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I personally find it's too complicated to have a client who is also your painter, tax filer, chauffeur, photographer, etc. I'd rather see client, get money, and then pay someone else. Much less risk for potential problems!

I would only be willing to barter with tangible items, for example, you buy me a pair of $200 shoes and I'll give you a free session. I did this once with a client and it was a great experience. He took me shopping, I picked out the shoes I wanted, he paid for them and then I fucked him wearing them. :)

Yes, I deal with this all the time. Sigh... If you want to really get a hold of me.. Call or text or you won't get a response until much later when it's too late. I don't have access to cerb at my locations. Another thing that is frustrating when the same guys email or PM me 2 or 3 times a week wondering what my availability is and never books. Always promising they will book. Then I find out they are emailing several different ladies at once. I just stop answering because these guys are viewed as a waste of time and don't seem serious in booking with anyone.

These are likely the same guys who post questions about rates, etc... right after MOD says not to... right in the same thread! It amazes me. If they're not on CERB to read and learn, what are they here for? Sigh. On behalf of everyone with a penis, I apologize...

Perhaps my comment, may be a bit uncalled for, but here goes: In my opinion the ladies you should want to meet & spend time with are here on CERB....yes, the other list had plenty of updated ads but many were individuals who posted the SAME ad consistently and.or like 5 times a day!!! Those for sure you will have difficulty finding them as those postings did not cost them anything AND they were not moderated. The legit ladies, again IMO, are not afraid to be part of a MODERATED site....If they choose not to be, well to me that says ALOT..( I am not referring to the ladies on the DND/DNR list, that is something completely different, as a lady should have the choice to ensure that details about her & her services are not discussed, however, most of these ladies on the DND/DNR list are established & on other escort advertisment sites ,which they pay$ for) Sure there may be a few good ones out there, whom only advertise once in a while, who do it only on occasion...but as someone who advertised plenty on the the list....I openly admit I would read the other ladies ads & had a very good idea of who's who on there...and from what I see now, most (NOT ALL) but most of the ladies ad's who you do not seem to see around right now are the ladies who have been on the cowboys list for some reason or another OR who do not want to take part on a moderated site. There are a bunch of ladies who were never part of this site before, and have joined since the closing of the list, AND they have been obtaining some really nice recs too...there are many, many great ladies to choose from on here, why take the risk ( especially if you have never met them) Vanessa

Thanks for your comments, SA!!! On your paragraph on recommendations, I do not disagree at all with you. The suggestion i proposed works well for a single dancer, i agree (it wasn't meant to be restrictive). By no means should it prevent members, like yourself, to post recommendations within a club's thread of course... Your contributions are always great in this area.

Check this link, looks like you can have a kitty according to Manitoba law http://web2.gov.mb.ca/bills/39-4/b218e.php Good luck RG

I think if it was going to work, there has to be some kind of proper agreement. But the barter system in general has some serious advantages. Your dollar tommorow could be worth less.. but your service wont be and neither would his. In a bad economy this could be a very good solution and it cuts alot of inflation out of the equation. Here's something to think about.. an ounce of gold today will buy you the same thing it could 2000 years ago. But a dollar today comepared to 20 years ago.. not so much.. which is why.. Goods and physical things including service have true value.. Money can never be guaranteed in value. **Just a side note to what angela just said.. you are correct.. that work may only be worth say 100 dollars.. then maybe he would go for a session and pay 130. .. You would probably benefit more because this is possibly a client that you would normally not see due to a financial situation.. You still end up ahead and get the work you needed done. **

Dogs all the way! I have two, which I got as brother and sister from the same litter (so they've known each other from the womb forward!). They're awesome companions to me and I love them dearly. Plus, being a pair, they keep each other company when I'm at work. I'm happily childfree, and these two are my kid-equivalents.

Truthfully I'm kind of sick of these discussions because there are always a few who have the mentality that somehow independents are better than agency girls, when really it comes down to the provider herself and what she is more comfortable with. I worked for an agency when I first started and I do not regret the experience. I am still the same escort, whether independent or agency.

The money mart credit card is not accepted in allot of hotels as it does not have raised numbers. A few banks and other company's offer a pre-paid secured card which is a better choice.

Personally if I lived someplace else I would probably go with an agency. I like having my free time and not having to deal with time wasters and such. That being said I do enjoy all the freedoms I enjoy as an independent but with a good agency I don't think it would be too different. I'd love to go touring and I think it would be much easier with an agency. That's just my thoughts for the day. I think both have their pros and cons but if everyone is having fun, doing what they want to do and are safe who cares! Posted via Mobile Device

I get a lot of pm's from members requesting information, opinions, etc., and I'm happy to help as far as I can. I'm glad to be considered a useful and trustworthy resource! I never of course provide information that's better requested of the sp herself, like specific services, locations, or rates, and things like that, but I've had some good exchanges with members on their expectations and experiences. That more private side of cerb communication is something I enjoy. The reason I'm posting this is to say how much I appreciate it when members get back to me after I've responded, even with a simple thank you. It's good to be acknowledged, and I'm grateful to my correspondents who take the time to do this, and to let me know afterwards how things went, or just in general to share their own thoughts. But that 'thank you' is the important part.

i recieved a pm asking about a certain sp, the way it was written I felt it was rude towards the sp in mention. I have given this sp reviews. i believe in being respectful towards the sp when asking another person about her. If the questions are done in a respectful manner i will answer the questions. If 1 get questions about dancers who give extras I will not answer. I will tell you if they are hot and dance sensual. Do not forget with all these ladies it is YMMV. Chemistry and comfort with each other are important in having a great time. So if you can't get it, you have two hands.

My parents have passed on but I would not mention it. I wouldn't mention my hobbie (seeing girls) to anyone, not even my friends because they all know my wife.

Recently discovered a great stress reliever: Playing in a band! I haven't felt this good in... I don't know how long :)

This has also similar to a case in Barrie also. Majority of the police in our country abuse there power in one way or another.

While I understand we all have our own opinions....I strongly disagree with your statement, only because, I am an sp with ONE rec (been on here since November 2009)....and I do not believe its because I provide a shitty service and/or do not deserve one, because believe me...I DO!!! I truly think the reason for this is because a) the men I see do not bother with recs at all and/or b) are embarassed to post a rec which would indicate thier love for bigger ladies. I am able to back this claim up because I have quite a few friends from this site who have returned and/ or are ongoing. I realize my shape is not every one's cup of tea, so I fully admit my client base is smaller than most...BUT the clients I do see are happy, and highly doubt they are holding back on providing me with a rec because my service is whack...... I have learned to deal with this, because after all what I appreciate the most is when they return, and what I LOVE is the lovely notes they send to me privately, after it's all said and done :grin: Others have also said " if nothing is said on here about someone,it must be because there is nothing good to say' this too I feel is uncalled for, because it can give the impression that it's true, when clearly it is not. Not trying to be a Negative Nancy, so my apologies if I come off as rude. I just wanted to indicate the other side to why some ladies may not have any recs. Vanessa

yeah i know about the changing name thing, kinda, ive had this name since i first started in thunder bay, ive switched angencies a few times, and i actually worked for one that would have two names per girl!!! like, do they really think thats goin to generate more business?? i just thought that was stuipd!! guys are going to figure it out!

Barney if you have any proof of scams or druggies you should post that information in the Nova Scotia Warnings section http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=203 your general statement puts suspicion on all other ladies except the two that you have mentioned and is stereotyping the industry. While Halifax may not have the numbers that larger cities may have there are still many excellent and honest ladies here not to mention some of the most highly recommended and respected ladies in Canada regularly tour here. Just check out the reco section and the advertising section and you will find lots of lovely ladies to chose from. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=137 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=18

Ok yes, that would deserve a phone call or email...I go by first name only, and it is such a common one...but yes for sure, those with a first and last..that would be flat out copying..it's easy enough to overlook a single name, especially if it's a common one..but when it's that close, your right, a call would be in order...

I've never had an issue, and lord knows there are allot of Emily's out there. The thing with the name is, even if there are 20 others out there with the same name you have to make it your own. I can't see how anyone has the time to call other people and tell them to change there name. The name itself does not make the gentlemen book, its the experience and qualities of the woman behind the name that does.

My parents are both dead and no one in my family knows what I do. I have another line of work that requires meeting with clients and that's a good cover for paid companionship. I'm not ashamed of what I do, but I don't want it to be an issue for my children. As for greeting clients in public, I never do it and I try to remember to tell everyone who sees me that I won't greet or acknowledge them in public. Their privacy is important and so is mine. If a client were to break the rule without my agreement, he'd get moved to the "former client" list immediately!

Yes, my answer. Over-inflated and under-inflated in the area of pricing does exist out there, and it goes a lot futher than the industry we are talking about. Each with it's own unique side effect as a direct result. This is just my viewpoint from a hobbiest's point of view, I certainly do not wish to upset any one with my viewpoint.

JB Some observations for you ... - I'm not sure the administrators on this site will appreciate you asking for other sources to find ladies. - You say you like variety you have plenty (hundreds) of ladies to choose from on cerb. - Don't forget some ladies have their availability in their profiles or websites so they may have not posted yet but may be available. - Finally, Sundays start a little later for most people. Good luck!