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4 pointsyes it will be one of those other sappy post:) I have been on Cerb for pretty much 2 years no (despite what my joining date say, it was a fuck up)...it has its up and down. up and down... I've been extremely annoyed at people, wanting to almost strangle them, ,some people make me cry of joy...learn that well being an Escort isn't being a street walker, or the high end class escort at 1000$/hr ( I though you only had those type when I first join). I've made some friends, whatever SP or hobbiests... Sometime I feel like saying, screw you Cerb, I hate your drama (cause there is plenty of it on here), but I still keep coming back because, well it's an amazing advertising tool and I can't be judge like a piece of meat, like some other erb website...it's a place where I get to voice my opinions and not be judge for it (well ok sometime I am)... I just want to thanks all those amazing people that have been in my life, private or escort-ing life for the past 2 years, most of you did touch me in a nice way, or random way that I still remember you BOOBIES FOR ALL:D and here is one of my random and brutally honest post:D
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3 pointsAs many of you know I have not been on CERB much in the last month and a half. The reason for that is that I had some sort of infection that affected my right hand mainly in the wrist. I have been at the hospital first and took Xrays and been on intravenous for a week and then to my family doctor who referred me to a specialist who got bone scans and MRI and blood work done. All the results came back negative for anything wrong but in the meantime I was taking anti inflamatory, anti biotics and such, my stomach could not take it anymore and neither could I. I have decided to go with non conventional medicine and seek the help of the acupuncture. I have been there 3 times in the last week and now can type on my keyboard with both hands. I would like you all imagine what it would be like to not being able to use your right hand for anything. I could not brush my teeth, shower properly, squeeze a shampoo bottle, dry myself, shake my hands to remove water after washing them, start my vehicle, cook my food, cut my meat, and all the fun thing about sex like masturbate, slap a bum, fingering etc. I'm on my way to a speedy recovery and I'm very happy, I will ride my motorcycle for the first time in over 2 months.
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3 pointsI had already been experienced in this business but never knew I had this talent until I used a sex toy and never had a full body orgasm. I could always cum or gush but never experienced that feeling all over where your eyes are about to roll in the back of your head and never squirted. I was in my mid 20's and had an exclusive arrangement with a client at the time who had just came back from a business trip and brought me a gift. It was a 10 inch dildo who we affectionately named "Mr Pink". This person and I had great chemistry so it was only natural for us to try something new. I ended up laying on the bed and giving him a bj with my head leaning over the bed. He pulled out the dildo and started to use it on me. Things only got hotter from there and while it was strange to use a toy because of the material it was made with, I was extremely turned on. There I was with his cock in my mouth and he started using this dildo on me. I started to get wetter and wetter and all of a sudden I could feel a strange sensation go from my toes to my head still with his cock pressed deep in my throat. I didn't know what hit me and then I started squirting everywhere to the point where I hit myself and my friend. I jumped up alarmed by what was happening and then there was a huge gush. He said in a soft voice "You just had an orgasm and squirted everywhere." I said, "Ï'd like to try that again sometime." From that day forward, an Ottawa squirter was born.
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3 pointsNot that it's much of a debate, but I think that this picture of Angel should convince everybody. (posted with permission)
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2 pointsRomania's loss is certainly Canada's gain! Mirella is new to the Ottawa scene and has begun attending school here (all the best of course Mirella!) - but she is not new to the business, as she displayed with her captivating engagement and sinfully satisfying skills. (As one oral example, she is a testament to the art and joy of kissing :makeout: ...but far be it for me to kiss-n-tell... much ;-) hehe ) Her ads and photos simply do not justice to what she is like in person, which I am sure others will soon find out in welcoming this lady to our fair city :-) She's a petite beauty with a hard, tight (and I mean tight) athletic model quality body - fit and toned and built for spinning! Lovely small, supple boobies with a well-rounded spank-a-licious bottom and sweet, sweet magic kitty. One pleasant surprise was finding a girl who is 5'3" with 'legs that won't quit', as they seemed to endlessly snake all around my body. Got to love lots of skin on skin :-D She's very responsive in all the right places and brings a passion to the boudoir which fulfills her promise to provide an experience which one will fantasize about for months, if not years - and I will! (...as much as I plan to repeat repeat repeat ;-) ) Her open-minded, energetic and adventurous 'splash of PSE' sets her above the typical GFE while still being playfully innocent and charming - very alluring. Mirella is one sexy dresser and pristine with her cleanliness. All complementary to her providing quality entertainment and services. With winter fast approaching, I am sure others will delightfully warm up to her as much as she will warm you up even moreso! Enjoy! (I know watching light from flickering flames dance across her tight writhing body is enough to keep me going thru til spring - hehe) Until whence we shalt meet again - All the best Mirella! Happy Hobbying Fellow Enthusiasts! PS: If this is what TOFTT is like, then I volunteer every time :icon_biggrin:
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2 pointsWelcome to seasoned maturity, bcguy! :icon_wink: It's wonderful to know that you have such a fine relationship with your doctor. It sounds like you're able to have good, honest talks with him. That's the key ingredient for successful health care. Okay, about ED medication. (ED stands for "erectile dysfunction," for those who don't know.) Young men usually have strong erections easily with little or no stimulation. As men age, they are less able to have erections so spontaneously, but that is perfectly normal. Young men often can have many orgasms in a single day. Aging tends to reduce the number of orgasms a man can have in a 24-hour period, but it also tends to increase the length of time he can maintain an erection as well as his control over whether, or when, to have an orgasm. If you're having trouble getting an erection or maintaining it until you're ready for an orgasm, you my have ED. If you have erections that are firm and durable, but you're having difficulty controlling when you ejaculate, you may have PE, premature ejaculation. The two conditions are not the same. ED often responds to medication. PE requires re-training your body to avoid ejaclulation; it doesn't require medication. ED is most common among men over 40, and is a frequent issue for men in their 50s and older, because of health problems. Health issues that can cause or contribute to erectile problems include diabetes (35-50% of diabetic men have erectile dysfunction), smoking, alcoholism, kidney disease, multiple sclerosis, being overweight, heart disease, atherosclerosis, vascular disease, and not getting enough exercise. Depression can also be a factor, whether in addition to any of these conditions, or on its own. Surgery can also cause ED. The important thing to know is that ED is not inevitable or a natural part of aging. It's caused by other factors. The best way to avoid having ED is to have a healthy lifestyle. Eat properly. Get exercise. Don't smoke. Don't drink too much. Hypertension, diabetes and heart disease can cause ED and are often preventable. They're also treatable conditions. Many men find that, if they lose weight, exercise and keep their blood pressure under control, they will have little trouble with ED. The medications used to control diabetes, heart disease and vascular conditions frequently also cause or contribute to ED. If you start taking medication to control your blood pressure and find that you have trouble getting or keeping an erection, tell your doctor. There are literally hundreds of drugs and combinations of drugs that will help relieve hypertension. Many people need to try different medications to find the one that's best for them. You don't have to put up with ED caused by blood pressure medication! Medications for other conditions can also cause or contribute to ED. This is not something that drug companies talk about freely, though I'm sure that most know what's going on. Unfortunately, I don't think that drug companies take ED very seriously. It's one area where medical care for men is often very similar to care for women: if the drug company or the doctor doesn't have sympathy for the problem, that's a problem. Social attitudes about aging and sex are everywhere, so pay attention! There are three medications useful for treating ED: Viagra, Cialis and Levitra. They each have their advantages and disadvantages. Viagra is the most commonly-prescribed and has been around the longest. Viagra takes about half an hour to work. Don't take it too far ahead of time or you may pass the point where it will be most effective. It's usually best to wait until you and your partner are getting ready for playtime. With Viagra, many men can go for two full rounds in two hours or less. The most common side effects are flushing--reddening of the face, head and/or upper chest--sinus congestion and headache. A 600 mg. dose of ibuprofen will usually help with the headache. Cialis lasts a whole weekend, for most men. However, one side effect is that it can cause priapsim, an erection that lasts for hours. This is painful and unpleasant. If you experience this, you should go to the emergency room of your hospital. Levitra is more like Viagra. It is the ED drug of choice for men who have diabetes. Diabetic men often have some degree of neuropathy--loss of sensation--in the penile tissues. Levitra seems to help with that. If you take any of these medications before a meal, your response time will be delayed. However, some men will not respond at all if they take the medication with food. Alcohol can also have a dampening effect. Don't take these medications if you don't need them! Some men in their 30s have been known to take the drugs to increase their performance. They may end up with much firmer, longer-lasting erections, but they may also become dependent on the medication, too. If it ain't broke, don't fix it! The last thing I want to say is that the drugs don't work for everyone, all the time. If you're not getting the results you should be with one, ask your doctor to try another. Just as important, expand your erotic repertoire. I think that, in the West, we have become obsessed with intercourse. Great as it is, it is not the be-all and end-all of eroticism. There are many, many other activities that are just as pleasurable, or more. It is perfectly possible to have a dynamic, rewarding and satisfying sex life without ever having an erection. All it takes is some imagination and good communication with your partner.
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2 pointsEveryone has been very kind so far and never mentioned that I have way too much free time on my hands. Thank you everyone!
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2 pointsI use some of them unique curiosities called "condoms". I don't mind you sharing with others my 'secret weapon" for avoiding "catching" something and/or "spreading" it around. There's a health section I think, and some links to std information about transmission, etc. fwiw, you can't wash one away with soap and water, before or after appts.
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2 pointsWell, before being a companion, I never experienced squirting until I met this very special gentleman; during the course of our second encounter this gentleman took the time to show me, teach me and it ended up being the most fantastic day ever... The first of many to come!! Cloe reaches a sexual milestone (I cannot link the review as it comes from another board.) ... "The meeting Punctual as usual, Cloe came in with her beautiful smile, her maturity and life experience immediately showed as she gets prepared for our 4 hr rendez-vous. However, I should kick myself in the butt since I was on the phone when she arrived and barely said hello to her in a more fashionable way. But I did apologize to her and eventually muted my phone. While the white wine was getting cooled in the ice bucket, Cloe already changed to this beautiful piece of lingerie detailing her gorgeous silhouette. Immediately after, she got the jaccuzi water running with warm water and added up a twist of bubble bath to it. By then, it was time for me to take my shower. I then got extremely horny while kissing as I proceeded with my famous DATY .... while the water in the jacuzzi still running. As she started to get turned on, she reminded me that we need to close the water if we wanted to prevent a major flooding in the second floor ..... damned jaccuzi ... I thought ..... lol. We both made it to the jaccuzi together with our glass of wine and toasted to our intimate rendez-vous. It was fun and relaxing and we were enjoying each other's conversation. The intimacy Cloe is and extreme insatiable sexual partner that is not only experienced, but loves every aspects of sex. I was honoured to be her sexual partner during every minute of the 4 hr rendez-vous I allocated. Then came the big moment that we promised each other to do ..... the G-Spot stimulation to severe 'O'. I've explained everything to her what to expect and what kind of pressure she will feel and what to do and when. I have renewed with my desire to make this happen. I felt like a teacher in a sexology class .... lol. Told her to relax and clear her head and just enjoy the moment as I lube 2 fingers and started massaging her slowly until I could easily feel the spongy tissue around the urethra fills with water and start compression right then, her expression in her face by then showed clearly she was about to explode ....... couple of screams and gyrating movement later I could feel her muscle contractions increasing and ..... ooops here comes the fluid we both were looking for, accompanied with intense loud screams that a deaf neighbour could easily hear. I then removed my fingers to see her body still in complete extasy and vibration. One very important procedure that I failed to tell her prior, was to drink a lot of water before engaging into this exploration. I could easily see her getting dehydrated after her first "O". Quickly, she took some water and we repeated this exercise 5 or 6 times over and over again. After each and every one, we laughed like two kids who found some a hidden treasure. Afterwards, it was time to take care of me ......" I remember going home that day and feeling exhausted and oh, SO thirsty lol My legs were also weak and still shaking from all the orgasms I had that afternoon! It was awesome!!!!!
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2 pointsFirst off, I'd like to thank everyone who has made such thoughtful posts on this issue, and I learned a lot by reading through all the various posts. I don't engage in a lot of online discussions, so please don't mistake my silence for non-participation; I read everything I can about the subject, and I am truly impressed by the level of discussion on this forum in particular. But for the most part, I mainly use review boards for advertising, rather than activism, because I find it difficult to do both at the same time. I usually only comment when it's something I feel very strongly about, or something I think that needs to be said. Because this is such a serious issue for everyone on this board, I felt it was important to share it as soon as possible. I hope I'm not jumping the gun, but a lot of recent information seems to indicate that Joy Smith has backed away from her promise to introduce legislation to criminalize the purchase of sexual services. SPOC has been in touch with a number of Toronto-area MPs, mostly members of the Conservative Party. Today, I had a meeting with one of them, and from what he told me, it seems very likely that Joy Smith WILL NOT try to invoke the Nordic APPROACH (I refuse to legitimize by calling it a "model" for anything) during the upcoming session. The current bill, as he understands it, focuses entirely on trafficking and does not attempt to rewrite S.213© to exclusively target the clients. I can't confirm this until I see a copy of the proposed legislation, and we're working on getting it as we speak - if anyone could assist us in this matter, it would be extremely helpful. However, all the indications point towards the government backing off this issue, at least for now. I don't think it's going to last, because sooner or later, the Supreme Court will uphold Himel's decision and the government will be forced to deal with it. But between now and then, there's a lot of work to be done, especially in terms of networking with government officials - after all, most of them will be there for another four years, and I fully expect the SCC to rule before the next federal election. I hope that the government will continue to wait for the courts to rule before tabling any legislation, and in the meantime, will examine the existing and forthcoming evidence, to try to get a clearer picture of sex work in Canada. We will continue to engage in dialogue with members of all parties, to ensure that the lines of communication remain open when the government is ready to talk about this again. There are a number of ongoing studies, many of which are recruiting now or in the near future, that specifically aim to provide sex workers with a voice. Susi probably knows more details than I do, but if anyone has ever wanted to share their story in hopes of making a difference, there are many chances to do so. The research that's going on NOW will be the research that the federal government examines after the SCC rules on the challenge, so if we want to discredit the Farleys and Fiolleaus even further, we need to counter their claims not just with methodological criticisms, but also with well-conducted, unbiased studies. Saying "those stats are flawed" isn't as nearly useful as saying, "those stats are flawed and here are some stats that aren't." Politicians respond much better to the latter, believe me. If you are interested in participating in such a study, please ask Susi or myself for more details (sorry for volunteering you Susi, but you know it comes from love! <3) Anyways, I'm pleased about this turn of events, and I hope I'm not getting ahead of myself. I know the government will have to deal with this sooner or later, but for right now, they don't want to touch it. I guess they realized that if they start policing people's bedrooms even further, they'll have one hell of a fight on their hands! Oh, and guys? We know you treat us well (especially on this board!) and that's why we love you... but the fact is, we've been shouldering the entire load when it comes to sex work activism, while you've been mostly (and justifiably) silent. I certainly don't begrudge you for it, and I entirely respect your reasons - but now, they're coming after you. Maybe it's time to start thinking of ways that you can do more for the cause? After all, Joy Smith has four more years before she's up for re-election...
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1 pointMet up with this pretty lady the other day! When I opened the door, what a pleasant surprise. A very attractive young lady stood before me. Very nice greeting and then I invited her in. This young lady likes to please and does a great job. She has a very tight body from working out, very flat tummy. The play time was great. Adriana really enjoys her play time! ;) She is a safe girlfriend experience. She is worth your time! If you have any questions just as her she is easy to talk too! I will repeat...
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1 pointI am not exactly sure that this an appropriate thing to do here but I'm asking anyway. I have a friend in Mtl who is a single mother with a 16 yr old autistic son. She lives to make sure her son is constantly stimulated with life and his dreams. They are sometimes simple. He has been fascinated with balloons his whole life. But something as cheap as a hot air balloon ride is not in her finances. So she entered a contest. The kindness here would be if you took 30 seconds and went and voted for her picture. All you have to do is click on vote. No scam, no registering, just a 16 yr old who has a chance for a simple balloon ride. Thank you Chanel http://www.ballooncanada.com/index.php/en/concours_banque_laurentienne/decouvre_la_photo/110/popularite
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1 pointThe title is a nod to "Mother's Little Pills", the name by which Valium was known when doctors started prescribing it to housewives like candy. Had my annual physical today. Doctor guaranteed me for at least another 30 minutes or 30 feet from his office door. I've been seeing this guy for longer than a lot of CERBites have been alive. One of the benefits of the long relationship is that he will actually sit and talk. We chatted about the last year and what went well and what didn't and just how things were going. On one topic, he suggested I start ED meds. We discussed the various options, pros and cons, and how and when was I likely to enjoy the benefits of same. To wit, I'm about to embark on the little blue pill adventure. We'll see how that goes. Any suggestions, anecdotes, warnings or words of wisdom on the subject might prove interesting. If I don't die of it, I'll be back to let you know how it goes after a suitable period of time. The whole time we were talking about it, I was remembering the SNL skit with the line "If you get an erection that lasts more than four hours, call all your friends and brag about it." As if... :)
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1 pointWe all have our good and bad days and the same goes for our days with this board. At the end of the day you take the good with the bad and you pull through, some days are amazing others you want to just snap. All in all it is worth it for what you as an individual gets from this community. This board is unlike any other out there.
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1 pointHe makes a lot of money for doing something he loves :p I bet when he wakes up in the morning he always loves his "job". Who wouldn't want that? Now that being said I don't know if I'd ever want his job but to each their own haha Posted via Mobile Device
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1 pointNot to sound like a negative nancy but I thought that the hacker who did her phone and mila kunitz (I have no idea if that's how you spell her last name) seriously invaded their privacy. I get that they are famous but its personal cell pics, If people want to see naked pics there is something where consenting women are naked called porn. This is a pretty big invasion of privacy and I hope some form of legal action is taken. I feel awful for ScarJo, she's a classy lady and didn't deserve this. Its a pretty low thing to do. I'd be horrified if someone hacked my phone. Posted via Mobile Device
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1 pointYou know you're old when this is what Batman and Robin looked like when you were growing up:
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1 pointJust to clarify, Voting closes tonight: September 16th, 2011 at 11:59 pm (EST) Cast your vote here: VOTE .
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1 pointI call them "man-lines" but ladies have them too: that oh-so-sexy line on either side of your abs/hips.
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1 pointWhen I read this thread title I had a flashback to an episode of the show "Weeds" argueing about the name of a body part. It was funny to me!
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1 pointOkay Okay we've heard it all meds, naturals, bubble baths and gimmicks... What ever happened to Plan A using BetsyLapalm, a good jerk off, pull of the piper, or wack off? Girls, a good rub-out, vibrating friend, veggies or dildo? If you have someone,commence plan B and do them.. If not plan A is sure fire way to get you zzzz's! Another great mystery solved by JuliasUndies, *taking a bow* *applauds* Your welcome, Anytime my friend
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1 pointI tried a few and they made me feel groggy the next day. Are there any that you guys find work and does not make you feel bad next day. I find most sleeping pills knock you out so that you do not stare at the ceiling all night, but you don't dream so you don't get any REM sleep. You then wake up tired.
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1 pointThanks OD. I was curious about what they looked like. I am sure nobody will mind if I add to the gallery. This one is NOT part of the leaked photos, but is just a fine shot and oh so sexy.
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1 pointFirst thing they do at the sleep clinic is make you stay the night, with a thermometer up your ass. I've never been but I'm just saying.....
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1 pointTwo words... Sleep Clinic. Not everyone needs 8 hours of sleep, if you feel rested when you wake up that's all that really matters. If you don't, you should see a doctor. There seems to be an awful lot of self medicating going on in this thread, (which I don't totally disagree with,) but self medicating can be dangerous, even with natural items. Sleepeze can be very dangerous for the heart, and St John's Wort, when taken improperly (like with wine or cheese) can lead to an increase in blood pressure. I hope everyone's playing as safe with the OTCs as they do with sex. ;)
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1 pointHappy Birthday Beautiful! I hope your day was everything you expected and more!! Big Birthday Hugs, Lexy
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1 pointGood evening Dorinda, A most Happy Birthday to a vivacious and charming lady.
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1 pointHappy birthday, Dorinda. I hope that you have a year of peace and contentment ahead of you!
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1 pointAs pretty much everyone else has said, the chemistry is critical. It's absolutely the most important single thing as far as I'm concerned. I also think it's a good thing to make an initial meeting with someone is long enough for both parties to relax and find out whether or not the chemistry's there. True, you don't want to be trapped in a very long appointment if it isn't, but I don't think that a very short meeting gives either side a reasonable chance of working this out, especially if you also wish to engage in activities which may make it hard to concentrate on the conversation in that short time. There's been one or two ladies I've met who I didn't really click with all that well. In those cases the experience hasn't been bad, and certainly not to the point where I was just getting through the encounter and getting out ASAP... it just hasn't been all that good either. There's nothing to say that those ladies aren't the perfect person for someone else - just not for me, 'cos the magic isn't there. Having said that, I haven't had that happen too often. This is probably because I have a strong bias towards seeing ladies who have at least some kind of presence here (over and above just posting their daily ad), so I usually have some sort of a clue what makes them tick before I get in touch at all, and once I do they hopefully also have some idea what I'm like, and can make their own informed decision about whether we'll get on or not. As far as I'm concerned, the list of ladies I've met and would like to see again is *much* longer than the list of ladies I probably won't go back to. The people I go back to are the ones who I like (which is not the same as merely thinking they're hot); the ones who I'd want to spend time hanging out with no matter what we were (or weren't) getting up to. Alas, there is also the competing lure of the new and unknown, which means I don't get to arrange second (and third, and fourth, and whateverth) meetings as often as I'd like... And when the stars align and you meet someone who you really connect with... oh, it's wonderful :) Absolutely not. If we like each other today, we'll probably like each other tomorrow too :) And if I think the chemistry's there, I'm totally coming back to see you again!
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1 pointI think the issue here is that there are a number of ladies with different styles and interests and we do not all have the same business model. I am contacted at least once a day with someone asking for my "one hour rate" to which I constantly need to reiterate that I don't offer one hour dates as they are very different in nature than longer dates. When someone advertises 15min, 30min or 45min dates you can be sure that the lady is advertising a sexual service meaning the focus of the encounter is very specifically the sexual act. When ladies advertise longer dates and services as their main offering they are generally focused on the chemistry, the connection and more of a date feel. These are two very different types of services and very few ladies can effectively offer both as many ladies have said longer dates can be very emotionally exhausting and shorter dates can be very physically exhausting. In your post you highlight that you are looking for the longer date, the connection which in general will not be established in a date of less than one hour (and often 2hrs or more) so I'd guess you are not in the target market for the ladies that prefer to offer shorter dates. There are different markets for the various types of encounters and it's very important to seek out those that provide the type of experience you are seeking, otherwise you are likely to be disappointed with the outcome of your date. So I don't single out another lady I'll use myself as an example, please bear with me as I don't have much experience with the shorter date. I always advertise 2hrs or more, I do have discounted rates for multiple hours, my dinner date (half out half in) isn't even double my 2hr rate and often is longer than 4hrs as well and as such it's my most popular date. I offer that because I am trying to make it clear that I prefer a social engagement, I enjoy talking to my dates and getting to know them as individuals. I used to offer 1hr dates when I was with an agency and though I still met a number of wonderful people I always walked away from the date a bit uncomfortable, I felt awkward and I wasn't able to relax and enjoy my time with the person I was with, when it came to intimacy I never felt I could relax and enjoy myself as I didn't feel a particular level of trust with the person I was with. I'm not an extrovert, in fact I'm very introverted so for me the immediate intimacy of 1hr dates was difficult. Now I know a number of good friends in the industry that have a completely opposite take on this business, one lady explained to me what she enjoyed best is the 'dirty' feeling of meeting someone new and having sex with them while not knowing much about them. Another lady said she finds it difficult in longer encounters to find that connection as she's in a different point in her life than most of her clients but they both enjoy sex and she can find that commonplace in a half hour or hour. So there are different ladies, different views and different approaches, one is not better than the other they are just tailored for different people and hopefully we all connect with the type of date we are looking for. Finally in regards to costing often you are paying a premium for longer dates rather than shorter ones. For my base city my $1500 for a dinner date is fairly average but my 2hr date of $900 is a premium. This has nothing to do with the amount of time I spend changing sheets, showering, etc. but is mainly based on the incentive to those that also enjoy social dates, it's a way of connecting with my preferred audience. In fact longer dates can take much more planning and work as most extended dates are prebooked and multiple emails (or phone calls) will be exchanged before one arrives at final plans. When a client is paying $1500 vs. $250 for a date there are higher expectations on the lady even though the lady at $250/hr may make more in gross profit than the lady at the higher rate. I know it's often expected of me to have nails, hair and makeup done, in general it's expected that I have a much more extensive wardrobe to allow me to easily blend with whatever environment I am invited to and those clothes are expected to be of a certain quality as well as I am expected to appear to match the clients social status - it generally isn't discrete to go to a fine dining restaurant with a lady half your age in a $30 dress when you are wearing something bespoke. So all in all the costs are different, how the ladies invest in their business is different and how they spend their time as well. I also don't spend a lot of my day sitting at an incall waiting for the phone to ring but the cost of that time is certainly calculated in how a lady with a different business model much the same as I calculate the time spent emailing with restaurant suggestions, verification, or concierge type services. *whew* end of my novel but I hope (if anyone bothered to read it) I have provided a little more insight into why ladies structure their businesses, both time and cost, the way they do.
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1 pointChanging sheets and redoing our makeup is a very small part of our work. Sex work is also emotional labour. Spending 2 hours with one gentleman can be a lot more emotionally draining than spending an hour each with 2 gentlemen. Chemistry would play a huge role here.
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1 pointI love neck ties. On Men or Women. It's just an incredibly sexy touch to an outfit. When I was a teenager, I would always steal them from my brothers and father. I often added them to my school uniform or casual weekend outfits. Even now, I like to add them to my pant suits, under my blazer for an extra something special. The silk material, the beautiful patterns and colours, and that certain boost of confidence I feel when I wear them brings out something very sexy and playful in me. I LOVE TIES! Everyone, man or woman, should have a few in their closet.
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1 pointmy vote would be Soliel personally i've even thought about booking an appointment (if she takes female clients)
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