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I was asked about a dozen times to let members know how the Sybian party went so I thought I would do it here. First we had a couple of fairly late cancelations and two ladies were a no show inspite of the fact that 1 re-confirmed the night before. We received no cancelation phone calls but a reasonable explanation after the party. Fortunately I had a lady that I was confident would come on short notice. She had experienced the Sabian the previous night and I told her about the party. Inspite of the fact that she was shopping when I called her, she was at the hotel suite in less that 45 minutes. Until 9:00 we chatted, sipped wine or juice , nibbled and shared experiences.I had no idea that TS persons were of such interrest to ladies ( they don't interrest me in the least.) At 9:00 the games began. The first event was the fully clothed, panties on, no penitration Sybian experience( there was a reason for this modest introduction). There was a little hesitation about who would try this first. When a small remuneration was offered there was some friendly buisness negotiation, but nothing I precieved as greed. Kaylee was the first rider. The idea was to ride the Sybian in full view of all present without exposeing one's panties. The concept being that everyone was going to see the ecstacy on the rider's face and witness the changes in her body. For the rider the object is self explanitory. A hush(almost embasassing) fell over the party as everyone watched Kaylee take her first ride. I shouldn't really describe it any further than to say it was beautiful for all of us; as was Elizabeth's first ride, as was Cindy's. I am very happy to say that not one of the ladies mounted the saddle for 10 seconds, got up and said " that's enough". There was a little minor adjusting and positioning but other than that each lady rode that stallion to satisfaction. After that event we held a panty auction. Here the ladies stayed out of sight from the men while I described in turn each ladies panties and I acted as auctioneer ( and sometime bidder) in a panty auction. Now you can see why we had the ' panty on Sabian experience' first. I think that it helped add a little something to the value of the panties that the men would bid on. This event was fun, I certainly had fun, and I think all would agree. The proceeds went directly to the ladies involved and the prices paid were pretty much where I hoped they would be. Except one of the guys became overly excited and purchased 2 pair. I planned the party withequal number of men and ladies. Unfortunately I lost out. (I will have to discuss with him the concept of share. lol) After the auction the men had the priviledge of removing the panties from the ladies.They did so with all the haste of a worker on a goverment contract. Which only added to the anticipation and delight of everyone. Once the panties were in the posession of their new owners, they were given back to the ladies, temporarily, for the panty toss. If we were in the Jakarta room at Marriagi's this would have been a toss into the chandlier. but since we weren't the ladies tossed their panties at a make-shift ring toss board that was festuned with prizes in various denominations. This worked out to be not quite as easy as expected so it took a bit of time and several tosses for each pair to find a home and suitable reward for their former owners. I believe one of the guys was drafted in as a relief pitcher. When the prizes were distibuted each lady also got a gift certificate to La Senza for garment replacement. The ladies surrendered their panties, and the panties were not replaced for the duration of the evening. Time for more refreshments, and conversation , a bit foreplay and intamacy. After that two of the ladies treated us to some shadow dancing of a decidedly suggestive nature from behind a back light screen, hot, hot,hot ! From this point on I will try always to include this in our evenings entertainment. We followed that with our version of a glory-hole. In every respect the evening was ment to be as delightful for the spectators as for the participants and I think it worked. After that there was more conversation, refreshments, and a room was made available for private intamacy. Then the ladies availed themselves of the Sabian, again. This time without panties and with the small size appendage attatched , and penitration. Once again the din of silence was unbelieveable as the machine was dialed up to 70% power and a little beyond on both rotation and vibration. Again the rides were not short duration and one lady even chose to ride it a third time. The party lasted well past midnight and may well have lasted longer but more than a couple of us had work and go to meetings in the morning. Intersperse with the activities were booty bags for the ladies and prise draws for the ladies. The final draw for the evening was for a Colombian emerald ring of .69 ct. There was a picture taken of it, which I don't have. Maybe the owner of the photo can add it to this post. There were activities that I can't comment on and others that I won't. I think most of us would do it all again, or something close to it. (there should always be changes). I am not sure when the next 'chicas party for ladies and gentlemen' will be held, only that there will be another. ...chicas/chavez

I know that I've learned a lot of things in my time as a paid companion. Thinking about some of that made me wonder what the men, here, might have learned from time they've spent with paid companions about sex about women, women's bodies and responses about their own bodies about themselves in general If you feel that you haven't learned, or needed to learn, anything, that's perfectly okay. But if you have learned something you didn't know before, I'd love to know what that might be! Additional Comments: To be fair, I thought I should say something about what I've learned. Two things come to mind. First, I am continually and profoundly saddened by the stories men tell me about their wives' apparent loss of interest in sex over time. I believe what men tell me because I hear the same things over and over again, deeply personal, sometimes painful stories or admissions about the lack of intimacy and erotic connection in their relationships or marriages. I was married for along time, myself. I know how exhausting raising children, running a house and managing a career can be. I recall too many times when, by the end of the day, I was worn out and couldn't imagine wanting one more person to touch me, to need something or to require my attention. But sex has always been very important to me and I never wanted to do without it, so I wasn't willing to let it go. I also recognize that only some men seek a companion's services because of the loss of intimacy at home. Many men are content with their marriages, their partners and their sex lives at home, but the want something else, more variety, or to scratch an itch or two that they can't, at home. I don't judge any of these reasons for seeing a paid companion. But I do feel sorry for other women who have decided to give up on pleasure, or who for whatever reason weren't able to find it to begin with. The second thing I've learned is how many men have felt inhibited about exploring women's bodies fully. Men who thoroughly enjoy sex, who say that they're happy in general, and who seem truly to like women, but who haven't been able to have the opportunity to examine, touch, experience and talk about things like g-spots or the anatomy of clitorises. That has surprised me. I've spent a lot of time lying back and showing someone what's where and how it works or how it feels to me. I'm happy to do it. It's often a heck of a lot of fun! But, since most of my visitors are over 50, I also feel a bit sad that they haven't been able to do this before.

Most gentlemen on this board are to polite to publicy reply to such a question because each experience is unique and personal. Some one may have a teriffic experience with one lady but to say she is the hottest is comparing her to other ladies and usually is not done. Take some time and look at all the ladies profiles and check the Recco Pages and I am sure you will find a lady that suites you to a "T".

Today's lesson is brought to you by the Letters Y, M, another M and V. And of course boys and girls, all together that means, Your Mileage May Vary. That means that what I describe here as my experience, may not be your experience. I don't need to explain why, it is among other things chemistry, trust, and familiarity with the people. I have seen both of these ladies multiple times, so there is a level of comfort and familiarity that others may not enjoy. So now on with the show!!! If you didn't already know, I am a big fan of both Katedot and Cleo Catra. I have seen both ladies on multiple occasions. I know they had both met at a social event some month's back, but I know they hadn't seen each other since, and had never worked together. I knew them both well enough to be pretty sure that they would complement each other, and would have a great time. So the gears started turning in my little mind, and I started planning to get them together. With a little luck and good timing, the girls met to discuss, and we had a date. I arrived Chez Cleo at the appointed hour and knocked at the door. I was surprised that the door was opened by the lovely Kate. There she was in a short black top and no pants, a happy smile on her face. We had a lovely hello kiss, and as I was taking off my coat and shoes Cleo appeared, dressed in a white tank top and panties. Again a quick kiss hello, and then we opened the bottle of wine I had brought for the occasion. Australian wine of course in honour of Cleo's impending vacation. We stood there savouring the wine and chatting, sharing a few laughs. It wasn't long before Cleo said, we should get this show on the road. I put down my glass, reached my arms out and drew the two lovelies in close to me on either side. I hesitated a bit and this caused Cleo to remark "Look at him, he can't decide which of us to kiss first." That was true, but I was also going for a little build up of anticipation. Since she spoke first I leaned in to give Cleo a kiss, her soft lips against mine, the tips of our tongues flicking together. Then I turned my head and repeated the same with Kate. I alternated this a couple of times, lips and tongues intertwining, then I stood back and watched as they kissed each other. There was definitely no prodding needed for that. Needless to say by this time the front of my jeans were stretching out of shape. Realizing that while standing in the kitchen in a triangular necking circle was cool, it would be so much better in the bedroom, so we headed off. The girls both removed their shirts and I my jeans and shirt, so that the three of us were in our underwear. The girls looked incredibly sexy in their bras and panties. We continued to kiss and caress building up the excitement level slowly and tenderly. Then the bras came off and two pairs of the most exquisite breasts came into view, and into play. I leaned over to Kate, gave her a kiss that continued down her neck and shoulders until I had one of her delectable and responsive nipples in my mouth. As I sucked and teased her breasts, I looked up to see the two girls kissing. Then I turned my head and took one of Cleo's nipples into my mouth. She sat back while Kate kissed her way down and took the other nipple into her mouth. Kate and I made eye-contact and shared a pleased glance as we both sucked and licked Cleo's nipples and heard her little moans of contentment. (were they purrs?) Of course as this was going on, both of the ladies were taking the opportunity to play with my cock as it pushed hard against my shorts. They were experts at teasing and making me get even harder, as if that were possible. Soon the remaining underwear was on the floor, and we were at it in earnest. Kate soon took charge and pushed Cleo back on the bed, crawled between her legs and started to lick her pussy. This provoked some moans of delight from both girls. I crawled up beside Cleo to kiss her and play with her breasts as Kate's tongue and mouth worked their magic between Cleo's legs. It was at this point that I think Cleo had her first orgasm. I am certain it wasn't her last. I slowly kissed my way down her body towards where Kate was licking. As I got down there she raised her head, and we kissed so that I could taste Cleo's juices on her lips. I then continued on my journey kissing slowly down Kate's back as she resumed pleasuring Miss Cleo. When I got to her lower back my hand carressed her beautiful bum, and then slid between her thighs where I discovered to no surprise that she was very wet. I slid my finger into her pussy, which caused her to moan; her back arched and she pushed back against my fingers. I fingered her pussy for a bit before moving her sideways so that my mouth could have access to her tasty wetness. There we were, Kate licking Cleo, me licking Kate and Cleo stroking my cock. A perfect example of teamwork and multi-tasking. For the next configuration change, Cleo decided she had to return the favour to Kate and do a little licking herself. As she pushed Kate back, she quickly had another idea and reached to the bedside table for a condom, which she quickly applied to my cock. She leaned her head between Kate's legs and pushed her own bum in my direction to give me access to her well lubricated and ready pussy. As I slid into her, she remarked that Kate has a very "pretty kitty" which surprisingly, was not the first time I had heard another woman say that very thing. She started licking and playing with Kate's pussy as I fucked her doggie. Kate was looking up at me, obviously enjoying the show, and as I could tell she had at least one "eye's rolling back" orgasm. Of course Cleo was not immune and had to occasionally stop licking as she had a "moment" or two of her own. I pulled out of Cleo, knelt down behind her and kissed the back of her thighs, and licked at her pussy. She then spun around from Kate, came down to my end of the bed, and pulled the condom off so that she could start sucking my cock. What followed was one of the "porn movie" highlights. As I stood on the floor at the end of the bed, the two very pretty ladies were kneeling on either side of my cock, licking and sucking up its length. Licking up the length together, they were taking turns taking it into their mouths, stopping to kiss each other, or have their tongues intertwine on my member. It was an image that will stay with me for a very long time. Kate then took the initiative and reached for another condom. Cleo was pushed back on the bed and Kate knelt forward allowing me to enter her doggie as she was dining on the kitty's kitty. At first I thought this might be a challenge as Kate and I have had issues with Doggie before. Although we are the same height, she has much longer legs than mine and we have often found trouble getting in a good spot for doggie. Perfect height for kissing and looking eye-to-eye, but not so much for rear entry sex. However, like in the Goldilocks story, Cleo's bed was just right, and all of our parts alligned perfectly. I grabbed Kate by the hips and pulled her pussy back onto my hard cock as she eagerly dined at Cleo's Y. Cleo was lying back, taking it all in and admiring a view that she described as very hot. I can say the look of her experiencing an orgasm as a result of Kate's work was equally hot. I think Cleo also liked it that she got a close up view of Kate having to stop for a second or two to have her own orgasm from us fucking. I then realised that there was one pussy in the room I had yet to lick during this session, and as I said that out loud Cleo's face lit up and she responded with a "Yes please!" I crawled between her legs kissing my way up her thighs to feast on her delectable pussy. As I was doing that Kate decided that it was time to suck my cock again, and she started with one of her incredible blowjobs. The girl certainly has oral skills. I used my mouth and fingers to tease and excite Miss Cleo, all the while she was looking down at how Kate was ministering to me. Watching Cleo orgasm, while at the same time Kate was using her hands and mouth to stimulate me was more than I could take. Cleo sensed this, looked at me and said "You are giving an orgasm just as you are about to have one, that is hot!" And she was very right. Kate sensed it as well, and continued to pump my cock with her hand just as my body started to convulse with an intense and prolonged orgasm, as I was locked into eye contact with an orgasming Cleo. Then, not satisfied Kate continued to play with and tease my now very sensitive cock so that I twitched and moaned some more. I am not usually an overly vocal person during sex, but I am sure the noises I was making could be heard two floors up. I looked down at Kate and there she was, my cock still firmly in her hands, held next to her face. She was displaying a "cat who ate the canary smile"; at the same time sexy, playful and satisfied. What made it hotter was that there was a small dribble of my cum running down her chin. I don't think an erotic photographer could have come up with a more exciting and evocative image. Kate reliquished her grip on my cock, crawled up beside me and into my arms to give me a warm and passionate kiss. Now I am sure some of the guys are going "Ewwww" at this, a kiss after a BJ, but not me. It was affectionate and intense. Something that turned me on incredibly. All three of us kissed a bit, and then Cleo jumped up and said, "Time for more wine!" We moved to the kitchen where the three of us stood around naked enjoying another glass of wine and trying to get our respective hearts back to a resting rate. That was particularly hard for me as I was looking at two of my favourite naked ladies. Or is that two of my favourite ladies, naked? All too soon the wine was gone, and it was time for me to get dressed and leave this little bit of heaven on earth. When I was dressed I gave them both a warm hug and a kiss tonight. I was a bit embarassed when Cleo said I was a genius for suggesting this in the first place. I just know people, and I had chatted and seen the both of these ladies enough to know the three of us were going to get along famously. Both Kate and I did say there was going to be a "Welcome Home Cleo" party when she returns from down under, and I have no doubt that it is going to be even hotter. I know we are all in violent agreement that it is going to happen again. I can't recommend these two ladies highly enough, either singly, or together. Of course the YMMV disclaimer applies. I have seen both of these ladies multiple times, and chatted with them often as well. There was a level of familiarity and compatability between us that made this event great and the services may be different for someone seeing them the first time. That is only common sense. All and all it was a legendary night, and to borrow a line from Californication, it was an event that "has my dick writing me thank-you letters!" :P

I stumbled upon MiaBella's post "Introducing Layla Kay... Mia's Goddess In Training" and couldn't resist making contact to set up a meeting. I am now a true believer in fate as within seconds of laying eyes on this tall blond Goddess with the face that could grace any fashion magazine, I was spellbound. Layla is the type of woman you just can't take your eyes off of. Her long curly blond hair frames a gorgeous face with the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen. Her skin is a natural tanned olive color that is as soft as velvet. She has an hourglass figure with curves in all the right places. Her legs are long and very toned.....oh so sexy. I never once felt that Layla was "in training" as her easy going and fun personality put me as ease immediately. I was offered a refreshment and then Layla excused herself to change into an amazing pink and black piece of lingerie......I fumbled to find the words and as she approached me and pulled my head to her beautiful full bosom...that's when that familiar "hunger" started to well up inside me. I gently kissed my way down her neck to her shoulders while she ran her long manicured nails across my back. We headed to the bedroom where I proceeded to worship ever inch of Layla's perfection. She was very responsive to my soft touches and kisses and within minutes I was DATY while reaching up to caress her now hard nipples. She paused for a moment and asked me to use her "toy" .....I was more than happy to oblige and her subsequent orgasm was very intense as I flicked my tongue across her swollen clit while moving the toy towards her g-spot. Layla then sent me to stars with an amazing BJ( very wet) and finished with cowgirl while I reached up and cupped her firm breasts. We showered together and spent the remainder of the time hugging and kissing....her lips are so soft...I could kiss her for hours. If you read any of my recommendations and decide to visit a lady...THIS IS THE ONE NOT TO BE MISSED..... Treat her like the Goddess she is and you will not be disappointed. AAA HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. ...( I HATE THE IDEA OF SHARING THIS SWEETHEART..LOL). Thank you Mia for being a great "teacher" and thank you Layla for bringing me long lasting happiness..

Sarcasticsid ... Congratulations!! More than one of your posts have been of big help to me thanks a lot :) Gia

Just a comment. As someone who has to drive (one way) from 2 1/2 hours up to 3 1/2-4 hours, I certainly would appreciate a lady who would take the time and expense to travel. And in my opinion if you committed to a time/date with a lady (irrespective of travelling or not travelling) you should live up to the committment. It's all about being a gentleman, and treating the ladies like ladies How many guys would be the first to chime up if they had an appointment and the lady was a no show Respect, it's a two way street RG

I visit NB and the rest of the Maritimes quite frequently. I always check to see who else may be visiting and plan my trips around that. As well as for holidays, school breaks, big events, etc. I know of quite a few ladies who have stopped touring certain cities due to the amount of No Shows and amount of rudeness and lack of respect from clients. The reasons behind it blow my mind - I mean you complain no one visits and when they do you take advantage of the companion and no show or waste her time. Touring costs money, plain and simple. If your not willing to book a companion, why should she be willing to travel to your city.

A man after my own HEART!

Mines a bit sadder, but ultimately in a good way for me: although I always tremendously enjoy the time I spend with the ladies I have met here, there is sometimes a pretty profound since of lonliness and sadness after the end of an encounter. That's probably because I only "hobby" when I am in Ottawa visiting, so an encounter always ends with me in an empty hotel room. However, there are always good memories and the hope of maybe exchanging an e-mail or two to keep up later, and I am always very happy to get back to my home life and family. Maybe this is what "male menopause" is all about? :icon_smile:

:bigclap:So did I! Seriously, I refinished the floors in my house when I lived in Toronto. It's a big job and more incredibly messy than I expected. I'd get a flooring company to do it for me next time, for sure.

I've learned that it isn't the sex (and menu of services) that counts, it's the entirety of the encounter that is pleasurable...the companionship, relaxing etc. And it's great when there is a certain chemistry. I've learned that there is mutual respect (if CERB is an example) between the ladies and gentlemen I've been hobbying (btw surprised that that is the term) since July 2010. Contrary to what mainstream society would have you believe, I have yet to meet a whore, hooker, or prostitute...but I have met a number of wonderful ladies Hobbying beats dating hands down, and has filled a void in my life when I gave up dating (after I broke up with my last g/f) When looking for a lady to meet, CERB is the place to go RG

Curious George, Raggidy Ann & Andy, Monopoly, rubics cube, the little oven that you could bake in I forget the name but it caught on fire :( lmao. Good times and so many awesome toys yahhh

Loved Battleship!!!! Might expain why I went in to the Royal Navy...use to kick my Father's ass everytime we played! :D

best bet it to contact a hardwood flooring company...get them to do it......if you use Home deopt.....they use sub contractors and are not responsible for thier work....and they go through them like fire. contact a flooring specialist...that way you will get proper quality

I don't think it's fair to refer to higher rates as high over inflated prices. Ladies charge what they think their time and companionship is worth. If you feel she is charging too high, or you can't afford her rates, then don't see her. But it's not fair to refer to her rates as over inflated. Some thoughts RG

Hey folks, There are now 89 lovers of itty bitty titties in the social group... let's make it 100 by the end of the day... Help us pay homage to all things small... ;-) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=51 ladies - please jump in if you have 'em - tell us why you love them, and let us know who you are. Gents - post some pics (usual social group rules apply)... Have a great Tuesday!

Again, I'm with AofO, why put yourself (and her) into that position. You without cash, which would easily have been known had she had the very sound biz practise of pay before play. It is all very well to see the sps counter with how much they don't mind, or they are showing trust to their clients, or established rapport and trust, but that is just advertising diplomacy. As a client, you should be prepared, and mindful, and pay up front regardless of what you may or may not think her site says, or she even tells you to your face. She is being diplomatic, imo, not trying to appear stressed or concerned, to break the illusion or fantasy. But the reality is that is it regular and long time clients that most often "forget" to include the correct amount, or assume if they are short that paying a few days later should be "ok", as in they show up knowing they don't have the funds, and there are more examples to be sure. And, as with AofO, I have never once been short changed, paid later, or had the donation "forgotten" and/or had to ask for it at the end, because everything is taken care of before. Why would anyone think that having had a great and relaxing time, to hand over a bunch of cash in or out of an envelope, with that kiss at the end, isn't somehow wrecking the illusion. why not part without that image in your mind as you leave, with luck so much fun has been had that by the time you pay (at the beginning) to the time you leave, the whole concept of paying has left your mind altogether. To be rudely reminded of it at the end, that just seems awkward and obvious lol. But yes, given the examples of the ones who have been shortchanged, and the ones who rely on the client to pay afterward and they don't have the funds, well, yes, I have to stick to my claim that this is a foolish move. In this business. It may be ok or appropriate in other businesses. It may be ok or appropriate if the sp is working at an mp, where it is obvious they have backup, other employees or reception to help them out, but indy and on their own, no, it is imo actually an unprofessional way to deal with clients. It actually makes it more difficult for the pay before sps to deal with clients who get that sort of after play treatment. It allows the predators to seek out the pay after play sps, for the specific purpose of shorting them or leaving without payment. It might be difficult for some to bring up the topic but unless and until you do, and if the client can cooperate as well knowing that these things happen, and just do it that way 100% of the time for all sps, then perhaps she will learn from that and make it her policy. typically the sps who say things are "ok" when they are talking to clients, or publically like this, don't mean it is ok to not have the money on you, to not have come prepared lol. But what other sort of response do you expect? To have them freak out, swear at you, throw things at you, and kick you in the butt on your way out, then call you 15 times until you show up with the funds? I don't think so. Like other things, she will smile, say that's ok, and cross her fingers that you are not "one of those lessons" she had to learn.

I have a long list of secret crushes, But Charlot Sinclair has certainly peeked my interest! Also, Megforfun, she is definitely in the top 10! Her humor, her body and wits I find very attractive! Also Emily In T.O i think is cute as a button! I hope someday i can meet you all, hope to see another social, I was not able to make the last one:(

I'm glad to see this topic popping up now and then, and thanks to SA for starting it as it can be a delicate and painful topic. Two thoughts: In a way, I think its good for us (both for the guys and the ladies) to have to deal with this issue now and then as it brings home the point that, for the most part, these are "artificial" relationships. I dont mean that in a negative way, but these relationships dont start the way normal relationships do and we need to be reminded of that now and then. I suspect many of the ladies may have some feelings for some of their clients but its just easier, emotionally, to "drop off the grid" and move on. I suspect that most of the guys respect that, and its great when the lady sends out a "goodbye" message here. To Angela's point ... heck ... there's no reason why the ladies shouldn't be able to keep in touch if they are interested. If there's enough interest in that, maybe there could be a forum open only to the ladies for the retired SPs to keep a conversation going. That being said, its an undeniable truth that friendships develop in the middle of these artificial relationships and that can be a pretty confusing. And I bet in those situations, the people involved manage to keep in touch. If they dont, we shouldn't take it personally, and we should always assume their "better angels" are leading them away.