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I am in recovery. I have done a lot of work spiritually and working the 12 steps to be in such a great place right now. I am wondering who may be on the same path. PM me if you wish to keep your anonymity. I'm looking for new sober friends to share the joys of sobriety. grateful to be sober today. r100rs

I guess you have heard it from many ppl already but is true,only time and yourself can help you get over her. Now, don't confuse 'getting over her' and 'forgetting her' because you don't have to forget her in order to move on. I don't have any details of the kind/length of relationship you and her had but I was in very difficult relationship a while ago and healing or getting over it however you want to call it took sometime and the way I saw things changed with time. Today I know we both made mistakes (before I used to blame him for everything), at a point I wished bad things to him, was scared to run into him, etc. Now I know I can see him and do fine and also dont wish him any bad in fact last time I heard from him I told him I don't want/need him to be a part of my life but that I wish him all the best. Again, I don't know what the situation was in your case but step 1 is you really willing to move on in order to be able to do it. As for her well, give her time and things may change. Don't forget we can't control/expect our feelings and reactions at unexpected situations if at a point you two meet having planned it her behaviour will be different for sure :) Wow who is 'drlove' now? he he kidding ;) Cheer up! xx

hey folks Just a quick note to all who happen to know me, some more intimately that others!!! Was diagnosed this week with bone cancer in the jaw, where they thought it was just a bad bone graft after trying to install a post for a bridge. Now on the list at the General for this new "laser knife", just not sure when (welcome to Ontario Health care), then probably some chemo or radiation. So I may be out of commission soon for a while, but will try and keep connected. If I have not reached out to you ladies, not because I did not want to!!! So in the meantime, play safe, play hard and of course.......lots of licks!!

Hi Naomi, I understand and respect your point of view, and I happen to agree with it. My situation is a bit different - my ex GF told me that she had been diagnosed with BPD by a psychiatrist. The only reason I mentioned it in my post was to illustrate the fact that because of this, it made the relationship that much more difficult. This saddens me because I know it's not her fault; No one asks to have a mental illness. However, I feel that things may have been easier to manage if the dynamics had been different. Perhaps we may still have been together. As an aside, I work in the mental health field, so no disrespect to this population was intended. Thanks for reading.

Not sure why a CC is desireable for you, and you don't have to state why... but why not just take a cash advance from the card at an ATM before the rendez-vous?

Just a quick thought popped into my head. Why is asking for a recommendation so bad. It is the guy telling other guys how great a lady he saw is. If a gentleman asks a lady for a reference, which is a lady telling another lady that the guy is ok and a gentleman, no one seems offended. To those offended, remember, even though it is an intimate time together, it is for the ladies their livelihood. Likewise for the guys this is our escape A little scratching of each others back, if deserved, and asked for, really is that so bad RG

Perhaps there should be a group started here where all members and posts are anon., for support. I know there are a trillion "groups/forums" out there but I know there are some folks who get support from where they feel most comfortable, and there are some who feel that way here. Having the posts and members be hidden allows one to be very very honest. Anyway just a thought.

Who are we, the Cerb community, to say that drloves' former girlfriend doesn't have this particular disorder! How do we know whether she is or is not ill. I agree that bringing that topic up for discussion may not have been the most appropriate thing to do but that doesn't change the fact that she may indeed actually have a mental sickness! Dismissing it as one mans attempt to soften the blow of a break up is quite frankly wrong!

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I love sleepovers. I do need actual sleep during them though haha! I think I could do a sleepover with a first time client if we had a good connection over CERB first though pm's and knowing a bit about them through posts otherwise it would definetly be a repeat client only thing. Posted via Mobile Device

I get you may be sad, but as a woman I find it overly offensive that men are forever accusing other women of having serious mental disorders. Even if she IS BPD, (or anything else for that matter,) what do you gain by announcing it to people? Whenever I hear a guy complain about his girl or ex-girl like this my brain thinks either; a) some guy just making stuff up. b) he's blaming her, allocating blame to her illness c) he's pointing out how great he was and how horrible she could be by making light of her illness. I'm just getting really sick and tired of guys painting a woman as mentally ill for a multitude of reasons, none of them involving actual mental illness. Which is a serious and sometimes very sad subject... not something to be thrown around just because a woman isn't interested in you.

It was a nice story, but it reminded me of this time a couple of years ago, when I went to buy a new bird feeder. I picked out a nice one, took it home, and when I went to put it up, I saw a little sticker on it that said something to the effect of "this bird feeder was made my a mentally challenged individual." At first I thought that was nice, then I realized the mentally challenged are better at woodworking than I am.

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I found some of the stuff at SlutWalk hard to hear, but I think it was totally worth going. A lot of my friends were there and I got a lot out of it. I was glad to see so many people come out for it! And I thought literally every single one of the speakers were great.

I did not need to go off this site, to find a beautiful Bunny, it is of course no other than Windsor's Naughty Angel, and what a beautiful Bunny and lady she is! Additional Comments: Oh How in heavens could I forget our own lovely Mia Bella in Ottawa, isn't she such a beautiful snow bunny? God she is gorgeous too :)

So I went yesterday night at Barb's planning on going in the CR with Melena but I swear this girl is busy as hell...I decided myself on Jennifer, a cute little thing, maybe 5ft2 or so without heels. Long curly natural redhead (Cato if you never had a dance with her you must she is a sweetheart!), small 32B breast (yes we did talk about bra size) and she got freckles....I though I would die of overload of sweetness She apparently doesn't work often, but she is really worth it:D

I asked kingBong why he sticks around on cerb if he does not like the way it is. He asked to close this thread because it was "Hijacked" but I don't see that. He just does not like the info he received. It seams our friend king bong here does not like the way cerb is run and with all the other discussion forum options I don't understand why anyone would contribute 50 posts when they don't like the site. Either shape up or move on to another site as the council here and the mods here will not allow comments like these to continue. You asked a question and you got some REALLY good feedback. Sorry you did not like it but the reality of it is... these ladies should ask for FULL legal name, they should VERIFY it and they should do everything they can to help protect themselves (and each other).

The answer is an absolute yes and I always have done so. I am truthfully astounded that apparently some of the women do not require it nor require some sort of vouching be done by their peers. This is a two way street. I expect to meet in a safe atmosphere, and have my personal information kept private, and it is equally important for the SP to feel the same. One only has to look occassionally at the news to see that too many women in this industry and in general are treated not only with disrespect but with violations of their person. So ladies, be careful, and be secure when you arrange an encounter.

It's a matter of safety for both you and the companion. If she is asking, anyone else she has met or screened has had to provide the details. You are entering my personal space, whether a hotel or condo and I want to know who you are. Due to all the crap being pulled, screening process are getting a bit more strict with some ladies, and I being one of them, am sorry if you do not like it, but there is no way I will visit with the details. Personal safety is way more important to me than any amount of money.

Barney if you have any proof of scams or druggies you should post that information in the Nova Scotia Warnings section http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=203 your general statement puts suspicion on all other ladies except the two that you have mentioned and is stereotyping the industry. While Halifax may not have the numbers that larger cities may have there are still many excellent and honest ladies here not to mention some of the most highly recommended and respected ladies in Canada regularly tour here. Just check out the reco section and the advertising section and you will find lots of lovely ladies to chose from. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=137 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=18