other gents and certainly doesn't look like we're in the minority. It is truly the connection. And yes I often know within the first 15 mins of the date. The best experiences are when I quickly feel consumed that I'm with my girlfriend. Some ladies are relaxed and love what they do and this comes out quickly in particular if a little chemistry is there. Unfortunately, I've had a couple times when overall things went fine, but it was just a little too mechanical. To take it outside the actual date, I think some ladies of CERB do an amazing job at the pre-date. This can be PMs, notes on profile page, or time in chat. But when you've already begun the connection well before the date - I think it makes the experience that much more. And I also value when that connection can continue between dates. This is what would make me keep wanting to see the same special lady. Cub

The emotional aspects of the experience is most important to me rather than physical aspects or sex itself (lots of huggings and kissings and emotions and feeling that she really likes me, enjoys me and my company and that she is having good time), but I may be in a minority in a sense so I am not sure I could help you with a majority response that you are looking for.

I agree. Every child wanted, every mother willing, is a beautiful thing!

Rules for grocery cart travel 1. Always book through a reputable grocery cart travel agent. 2. Test drive your cart before accepting it as your final choice. Beware of: (a) Wonky Wheel - the cart that has a wonky wheel will whip your cream, scramble your eggs and bounce your beef. Wonky wheels are generally a front wheel that flutters wildly at any speed beyond a crawl. (b) Skid wheel. - the antithesis of wonky wheel, skid wheel locks up and makes it feel like you are pushing a snow shovel through three feet of snow rather than gently pushing your cart. 3. Avoid persons with blue hair, support hose, polyester pants, and thick glasses. Sure. They look like grandma. That's what they want you to believe. They are hell spawn. They use the innocent guise to take out their built up rage by targeting the Achilles tendons of anyone in their vicinity. 4. Avoid families. Families tend to park their carts in the dead centre of an aisle with the sole purpose of dominating a section and blocking you from getting what you want. Skirt around them and hit them from behind, using skills you learn from blue haired people. 5. Produce section. Vegan and environmentalist alert. You will see them, the gaunt and urban hip, patrolling the free range lettuce section. They sneer at your factory farm celery and prepackaged carrots. Fuck em up by taking the pepperoni sticks that you are going to buy, opening, eating and breathing on them. They will flee. 6. Dairy section. Frequently dominated by egg inspectors and milk carton expiration checkers. Nothing you can do about these, they are implicit in the region. Flatulence seems to be a short term plan to drive them off briefly, but they will return. 7. Frozen food aisle. Only a boon in the summer time. Personal experience says that it is impolite to ask buxom young women to remove their parkas mid winter whilst strolling in this section. 8. Bread and pastry aisle. Perhaps the one safe haven in the store, you can protect yourself between the standing piles of bread and pastry. 9. The checkout. Take the mid size line. The short line will be dominated by people who have healthier food than you and will mock you for the Pogos, pop tarts and frosted flakes in your cart. Longer lines are dominated by families sending their offspring for one last thing, alcoholics paying for their discounted food with dimes, nickels and pennies, and the blue haired people attempting to use coupons that expired in the 1970s. 10. Best advice? Move to a town that lets you shop online and delivers the food to you.